Post: #901

(05-11-2015 04:22 AM)Mendokusai Wrote:  Mendokusai here, everyone enjoy their Golden Week? I had quite the bizarre experience that I would like to entertain you all at the expense of everything that makes me a man.

I went a little bonkers and spent the whole week focusing on getting the bang with a pochari 18yr. old I met at a punk show the weekend before. I don't know, but something insane just switched on in my mind, and I decided that I will either conquest or die trying. When I look back, it's looney how far I went. I had her over at my place three days in a row cooking Loco Moco, Kalua Pig, and all kinds of Hawaiian food for her and had three straight days of complete resistance. The more she closed her legs, the more a racked up my dedication. In the end, I was able to get the bang because, get this...

I cried!

It was very bizarre. She happened to be at my place when I received some very shocking news from home. I tried to usher her out as quick as possible so I could deal with it but suddenly, she become the warmest, most caring (and annoying) person in the world and just would not leave, insisting on staying with me to make sure I was ok. It got to the point where I was half jokingly half seriously pushing her out of the apartment and my life when she just sits her ass down in my genkan and says, "Ichi Ichi urusai! Kokoro kara tasukeyo to shiteru hito wo doshite uke irete kurenai no?" (your so loud and annoying! Why won't you accept the person who is trying to help you from the bottom of her heart?)

I busted out laughing when she said that, which, like a dam bursting, let forth all kinds of crazy emotions and I ended up just crying like a bitch.
Well, she comes to comfort me, kisses me, and yada yada yada:

Golden Week Beta Provider Emotional Manipulative Faggotry Game was a success!

...seriously though, I don't know what got into me and why I just didn't next her.

But my point of pride after such a degrading (albeit tight) bang is this:

She is 18 years old and I am 36.

Those Japanese girls respond to very different types of things I've learned. When I first got here and my visa situation looked fucked and the girl I was with at the time was leaving (was crazy [legit]). Was the point before the hitting rock bottom where you pick yourself up to keep going and one of those silent tears started coming out, she saw it as she left and if that didn't ever turn her on. I'll never understand it, but I do understand some of the weirdest shit can fly here.

But that was before I had any interest in game. Gotta love crazies for getting a guy to snap into shape.

Post: #902

Brb got to cut some onions. Apparently eyes wet = pussy wet.

Post: #903

(05-11-2015 11:49 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:  

(05-11-2015 06:57 PM)CJ_W Wrote:  

(05-11-2015 05:26 AM)dreambig Wrote:  Looks like I will be in Tokyo from the beginning of June for a week. Any Tokyo dudes down for a meetup?

I may be down, Hopefully I'll have more of my things in order by then, shoot me a pm.

I'm staying the night in Tokyo on May 30, but I might have the whole family with me.

I might be heading to Kansai but I'll be down as well. Let me know more

Post: #904

Hey, I'm planning on heading down to Japan from Korea for 10 days this August. I was looking into booking some tickets soon and was hoping for some advice.

I'm a younger guy and will have a pretty modest bankroll, would it be better to spend less time in Tokyo? Anyone have any recommendations on good cities? I've heard a lot about Oaska, but not much else.

I want to do touristy shit in Kyoto and Mt. Fuji, but I'm also really hoping to get with some J-girls while I'm there.

Post: #905

I got the stinkeye of death from Roosh haha.

Looking back on that wacky experience I actually learned a couple of things:

Girls can be quite susceptible to the very same manipulations they try on us.

Some bangs go beyond just sexual fulfillment, in this case, I was dead set on proving to myself that i could bang a girl half my age.

Some excruciating and degrading bangs are actually worth going for, whether it's a funny experience to share, or to bitch slap yourself back to reality and productivity, or if it's just to cure flat out boredom.

or, hmmmm, maybe i'm just trying to salvage something from a, "What the fuck?" situation.

But, in other news, I've got to head back home for a bit to take care of stuff, but when I return my next project will be: The Lone Girl Eating at the Ramenya.

Hopefully, a story or two, or three, or four for the game gods will come from this.

Post: #906

Hedonistic Traveler:

Just a word of caution on the dates of your travel to Japan. The period from August 8 through c. August 17 is the Obon (お盆) holiday here, a time when many Japanese return to their places of origin and visit the graves of ancestors, see relatives, etc. As a result, a city like Tokyo -- where a great many residents hail from somewhere else in Japan -- can be noticeably quieter than usual. That can be a boon if you are coming mainly for sight-seeing, but at the same time you'll likely find fewer muff-targets both during the day and also at night. Keep this in mind if getting laid is high on your list of priorities.

One more thing: Mt. Fuji blows donkeys in August, because officially the mountain is only open two months a year (July and August) and so hordes of people climb it then. No, the smart move for Fuji is to make a daylight climb with a friend in late September or early October, when the weather is still clement and safe but almost no one is on the mountain. Several years ago I made the ascent with a buddy on the second Saturday of October and it was one of the most memorable outdoor experiences of my life. Beautiful weather, crisp clear skies -- and we only ran into eight other people the entire day. Of course, in the off season the mountain huts are not open so you cannot sleep near the summit as many do in order to see the sunrise from the peak, but you can easily depart from station five at 8:30 or 9:00 in the morning and make it back down by 16:30 or 17:00 in the evening. That is how we ran it and it was glorious.

(05-12-2015 10:58 PM)Hedonistic Traveler Wrote:  Hey, I'm planning on heading down to Japan from Korea for 10 days this August. I was looking into booking some tickets soon and was hoping for some advice.

I'm a younger guy and will have a pretty modest bankroll, would it be better to spend less time in Tokyo? Anyone have any recommendations on good cities? I've heard a lot about Oaska, but not much else.

I want to do touristy shit in Kyoto and Mt. Fuji, but I'm also really hoping to get with some J-girls while I'm there.

Post: #907

(05-13-2015 12:48 AM)Tokyo Joe Wrote:  Hedonistic Traveler:

Just a word of caution on the dates of your travel to Japan. The period from August 8 through c. August 17 is the Obon (お盆) holiday here, a time when many Japanese return to their places of origin and visit the graves of ancestors, see relatives, etc. As a result, a city like Tokyo -- where a great many residents hail from somewhere else in Japan -- can be noticeably quieter than usual. That can be a boon if you are coming mainly for sight-seeing, but at the same time you'll likely find fewer muff-targets both during the day and also at night. Keep this in mind if getting laid is high on your list of priorities.

One more thing: Mt. Fuji blows donkeys in August, because officially the mountain is only open two months a year (July and August) and so hordes of people climb it then. No, the smart move for Fuji is to make a daylight climb with a friend in late September or early October, when the weather is still clement and safe but almost no one is on the mountain. Several years ago I made the ascent with a buddy on the second Saturday of October and it was one of the most memorable outdoor experiences of my life. Beautiful weather, crisp clear skies -- and we only ran into eight other people the entire day. Of course, in the off season the mountain huts are not open so you cannot sleep near the summit as many do in order to see the sunrise from the peak, but you can easily depart from station five at 8:30 or 9:00 in the morning and make it back down by 16:30 or 17:00 in the evening. That is how we ran it and it was glorious.

Damn, thanks for the information. Unfortunately I have no flexibility, so I'll be in Japan from 7/31-8/9, give or take a day. Luckily that'll be very minor overlap with Obon.

I have the option of visiting for 5 days in September, maybe I'll hit up Fuji then. Depending on how I like Japan I might visit a final time in December, when I finish my contract in Korea. I've heard August can be brutal for heat, it might be nice to see it in different seasons.

Do you have any thoughts on the best cities to visit? Is 2nd-tier the way to go for Japan?

I've heard a lot of varied things about Japan. Sometimes people say it's a similar difficult as Korea and sometimes people say it's significantly easier. How's your experience been?

Post: #908

I'm a fairly fresh resident in Japan and I would say you'd definitely have fun. As for the game in Japan I would suggest spending time reading throughout this thread, since it has all the information you'd need to get a bang. My Japanese speaking skills are terrible ( I just learned to read and write, but holding a conversation is still a pain in the ass ), so I basically converse in English and try to practice my Japanese speaking with friends here. The point is I came here with no idea of how it is, read this thread, and got my first Jbang a couple of weeks ago. I read in another thread regarding Korea that if you don't speak Korean you basically have a handicap already. If this is truly the case, then I would say with confidence that Japan is far easier yes.

Post: #909

(05-13-2015 01:19 AM)Hedonistic Traveler Wrote:  

(05-13-2015 12:48 AM)Tokyo Joe Wrote:  Hedonistic Traveler:

Just a word of caution on the dates of your travel to Japan. The period from August 8 through c. August 17 is the Obon (お盆) holiday here, a time when many Japanese return to their places of origin and visit the graves of ancestors, see relatives, etc. As a result, a city like Tokyo -- where a great many residents hail from somewhere else in Japan -- can be noticeably quieter than usual. That can be a boon if you are coming mainly for sight-seeing, but at the same time you'll likely find fewer muff-targets both during the day and also at night. Keep this in mind if getting laid is high on your list of priorities.

One more thing: Mt. Fuji blows donkeys in August, because officially the mountain is only open two months a year (July and August) and so hordes of people climb it then. No, the smart move for Fuji is to make a daylight climb with a friend in late September or early October, when the weather is still clement and safe but almost no one is on the mountain. Several years ago I made the ascent with a buddy on the second Saturday of October and it was one of the most memorable outdoor experiences of my life. Beautiful weather, crisp clear skies -- and we only ran into eight other people the entire day. Of course, in the off season the mountain huts are not open so you cannot sleep near the summit as many do in order to see the sunrise from the peak, but you can easily depart from station five at 8:30 or 9:00 in the morning and make it back down by 16:30 or 17:00 in the evening. That is how we ran it and it was glorious.

Damn, thanks for the information. Unfortunately I have no flexibility, so I'll be in Japan from 7/31-8/9, give or take a day. Luckily that'll be very minor overlap with Obon.

I have the option of visiting for 5 days in September, maybe I'll hit up Fuji then. Depending on how I like Japan I might visit a final time in December, when I finish my contract in Korea. I've heard August can be brutal for heat, it might be nice to see it in different seasons.

Do you have any thoughts on the best cities to visit? Is 2nd-tier the way to go for Japan?

I've heard a lot of varied things about Japan. Sometimes people say it's a similar difficult as Korea and sometimes people say it's significantly easier. How's your experience been?

Is that when chuseok is?

I've lived in Korea as well, just like in Seoul it's more about what places you are hitting up rather than which is easier.

Osaka and Tokyo both have some crazy night life. As long as you look good and don't dress like a slob, you won't be auto-nexted by appearance. As for me, Japan has been easier. But I got into better shape, dress better and speak the language a fair bit here.

Post: #910

(05-13-2015 01:36 AM)cascadecombo Wrote:  Is that when chuseok is?

I've lived in Korea as well, just like in Seoul it's more about what places you are hitting up rather than which is easier.

Osaka and Tokyo both have some crazy night life. As long as you look good and don't dress like a slob, you won't be auto-nexted by appearance. As for me, Japan has been easier. But I got into better shape, dress better and speak the language a fair bit here.

Yeah, Chuseok is late-September. I was considering going hiking in Seoraksan but Japan is an option. Maybe hit up just one city that trip. Then two cities, 8-10 days, in December. We'll see.

I have pretty solid style and my game isn't anything special but I'm always down to approach which can be half the battle for some guys. Unfortunately I'm not in Seoul, I'm in a small city, so Korea has been kinda shitty. Not awful, but far from paradise haha.

Do you prefer Osaka to Tokyo? Or are they pretty similar?

(05-13-2015 01:29 AM)Geekzor Wrote:  As for the game in Japan I would suggest spending time reading throughout this thread, since it has all the information you'd need to get a bang.

I read in another thread regarding Korea that if you don't speak Korean you basically have a handicap already. If this is truly the case, then I would say with confidence that Japan is far easier yes.

Yeah, I'm going to slowly make my way through this thread. Maybe take some notes, it's pretty long haha. Should have great information.

Koreans study a lot of English, but never practice speaking. Plus they're kinda racist and love hearing people speak their language. My Korean blows so I mainly go with girls who have lived abroad, they're usually easier anyways.

I'll have pretty much no Japanese for my trip, just the basics. I'll be hoping to get by on English.

Post: #911

Depending if Korean girls are your thing, I realized that alot of Koreans in Japan have very low bitchshields and are one of the best LTR partners to have in Japan. Contrary to popular belief, not every Korean likes Kpop and thats even more so for the Koreans in Japan. Hell I met a Korean 8 who's a huge AKB fan lol first time encountering that. Koreans in Japan receive lesser attention and they tend to keep to themselves or try really hard integrating into Japanese society by keeping a low key. Most of them don't date too. They are hungry for care and attention and if you have good Korean ability but you're a foreigner(Being Korean-American helps), they really open up to you. Koreans are not as loose as Japanese cause Korean society is probably the largest Confucius society in the world so my bread and butter is a 2nd or 3rd date lay with a Korean girl. They are also slower to warm up to you because unlike Japanese girls, they hardly fake their enthusiasm so at least you know when she laughs at your jokes, she really think you're funny. They have more personality and fashion sense than Japs as well so if you are looking for a LTR type of girl, I go for Koreans.

These are my observations about banging 3 and opening around 20 Korean girls who live in Japan, can't wait to visit the Daehanminguk next year.


Ps: Speaking Korean helps, if you thought Japanese were nationalistic, Koreans will smile and wave their flag while they stuff you with Kimchi

Post: #912

(05-13-2015 02:31 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Depending if Korean girls are your thing, I realized that alot of Koreans in Japan have very low bitchshields and are one of the best LTR partners to have in Japan. Contrary to popular belief, not every Korean likes Kpop and thats even more so for the Koreans in Japan. Hell I met a Korean 8 who's a huge AKB fan lol first time encountering that. Koreans in Japan receive lesser attention and they tend to keep to themselves or try really hard integrating into Japanese society by keeping a low key. Most of them don't date too. They are hungry for care and attention and if you have good Korean ability but you're a foreigner(Being Korean-American helps), they really open up to you. Koreans are not as loose as Japanese cause Korean society is probably the largest Confucius society in the world so my bread and butter is a 2nd or 3rd date lay with a Korean girl. They are also slower to warm up to you because unlike Japanese girls, they hardly fake their enthusiasm so at least you know when she laughs at your jokes, she really think you're funny. They have more personality and fashion sense than Japs as well so if you are looking for a LTR type of girl, I go for Koreans.

These are my observations about banging 3 and opening around 20 Korean girls who live in Japan, can't wait to visit the Daehanminguk next year.


Ps: Speaking Korean helps, if you thought Japanese were nationalistic, Koreans will smile and wave their flag while they stuff you with Kimchi

I lived in Korea for a while, and for now I can speak it a lot better than Japanese. Not so sure it will be better for me here but it can't be worse. You meeting these girls in Shin-Okubo?

Post: #913

(05-13-2015 03:30 AM)glarkcable Wrote:  

(05-13-2015 02:31 AM)Zerdame Wrote:  Depending if Korean girls are your thing, I realized that alot of Koreans in Japan have very low bitchshields and are one of the best LTR partners to have in Japan. Contrary to popular belief, not every Korean likes Kpop and thats even more so for the Koreans in Japan. Hell I met a Korean 8 who's a huge AKB fan lol first time encountering that. Koreans in Japan receive lesser attention and they tend to keep to themselves or try really hard integrating into Japanese society by keeping a low key. Most of them don't date too. They are hungry for care and attention and if you have good Korean ability but you're a foreigner(Being Korean-American helps), they really open up to you. Koreans are not as loose as Japanese cause Korean society is probably the largest Confucius society in the world so my bread and butter is a 2nd or 3rd date lay with a Korean girl. They are also slower to warm up to you because unlike Japanese girls, they hardly fake their enthusiasm so at least you know when she laughs at your jokes, she really think you're funny. They have more personality and fashion sense than Japs as well so if you are looking for a LTR type of girl, I go for Koreans.

These are my observations about banging 3 and opening around 20 Korean girls who live in Japan, can't wait to visit the Daehanminguk next year.


Ps: Speaking Korean helps, if you thought Japanese were nationalistic, Koreans will smile and wave their flag while they stuff you with Kimchi

I lived in Korea for a while, and for now I can speak it a lot better than Japanese. Not so sure it will be better for me here but it can't be worse. You meeting these girls in Shin-Okubo?

Nope, on the contrary that's where we go for dates. Just ask her what Korean food she misses the most in Japan and whatever she says just say "oh man I miss that shit too, do you think they have that at Shin-Okubo? We should get it together sometimes" Koreans never get sick of Korean food so they would be pretty down to catch dinner or lunch. After a few times of going to the area, you can start recommending restaurants yourself and that earns you points as well.

Post: #914

Was just on the last train back from Tokyo when this bird sat next to me. She was left-swiping on tinder at a rate of about 60 to 1. I get her attention but only after three taps on the shoulder- say I am on it too and want to ask what she thinks is a good picture but get only a nod before she resumes her swiping, felt bad that I didn't push more but my Japanese is still a handful of words. Can't feel too bad though cause true to the stereotype (NAJALT, haha) once she opened her mouth I noticed her teeth were jacked.

Above all I reckon this serves as a reminder of how skewed against you it is being online if a japanese 5 or 6 (4 with that jacked grill) is lefting her way through that many bros. Whether it be this country, America, Russia, or gotdamn Mars- If you don't make impressions in the flesh and blood, it will be an unecessarily long and hard road to nookie for you.

Post: #915

There's no reason to do online game, when every 2mins a hot girl walks by in Japan.

Post: #916

(05-14-2015 10:13 PM)memcpy Wrote:  There's no reason to do online game, when every 2mins a hot girl walks by in Japan.

I second that. I went on tinder as soon as I landed here and got my LINE loaded with 5-6's that I landed from tinder. I got within a month and half of 100% swooping around 14-15 LINE IDs'. None of them went anywhere and as soon as I started hitting the streets for approaches, I deleted Tinder off my phone simply because I'd rather talk to a 7-8 face to face and get blown off than send a 5 attention seeker a "hey what's up?" message. Night game approaches got me bangs, day game approaches got me a tad better at approaching.

Post: #917

double posted on accident.

Post: #918

(05-14-2015 11:09 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

(05-13-2015 02:23 AM)Hedonistic Traveler Wrote:  [quote='cascadecombo' pid='1019824' dateline='1431498972']

Is that when chuseok is?

I've lived in Korea as well, just like in Seoul it's more about what places you are hitting up rather than which is easier.

Osaka and Tokyo both have some crazy night life. As long as you look good and don't dress like a slob, you won't be auto-nexted by appearance. As for me, Japan has been easier. But I got into better shape, dress better and speak the language a fair bit here.

Yeah, Chuseok is late-September. I was considering going hiking in Seoraksan but Japan is an option. Maybe hit up just one city that trip. Then two cities, 8-10 days, in December. We'll see.

I have pretty solid style and my game isn't anything special but I'm always down to approach which can be half the battle for some guys. Unfortunately I'm not in Seoul, I'm in a small city, so Korea has been kinda shitty. Not awful, but far from paradise haha.

Do you prefer Osaka to Tokyo? Or are they pretty similar?

(05-13-2015 01:29 AM)Geekzor Wrote:  As for the game in Japan I would suggest spending time reading throughout this thread, since it has all the information you'd need to get a bang.

I read in another thread regarding Korea that if you don't speak Korean you basically have a handicap already. If this is truly the case, then I would say with confidence that Japan is far easier yes.

Yeah, I'm going to slowly make my way through this thread. Maybe take some notes, it's pretty long haha. Should have great information.

Koreans study a lot of English, but never practice speaking. Plus they're kinda racist and love hearing people speak their language. My Korean blows so I mainly go with girls who have lived abroad, they're usually easier anyways.

I'll have pretty much no Japanese for my trip, just the basics. I'll be hoping to get by on English.

On a personal level I prefer Osaka. My Japanese was learned in a bar setting, so I speak like a local which adds to the shock/comfort factor when I go about chatting girls up.

As far as no Japanese language ability goes, the girls here speak pretty good English if you know where to go, that would be Shinsaibashi, Amemura and maybe some spots in Umeda.

I will say, if you have the time definitely go to both cities. I almost always here that Osaka is the friendlier of the two, as in people are far more receptive to your random approaches. But when I went to Tokyo last week I had one of the best weeks I've had in a while, in terms of general living.

I'll actually be in Seoul in July for about 12 days, looking forward to chillin in Hongdae and such.

As far koreans go in Japan, you hit the nail on the head. I have a general knowledge about korean culture and can speak a bit (very very basic but colloquial stuff) and when I meet them the second they realize I am familiar with their background it's usually gravy from there.

Post: #919

(05-14-2015 10:58 AM)glarkcable Wrote:  Above all I reckon this serves as a reminder of how skewed against you it is being online if a japanese 5 or 6 (4 with that jacked grill) is lefting her way through that many bros.

It's a weird thing but slightly messed up teeth are seen as cute by many Japanese guys. Doesn't detract from a girl's SMV in Japan.

Edit: On topic, there are dental clinics in Japan that offer services to make straight teeth crooked.
http://www.japantoday.com/category/lifes...oked-teeth

Post: #920

I read somewhere that the reason Japanese don't get their teeth straightened is because it's considered cosmetic, so therefore not covered by the national health insurance system. Japanese dentists are equipped and trained to provide teeth straightening services, but have to charge market rate for it. The rates are so much higher than the subsidized rates for regular dental care that people don't want to pay it. I haven't noticed before, but do Japanese celebrities, actresses, and models have screwed-up teeth?

Post: #921

They can afford straightening dude...

Think about it, crooked teeth is a childlike thing. That's the appeal. It's kawaii.

I'm not claiming that all guys prefer that but it's a significant number. Stuff like this reminds me how weird a country Japan is.

Post: #922

(05-15-2015 01:55 AM)Carlos100 Wrote:  I read somewhere that the reason Japanese don't get their teeth straightened is because it's considered cosmetic, so therefore not covered by the national health insurance system. Japanese dentists are equipped and trained to provide teeth straightening services, but have to charge market rate for it. The rates are so much higher than the subsidized rates for regular dental care that people don't want to pay it. I haven't noticed before, but do Japanese celebrities, actresses, and models have screwed-up teeth?

I believe idol系 celebrities are more likely to have nicer teeth but the incisors actually seen as cute by some Japanese such that they actually go to GET them on purpose. These teeth are called yaeba, its a deviation from western beauty. In Japan, kawaii power is very real.

Post: #923

This feels a little déjà-vu, but yeah, there's a few celebs that are showing off their crooked 'vampire' teeth, and triggering a response among the youth to get their teeth 'fixed', or not fixed. The awkward teeth are supposed to convey 'youth'. In terms of orthodontics, the dental clinics that have braces available, urge you to have National Health Insurance coverage, or another type of insurance, or they won't work on you. It don't bother me though. And yes, braces are a little more expensive than the rest of the dental work they do on your teeth. Braces are 700-1300 usd, though after insurance coverage, they get a hefty discount, but they still chose not to appropriate the service. Just punch in 'japanese celebs teeth' on a search engine, and you'll have a few articles.

I mean, in Japan, and other parts of Asia, women, and some men used to dye their teeth black because it was considered beautiful, and prevented teeth decay. The latter practice is called Ohaguro お歯黒.

If a girl has actually fallen for you, you could convince her to get braces.

On that note, has anyone ever banged a j-girl with vampire teeth? Would you bang a girl with vampire teeth?

I would.

Post: #924

I've banged the whole spectrum of J-girls from perfect Hollywood style teeth to messed up ones.

My observation was that American guys seem to care the most about teeth on a girl. For some of my friends it is a deal breaker.

Post: #925

^Agree with Dreambig, teeth used to be a huge dealbreaker for me. Slowly getting used to it now that I have been in Japan for some time.