Post: #576

Still in Kiev? Tried any night game thus far?

Post: #577

Cheers Brosemite your views are insightful!!

Post: #578

^ Appreciate the compliments.

Individuals should absolutely gravitate towards the things that they feel will bring the most value into their lives. This could apply towards the types of gals they want to game, how they want to make a living, and how they'd like to improve as individuals overall.

I won't preach about stronger overall game for the sake of "oh hey I can bang chicks in any type of environment" etc.

When you however start to think "I myself as an Asian guy can only be viewed positively in 10-15% and have no sexual market value (SMV) in 85-90% of the world," that's a toxic mentality to have. It's why I write what I write.

Post: #579

(03-12-2017 01:24 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  

(03-11-2017 02:38 PM)Chengiz88 Wrote:  Burn I like your tactic of flaunting your wealth to entice them, I'm thinking of Kiev in the summer too. Is there any racism towards Asian guys there?

Asian men go under the radar. Male tourists here are looked at as sex tourists and "diggers" looking for a LTR but Asian men are seen as businessmen or wealthy ugly tourists from China. I've only seen Asian men being treated fairly outside but this is outside the club settings. I get the impression men here don't believe any Asian men are here for women and even if we were we wouldn't get far. Most men here are getting more than their fair shake with women so they aren't concerned with us.

My feel is that if they were racist it's rare they would vocalise it as this is a social taboo. It's similar to Canadian racism where it's kept behind closed doors rather than out in the open like in Australia. TV is pushing diversity and multiculturalism here so most people are pretty liberal.

The only "racism" I've experienced is from women left-swiping me on Tinder over for the run-of-the-mill Ukrainian guy, but that's no different in any Western country.

As I'm planning a huge FSU trip soon, I'm not a little bit concerned about your feedback, though I haven't looked into the experiences of other Asian players in UA.

I've been said by other RVFers to do well with Slavic birds and in fact have my Ukrainian flag (this happened in Spain, but I don't want to give up on actually exploring Ukraine), so I didn't think you'd have had it rough there. I'm not expecting to have every Masha and Dasha queue up to suck my dick the minute I step into the country, but I didn't expect it to be as hostile as you make it out to be. The issue with Tinder chicks in Ukraine having Anglosphere preferences is particularly troubling, as I've used it as litmus test whenever I've travelled/lived abroad.

Would you reckon that situations like this are the sharp exception and not the rule (or even in between)?

Do you have any experiences with the rest of the FSU? I'm keen to return to the Baltics for a slightly longer period and Russia itself.

Post: #580

The chinese guy situation is def an exception.
I read his story in his private blog. He was there for school, slowly built up his social circle.
What forum people don't see is the before and the after. He is doing really well in Ukraine right now, got himself a Tesla and a solid business going. Now he is even doing matchmaking for chinese dudes. All this while all his other chinese mates are back in China after school.

You would have higher chance of this happening if you are in a smaller city and speak Russian/Ukrainian.

Post: #581

(03-14-2017 03:45 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  I've been said by other RVFers to do well with Slavic birds and in fact have my Ukrainian flag (this happened in Spain, but I don't want to give up on actually exploring Ukraine), so I didn't think you'd have had it rough there. I'm not expecting to have every Masha and Dasha queue up to suck my dick the minute I step into the country, but I didn't expect it to be as hostile as you make it out to be. The issue with Tinder chicks in Ukraine having Anglosphere preferences is particularly troubling, as I've used it as litmus test whenever I've travelled/lived abroad.

I had this issue while in Brazil as well. However, an Asian friend who's 6-3 though 15 years older (looks it too) would put his height down on Tinder & as a result get much hotter matches & bangs than I did. I'd like to say I'm the better looking dude though lol.

In general, boots on the ground & actual online dating sites opposed to Tinder swipes would serve you better. I'd also say you can't really feel a chicks vibe via online swipes on the other end of the spectrum. This gives you an opportunity as a guy to obviously command attention with your presence as well.

Post: #582

I've given up on Tinder at this point. Only got it because of raving reviews from men in the ukrainian thread. I've literally right swiped every girl in Kiev, said I was 28, used boost, and I got 4 matches after 1 week. One was spam, one was an ug, and the remaining 2 were hb7's that never replied back.

I think tinder sucks for Asian men, prove me wrong.

I've had more success with Ukraine date and mamba. At least you can send unsolicited messages there which marginally improves your chances.

Mamba is crawling with prostituting girls in their 20s. asking price is 100 euros.

Post: #583

(03-15-2017 10:37 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  I've given up on Tinder at this point. Only got it because of raving reviews from men in the ukrainian thread. I've literally right swiped every girl in Kiev, said I was 28, used boost, and I got 4 matches after 1 week. One was spam, one was an ug, and the remaining 2 were hb7's that never replied back.

I think tinder sucks for Asian men, prove me wrong.

I've had more success with Ukraine date and mamba. At least you can send unsolicited messages there which marginally improves your chances.

Mamba is crawling with prostituting girls in their 20s. asking price is 100 euros.

Damn sucks to hear that man. I visited Ukraine back in September of last year. I spent 5 days in Kiev, and 4 days in Lviv. I had about 20 or so matches in total during my time there. Didn't manage to get any girl out on a date though...

Post: #584

(03-11-2017 11:05 PM)BetaNoMore Wrote:  Good thread. Inspiring to see that there's a lot of Asian dudes who not only understand the struggle, but have overcome and help dudes like me.

Question for you all:

I'm planning to do a week long trip end of april to either Montreal, NYC or Chicago. Have never been to either. Likely will be going solo and want to take in the city but want to do a bunch of gaming as well. What do you guys recommend for having fun but also giving me the best chance of having a good, successful experience with game and getting laid?

I'd say that Chicago is your worst bet. Very mid-western, provincial, fratty. Girls tend to be more overweight. It just doesn't have the kind of vibe that I think an Asian guy would do well in. Beyond gaming though, the city is incredibly beautiful, and the food is amazing. One of the best food cities for sure.

NYC is my home base and I have done pretty well despite having just discovered RVF and the game community. I have been honing my game on my own for a long time, but it's only in the last few years that things have started to come together. There is something for everyone here. My strike zone tends to be quirky/creative white girls, since I'm an artist. Despite the hate for liberal chicks on this board, I have generally found that liberal white girls are more open to Asian guys, since they are more open-minded in general. They are also what I happen to like. No matter how hot a girl is, if she isn't interesting to converse with, I just don't enjoy the interaction. There are also tons of Asian girls here, I don't ever really seek them out since they all tend to be the same, but they are easy to find and game. I love this city, there is everything here, especially if you are into art/music/raves/theater/etc.

Montreal, I don't have a ton of experience. There was this one girl from there that I banged in Cancun, and I met her up in Montreal once. It was February so could barely go outside, so other than checking out the art museum, all we did was stay home and bang. Good times. I have heard good things about the city and definitely need to go again.

Post: #585

(03-15-2017 10:37 AM)[email protected] Wrote:  I've given up on Tinder at this point. Only got it because of raving reviews from men in the ukrainian thread. I've literally right swiped every girl in Kiev, said I was 28, used boost, and I got 4 matches after 1 week. One was spam, one was an ug, and the remaining 2 were hb7's that never replied back.

I think tinder sucks for Asian men, prove me wrong.

I've had more success with Ukraine date and mamba. At least you can send unsolicited messages there which marginally improves your chances.

Mamba is crawling with prostituting girls in their 20s. asking price is 100 euros.

I set my Tinder Plus to Kiev for a couple nights and got around 10 matches, some of which were really hot. I only talked to two of them that were photographers (I'm an artist) and they were pretty responsive but I eventually got tired of texting since there's no point.

Here in NYC, Tinder is definitely frustrating, but I consistently pull women from it. It's been said a million times, but make sure your pictures are as good as they can be. There are so many different elements to a good photo - highlighting your best features, hiding your weak features, using lighting, posing, body language, clothing, setting, etc. There is no magic formula but try to consider all these elements and how a girl would perceive them. Think about which of your friends takes the best photos, and ask them to snap a few good ones for you.

Post: #586

(12-25-2016 09:45 AM)Gas Wrote:  

(12-25-2016 08:38 AM)swuglyfe Wrote:  Finally mastered secret society, being able to convey that sex is fun and natural, that I'm not judgmental to her (maintaining a straight face as she drops her notch count of several dozen...), and being able to present us as on the same team. (look at all those beta cucks and chodes, they just don't get it... but I do, and you do). This is now an integral part of gaming any girl I meet now. Hamster deactivation.

Still working on getting this. For some reason I regularly build the right energy with Asian, black and latina girls, some will even comment early in the convo that they 'know I'm a player' and ask me 'how many girlfriends I have right now' and things like that, so I do well with them. However with white girls the energy is still non existent and hard for me to get them to see me in a sexual way. The handful of white girls I banged this year weren't from good game - two obviously had serious Asian fever and the others weren't anything high quality. My game might need adjusting but I think it's mostly a mental thing - I will be honest - talking to a gorgeous Asian or black girl doesn't get me nervous at all, but talking to a hot blonde white girl gets me overthinking everything.

I feel you on the mindfuck. Used to be so bad back in the day when I had only been with Asian girls. It's gotten better over time, as my white notch count climbs. Desensitization and building on wins is the only way to get over it.

Post: #587

In general, Tinder and other online dating platforms are not going to work well for minority men in western countries. I would say top 10% white guys snatches up 95% of all the quality girls and the rest is up for grab in online dating. Also if you are an Asian men, your choices are limited to girls that have dated an Asian man before or have some sort of Asian culture fetish. A lot of black girls have closet yellow fever so if you like black chicks you can definitely clean it up. I have travelled to quite few places and asian men just don't have that physique that a lot of white girls idolize in men such as height, beard, facial features, hairstyle and sometimes tattoos... I wouldn't bother online dating. The sooner you accept this fact, the faster you will move on and get ahead.

Post: #588

(04-08-2017 06:08 AM)bluejun Wrote:  In general, Tinder and other online dating platforms are not going to work well for minority men in western countries. I would say top 10% white guys snatches up 95% of all the quality girls and the rest is up for grab in online dating. Also if you are an Asian men, your choices are limited to girls that have dated an Asian man before or have some sort of Asian culture fetish. A lot of black girls have closet yellow fever so if you like black chicks you can definitely clean it up. I have travelled to quite few places and asian men just don't have that physique that a lot of white girls idolize in men such as height, beard, facial features, hairstyle and sometimes tattoos... I wouldn't bother online dating. The sooner you accept this fact, the faster you will move on and get ahead.

I hear you, but my results just haven't shown that. I was the first Asian guy (AFAIK, I never bring it up) for quite a few white women, and I'm sure that after me they will be more open to other brothers since I banged them out real good. I am 6'0 and have Kdrama aesthetics so that helps, but also rail thin and generally have a soft look. You can't generalize about white girls and what they want. More so than men, women are very individual in their tastes. The key is to identify the niche that is into your look and target that. I've been using Tinder for a few years, and despite everyone complaining about results declining as girls get jaded, my results have improved as I know how to use it better. Improving pictures, bio, openers, targeting, superlikes - these are all critical factors. Admittedly it is discouraging when I go through spells of no matches or responses, but I just push through, and grind out results.

Also here in NYC I see lots of AM/WF couples, every year there are more and more. The guys run the whole gamut, from tall/handsome to nerdy, but many of the girls are quite hot. Societal perceptions are changing, so you can't get stuck in a negative mindset.

That said, I think your overall message is that in-person approaches will yield better results overall for Asian men, which I agree with 100%.

Post: #589

I think in a lot of western countries, girls are really surprised when an Asian guy approaches them stone cold. I've done it a few times and it was a huge surprise for them.

Post: #590

Don't fly United

Post: #591

I posted this in the other thread.

23M. 5'11, 170 lbs. Vietnamese, born in Saigon, raised in California since I was 3. Consider myself 8/10 face and body. Lift, good hygiene, good style, good grooming, gaming since I was 18.

I crush it on Tinder in the states and absolute fucking destroy when I tinder out in Asia, especially Vietnam where I can incorporate my knowledge of Vietnamese. Europe was also much more successful than North America but not as nearly as Asia.


I hear a lot of Asian guys complaining about one thing or another. Blaming it on their race and other factors such as height. I've been lucky enough to have been blessed with good height genetics so I can not comment on height.

In my opinion, most Asian guys blame too many things out of their control. Sure, I have it more difficult than a white guy when I'm trying to pull white girls, but I am at a huge advantage pulling an Asian American girl or an Asian girl in Asia.

Play to your strengths, maximize them and minimize your weakness. Lift, dress well, groom well, practice your social skills.

I've been at one end and the other. I've been that 18 year old, 5'10, 135 pound guy who had no social skills.

The amount of attention, respect, and women you get dramatically change when you discipline yourself and learn to improve yourself daily and consistently.

There's nobody to blame but yourself honestly.

Post: #592

About Me

Korean-American. From California. Mid-to-late twenties. 5'11". 170 pounds. Athletic build.
There's loads of info on Jakarta in this forum. But not much about the secondary cities of Indonesia. I spent 1 week each in the following cities. Enjoy.

I posted this datasheet on my own thread in the travel forum but I wanted to contribute here as well




Existing Information

/thread-45718...t=surabaya Even though this is 2 years old the OP provides some great info.

http://www.jakarta100bars.com/2016/06/su...-bars.html This website is a great resource as well. It's been mentioned on the Jakarta thread several times. I've used this website when I couldn't find anything on this forum. There is no date marked, so I don't know how old this information is. But I found no discrepancies when using it.

Accommodation

Midtown Hotel: Great place and I would stay there again. Staying near Tunjungan Plaza Mall is smart as it's in the center of the city and nightlife venues are within reach.

Transportation

Grab, Uber, Go-Jek.

Online game

Tinder

Daygame

Tunjungan Plaza Mall is a great spot because it's one of the biggest malls in the city. Also, it's a good place for Tinder dates

Nightgame

The above mentioned websites gives a great insight of the clubs and bars. I will mention the ones that I've visited.

Foreplay: Student crowd. Got a few numbers. Overall pretty good. Best place to go for Monday (Student Night) and Wednesday (Ladies Night). Typical Indonesian club layout. All tables and no dance floor.

Eclectic Bar: Good place to pre-game. Fairly cheap drinks. Located right next to Foreplay.

Colors Pub: Not the cheapest place for drinks. Nothing special really.

My Experience

I liked Surabaya. It's basically Jakarta's little brother. Not too crowded. Traffic isn't as bad. The nightlife venues are decent. Tinder kept me busy so I didn't have the opportunity to check out every nightclub and bar. Had this one girl I met from Tinder drive me around the city and show me all the sights. I ended up hanging out with her for most of my stay.




Existing Information

/thread-61114...yogyakarta These posts are from this year.

http://www.jakarta100bars.com/2016/04/yo...clubs.html Good resource especially when it comes to nightlife. I don't know how old this information is.

Accommodation

Cordela Kartika Hotel: The bathroom was really tiny. I wouldn't stay there again. Plenty of other comparable hotels at this price point. Jakarta 100 bars recommends to stay near Malioboro street which is why I chose this hotel. But in reality, there's not many bars or clubs on Malioboro. Mainly just restaurants and shops. If nightlife is not your thing, then it's an okay place to stay. Most of the top nightlife venues and one of the best malls (Jogja City Mall) is in Magelang street. I would find a hotel either on that street or near it.

Transportation

Grab, Uber (Motorbike only), Go-Jek.

Online game

Tinder, Indo-Cupid

Daygame

Mall Malioboro, Jogja City Mall

Nightgame

Even though I wasn't a big fan of Jakarta 100 bars accommodation recommendation (staying near Malioboro). They were spot on when it came to the nightlife venues. Pretty much all the places I visited were in line with what they reported. Also, "Jogja" (Short for Yogyakarta) as the locals call it. Has many universities within the city. They call it the "City of Education". Which also means many college students.

Sugar Club: Every Friday this place gets busy because they have an all you can drink vodka shots for 100,000 or 150,000 (I forgot which one it was) Rupiah. The vodka is low shelf and shitty in quality. But it's all you can drink and it gets you drunk. Loads of college girls. This place actually has a small dance floor which is not common.

Boshe: This place gets busy on Saturday. It's a big club and they have a cover charge. But you get a drink voucher when you pay the cover so I guess its okay. Typical Indonesian club layout. All tables and no dance floor.

Taphouse Beer Garden: Cool chill bar. Good place to pre-game. Good place for Tinder dates.

Liquid bar and kitchen: Basically a warehouse turned into a giant bar. Also another good pre-game spot. Great place for dates.

My Experience

Jogja is a small city. Nightlife options are somewhat limited but they have enough to make it work. As always Tinder works well here especially if you're a foreigner. Went to go see Borabudur and Candi Prambanan which I highly recommend. I got my first and only lay from Indo-Cupid here. Takes forever for girls to respond to messages on Indo-Cupid because you can only use it through a computer. It's not mobile app based. I'd forget to check my account and eventually lose interest.




Existing Information

http://www.jakarta100bars.com/2016/03/se...clubs.html Only resource I had since there was nothing on the forum about this city. But it was a good resource. No idea on how old this information is.

Accommodation

Grandhika Pemuda Hotel: Brand new hotel just opened not too long ago. Really nice room for a good price. I would for sure stay here again. Close to the biggest mall in Semarang (Paragon mall). I would recommend finding a hotel near Paragon mall.

Transportation

Grab, Go-Jek

Online game

Tinder

Daygame

Paragon Mall

Nightgame

I didn't get a chance to visit any of the clubs here. But the locals tell me that Babyface and Liquid are the biggest ones. But I managed to check out two of the bars listed on Jakarta 100 bars

Spiegal Bar: European style bar. A little pricey. Good date spot.

The Tavern: Cool restaurant bar on top of a hill that over looks the city. Good pizza. Good date spot.

My Experience

I didn't go out to clubs because I didn't really need to. My first day here I matched a solid 8 with a killer body, good English skills and a chill personality. She hung out with me everyday and drove me around the city. I took her out to the above mentioned bars. Which are very popular with the locals. Semarang is the smallest and calmest of all the cities I visited in Java Island. There's not much to do during the day. But everything is cheap and there are very few foreigners. Even though it sounds like a not so happening place, I actually enjoyed my time here. Maybe because I found a girl who I can chill with on a daily basis. But there is absolutely no traffic and you're a celebrity on Tinder.




Existing Information

/thread-31450...ht=bandung These posts are almost 4 years old and its mixed with information about Davao, Philippines

http://www.jakarta100bars.com/2011/01/be...xpats.html Good resource. The information was updated sometime in 2016.

Accommodation

Hotel California Bandung: For some odd reason Jakarta 100 bars did not have any information on where to stay in Bandung. In their previous reports they always provide information about where to stay within the city. I ended up picking a hotel in the city center. This place was okay but outdated. There are other comparable hotels at this price point. I would recommend choosing a hotel in the city center but I wouldn't stay at this hotel again.

Transportation

Grab, Uber, Go-Jek

Online game

Tinder

Daygame

I didn't do any daygaming in this city because I was with my Semarang girl. She wanted to come with me to Bandung because she's never been. I was fine with that because I enjoy her company and the sex is good. But back on subject. Like the previous cities, any mall is a good bet for daygaming. Cihampelas Walk is a good mall to start with.

Nightgame

I can't comment too much on the nightlife here because I only managed to go out 1 night. But I do know that many Jakarta people come here during long weekends and holidays. The one club I went to had a good amount of Jakarta people.

Southbank Club: This place was nice and fairly big. They have a dress code here so make sure to wear a shirt with a collar and pants. Somewhat expensive but the place gets crowded on weekends.

My Experience

I don't have much to report daygame, nightgame or online game wise because I was with my Semarang girl. If I wasn't with her, there were for sure plenty of potential girls to pick-up.


Conclusion

For anyone is interested in checking out the secondary cities of Indonesia I would say do it. Even though Jakarta has the most amount of girls and the best nightlife options, online game options etc... It still has crazy traffic, certain clubs and venues are just as expensive in the west and the overall concrete jungle maze of this city can be stressful to navigate. When it comes to Tinder. Sometimes the traffic and the logistics set up can make it difficult to meet up. But I'm still able to meet up with girls and bring them back to my place. But it's not as easy and not as stressful as the secondary cities of Java Island. That's just my personal experience of Jakarta, other may feel differently and that's okay. But at the end of the day if I had to choose, I would still choose Jakarta. But exploring the secondary cities is fun to do at least one time.

Post: #593

@Cool runnings -- is it true there are a large portion of muslim girls in Jakarta?

Post: #594

tobehero Wrote:is it true there are a large portion of muslim girls in Jakarta?

Not just Jakarta, the entire country itself. Indonesia is the largest Muslim country in the world. But don't let that deter you, most of the Muslim people here in Java island don't take it that seriously. People eat pork, drink alcohol, have sex before marriage etc... It's not like Saudi Arabia where Islam is taken very seriously. Now in the island of Sumatra, they are the most serious Muslim island among all the islands of Indonesia. The Aceh province even has Sharia law but they are the only province of Indonesia that has that law. But even with that being said, they're still some people who do what ever they want. Jakarta and Bali are probably the two best open minded cities because of tourism and international presence.

Post: #595

(04-10-2017 06:49 PM)Spitative Wrote:  I posted this in the other thread.

23M. 5'11, 170 lbs. Vietnamese, born in Saigon, raised in California since I was 3. Consider myself 8/10 face and body. Lift, good hygiene, good style, good grooming, gaming since I was 18.

I crush it on Tinder in the states and absolute fucking destroy when I tinder out in Asia, especially Vietnam where I can incorporate my knowledge of Vietnamese. Europe was also much more successful than North America but not as nearly as Asia.


I hear a lot of Asian guys complaining about one thing or another. Blaming it on their race and other factors such as height. I've been lucky enough to have been blessed with good height genetics so I can not comment on height.

In my opinion, most Asian guys blame too many things out of their control. Sure, I have it more difficult than a white guy when I'm trying to pull white girls, but I am at a huge advantage pulling an Asian American girl or an Asian girl in Asia.

Play to your strengths, maximize them and minimize your weakness. Lift, dress well, groom well, practice your social skills.

I've been at one end and the other. I've been that 18 year old, 5'10, 135 pound guy who had no social skills.

The amount of attention, respect, and women you get dramatically change when you discipline yourself and learn to improve yourself daily and consistently.

There's nobody to blame but yourself honestly.

I got very similar stats to you and can say my results have been the same. Got a bang the first day I got to Vietnam.

Post: #596

What's going on guys! It's been a minute but I have been having a blast out here in Kraków with some other Forum members. I'll be off to the Baltics soon and I'll report my impression/game activities there for all y'all Asian bros.

Post: #597

This came across my screen today.

Now forget about the video...its lame.

What you should be looking at is the comments below it. There's a long list of ladies commenting how much they love Asian men. I'm not living in the states right now but if I were, I'd be low key chatting a bunch of those girls up.

Someone stateside start picking at that gold mine and let us know what's up

Post: #598

It's the time of the year when NYC comes roaring back to life and everyone is out and about. Over the past few days, I have been seeing a disproportionate number of AM/WF couples that were well matched. There is a clear trend towards this becoming more prevalent each year. Of course, I've also been contributing, by going out with my various plates on my arm (current lineup is all white). What happens here will eventually be adopted elsewhere in the country. Stay strong, keep approaching, keep swiping my brothers.

Post: #599

(04-07-2017 03:27 PM)whenthesunhits Wrote:  I'd say that Chicago is your worst bet. Very mid-western, provincial, fratty. Girls tend to be more overweight. It just doesn't have the kind of vibe that I think an Asian guy would do well in. Beyond gaming though, the city is incredibly beautiful, and the food is amazing. One of the best food cities for sure.

That's new — The experiences I've had with Chicago girls have been pretty receptive, as with those from the Midwest in genera. I've say I'd have gotten the bang were it not for logistics. What sort of vibe are you referring to?

(04-07-2017 03:27 PM)whenthesunhits Wrote:  NYC is my home base and I have done pretty well despite having just discovered RVF and the game community. I have been honing my game on my own for a long time, but it's only in the last few years that things have started to come together. There is something for everyone here. My strike zone tends to be quirky/creative white girls, since I'm an artist. Despite the hate for liberal chicks on this board, I have generally found that liberal white girls are more open to Asian guys, since they are more open-minded in general. They are also what I happen to like. No matter how hot a girl is, if she isn't interesting to converse with, I just don't enjoy the interaction. There are also tons of Asian girls here, I don't ever really seek them out since they all tend to be the same, but they are easy to find and game. I love this city, there is everything here, especially if you are into art/music/raves/theater/etc.

Your NYC posts have been really encouraging. I've been looking at NYC as a future base for some time (have an internship at the UN lined up, otherwise, I want to work in the start up or climate change sectors there).

Like yourself, progressive and fashionista white girls are my bread and butter. NYC seems to be a bit like my hometown on steroids because of the premium with which we cultivate interests in music and the creative arts over here. I can see a tall, well-dressed and jacked (working on the third) dude of any race killing it there once he were to work on his game, status and location independence. It seems to favour the single dude for that reason; a literal revolving door of cuties from everywhere wanting to make it in advertising/NGO's/modelling/design/policy.

Post: #600

Hey guys,

I left Vilnius a couple of days ago and here are my initial impressions.

Overall, I would say Vilnius is good for Asian guys who have their shit together. I got couple of looks here and there from girls which is great. Lithuanian girls were receptive to my approach and gave me decent conversations at the bars as well. No nasty blowouts or whatsoever. You will need tight game in order to get anywhere here though with HB7 and up as the competition for these chicks are tough. Everyone wants them. Lithuanian chicks, at least the top talent ones, to me are better looking than Polish girls. This was based on scrolling through Tinder.

I managed to match with a HB7 (black hair/blue eyes) and she gave me a decent convo on Tinder. I eventually asked for a date but she refused. Oh well. I think my Tinder results could have been a lot better if I have better photos. My Tinder photos and my Instagram account linked to it are mediocre at best right now. Really need to step my game up in this area as one of my Asian buddies living in Krakow who has it together on Tinder is absolutely pulling quality from it.

The bar that seems the most popular among foreigners is one called La Birra and that's where I went every night out. Several things I noticed here.

- Talent is pretty damn decent. You will see a couple of attractive girls sitting by themselves giving out vibes that they are open to the approach.

- Kinda small and tight, so it logistically it makes opening girls a bit easier.

- Fat girls gets no love. hahaha The competition is too stiff for any decent guys to pay them any attention. My last night there there was a Lithuanian chick on the chubby side totally giving me blatant IOIs (i.e. trying to touch my beard, trying to hold my hand, positioning herself close to me) while I just chilled there. However, I wasn't down for that. lolz

- I also had a tall, decent looking Lithuanian HB6 giving me the invitation to talk to her by positioning herself via sitting right next to me while I watched football all alone. So of course I opened. Conversation went great and she was really digging it until I told her that I was a tourist. I saw her lose interest a bit and she eventually got dragged out of the bar by her friends.

Another place that is popular among visitors is Salento club. Here I managed to get a dance and heavy make outs with a tall Lithuanian chick all night. I went for the pull but she was absolutely not having it. And this was like at 7AM in the morning. Lithuanians party hard in the weekends.

Overall, I would recommend Lithuania for Asian guys who can stay here longer. The only gripe I have with this city is volume. Lithuania is a small country and the capital city Vilnius most of the times feels like it is deserted. All the bars and clubs really gets poppin only during the weekend. I also think that if you want to pull top quality, Tinder is a great resource but you better have your shit together on that platform.

I hope this was helpful to you guys. I'm currently in Riga, Latvia. I'm gonna chill through Wednesday as I have been drinking a little too much the past 4-5 days. Body needs some much needed rest. I'll give yall my impression later.