@kapitaw.
Too bad we won't be able to meet up. Anyone who plans on coming to Kansai should contact me. I'm super busy, but I'll try to make time if I can. I'm always interested in meeting forum members.
I'd have to see your jacket to know if it's a good idea, but it sounds pretty pimpin'. What's the whole outfit like? One area where Japan is insanely behind is in suits, blazers, and jackets. Almost everything on the rack is post-peak or was never popular at all in Europe.
The post I was planning for WhyNot parties wasn't as much about the parties themselves, but about the volunteer system they have. Anyone can volunteer to work a WhyNot party through the form they have on their website. You can drink as much as you want for free, and all you have to do is greet people at the door for 30 minutes at some point during the night. For a two or three hour party, it's pretty sweet. It's an easy way to gain control of the room, and you can work groups of girls off of each other or unload barnacles (Japanese dudes that glom onto you and fuck up approaches) on other people. You have instant authority, and the organizers ask that staff walk around and introduce themselves to as many people as possible, so it's great social proof. After the party ends, you can stay in the venue as long as you want. This is great for when they hold events at OWL or other clubs because you get a crack at the girls who come afterward without having to pay a cover charge.
I've done this three times so far, and I've gotten two notches. I also have dates set up next week with a tiny 19-year-old and a 31-year-old that looks like Tao Okamoto
The first party I went to was on a Saturday and had a good crowd, but little talent until later in the evening. There was one 9+, but her three friends were mother hens from hell. I'd say four or five dudes made attempts on her and couldn't get through. I decided to play a slow game and ingratiate myself with the mommas. They were all laughing and having fun, and after about 30 minutes or so I found myself chatting with just her. I thought I was free and clear, but when I tried to move her away from the friends a bit, they pounced. One pulled her away and the other two came over to talk to me. It was like they'd rehearsed it. I tried to get the group back together and get her number, but the friends told me they'd give me their numbers and set up a get together for all of us. I put my phone in my pocket and told them I'd remember their numbers (for Japanese people, and especially in Kyoto and Osaka, this kind of roundabout assholery is very cutting... I might to a post on
Kyoto ikezu bunka sometime).
The next girl I approached was an older
onee-kei chick wearing tight white jeans and amazing heels (a 9 if not for her horrible, horrible teeth). She was with a man who I'd initially assumed was her husband, but turned out to be her boss. He was trolling for foreign girls and brought his hot secretary. I chatted them up for a while before my time to man the door rolled around. After a bit, the hot
onee-kei secretary came out to make a phone call. After she was done I ran over and got her contact info. I ended up getting a BJ from her on a date the next week, but no bang. We're set to meet again on Thurdsay.
After my little door shift, I was thinking about leaving, but the club just flooded with people after the party ended. I found a group of three pretty decent girls, one a thick 7 with an absolutely adorable face, and sat with them. We all danced, I
kabe-don kissed the thick one, got her alone, and pulled her into the bathroom

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All and all, I think I'll end up with 2 bangs from this party.
The second party was another Saturday event. It had even less talent than the first, but one girl was among the hottest I've seen in a long, long time. Jet-black hair, awesome body, bright red lipstick, short skirt, and sky-high heels. I chatted her up and got a good rapport going, but the volunteer system fucked me over big. The girl was from the country and was desperate for dick. When we got to the topic of ages, she said "年齢は関係ないよねぇ" (the Japanese equivalent of "age is just a number"), which is a big slut-tell in a society dictated by Confucian ideas of hierarchy. I thought for sure I had it locked down, but when I went out to do my door shift, another dude pounced on her. They were cuddled up in the middle of the room for a while and eventually disappeared. I got her friend's number as a consolation prize and a few more before heading out to meet a friend at another bar.
I was in revenge mode after losing my target at WhyNot, so I went all out approaching on the street and slamming drinks. I got one number at the next bar and then things kind of get fuzzy from there... The next thing I remember after that is throwing up on the Keihan Train and holding it all in my mouth so I wouldn't be "that foreign guy." I got out at the next station and filled up a trash can, got on the next train, and slept through my stop. I taxi'd home and spent the next day pounding salisbury steak, salad bar, and yerba mate at the family restaurant by my house.
I eventually banged the WhyNot hot chick's friend, but it was almost depressing. I need to be more aggressive when talent like that comes along.
The third party I went to was an actual dating event on a weeknight that was in a shitty location with shitty talent (on the plus side, volunteers were not required to do anything). The two dates I mentioned above are from this event, but those two girls were the only worthwhile targets in the whole room that night. I left as soon as the party ended and went home.
The wrap-up here is pretty sloppy as I have to get going, but I hope you guys can take something away from this.