Post: #426

I posted this in another thread but I have had great success by posting ads on CL gigs for private foreign language tutors and corporate models. I have five post I run every week (not sex or nudity related) then once I screen them and meet then I start working on escalating through talking about my background and getting to know hers (the goal is not to get bang them same day). This is better than traditional online dating. While I'm doing my day job my mailbox is filling with potentials from J1 or illegal alien EE girls to J1 or illegal alien Asian girls to random models. My first "dates" consist of a language lesson or some stupid 30 minute photo shoot all of which cost under 50 bucks which is a standard date in my city. I change up the ads every week to mix it up. It's pretty fun actually. Instead of sending out 100 messages on Okstupid only to get replies from 10 idiots I'm not attracted too I have a steady flow of 7+'s that all I have to do is screen through social media then set a time to meet and my close rate is way better than online dating because it's not even actually a date. If you don't have model looks like me this is ideal because you can use your game to close in person.

I forgot the life hack in this, the trick is running Gender neutral ads, don't say you want a female tutor but do set an age range and make it because you want to learn about that age brackets culture. For this as well I like to say I'm going to xyz Country for business in a few months to add a little extra validation. DO NOT ask for a photo of your fucking tutor my dumbass friend did this then came back to me and complained it did not work. Do a phone call and get their name and little about them and you can google that info.

For the Models I have also recently seen making that gender neutral ups the response rate along with emphasizing no nudity ect... I like this one a lot because you can request photos in the response reducing your vetting and screening time. (Emphasize non nude full body photo) I sometimes like to add anything nude will automatically be rejected for additional validation. Sometimes I'll highlight looking for BOTH male and female models in the title and also use the word corporate although I have other techniques I will not divulge.

The point of all of this is due to the fact CL is known for creepers and crazies ads like these disarm those fears and it's then up to you too use your game to escalate. Also don't escalate in the first meeting allow sometime to pass then reach out and set a date. It's really that easy. If you doubt it go try it yourself.

A side freebie finding some local graphic designer or artist type, these professions attract some decent looking women, have them design some stupid logo or draw something. Again you keep under 50 bucks and treat it like a first date, plenty out there looking for work. One time I made money selling a logo and banged the graphic designer after.

Post: #427

I found Craigslist to be great in the strictly platonic section. I just place an ad saying

looking for a cool girl to hang out/grab a drink with. NOT looking for hookups whatsoever. Reply with a pic and I will send mine right away (saves time screening usually).

I usually only run the ads on Thursday-sun because mon-wed people don't put out for some reason (I guess they're just bored at work and want to grab a drink and go home). Also if you talk to someone on Monday for the weekend you have to keep the conversation going all week and one of us usually gets bored by then.

I post them in the strictly platonic and the romance or whatever it's called section. I try to make them early in the morning and then another around 3pm if I haven't found anything yet. Thursday I usually set up for fri after work and Friday for Saturday. Saturday morning is usually good for Sat night. The strictly platonic section also seems to attract a lot of women in unhappy marriages too which can lead to a cheap night of just drinks and Netflix....

I will usually get a ton of responses on thu and fri--like 40 each. 35 will be ugly, worst part of CL. You will actually get the same 35 replying to your ad every week from here on out as well. But usually you get 1 or 2 cute (ill say cute because the hottest ones don't usually come from CL sadly) "stragglers." These are girls whose friends flaked on them for the night, or they don't feel like going to the club, etc. Also people visiting relatives or whatnot and don't know anyone in town and are just plain bored.

I have a cool setup as I know the managers of a few bars, restaurants and a comedy club in town, so I usually get my stuff free or cheap, which comes in handy if you do this enough.

The best advice I can give is 95 % of the people on there placing ads are weirdos or posting ads about sex, so just don't be one of those--you WILL stand out. I have zero game, and the women almost always put out if you just make the night fun. Women want to get laid, they just don't need it shoved in their face, and your "good guy" ad will make them much more comfortable. Trust me I've tried both ways, and the "not looking to hookup" almost always gets you to hook up.

Post: #428

Interesting technique. I'll try a few and see how it goes. Do you use a pic in the ad?

Post: #429

(07-10-2015 02:49 AM)Druber Wrote:  Interesting technique. I'll try a few and see how it goes. Do you use a pic in the ad?

Nope I'm too afraid someone I know might see it.

I just remembered another ad I make sometimes that seems to work.

I say I'm new to the area so I don't know a lot of people yet, just looking to get out of the house. First drink is on me! Not looking for any hookups, just need to get out before I go insane!


(I've lived here for 20+ years)

if they do call me out on that part since I seem to know my way around, I say I'm actually from the town about 30 miles away and all my friends are there and too lazy to ever come out here so it's all pretty new to me still.

Post: #430

Is the level of resistance to game quite high? How long do you wait until you show sexual interest?

Post: #431

People were having problems with getting girls to respond to them to actually meet for sex.

There's only 1 good way, close. She evaluated your pics postively and responded to your request for no strings sex. Someone who does this is more determined and serious than the typical okcupid queen basking in male attention. You should assume shes serious and push for the meet. Every second counts, because at any moment you can get cock blocked because she gets bored, scared away, or start talking to another guy, etc... She has basically zero investment in you at this point so the deck is stacked in favor of not fucking if you take too long. Sometimes you'll do everything right and she will flake at the last moment anyway because of who cares why.

It might all go well on text and you agree to talk again tomorrow. Unfortunately by then shes no longer in the horny emotional state when she was whoring on CL so your job gets harder.

Send the pics, get her on text message (or whatever main contact tool is), setup logistics, and close the meet. I might do some jokes, getting to know you, and flirting on text but I try to keep it minimal unless shes really engaged in talking to me.

Post: #432

(06-09-2015 06:59 PM)mpr Wrote:  I used to get a few quality girls that wanted to fuck on the downlow using this method. Lately I haven't been getting any leads worth pursuing off CL. A few fat black chicks, and a few middle age 4's or 5's with entitlement issues. My theory is that most of the decent talent has moved elsewhere after a couple of well publicized craigslist robberies and killings in my state that used the dating section as bait.

Same here. Used to get some bangs of very cute, normal girls from 2005-2013 (slower after 2009), but now it's completely dead. The market must still exist, but where has it gone? Maybe Tinder, but I think that might be too mainstream for this type of girl.

Post: #433

Not sure if anyone else has been in this situation...

I threw a post on CL a few days ago, and got a lot of spam until last night.

An email asking me to hookup, but the message line in the email was the post title, not the phrase I ask for. For kicks I open it, and her bf wants to watch me smash her.

Figuring it's more spam, I respond that she needs a spanking because my phrase is not in the message title, and to send pics.

I check my email this morning, have almost a dozen messages asking if I liked the pics (none seem to have been sent), that she likes hard and rough sex, etc.
So I threw a message back that I haven't seen pics yet. Send them again, and we'll go from there.

Not gonna lose sleep over it, CL game is designed to be passive (similar to putting a business card on a bulletin board).

That said, I'm curious if you guys have any tips to get this lead back.

Post: #434

^ Might be spam. Its odd, if you tell them to put something in the subject line, it should be there. Otherwise its probably a spam bot.

Post: #435

Been back on CL for a couple of weeks and got three on the line now I'm trying to set up a meeting with. Maybe one will come through. I'm running ads with different angles to appeal to different niches; I've found this attracts more responses than just running the same type of ad with the same text over and over.

Post: #436

Re-wrote Vince's falang profile a little bit. And managed to get this response from a blonde who's DTF. There's gonna be a lil logicistical problem cuz she lives all the way in Orange County and I stay in Hollywood. But we'll see what happens.

Post: #437

I got my first Craigslist notch a few weeks ago in Bangkok. Half Thai, Half American. Since she was born and raised in the US, I count her as my US Flag. Might post a longer report if I feel like it.

Post: #438

Where are you guys still using Craigs? Not hating but in the Bay Area this shit is all bots and nasty bitches(not in a good way)

Post: #439

It required phone verification to post an ad. Should I use my cellphone no? Any way to bypass this?

Post: #440

(11-04-2015 01:15 PM)duedue Wrote:  It required phone verification to post an ad. Should I use my cellphone no? Any way to bypass this?

you are not required to show the cellphone number in the ad. also you could ge t a burner phone, or a burner app, or a google voice, or a skype, or a personal assistant in india or a...

Post: #441

Has anyone tried this in the UK? I did not realise that CL existed here.

The pictures of women seem too good to be true though.

Post: #442

I have a remarkable story to tell about the type of woman you can meet on CL ,but will wait till it plays out to its conclusion, whatever that may be.

Post: #443

Don't keep us in too much suspense. Knowing you, it must be somethin'.

Post: #444

(12-13-2015 06:00 AM)N°6 Wrote:  Has anyone tried this in the UK? I did not realise that CL existed here.

The pictures of women seem too good to be true though.

Have tried it in my area (UK), but really nothing good came from it. Messages from spammers, homos, and idiots.

Post: #445

need to work on my CL game

Post: #446

Another response to my platonic ad. This time she is a 20 yo. I had mentioned good conversation in the ad and she wrote that she doesn't have many convos with her sex partners and she misses that. Interesting how fast strictly platonic turned into sexy. I didn't ask any questions. Told her good convo is good for intimacy especially when done while hiking. She said "maybe we should go for a hike sometime and talk". Tomorrow I'm going to go for a hike and am going to tell her she can come. Although she may be at work.

Does it make sense to try to push something like this on the first day (I mean today) when she is warm? I've has similar experiences on CL when a girl showed a lot of enthusiasm but when I suggested meeting the same day she stopped answering. (So seemed like a shit test.)

Oh, and I've not seen a picture of her yet.

Post: #447

(02-13-2016 03:00 PM)duedue Wrote:  Oh, and I've not seen a picture of her yet.

she's looking for some good conversation!

   

Post: #448

(12-13-2015 10:24 PM)MrXY Wrote:  I have a remarkable story to tell about the type of woman you can meet on CL ,but will wait till it plays out to its conclusion, whatever that may be.

story time...
is it in another thread?

Post: #449

After being frustrated with Tinder and especially OK Cupid, I put up a bdsm ad on Craigslist 3 nights ago. To my surprise, I woke up with 15 responses. 8 were scams, 3 were gays but the other 4 were quality cute, thin girls who want to play.

This afternoon I got new message from a woman who said she wanted to meetup tonight. She said she's more of dom but liked that I'm not Vanilla. We met at a bar, she was in her 30s but a solid 7.5 and Cuban. We talked for a bit then she suggested we come to my place. She was right into the sex when we got here. She was rushed and nervous because she was cheating on her boyfriend. Also she was controlling which doesn't work great for me so the sex was pretty poor. But nonetheless I got my Cuban flag and she is interested in a threesome with me and my girlfriend. Her body was amazing.

Post: #450

I don't get why a lot of you are meeting up with these girls in person first before fucking her? I thought the whole point of Craigslist was to go directly to her place or your place. Adding an in person meetup complicates that.