Post: #5201

(04-14-2015 09:19 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  I’m not sure if turning down girls who are interested in me, that I’m not interested in, is doing me a favor in the long term.

You are NOT interested in them. So, why concern yourself with them?

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I sense that you are unsatisfied sexually. You want/need more sex. If this is the case, you may need to lower your standards a little for the sake of practice, experience, and getting sex.

In the long run, the practice and experience will help you.

Just understand that there is a "point of diminishing returns" when it comes to banging 6s.

If you want 8s, you gotta go after 8s.

I think you should do BOTH -- Bang the best looking girls that you can, 6s & 7s -- But, also go after hotter girls, 8s & 9s, for the sake of practice.

Basically, practice on the 6s while you prepare yourself for the 8s.

(04-14-2015 09:19 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  Gio and Travesty also recommend that

We made this recommendation ONLY AFTER we reached the "point of diminishing returns" in regards to banging 6s and 6.5s.

I banged plenty of 6s when I was still in the beginning stages. The experience and practice helped me, but, only to a certain extent.

Once you master 6s and 7s, you must seek greater challenges.

(04-14-2015 09:19 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  I’m way behind most guys in terms of quantity

Comparing yourself to other guys is stupid.

"Quantity" is overrated.

Compare the "Old You" to the "New You". Are you getting better every week? Are you challenging yourself every week? That is all that matters.

*****

This is a great post!

(04-14-2015 11:47 AM)Mister X Wrote:  When you're banging girls you're not attracted to, subconsciously you're saying "this is what my market value fetches. This is what I can get."

Exactly!

That is beautiful!

*****

I don't get girls because I have "game". I get girls because I have COURAGE!

I get rejected many times everyday, I don't care, I keep going. That is why I get girls!

Post: #5202

(This is kind of a hard post to write. Full disclosure and brutal honesty. It will be a bit all over the place.)

So guys, what do you do if you suspect that you've acquired a bit of a negative reputation or that there are rumours about you? Bear with me.

The university I'm attending is pretty small. Maybe about 7500 - 8500 full year students.

Classes in my program are pretty small as well, about 30 students per term. I believe that word's around in my class, at least, that I'm bringing girls home pretty much every weekend. Classmates have seen me walk home with girls from campus (obviously not fucking everyone but they don't know that). In fact, there's been a subtle but positive change in the way my female classmates treat me. So far ok.

But, so far this year I've had 2 girls from my program's lower classes over at my place. And I haven't been able to close the deal in a satisfactory fashion, due to either performance anxiety or whisky dick. Starting to believe it's my dick saying "Don't shit where you eat bro!" Maybe I should listen to it. Other girls it's been working fine.

Girls talk, so I'm pretty anxious that this has or will spread among many fly girls in my program overall. Yeah, I'm pretty sure you all felt that sinking feeling in your stomach.

Case in point: Ran into the girl I pulled from the club this weekend, twice today (she's from a lower class).

First encounter I'm engaged in conversation with friends and she sits down 2 tables from us with a few classmates. Haven't aknowledged each other.

I kid you not, my friends launch into a topic that involves scenarios where guys have trouble getting a boner. Laughs are had. Some of the girls on the table next to us are in her class and they just sit there mostly silent. Don't know if they're really listening, but inside all I'm thinking is "They know. She's told everyone".

Second encounter I run into her in the school restaurant. I just say hi and exchange a few quick words before I join my friends. Surprise myself with how confident I sound and act since I'd rather jump into a pool of cannibal SIFs than deal with this. She's actually the one stumbling on her words.

TL;DR: I get pretty paranoid about things like this and I feel like everyone knows about my limp adventures. I've never been the guy figuring in rumours or having a reputation before, so this is unfamiliar ground.

__________

Just needed to get this off my chest. I've had so many successes in 2015 already. And a great deal of lows as well, as expected.

I'm grateful for the thrilling new experiences I've had, and my confidence is at the highest it's ever been due to them. Obviously not 100 % of the time. But it's either absorbing these low points, or crawling back inside that safe little shell and admit defeat. And now that I've seen life outside the shell, I'll never get back in.

As a corollary to the above... I've realized I'm probably not as good at sex as my ego wants to believe. How many girls did you guys lay before you had the competency to consistently give randoms a good fucking? My notch count is 8 right now. These last few months are the first time in my life that I'm having SNLs.

Post: #5203

Quote:We made this recommendation ONLY AFTER we reached the "point of diminishing returns" in regards to banging 6s and 6.5s.

Instructions not clear enough. Got my dick stuck in a ceiling fan. Blame RVF for this

(04-14-2015 01:41 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I sense that you are unsatisfied sexually. You want/need more sex. If this is the case, you may need to lower your standards a little for the sake of practice, experience, and getting sex.

In the long run, the practice and experience will help you.

Just understand that there is a "point of diminishing returns" when it comes to banging 6s.

Thanks Gio, I've been in a dry spell for a while and I think it's getting to me. I need to get my shit together.

Quote:Comparing yourself to other guys is stupid.

"Quantity" is overrated.

Compare the "Old You" to the "New You". Are you getting better every week? Are you challenging yourself every week? That is all that matters.

I would be the first one to say not to compare yourself to others. It's just that with my lagging progress as of late, I've been getting a lot of self doubt, and I'm beginning to think if people are getting laid and I'm not, I must be doing something wrong. I need to stop this mindset though.

Things are getting better as other aspects of my life are coming together. In a few weeks I'll take a few days off, get some break from game and restart the cycle.

Post: #5204

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Post: #5205

(04-14-2015 03:08 PM)DarianFrey Wrote:  (This is kind of a hard post to write. Full disclosure and brutal honesty. It will be a bit all over the place.)

So guys, what do you do if you suspect that you've acquired a bit of a negative reputation or that there are rumours about you? Bear with me.

The university I'm attending is pretty small. Maybe about 7500 - 8500 full year students.

Classes in my program are pretty small as well, about 30 students per term. I believe that word's around in my class, at least, that I'm bringing girls home pretty much every weekend. Classmates have seen me walk home with girls from campus (obviously not fucking everyone but they don't know that). In fact, there's been a subtle but positive change in the way my female classmates treat me. So far ok.

But, so far this year I've had 2 girls from my program's lower classes over at my place. And I haven't been able to close the deal in a satisfactory fashion, due to either performance anxiety or whisky dick. Starting to believe it's my dick saying "Don't shit where you eat bro!" Maybe I should listen to it. Other girls it's been working fine.

Girls talk, so I'm pretty anxious that this has or will spread among many fly girls in my program overall. Yeah, I'm pretty sure you all felt that sinking feeling in your stomach.

Case in point: Ran into the girl I pulled from the club this weekend, twice today (she's from a lower class).

First encounter I'm engaged in conversation with friends and she sits down 2 tables from us with a few classmates. Haven't aknowledged each other.

I kid you not, my friends launch into a topic that involves scenarios where guys have trouble getting a boner. Laughs are had. Some of the girls on the table next to us are in her class and they just sit there mostly silent. Don't know if they're really listening, but inside all I'm thinking is "They know. She's told everyone".

Second encounter I run into her in the school restaurant. I just say hi and exchange a few quick words before I join my friends. Surprise myself with how confident I sound and act since I'd rather jump into a pool of cannibal SIFs than deal with this. She's actually the one stumbling on her words.

TL;DR: I get pretty paranoid about things like this and I feel like everyone knows about my limp adventures. I've never been the guy figuring in rumours or having a reputation before, so this is unfamiliar ground.

__________

Just needed to get this off my chest. I've had so many successes in 2015 already. And a great deal of lows as well, as expected.

I'm grateful for the thrilling new experiences I've had, and my confidence is at the highest it's ever been due to them. Obviously not 100 % of the time. But it's either absorbing these low points, or crawling back inside that safe little shell and admit defeat. And now that I've seen life outside the shell, I'll never get back in.

As a corollary to the above... I've realized I'm probably not as good at sex as my ego wants to believe. How many girls did you guys lay before you had the competency to consistently give randoms a good fucking? My notch count is 8 right now. These last few months are the first time in my life that I'm having SNLs.

I had a similar bout of anxiety back in my uni days. My gf dumped me so the next uni pub night I got really trashed and rebounded with a girl who'd been keen on me while I was with my gf but who I wasn't really interested in. Took her back to my dorm room but then couldn't keep it up even though I tried several times. It was the first time it had ever happened to me and for some reason I didn't blame the alcohol or the fact I wasn't into her but instead wearing condoms.
It put me through a self enforced dry spell as I freaked out about not being able to keep it up due to using a condom but not wanting to bang without one. Even once I got back into banging for a long time afterward I'd get nervous as I put a condom on right before banging a girl, worrying that it would somehow happen again.

My advice is lay off the alcohol the next few times you go out so when you get a girl back to your place you're pretty much sober. Once you've got a couple of normal bangs back under your belt your confidence will be back and you'll realise that everything downstairs works fine and it was just whiskey dick which happens to everyone occasionally.

It's happened to me a couple of times since my uni days and it doesn't bother me any more and I don't get embarrassed by it. Just play it cool, sleep it off and bang in the morning. You're not the first guy it's happened to and you won't be the last.

Post: #5206

Here's one for the masses.

Met this chick off OkCupid about two months. We traded some good texts for a while, arranged to meet up for a coffee date, walked around a bit after and I never found a good chance to go for the kiss. Her body language wasn't great, but it was what it was.

We planned to meet up again at a later date and after some flaking on her part, she offered a day and I accepted. We did some kind of dinner thing. I began getting fed up with it since I just really want to fuck her and get done with it.

I arranged one more date, she flaked (getting out of the gym late or something), so I put the ball in her court by saying if she wanted to hang out, she needs to come up with a time to do so.

Well, she got back to me and we're supposed to meet tonight. I offered a beer tasting and she countered with 'What about just dinner?'

Now I'm getting fed up here and want to call her out on the bullshit dinner dates we've been on and such. Would it be worth it or just go with the flow? Part of me is thinking about pulling the dinner at my place card and going from there.

Post: #5207

(04-15-2015 12:07 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  Here's one for the masses.

Met this chick off OkCupid about two months. We traded some good texts for a while, arranged to meet up for a coffee date, walked around a bit after and I never found a good chance to go for the kiss. Her body language wasn't great, but it was what it was.

We planned to meet up again at a later date and after some flaking on her part, she offered a day and I accepted. We did some kind of dinner thing. I began getting fed up with it since I just really want to fuck her and get done with it.

I arranged one more date, she flaked (getting out of the gym late or something), so I put the ball in her court by saying if she wanted to hang out, she needs to come up with a time to do so.

Well, she got back to me and we're supposed to meet tonight. I offered a beer tasting and she countered with 'What about just dinner?'

Now I'm getting fed up here and want to call her out on the bullshit dinner dates we've been on and such. Would it be worth it or just go with the flow? Part of me is thinking about pulling the dinner at my place card and going from there.

So this is the third date correct? It sounds like you've fallen into the provider/meal ticket trap with this one and it's very likely to be a dead end. If it were me I would counter back with saying "It's been a busy week already and I'm just in the mood to chill here at home with a drink and some takeout, so how about you stop by?" If she gives you anything other than a yes I would just reply with, "maybe another time" and mentally next her at that point. If she reaches out to you in the future start over with a drink date close to your place but definitely no more dinner dates until you've already banged her. For me a woman needs to earn a dinner date. If I'm regularly banging her and enjoy her company I have no issues with those but never pre bang.

Post: #5208

At this point, she is setting the frame for how the dates go...you've now met for coffee (no escalation) and then dinner (ditto)

Now she is requesting another dinner date,your problem is that you want to fuck her but sitting across the table from her at Olive Garden won't get you closer to your end goal

Flip the script on some impromptu shit, offer the in-home dinner routine or meet at a nearby watering hole for drinks and attempt the bounce back to your pad

Hate to say it, but you went wrong in not providing proper sexual intent from the outset now she has you on a spin cycle of flakes and cheddar bay biscuits

Grab the reins now, better to lose (or gain) the bang through escalating then to get hit with the tab and a friend zone text later

Post: #5209

(04-15-2015 12:18 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(04-15-2015 12:07 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  Here's one for the masses.

Met this chick off OkCupid about two months. We traded some good texts for a while, arranged to meet up for a coffee date, walked around a bit after and I never found a good chance to go for the kiss. Her body language wasn't great, but it was what it was.

We planned to meet up again at a later date and after some flaking on her part, she offered a day and I accepted. We did some kind of dinner thing. I began getting fed up with it since I just really want to fuck her and get done with it.

I arranged one more date, she flaked (getting out of the gym late or something), so I put the ball in her court by saying if she wanted to hang out, she needs to come up with a time to do so.

Well, she got back to me and we're supposed to meet tonight. I offered a beer tasting and she countered with 'What about just dinner?'

Now I'm getting fed up here and want to call her out on the bullshit dinner dates we've been on and such. Would it be worth it or just go with the flow? Part of me is thinking about pulling the dinner at my place card and going from there.

So this is the third date correct? It sounds like you've fallen into the provider/meal ticket trap with this one and it's very likely to be a dead end. If it were me I would counter back with saying "It's been a busy week already and I'm just in the mood to chill here at home with a drink and some takeout, so how about you stop by?" If she gives you anything other than a yes I would just reply with, "maybe another time" and mentally next her at that point. If she reaches out to you in the future start over with a drink date close to your place but definitely no more dinner dates until you've already banged her. For me a woman needs to earn a dinner date. If I'm regularly banging her and enjoy her company I have no issues with those but never pre bang.

Good analysis.

I never do dinner dates with women until after I bang them and have pushed to have her over for beers or drinks after that first date but she never had it. I went on that dinner date with her full knowing that I never do those and I didn't pay for her at all. That's a good idea on the text.

Post: #5210

(04-15-2015 12:22 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  At this point, she is setting the frame for how the dates go...you've now met for coffee (no escalation) and then dinner (ditto)

Now she is requesting another dinner date,your problem is that you want to fuck her but sitting across the table from her at Olive Garden won't get you closer to your end goal

Flip the script on some impromptu shit, offer the in-home dinner routine or meet at a nearby watering hole for drinks and attempt the bounce back to your pad

Hate to say it, but you went wrong in not providing proper sexual intent from the outset now she has you on a spin cycle of flakes and cheddar bay biscuits

Grab the reins now, better to lose (or gain) the bang through escalating then to get hit with the tab and a friend zone text later

Coffee was my idea, dinner was hers (of course it was). Like I said, I didn't pay for her beer, but "splurged" on her coffee because I was paying for my tea anyway.

I knew I went wrong in not escalating, but I couldn't find the right moment to do so. I should have just found that moment and went for it.

Post: #5211

UPDATE

Sent her a text that said, "Not really feeling dinner out. Grab a bottle of your favorite wine and come over to my place. We'll make something together."

To which she replied, "I'm kinda weird about the home dates/hang outs. What if I meet you at like (bar) for a beer after work?"

There is probably zero chance I can pull her from that bar to my place since we live on opposite sides of town.

Part of me wants to say drop napalm and be like, "So you prefer to fuck in your car?" Or some stuff like that.

Post: #5212

(04-15-2015 12:52 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  UPDATE

Sent her a text that said, "Not really feeling dinner out. Grab a bottle of your favorite wine and come over to my place. We'll make something together."

To which she replied, "I'm kinda weird about the home dates/hang outs. What if I meet you at like (bar) for a beer after work?"

There is probably zero chance I can pull her from that bar to my place since we live on opposite sides of town.

Part of me wants to say drop napalm and be like, "So you prefer to fuck in your car?" Or some stuff like that.

She doesn't want to be fucked lol. She knows the deal. The good thing is that maybe you could pull to her place after a few drinks. Maybe third date is the charm. Counter offer with a better bar closer to you and see if that works even.

Post: #5213

(04-15-2015 01:08 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  

(04-15-2015 12:52 PM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  UPDATE

Sent her a text that said, "Not really feeling dinner out. Grab a bottle of your favorite wine and come over to my place. We'll make something together."

To which she replied, "I'm kinda weird about the home dates/hang outs. What if I meet you at like (bar) for a beer after work?"

There is probably zero chance I can pull her from that bar to my place since we live on opposite sides of town.

Part of me wants to say drop napalm and be like, "So you prefer to fuck in your car?" Or some stuff like that.

She doesn't want to be fucked lol. She knows the deal. The good thing is that maybe you could pull to her place after a few drinks. Maybe third date is the charm. Counter offer with a better bar closer to you and see if that works even.

I think it's pretty much a flip of a coin at this stage but it's leaning towards her not being into you. You have to make that decision if it's worth paying for two beers to get full closure on her. And yes, I would ONLY consider meeting her at a place that's extremely close to where you live.

Post: #5214

And this is why I don't do coffee or restaurant dinner dates with a girl I haven't banged.

She can meet me for a drink or fuck off.

Post: #5215

(04-15-2015 02:28 PM)MrXY Wrote:  And this is why I don't do coffee or restaurant dinner dates with a girl I haven't banged.

She can meet me for a drink or fuck off.

I've actually had pretty good luck with the coffee dates. A number of them I've been able to bounce the woman to either a bar for a drink and then to my place for the bang or directly home from the coffee shop (this is especially true with the ones in their early 20's). I've found that a coffee date setup very close to my place can serve as a "zero date bang light". It eliminates the common fear of going over to some random guy's house sight unseen and it lets me screen for SIF's and crazies.

On the other hand they're also a good way to quickly and cheaply get the first date out of the way for those women who have the huge mental block of doing anything because "OMG it's the first date!!" But I'm 100% with you on no dinner dates pre-bang. Occasionally I'll do a happy hour and we'll split a small plate but that's as far as I'll go and it's on a strict case by case basis.

Post: #5216

I made an approach the other day on a 7.5 21yo outside the grocery store. She gave me a surprised stare in the checkout lines and I got to her outside. The interaction went well, I played with her necklace and flirted.

I was actually shocked at how well it went so easily. Seemed like a complete Yes Girl. Texted her late last night waiting for a response. For some reason in my gut I know when an interaction is going really well with a girl and you feel the chemistry point-blank you really can't show excitement at all. I think I did even though on reflection I played it fairly cool.

Approaches where I get compliance and easy bangs I really come off as not caring and not really even being into the girl at all, in fact acting on the borderline that she is a waste of my time in my body language and voice works even better. I really dislike that about women. Showing any hint of excitement when you finally make a great connection after approaching dozens of girls is punished.

Post: #5217

Had some interesting things happen the last few days:

Main HB

Saw my main for the first time with glasses, her hair up, and barely any make up.

She was still cute and a bit nerdy looking, she was super insecure and shy about the whole thing. I was teasing her about being basic, all she needed were sweatpants and some Uggs.

She knows to be presentable at all times, reason she wasn't is we got deep tissue massages.

I notice I'm being a bit of a dork around, because she realizes I don't give a fuck. (It's never bad thing to be natural)

The hard 8 bodied black girl plate:

We had some pretty good texts back and forth and it lead up to her wanting to see me this week, then this happened:

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Long story short I called her on it, saying we discussed this.

She knows I work alot, she knows I'm only free nights, she knows I work 7 days a week, and she knows that I've got an extremely busy schedule.

She knows I don't want relationship since it wouldn't be fair to her and I don't have time to manage on.

I told her I felt insulted, basically framed it on her, and her problems, how I haven't changed anything.

She talked about how we never do anything or I never offer her too. I reply in kind by saying she doesn't like sports and my work schedule.

I called her on not being blunt and honest and some other basic shit.

I knew this was coming, so I was prepared to let go at any minute by only putting in basic effort, it gave me an effective out, and leaves the door open for her if she wants to fuck again.

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It never was my problem, she caught feelings, now you gotta next her. If she comes back to bang, it's on her from now on.


The blondie with the booty:

Last week she sent me this text and ended up surprising me with a 12 pack of beer.

I was talking to her about going to a playoffs game and asked if she had hookups on her company's suite (she did for regular season games).

She looked into it and said it was a possibility, then said don't worry about it.

By this time I already bought tickets for me and a new girls I'm meeting up with, she suggested we go. I bought the tickets because I'm going to the game anyways, and if she does flake (10% chance) it's easy for me to bring another girl or a bro.

She then tells me she wants to buy me playoff tickets, I decline saying I'm going with buddys for a guys night out then she wrote this.

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Can't complain


Some Observations:

A former marine buddy of mine:

He messaged me out of the blue asking if I did hacking or know any hackers I asked why:

He wanted to hack his ex's Instagram and outright delete it.



Apparently he's so strung out on this girl he hired a hacker online whose going try and put a keylogger on her phone and HE'S PAYING FOR IT.

He told me the chick he dated turned into an escort behind his back and did some super shady shit and lied about things.

I tried talking him out of it saying his energy, time, and money is spent better elsewhere.

He claims, "nah, she crossed the line, this is fucking war"

Are men becoming bitter as women nowadays ? Jesus fucking christ.

The Hurt 8 That I Didn't Feel Bad For:

This cute 8 with a decent body and cute face, she hops on the 45 Degree Leg Press.

I was doing assisted trap shrugs at the gym when I felt something fall behind me (had my headphones in)

I turn around and the the plate rack was moved a little with plates on the ground I look up and see the 8 holding her face and crying.

At first I thought it was the girls the dropped a plate on her on the next machine over.

Then a guy doing squats to the left of me walked up and said "I don't know if it was me, I grabbed a plate and walked away"

The 8 "well it fucking was you or it wasn't !!" in the bitchiest voice with ugliest face ever.

She kept repeating it over and over - the guy kept apologizing profusely and she just became a bigger and bigger bitch about it.

The 2 other ladies grab the gym employees and grab her ice, she's got pretty good sized knot on her forehead.

Everyone is stopping and trying to comfort the girl (especially the dudes in the leg room).

.....I just go back to my shrugs and shake my head.

Another guy to the right of me saw me do this and gave me the "yeah I know, I'm laughing on the inside also" look.

It was accident, yeah I'd be pissed but I wouldn't treat people like shit for it, it's amazing how far a girl can drop in your book when she opens her mouth (and it's not for your dick).

Another beta:

An old best friend posted this on FB

"What do I do to deserve this stuff? Why am I never good enough?"

"I just don't understand. If I'm not doing something then talk about it don't just forget it."


I don't get these guys, or people in general who complain about their woes online I had to water down my advice to him. Alot of guys DON'T want to hear the ugly truth about dating and women.

I respond

Quote: "Dude stop it right there. Don't feel sorry for yourself and wallow in sorrow man. I said you dodged a bullet, you probably did. She isn't the "one" or some unicorn bro.

This gives you more experience on what to look out for in a woman, what girls to filter out. Sometimes you've gotta grab your balls and say fuck this shit, I'm better than that and you don't deserve me.

You fight the unforgiving world everyday, the last thing you need is a woman who fights you also, you need a woman who fights by your side.

Most women aren't going to tell you you're doing something wrong or right, they're following your lead and your moves. They expect to be the man in the relationship.

Get your mind away from this toxic situation, lift, go out and do shit, travel, focus on work. A woman is only secondary to yourself dude, focus on your inner game and confidence first. Take care of yourself mentally and physically, the rest follows.

And ALWAYS positive vibes !"

I always reach out to these guys, because I know if i was then back then, I'd want a lifeline thrown out at me and some encouragement.

You can only do so much though.

Post: #5218

Update

I'm meeting her for drinks in an hour at a bar up the street from me.

Post: #5219

Good call

Most girls won't set it out for you, they need you to lead

A little assertiveness and frame goes a long way Blaze

Post: #5220

I feel like I've leveled-up the past week or so.

Here are texts that I received from various girls yesterday.

I attribute this to the fact that I have upped my aggressiveness in bed. I've realized that girls really enjoy being slapped, throat fucked, choked, and physically thrown around and held down in bed.

All four of these girls have had squirting orgasms while riding my cock, and they all want to come back for more!

Fucking a girl properly can really pay dividends!

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Post: #5221

(04-15-2015 04:09 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  Fucking a girl properly can really pay dividends!

The best and funnest ROI to ever have.

Like what's been said before, "Fuck a girl right, and she'll be putty in your hand"

Good shit man !

Post: #5222

(04-15-2015 03:31 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Good call

Most girls won't set it out for you, they need you to lead

A little assertiveness and frame goes a long way Blaze

Always.

It's fuck for walk for her tonight.

Post: #5223

(04-15-2015 04:09 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  Fucking a girl properly can really pay dividends!

Yes. Similar here. In the last few months I've started a little bondage, more aggressiveness, more not giving a fuck in bed (between aggressive to funny)...

Chics love that shit.

My main couple nights ago: "You made me squirt twice"

I think other chics sense it somehow in my presence, because I've been doing well.

I just have to learn to have more of that aggressiveness on the first bang. I had a HB 8 I banged a couple times a few weeks ago. Haven't since. I'm not too concerned, I wouldn't date her, and I haven't lost any hand between us, but I wonder if I'd fucked her real good, if she'd have been back for more by now.

Post: #5224

A funny thing happened to me last night.
I was supposed to have a 2nd date with a girl but on Monday I rescheduled to Tuesday (she ended up flaking on me) as I had forgotten I was going to a comedy gig with friends on Wednesday night. For some reason though instead of telling her the truth I told her I had to travel with work.
Anyway, I'm waiting for my train to leave, leaning against the carriage wall opposite the door, when she walks into the same train! She spots me straight away of course and comes over. Thankfully I had actually forgotten I had rescheduled and why so I immediately gave her shit for flaking on me the previous night. We have a bit of back and forth and then she asks me what happened to my work trip. I told her it had been cancelled last minute and then moved the conversation on. I was only going one stop so we had a 5 minute conversation and I gave her a kiss on the cheek at the end as I left.
I'm pretty happy with how I played the whole thing as I didn't get flustered or act guilty or anything like that. Hopefully it demonstrated a "don't give a fuck" attitude or instilled some dread. Or it could still be my death knell with this girl but I'll have to wait and see. I'm going to hit her up tomorrow to arrange another meet up.

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Well, I forgot how bad of a conversationalist she is (never asks questions, etc).

Writing her off for good, but not before I throw a Hail Mary of sorts (text the 'wrong person' some lurid details about bringing over some ties and a riding crop).