Post: #26

I mastered this as a young lad, after coming across a book to teach the technique.

It is pretty hard to master, but I got there after a few months.

It's a cool trick, and all that, but the quality of orgasim is less than a "relaxed one" since you are tensing and concentrating on the holdback.

It's far better, and more useful to just teach yourself to cum normally only when you want to during sex, ie hold on (for hours if you want to) in order to be able to fuck a woman beyond what she wants, and to get your fill of the fucking enjoyment. This is easier to learn and results in far superior orgasims if you have held on and edged for 2 hours....

Post: #27

(11-13-2018 11:04 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  I must have a lot of tension in my anus, I do kind of freak out when anything goes near it with an intent to enter

A common daily coincidence for sure

Post: #28

>>This is easier to learn and results in far superior orgasims if you have held on and edged for 2 hours....

Valley orgasms and edging are two different things. The peak orgasm is more intense than the valley orgasm but it is NOT better, because it leads to post-coital sadness and all the other problems the no-fap guys warn about. (No-fap focuses on masturbation because that's the only way most guys have a chance to have unlimited orgasms, but a guy with a true harem world have similar problems. Indeed, it was notorious that kings in the past who spent too much time with their harem turned into weaklings.) I also "mastered" the technique of squeezing very quickly, but that is not real mastery. Real mastery involves relaxation more than tensing, which is much more difficult. Took many years to fully master the technique.

You also need to be older, like past 50, to appreciate just how depleting peak orgasms are to older men. For a young guy, it really doesn't matter that much.

Post: #29

(11-15-2018 05:11 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

(11-13-2018 11:04 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  I must have a lot of tension in my anus, I do kind of freak out when anything goes near it with an intent to enter

A common daily coincidence for sure

Don't you hate it when that happens?

Back in the 80s as a young buck I was banging this new wave gal who was a bit on the kinky side. We're getting it on and suddenly she sticks her fingers right up there. Was not appreciated to be honest and fortunately it was the one and last time any gal tried this.

It's unnatural wanting to be penetrated as a man, period. No if and no butts ;-)

Post: #30

https://www.nateliason.com/blog/multiple-orgasms-men

I wrote previously that the above is as good as Mantak Chia but I now retract that statement. This guy emphasizes the clenching too much, same as Rat in the Woods, same as Tim Ferriss. You have to read some of Mantak Chia's advanced woo-woo books to learn the higher techniques involving relaxation. You want to move the focus of orgasm away from the head of the penis, deep into the body, then up the backbone. It took me a long time but now I tend to have orgasms at the heart or throat chakra. The long run goal is bring the orgasm all the way to the top of the head, pineal gland chakra. Though be careful about holding too much energy in the head. Bring it down to the stomach if you feel a headache. With enough practice, you can have mild orgasms without even manipulating your penis. Sexual energy just flows constantly from genitals up the backbone.

And I'm sure there are higher levels I haven't explored myself yet. Advanced yogis can get an erection and orgasm, with or without ejaculation, while sitting in lotus and not even touching themselves. Human body is capable of much more than we think.

Post: #31

(11-15-2018 07:16 AM)redpillage Wrote:  

(11-15-2018 05:11 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

(11-13-2018 11:04 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  I must have a lot of tension in my anus, I do kind of freak out when anything goes near it with an intent to enter

A common daily coincidence for sure

Don't you hate it when that happens?

Back in the 80s as a young buck I was banging this new wave gal who was a bit on the kinky side. We're getting it on and suddenly she sticks her fingers right up there. Was not appreciated to be honest and fortunately it was the one and last time any gal tried this.

It's unnatural wanting to be penetrated as a man, period. No if and no butts ;-)

Maybe I'm just incredibly lucky, but I have to say that "that" has never happened to me. My life has been blessedly free of objects and creatures attempting to get past my sphincter.

Post: #32

(11-15-2018 06:21 AM)Shemp Wrote:  >>This is easier to learn and results in far superior orgasims if you have held on and edged for 2 hours....

Valley orgasms and edging are two different things. The peak orgasm is more intense than the valley orgasm but it is NOT better, because it leads to post-coital sadness and all the other problems the no-fap guys warn about. (No-fap focuses on masturbation because that's the only way most guys have a chance to have unlimited orgasms, but a guy with a true harem world have similar problems. Indeed, it was notorious that kings in the past who spent too much time with their harem turned into weaklings.) I also "mastered" the technique of squeezing very quickly, but that is not real mastery. Real mastery involves relaxation more than tensing, which is much more difficult. Took many years to fully master the technique.

You also need to be older, like past 50, to appreciate just how depleting peak orgasms are to older men. For a young guy, it really doesn't matter that much.

Shemp is putting out useful info here. Post-coital sadness is real and no joke. I'm still relatively young but I've noticed a gradual decrease of motivation after orgasms that makes it hard to justify the amount of time and energy spent chasing girls.

Post: #33

I like this shemp stuff. I will have to research that. But the anal probe stuff.

Post: #34

Regarding the anal probe, I think I mentioned that I used to hang around Tantra forums and I learned s great desl from them, not just about orgasm without ejaculation but many other things about human sexuality. But I always felt like the Tantra people were a little crazy, which I why I always recommend learning from the Taoists, who seen much more level headed. especially Mantak Chia, who I respectfully refer to as Master Chia because of the great gift of so much wisdom regarding sexuality I received from him, at the very low cost of whatever his books cost back then.

Short digression: the ancient Indus river civilization was where so much ancient wisdom was discovered. That civilization was disrupted by the Aryan invasion, which established a new language (Sanskrit) and religion (Hinduism), causing loss of much ancient wisdom. What was preserved was then put into cryptic form, because it was considered threatening by the Hindu priests. The wisdom later made its way to China/Japan, where the obscurity was somewhat cleaned up by the ancient Taoists/Buddhists. Mantak Chia has done a good job further clarifying the ideas into a form that we modern westerners can understand and apply.

Anyway, while poking around recently, I found out the source of that anal probe idea. When I first encountered it in the Tantra forums, it was in a form that seemed plausible and everyone in the forum insisted it was a good idea. Now I realize this Vartman pervert had infiltrated the forum with his associates and was mixing good ideas with bad, so as to lure people into his sex cult. You can read all about Vartman and his sex cult in the linked articles below:

https://gurumag.com/the-mad-hatter-insid...new-tantra

https://medium.com/@beadominic/tnt-23fbd13bca3d

[Update] Everyone here complains about redpill/right-wing men being censored, but it looks like the woman who exposed that pervert Vartman was also recently censured:

https://gurumag.com/medium-com-bans-jour...lt-expose/