Post: #1

I normally take my fuckbuddy out on the weekends for dinner and boning.
She didnt respond to me text for 24 hours so I figured something was up.

She finally responded saying she was out on a date with some dude. I just responded "i figured that" but havent responded to the 9000000 text she has sent since.

Im not mad, pissed or jealous at all. Im just slightly miffed that she hid this from me is all.

How should i respond, if I give her the dignification of one?

Post: #2

Silence will make her hamster spin out of control.

Forget her and get another girl.

Post: #3

Well i still havent responded to 7 unanswered texts.

Post: #4

You're doing well.......IF you feel like replying bust some "el mechanico" text game and tell her to get you a threesome. Just text her that, nothing else. If she replies with a negative, tell her to do it and let it rest.

Otherwise don't reply and let her hamster spin.

Post: #5

As Cattle Rustler said, ignore and find a new girl to bang.

Post: #6

1.5 weeks later and i still havent texted her, guess who texted me tonight....hahaha

"You hurt my feelings by totally ignoring me"

Thats not as bad as me having several dates lined up..(Haven't told her that, nor will I)

Post: #7

(10-12-2013 02:11 PM)KingJamesXXIII Wrote:  Im just slightly miffed that she hid this from me is all.

Isn't this the modus operandi when carrying on a fuck buddy type "relationship"?

She doesn't divulge her extracurricular activities, and neither do you.

Ignorance is bliss, as they say. So in that regard, that was a shitty thing for her to do, actually telling you why she was busy.

Unless of course you both want to take the relationship more seriously, and/or be exclusive, which is kind of where your reaction is based from.

i.e. why would you go no contact for that period of time if you're just fuck buddies and her saying that to you didn't mean anything?

Sure, retract a bit to demonstrate higher value and raise your stock level, but in my opinion going as far as you have indicates you like her more than you care to admit (and she'd detect that).

Also, don't discount the possibility that her text saying she was on a date may have been one big shit test.

Post: #8

(10-22-2013 10:20 PM)KingJamesXXIII Wrote:  1.5 weeks later and i still havent texted her, guess who texted me tonight....hahaha

"You hurt my feelings by totally ignoring me"

Thats not as bad as me having several dates lined up..(Haven't told her that, nor will I)

Females always want to play the victim.

Not that you are the victim here, there isn't a victim.