Post: #1

I feel like with white girls, even if you're not her type she'll give you a few minutes to see what you've got to say. If you're interesting, you might change that initial coldness or indifference around. They will hear you out for a moment. Rarely if ever am I immediately shut down by a white girl, even if she's clearly not feeling it.

I feel like with black girls, if you are not their type from the outset, you are simply SOL and she's not interested in hearing you talk for a few minutes to try and work your way in. I feel like black chics have a strong sense of what their type is, and if you're not it, you're wasting your time and hers. On the flipside, if you are that black girl's type or if you have a look that black girls like, there is no LMR. You can bang almost right away. I think this is why black girls are described as simultaneously having attitude and being easy depending on who you ask.

Post: #2

(01-25-2014 10:08 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  I feel like with white girls, even if you're not her type she'll give you a few minutes to see what you've got to say. If you're interesting, you might change that initial coldness or indifference around. They will hear you out for a moment. Rarely if ever am I immediately shut down by a white girl, even if she's clearly not feeling it.

I feel like with black girls, if you are not their type from the outset, you are simply SOL and she's not interested in hearing you talk for a few minutes to try and work your way in. I feel like black chics have a strong sense of what their type is, and if you're not it, you're wasting your time and hers. On the flipside, if you are that black girl's type or if you have a look that black girls like, there is no LMR. You can bang almost right away. I think this is why black girls are described as simultaneously having attitude and being easy depending on who you ask.

You're on to something

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Post: #4

Is this still true when you add game to the equation?

Black women sometimes have these hyper-powered bitch shields. You can see this in workplaces where everyone walks on eggshells around this or that black woman who's known to have an attitude. However, I've found that if you just show these women right off the bat that you're not scared like everyone else, they soften up immediately, or at least after passing one successful shit test.

Maybe black women shit test harder, but once you get by their tests they can sometimes be much less annoying than the girls who just keep up a steady assault of moderate shit tests.

Post: #5

White girls are supreme cock suckers. Black girls give bad head.

Post: #6

^^^

Nice try bro. Try to come with something that adds to this thread next time.

Post: #7

It's tough to see if one group is more open or has less of a bitch shield vs the other.

I will say that if you fuck up the first time you hang out then you will find black chicks to be less forgiving. At least in my experience I should say. Your personality type can vary vastly with non black woman but with a black woman you better with some gusto and have your shit together.

Again..I'm a black male so it may be different for others.

I just re read what speakeasy wrote...guess we have the same opinion.

Post: #8

I like the fact black women are more straightforward and open. You are either their type or not. If you are their type--sex is a high probability event within a short time frame. White women on the other hand are more prone to wasting your time/money. I have only been with 2 black women so my experience might not be representative of the overall population. Both women told me they only date white men so I was their type.

Post: #9

In South Africa, I've experienced the opposite.

Post: #10

(01-25-2014 11:27 PM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:  In South Africa, I've experienced the opposite.

I could believe that. I've yet to hear a man say anything positive about white women in S. Africa.

Post: #11

What are they like in south Africa?

Post: #12

I've found the opposite to be true. I don't think a black girl has ever looked at me like I'm a turd and walked off but some white girls have. Ill never understand why black girls and wigger girls like me so much. Some black girl asked me if I wanted to eat with her family at a Chinese restaurant because I walked in alone! There's no way in hell a random white girl would ever do that.

Post: #13

(01-25-2014 11:56 PM)Screwston Wrote:  I've found the opposite to be true. I don't think a black girl has ever looked at me like I'm a turd and walked off but some white girls have. Ill never understand why black girls and wigger girls like me so much. Some black girl asked me if I wanted to eat with her family at a Chinese restaurant because I walked in alone! There's no way in hell a random white girl would ever do that.

I recall you saying before that you look like Chris Brown even though you are Hispanic. If true that explains a lot. If you look even remotely like this you'll be drowning in black pussy.

Post: #14

From my experience Black girls are way more binary. If they don't like you'll know and if they do like you you'll definitely know.

Game is less of a factor per se.

I took a Black girl out to lunch one time and the restaurant forgot about us. If was a pretty lousy first date and I was still somewhat of an awkward conversationalist at the time. The second we walked out of the place she suggested we go back to my place and "hang out."

More recently I got an undercut/mullhawk. While in line at the club a Black girl asked me some question about a debate that she was having with her friends. Twenty minutes later we were hooking up in the balcony section.

To me Black girls are usually either easy bangs or no gos. It's more dependent on them than how well you can talk about "the two girls fighting outside the club."

Post: #15

I have found black girls, as of late, very open and friendly. Less shit tests, no negging, good conversationalists, and adventurous in bed. They are definitely sweet.

Of course it might be that these are college girls.

Post: #16

This is funny b/c me and one of my black friends were just talking about this. For me, as a white dude, it's the opposite, black women seem to be more initially open even if I didn't blow her socks off at first, whereas if a white girl didn't like me she made it fairly obvious from the get-go. He said the opposite for him. We also came to the conclusion that you get away with certain shit more if you're from a different race than the girls. It's as if girls of the same race hold you to some behavior standard. Just our observations.

Post: #17

(01-26-2014 12:41 AM)Draugr Wrote:  I have found black girls, as of late, very open and friendly. Less shit tests, no negging, good conversationalists, and adventurous in bed. They are definitely sweet.

Of course it might be that these are college girls.

Agreed, I think this is more of a class thing than a race one.

I grew up around poor white people. My parents aren't hurting I was middle class, but our house was in a county were most people were living in government homes. Half the kids at my school were on food stamps and most of them were from single family homes. I'd say that a good quarter of them had never even traveled 50 miles away from home.

These white girls basically behaved like the trashy ratchet chicks you'd see on World Star. I remember going to a party where one of them got into a fight and started slamming another girl's head into a car door.

They were fat, gross, and had major attitude problems (Fun fact I wasn't sexually attracted to a single girl I went to high school with). The girls from that group who went on to college and what not ended up being really stuck up and developing a weird attitude and complex.

Once I grew up I pretty much only dated girls outside my own race, I suspect that living around white trash girls had something to do with it. I'm currently seeing a Black Francophile who likes traveling and is actually pretty funny. My last girlfriend was Mexican and in pre-med. these girls are just nice pleasant people who are actually enjoyable to be around.

Those negative connotations about being loud and obnoxious are more socioeconomical than racial. I grew up in a town that was all white and the kids still behaved like ratchets from World Star. Being raised by self centered mom and government check is what breeds that despicable mindset, not skin color.

Post: #18

Generally speaking, I'm not sure this is really true although if you are limiting your observation to night game I can see why you would think so. I think a lot of factors come into not the least of which is environment. If you're in a closed environment like a school or work setting you can slowly erode any ill feelings a chick may have towards you by consistently interacting with her and showing off different aspects of who you are. Things like being in the right social circle also help immensely and can help in the long run, but ultimately it just depends on the chick rather than it being a race thing IMO.

Post: #19

@RBX

Exactly, my mom grew up in the projects back in the 50s, her brothers and sister all stayed out of trouble and raised up in class. They did have the help of the Catholic school system which did shepherd the faithful regardless of class. I myself grew up without a father (and trust me being a very white kid with a hispanic last name on the boulevard wasn't easy) and I was ingrained with class.

"The ghetto is in the person." Always seek to better yourself, in character first and the rest will follow.

Post: #20

I've not noticed much of a pattern with regards to what the OP said. But what I have noticed, is that they tend to be much better at being gamed than white girls are, and will often amplify the flirting. Whereas a lot of white girls are kind of clueless and boring to flirt with.

Post: #21

I think it depends on the kind of black girl. If she's straight out from her home country and just arrived not too long ago, she'll be very friendly and receptive with "Hi what's your name, nice to meet you". In their country people are sociable and polite.

Post: #22

One difference between black girls and white girls :

Black girls let me bang them.

Post: #23

Black chix want men in their lives so bad that they have ZERO problems expressing interest in men that they like.Some of them have no problems approaching either.It's cultural I think just because for the most part men aren't around the home in Black culture in America.Liberal policies have replaced men with welfare.I think the term "Thirsty" applies to a large percentage of black chix.If you present a good package and don't fuck it up you can bang black chicks with higher frequency and less work than white chix.Thats not to say Im speaking of 8's,9's and dimes here but average everyday black pussy is EASY.Now that pussy may be attached to a fat, hair hat wearing, mud duck but it's pussy none the less...And these are my observations as a black man in America.PRETTY black women are fucking hard to find in my neck of the woods.

Post: #24

Definitely depends on the environment. I find that the closer you get to college areas, or diverse areas in general, a black girl chilling alone in public will be just as open to conversation as a white girl. Black girls are fully aware of the "black girls have too much attitude" thing, so the ones who want to be socially accepted jump at the opportunity to show that they're not like that. Similar to how white girls in those same areas jump at the opportunity to show how open minded and accepting of other people they are. You just gotta go to the right places.

A black chick in the club with her friends...that's a different story. 50/50 they're down to party if you have the right vibe, but gaming the finer ones is gonna start with if she likes how you look, then it's how you carry yourself in the first couple minutes of meeting her, then (depending on age; let's say 18-25) you have to get the nod from her BFF, not the entire group, but the ones she's closest to, then you've got her. Being a black dude in this situation: it comes as no surprise to her that you're approaching her; it's expected. If you pass the tests you're good. Other races in this situation: there's a novelty factor. They'll entertain you just to see what you're gonna say, and how you're gonna say it. Work your game, pass the tests, then you're good.

Then you have the ones who choose not to date outside their race, unless they're dating mixed (black & white) or Latino. They say they'll make an exception for Channing Tatum, Paul Walker, and the Maroon 5 dude, but when it comes to actually dating white dudes, they don't. These girls usually live in predominantly black areas, and rarely hang out in diverse places. If they go to college it's almost ALWAYS an HBCU, or a local predominantly black JC. They'll shut anyone down quick, because they're just not as social when they're outside of their element.

Post: #25

I agree with the OP's statement, if you're comparing an 8-9/10 white girl (WG) to an 8-9/10 black girl (BG). Maybe even 7s. But as soon as you start going down that average, BG 6s and below are much nicer and often very forward with me, while WGs are much less forward and nice. I think it has to do with scarcity. In my area, 8+ BGs are mythical creatures I've never even seen, only heard about.