Post: #1951

(04-20-2017 04:24 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  I'm going to hold off for a while as the Maca seems to be having some effect on me, I've been waking up with morning wood more often even if I had sex the night before. I can't think of anything else that's changed in my diet/routine.

How much maca are you taking daily?

Post: #1952

(04-21-2017 03:25 PM)Conquistador Wrote:  

(04-21-2017 02:16 PM)TheMaleBrain Wrote:  pLTR

What does the p stand for? plural? part-time?

Primary

Check this out to understand the concept .

Post: #1953

(04-23-2017 01:22 PM)Hypno Wrote:  

(04-20-2017 04:24 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  I'm going to hold off for a while as the Maca seems to be having some effect on me, I've been waking up with morning wood more often even if I had sex the night before. I can't think of anything else that's changed in my diet/routine.

How much maca are you taking daily?

1 x 500mg capsule twice a day.

Post: #1954

Well, that is good for you that such a small does is working so well. But I'm taking 1/2 teaspoon of the powder which should be 1.5 grams and its not having much effect on me.

Post: #1955

I am on week 2 of Boxing and I have lost 4 pounds, it is so hard to find the strength to keep my hands up after 30 minutes. If you want to lose weight Boxing is on par with the Stairmaster, oceans of sweat and total exhaustion. I think I am upping my weight loss goals I am aiming for 20 pounds instead of 15. I am currently hitting Equinox everyday and on Boxing Days I hit Equinox at 7:00 am and again later at 7:45 pm. I am getting this fat off my ass , no matter the cost!

Post: #1956

Back to talking Game

I'm new to this forum and thread, and very much appreciate the great conversation on a wide variety of topics. I'm 43 y.o. myself, living in northern Europe, and single. I'm doing well with online game, and usually have 3-4 girls, age 19-27, in rotation. I wanted to open up a discussion about where to meet women, when you're mainly interested in dating 15-20 years below your own age.

I'm a killer when it comes to one-on-one dates, almost always get repeat bangs, easy to create relationships. But all my leads come from online game (tinder, bumble, SA). With online game it's easy to screen for girls who have an interest in older men. Outside of online though it seems probabilities are working against me (us) - let's say one in 10 good looking girls (I date 7/10 and above, sometimes 6/10 if she's very young and/or dirty...) is open to dating a guy 20 years older, half of them actually act on it, so you're down to one in 20, and she also needs to be attracted to me which is less than half of all girls, meaning one in 50 cute girls aged 20-25 would sleep with me. With online game you filter out that one in 50, which is why I use it. In a bar, or during daygame, it seems the number of approaches you need to make just become unbearably big. There are obvious downsides to online game, as we all know, so I'd like to broaden my repertoire.

Have you found that certain environments work better than others? Or where do you fish? Would be interested to hear your thoughts.

Post: #1957

....

NEED SOME REAL TIME INPUT ON A 19 YO TINDER MATCH

with daddy issues...

Post: #1958

JACK_SMITH - On your tinder match:

I had a similar conversation a week or so ago. I don't know what your girl looks like, but if she hasn't got the typical look (blue hair, choker, tattoos, pierced nose...) I'd play around that, making her qualify herself. Something along the lines of "Do you really? Where's your cliche choker necklace and nose piercing? ". Girls love talking about their looks and how you perceive them, in my experience.

The worst response would be to comply with her statement, saying something like "Then you've found you man" or something like that.

Let me know how it goes.

Post: #1959

Agree here with Tom's reply, but she may also be looking for a Sugar Daddy. I've seen several in the 18-24 age range on Tinder looking for a SD.

(04-27-2017 07:56 AM)NordicTom Wrote:  JACK_SMITH - On your tinder match:

I had a similar conversation a week or so ago. I don't know what your girl looks like, but if she hasn't got the typical look (blue hair, choker, tattoos, pierced nose...) I'd play around that, making her qualify herself. Something along the lines of "Do you really? Where's your cliche choker necklace and nose piercing? ". Girls love talking about their looks and how you perceive them, in my experience.

The worst response would be to comply with her statement, saying something like "Then you've found you man" or something like that.

Let me know how it goes.

Post: #1960

(04-27-2017 11:08 AM)SiverFox Wrote:  Agree here with Tom's reply, but she may also be looking for a Sugar Daddy. I've seen several in the 18-24 age range on Tinder looking for a SD.

Heard. I screen for that bullshit.

Post: #1961

(04-27-2017 07:56 AM)NordicTom Wrote:  JACK_SMITH - On your tinder match:

I had a similar conversation a week or so ago. I don't know what your girl looks like, but if she hasn't got the typical look (blue hair, choker, tattoos, pierced nose...) I'd play around that, making her qualify herself. Something along the lines of "Do you really? Where's your cliche choker necklace and nose piercing? ". Girls love talking about their looks and how you perceive them, in my experience.

The worst response would be to comply with her statement, saying something like "Then you've found you man" or something like that.

Let me know how it goes.

That's perfect. She's got that GND vibe going.

So then what? I typically move quickly to a drinks/coffee meetup and move to text for logistics, like below. Thoughts?


BabyGirl: I have daddy issues

Jack: you sure, woman??
Jack: Where's that ink, choker, barbell, and algae green undercut?

BG: BlahBlahBlah

JS: Question

BG: Yeah

JS: You a Wine, Beer or Cocktails girl?

BG: BlahBlahBlah

JS: I want you to come have ____ with me.

BG: I'm down.

JS: Let's move logistics off Tinder. 222-222-2222.

Post: #1962

(04-18-2017 11:06 AM)Vaun Wrote:  

(04-18-2017 01:30 AM)Half Century Wrote:  Get wet. Surf a least once a week in water below 65F.
Walk in the cold air. Ride a bike, jog or walk fast or, better, up steep hills.
Lift weights with Red Bull and vigorous music
Eat raw spinach,carrots and celery. Eat fresh meat, eat less or no pasta, potatoes, and bread items- replace with wraps and brown rice and tortillas.
Make your own food: salsa, salad dressing, tortilla chips, smoothies- don't add artificial ingredients.
Eat an orange or apple before reaching for that bag of Chili Cheese Fritos.
Get your mind off food. Don't get too comfortable, Tempus Fugit.
Drink a martini or a shot of tequila . Burns clean. If you drink beer, you better not eat that much, because it is like drinking liquid cake.Don't add sugar to your drinks.
Avoid the doctor and all medications.
Smile at ,ogle and approach beautiful women regularly.
Don't take anything too seriously or anyone too seriously because , most likely,they don't know anymore than you what they are doing.
Life passes quickly and there are a plethora of idiots roaming the earth, and a trillion ways to waste your time every day- it is unavoidable.
Focused pertinent work is better than hard work.
Optimism is good for a while, but common sense is better.
Most great ideas become irrelevant later on.
Things usually go wrong eventually. Everything has a price in life, there is no way around it.

I want your life. Write a book dude, I think you nailed it.

Ha ha ha, my life actually is really, really boring at times. This I wrote above is just advice to myself as a reminder and others because I didn't always do and think that way, and still backslide and miss opportunities.

I'm approaching 53. This week I'm in the gym and I get eye-f**ked by a voluptuous 20-something (maybe 19). 4 full seconds of direct, unsmiling, brazen eye contact. Frankly, I was embarrassed, as it was unexpected. The wild animal was awakened. I locked eyes with her instinctively, then I almost started laughing and had to look away. Plus, I imagined one of her family members might have been in the gym somewhere!

You can just tell this girl, though sexy as hell, is repressed, from a very conservative family. Sensuality brimming out from assumed virginal "innocence". Maybe she is a lonely girl.

I go to the bench press machine, starting to buff 200 lbs., trying to concentrate on my upper body , in a somewhat aroused state. Then she looks over again and holds the stare for a few seconds...

This afternoon one of my friends my age is going to a putting green with some wine and three late 20s/early30s broads that he met at a pool party last weekend. I met them there, too , but didn't edge in for the number close, as they were getting approached too often to break through, plus they seemed too drunk. Got distracted: I was approached by a 40ish former Playboy model. Unfortunately, she had gained over 100 pounds since them. She was caressing my lower back. Felt good and it would have been nice ...in front.

Now my friend thinks I was too picky (sometimes he slums) so he didn't invite me along today. So, maybe it's lone wolfing at a local pub tonight, mixed age, where the girls are chatty after a few. Much funner having a wingman though...



We were at this restaurant with two middle eastern-type women- Around our age! - a few weeks ago. Spent several hours that evening with them in bar, then venue change.
My friend spent some good money on them, and he doesn't even have any money. Think he drank too much before he initially approached them. Later, neither of us got a number close! Moral of the story: just go for women 15 to 20 years younger, it's easier, surprisingly.

Post: #1963

Honestly I am my own worst enemy. I grew up in Australia, spent some time living in western countries when I was young, from being a shy kid, growing up in a place like Australia can make you very insecure to your actual worth.

I was in Melbourne recently for a month, used to live there when I was young, early 20s. I honestly do not remember getting the attention I got back then I did recently. I find myself constantly feeling bad for checking out younger girls, though, limiting beliefs as the pick up artist say.

Anyway just wanted to give some inspiration, I look after myself, I have a rugged older guy look going I guess. When I was younger I often felt I was way out of my league. Now I look at the women who were once stunners that are now my age. I now feel that they are not in my league, I may as well be looking at a 60 year old women than one my age, I am just not interested, and I dont have to be, its great.

Post: #1964

So I got a small dilemma I could use some input on. Since becoming sober, I don't really enjoy the company of much younger women, because there isn't much mental attraction and stimulation.
Unfortunately/fortunately, (depending on how you look at it) I'm really not interested in banging broads that I don't really like. I'm 41 and have been mostly kicking it with women in the 38-42 y.o. range. However, I'm not sure if its' just me, but I'm seeing a reoccurring pattern where the poossy is just not that wet which is a complete turn-off for me.
Has anyone experienced this?

Post: #1965

^Why are you dating women the same age as you?

You have already given yourself a reason not to date them, dry pussy.

Half your age plus seven, that should be your sweet spot.

Most women/girls are boring, we all just want a nice ass to climb on top off.

Post: #1966

(05-01-2017 03:08 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^Why are you dating women the same age as you?

You have already given yourself a reason not to date them, dry pussy.

Half your age plus seven, that should be your sweet spot.

Most women/girls are boring, we all just want a nice ass to climb on top off.

Yea, good point. Maybe it's my low T numbers, or could be I'm just truly interested in finding LTR material. I've had enough ass for two lifetimes, but finding quality women has been elusive.

Post: #1967

(05-01-2017 03:03 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  So I got a small dilemma I could use some input on. Since becoming sober, I don't really enjoy the company of much younger women, because there isn't much mental attraction and stimulation.
Unfortunately/fortunately, (depending on how you look at it) I'm really not interested in banging broads that I don't really like. I'm 41 and have been mostly kicking it with women in the 38-42 y.o. range. However, I'm not sure if its' just me, but I'm seeing a reoccurring pattern where the poossy is just not that wet which is a complete turn-off for me.
Has anyone experienced this?

Ya, old pussy is gross. Don't do that brother, you should be dating women in their 20s.

The idea that they get better with age is a feminist one.

Post: #1968

I really would like to find a quality younger broad who's open to being taught and molded, but at the same time, I don't like being seen as walking atm/provider type which is what I've been coming across with younger bishes. Conversely, older broads seamed to have their shit together and don't want anything from me. Lol, what a catch 22

Post: #1969

You need to come across as the Experienced Lover, not the Beta Provider. Talk about sex more, less about stuff.

Post: #1970

(05-01-2017 03:19 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  I really would like to find a quality younger broad who's open to being taught and molded, but at the same time, I don't like being seen as walking atm/provider type which is what I've been coming across with younger bishes. Conversely, older broads seamed to have their shit together and don't want anything from me.

There is a simple solution to this. Don't give them money.

And you are fooling yourself if you think old bags don't want your money. They want what the younger women want, only ten fold.

When I was a teen, all it took was a couple thousand dollar car and a few coins for gas money to attract women. In college, that escalated to money for a nicer car, nicer clothes, and dates. After college that escalated to a ritzy apartment, new car, dinners out all the time, travel all over the country.

Most 40+ married guys I know that's not even enough, they need to take on huge debt for a bigger house than what their wives see their friends have on facebook, they buy stupid shit like furniture and trips on credit. All the while their old bags just lay on the couch and get older by the day.

I'm guessing the older women you think don't want anything from you just have enough game to know not to show their hand until they have the power of the cops and divorce court behind them.

Post: #1971

(05-01-2017 03:19 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  I really would like to find a quality younger broad who's open to being taught and molded, but at the same time, I don't like being seen as walking atm/provider type which is what I've been coming across with younger bishes. Conversely, older broads seamed to have their shit together and don't want anything from me. Lol, what a catch 22

I want girls who are getting their shit together, not necessarily fully there yet. 23 - 28. I target independent climber girls - grad students, careeristas, entrepreneuristas. I look for girls who at least move to pick up/split the tab, work hard, earn their own bread, are on a self-initiated upward life trajectory, and haven't cut their hair. Look at her family, too. Do mom and Dad hustle?

Post: #1972

(05-01-2017 09:35 PM)Jack_Smith Wrote:  I want girls who are getting their shit together, not necessarily fully there yet. 23 - 28. I target independent climber girls - grad students, careeristas, entrepreneuristas. I look for girls who at least move to pick up/split the tab, work hard, earn their own bread, are on a self-initiated upward life trajectory, and haven't cut their hair. Look at her family, too. Do mom and Dad hustle?

You looking for a promising new employee, or a girlfriend/wife? Why would you want a woman like that?

Post: #1973

What's so bad about that? No one, including myself, wants an unambitious bish sitting around with her hand out.

Post: #1974

(05-01-2017 09:35 PM)Jack_Smith Wrote:  I want girls who are getting their shit together, not necessarily fully there yet. 23 - 28. I target independent climber girls - grad students, careeristas, entrepreneuristas. I look for girls who at least move to pick up/split the tab, work hard, earn their own bread, are on a self-initiated upward life trajectory, and haven't cut their hair. Look at her family, too. Do mom and Dad hustle?

(05-02-2017 01:41 AM)Malone Wrote:  You looking for a promising new employee, or a girlfriend/wife?

None of the above. I am looking for ongoing, sex-focused relationships (FWB/MLTR) with young women half my age.

That said, you are correct to point out that I admire and value the same characteristics in all people. I am as discerning about women I fuck (ongoing) as I am about friends and business colleagues.

(05-02-2017 01:41 AM)Malone Wrote:  Why would you want a woman like that?

Life is fucking short, I am particular about with whom I spend my time, and that extends to women I fuck. I can't put my dick in fat, lazy or stupid. I want women who are capable and independent minded because its a turn-on (for me) and because I know they're not looking to go on the dole with me. Also, I have found that women who are strong in the world often have a strong need to sub in the bedroom, and I am all about that and the sexual escalation it implies.

Bottom Line - Pays her own way, emotionally less needy, sexually adventurous, sub, and quality person.

Why would one NOT want women like that?

Post: #1975

(05-01-2017 03:03 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  So I got a small dilemma I could use some input on. Since becoming sober, I don't really enjoy the company of much younger women, because there isn't much mental attraction and stimulation.
Unfortunately/fortunately, (depending on how you look at it) I'm really not interested in banging broads that I don't really like. I'm 41 and have been mostly kicking it with women in the 38-42 y.o. range. However, I'm not sure if its' just me, but I'm seeing a reoccurring pattern where the poossy is just not that wet which is a complete turn-off for me.
Has anyone experienced this?

Yep, same problem man.

My issue is that I've always been attracted to older women (even in my early 20's) and now that they are easily attainable and my age...I still have that attraction. The nice thing about banging a woman my age is: a) They usually have had their kids and/or are fixed (so I can blow it inside them) and b) They can relate to the same movies and music I like.

I'm not looking to marry these girls, but it is nice to have a nice conversation with them when I am waiting for my balls to reload or if we go out to eat to refuel. Plus most of the women my age are super horny since their biological clock is ticking. They just are looking to fuck, so you don't have to play as many drama games like the younger girls.

Do I enjoy banging younger girls (20-27) more? Absolutely. But they have a lot of baggage that comes with them. Multiple beta orbiters, constant attention from all angles, new apps/ways of communicating that frankly I don't have the time to learn nor have any interest in learning. And not to mention a lot of these girls want your seed so they can start a family. So you have to sleep with one eye open to make sure she isn't harvesting your DNA from that used condom you banked off the rim of the wastebasket.

It's a lot more work on the younger females but then again the best things in life require work.