Post: #5151

(04-07-2015 11:49 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  It's funny how attractive brunettes become when your LTR is blonde.

It's also funny how an LTR will absolutely confirm almost every red pill teaching on the true nature of women in the most apparent way.

It is so damn odd you just posted that, because during an encounter with my ex LTR just 3 hours ago (a blond), everything I learned being with her I've landed on a final conclusion.

That is: I've been learning game going on almost 5 years, and apparently I've internalized it where it resides now in my subconscious. I stumbled upon a phone with text messages that verified every single suspicion I had about her, her friends, and her family. The layers upon layers of orchestration I witnessed.

Holy shit was it an eye opener. I'll never cease to follow my gut instincts going forward. And yea, I think brunettes are my thing.

Post: #5152

Do many of you have to work a lot to game girls in general ? Or is it more like playing the number game and taking the prettiest of yes girls ?

I personally find that bangs/good dates are either very easy or impossible to get. Either the girl likes you, drop bait to hangout, show up on time and let you escalate/take her home. Or she doesnt text, take forever to text back, do only 20% of the talking, and flake like crazy. Its either one extreme or the other.

I tried working on a very attractive girl once and after 2 weeks of attrition war of texting I finally got a date but she didnt let me escalate and things died from there. Other girls no matter how I play it cool and be persistent I just cant seem to get them out. So now if a girl shows signs of being difficult I take mental note and discard her.

Am I the norm or the exception ?

Post: #5153

(04-08-2015 03:59 AM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

(04-07-2015 11:49 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  It's funny how attractive brunettes become when your LTR is blonde.

It's also funny how an LTR will absolutely confirm almost every red pill teaching on the true nature of women in the most apparent way.

It is so damn odd you just posted that, because during an encounter with my ex LTR just 3 hours ago (a blond), everything I learned being with her I've landed on a final conclusion.

That is: I've been learning game going on almost 5 years, and apparently I've internalized it where it resides now in my subconscious. I stumbled upon a phone with text messages that verified every single suspicion I had about her, her friends, and her family. The layers upon layers of orchestration I witnessed.

Holy shit was it an eye opener. I'll never cease to follow my gut instincts going forward. And yea, I think brunettes are my thing.

You stumbled upon a phone? That sounds like a hairy situation.

Post: #5154

(04-08-2015 05:17 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  Do many of you have to work a lot to game girls in general ? Or is it more like playing the number game and taking the prettiest of yes girls ?

I personally find that bangs/good dates are either very easy or impossible to get. Either the girl likes you, drop bait to hangout, show up on time and let you escalate/take her home. Or she doesnt text, take forever to text back, do only 20% of the talking, and flake like crazy. Its either one extreme or the other.

I tried working on a very attractive girl once and after 2 weeks of attrition war of texting I finally got a date but she didnt let me escalate and things died from there. Other girls no matter how I play it cool and be persistent I just cant seem to get them out. So now if a girl shows signs of being difficult I take mental note and discard her.

Am I the norm or the exception ?

It's BOTH man. Typically begins with quantity over quality, or a long enough time scale it becomes quality over quantity, and if you've got some damn good game, it becomes quality and quantity.

Well go towards the positive in your dating life and analyze and learn from the negatives. Why are these girls flaking ? Analyze how you game/text/call/date.

We expect to get the bang the first time we hangout with a girl, then get frustrated when it doesn't happen. YES, there is a certain window to wait/escalate for the bang until you eject of course.

I don't think you should be fully discouraged from pursuing these girls if they still talk to you (in a non orbiter way).

They definitely SHOULD be de prioritized.

I think it's normal for a player, it's a long learning curve man, and the thing is - you're ALWAYS learning.

Post: #5155

(04-08-2015 05:17 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  Do many of you have to work a lot to game girls in general ? Or is it more like playing the number game and taking the prettiest of yes girls ?

I personally find that bangs/good dates are either very easy or impossible to get. Either the girl likes you, drop bait to hangout, show up on time and let you escalate/take her home. Or she doesnt text, take forever to text back, do only 20% of the talking, and flake like crazy. Its either one extreme or the other.

I tried working on a very attractive girl once and after 2 weeks of attrition war of texting I finally got a date but she didnt let me escalate and things died from there. Other girls no matter how I play it cool and be persistent I just cant seem to get them out. So now if a girl shows signs of being difficult I take mental note and discard her.

Am I the norm or the exception ?

As has been said by many members on this forum and by countless articles you're better off spending your time on banging Yes girls than trying to convert Maybe or No girls. However as your game gets better you'll be able to convert more and more Maybe girls.

If a girl is hard to talk to off the bat and not giving me much I usually quickly discard (maybe I do this too quickly?) as particularly with Tinder/OKC/POF there are always plenty more girls to talk to. I've got over 180 matches on Tinder that I haven't even messaged yet.

However once I get a girl to agree to a date I'm more persistent and prepared to play the long game as I feel that they have at least committed a bit to the interaction and you've weeded out the attention whores.

But as you know, even when you get a date and it goes well your chances of seeing her again are 50%, which is why we always go for the bang on the first date.

Post: #5156

Well that date was a waste of time. 21 year old FOB Chinese. Butter face girl that hasn't been anywhere other than mainland China and Melbourne.
Never had a boyfriend before so I guarantee she's a virgin. No where near pretty enough for me to bother with putting in the effort to get the bang.
Should have screened harder.

Post: #5157

I witnessed first hand that fat fucking 5's can act like 8's.

That hamster is fucking insane, a bitch with the BIGGEST gunt AT FUCKING 19 YEARS OLD.

Fat to the point where this girl won't get out of her car and she demanded I come to her.

The amount of hamstering that went on was crazy, the fact I even gave her eye contact and said hi should of been an honor for her.

FUCK-THAT-NOISE

Just a friendly reminder that I need to go for quality, it's tough to do any day approaches since I don't leave the office fro 8-5:30 then go to the gym till 7:30.

I don't really hit on the girls at the gym, I guess I just don't want to be that dude, I get eye fucked once in awhile, I'll notice there's 1 or 2 that will workout next to me. Then there's the obvious thirsty girls who workout tits hanging out, tight everything, asking for attention, but I'm in and out of there then I'm eating, sleeping, or fucking.

I'm glad a few music festivals are coming up in the next few months, I've always done well at parties.

Supplemental dating app game isn't cutting it at all, it never has. It has improve my dating, logistic, text, body read,and one date bang skills.

That's a damn solid foundation for game, now it's time to move from the minors into the big leagues. Summer is here.

Post: #5158

^ You are in OC, my advice if you want to up your day game is get a gym membership either inside one of those fancy outdoor malls and day game for 30 min before your session or get a gym membership at one of the nearest local universities (community colleges can be gold mines since the chicks have lower self esteem being in High School 2 and are usually hotter) and again day game right before your gym session on campus. It will probably get you pumped for your work out after you number close a hot girl.

Always try to make your in-person game life efficient. Gmanifesto has recommended living in a neighbhorhood with models living it. I can't say that's a bad idea. You can translate this into a smaller scale depending on where you live.

In this 30 minutes you could easily get in 5 approaches and because you are time limited you will probably make the best of it.

If you did this 5 days a week you'd have 25 approaches. You probably would get laid once every 2 weeks (50 approaches) from doing this. That is 26 bangs a year that will on average be higher quality than online simply because you get to see the goods and vibe in person upfront. Especially if you are day gaming outside a fancy outdoor mall gym or university gym where the chicks will be in good shape.

If you have your workout gear on you are already sexualizing the conversation just by the way you are dressed. You can also shoot into workout, health, food, or fashion topics (if you are at the mall instead of campus).

Post: #5159

Feeling ridiculously confident today. Banged 3 different HBs in 4 days. Haven't done that since college.

Thinking about using this momentum and reengaging with my ex whom I work with. Should I use text game or something casual face to face?

Post: #5160

(04-09-2015 05:07 PM)-g- Wrote:  Feeling ridiculously confident today. Banged 3 different HBs in 4 days. Haven't done that since college.

Thinking about using this momentum and reengaging with my ex whom I work with. Should I use text game or something casual face to face?

That's solid, you gotta drop data sheets on these girls you're banging in the I Just Had Sex Thread, even the littlest things can help others gain an edge.

Why would you reengage your ex AND she works with you ? You just had a hat trick in 4 days...

Post: #5161

Blondie with the booty - "I've never given head" until I showed her.

Would of been perfect if I didn't fuck up the grammar

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Post: #5162

I'll drop the data this weekend. Goal is to have one more new bang and tie my college record by Saturday.

I got a new job so I'll be out of our building in a month. Whu do I want to reengage her? Put her in rotation and it seems like a challenge. You did think I should go for face to face game or text game? Face to face is what I'm leaning towards.

Post: #5163

(04-09-2015 06:11 PM)-g- Wrote:  I'll drop the data this weekend. Goal is to have one more new bang and tie my college record by Saturday.

I got a new job so I'll be out of our building in a month. Whu do I want to reengage her? Put her in rotation and it seems like a challenge. You did think I should go for face to face game or text game? Face to face is what I'm leaning towards.

I guess it's a challenege I just wouldn't fuck with an ex personally, I guess if she isn't drama and fine knowing she's not going to get back with you.

I'd be focusing on new girls, not old ones.

Post: #5164

(04-08-2015 10:23 AM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

(04-08-2015 03:59 AM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

(04-07-2015 11:49 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  It's funny how attractive brunettes become when your LTR is blonde.

It's also funny how an LTR will absolutely confirm almost every red pill teaching on the true nature of women in the most apparent way.

It is so damn odd you just posted that, because during an encounter with my ex LTR just 3 hours ago (a blond), everything I learned being with her I've landed on a final conclusion.

That is: I've been learning game going on almost 5 years, and apparently I've internalized it where it resides now in my subconscious. I stumbled upon a phone with text messages that verified every single suspicion I had about her, her friends, and her family. The layers upon layers of orchestration I witnessed.

Holy shit was it an eye opener. I'll never cease to follow my gut instincts going forward. And yea, I think brunettes are my thing.

You stumbled upon a phone? That sounds like a hairy situation.

She used the age-old lure of:"I've got some of your stuff here still, if you want it you'll have to come get it, otherwise I'm throwing everything out.".. hoping I would come onto her I'm sure. I didn't. We never lived together, but she claimed she had a DVD with pics of my daughter and other stuff so I went and got stuff.

Oddly, under the bag was her old smart phone with a cracked screen. Snagged it for kicks... and stupidly enough, she hadn't erased old messages. Or maybe she planted it there, but she is pretty dumb so probably just left accidentally. You know ignorance is bliss, but I was curious to know just how fucked up she was.. more like a sociology experiment post relationship. Red pill is a truth seeking adventure, and man O man did I get the truth.

Post: #5165

Yeah this is like the mount Everest of challenges. She said "I never wanna see you again, I don't hook up with ex's" shit. I shit tested her to end it and she bit.

Been single for 3 months and I feel like I'm in the zone. Crazy free cash flow, HBs on stand by, and in great shape. Even if this doesn't go well, I'll be cool. it's a challenge I am willing to take

Edit: since then I haven't heard from her but I haven't contacted her. I'm getting some iois in the hallways but I completely ignore her existence when we pass eachother

Said fuck it and texted: that stock I picked for you is on fire, you owe me $ big time! Vague enough. 5 mins later she says "you could still buy into it". Il not gonna text back until tomorrow or Saturday. LESS IS MORE. I want to text something like... Nah I have lots of stocks and that's not a option (run on that track hamster).

Post: #5166

Damn, this really cute Indian (as in India) American girl just started at my work in a different division. She is part of our international graduate program and so is here for 12 months.

She is staying in the same suburb as I live in so it would be easy to "show her around" or whatever, but I it's against my rules, I don't mix work and bangs. Usually this is easy as I work in a male dominated industry and attractive girls are few and far between. I'd really like to hit it though.

Post: #5167

I heard one of the worst phrases in the English language last night. I was in the zone, getting ready to hit up my night spot and enjoy it. Suited up, looking sharp and trim, especially after a good workout. I'm walking through the door and there's a married woman at least twice as wide and deep as me, maybe more, who I know through an acquaintance but talk to maybe once every 2 years when our paths cross. I'm trying to stick to a cordial hello to her and her husband and get on with my life, because there are cuties to be had and I don't want to linger.

Then, she said:

"Ooooh I have a single friend that you just have to meet, she's so pretty!"

I try to hold composure. It was hard for me to not take as an insult.

"Hi, we haven't seen each other in a while, but CLEARLY you need to get with my WILTED AND DESPERATE FRIEND because I want to live vicariously through her even though you're way out of her league" - is what I translated her communication as.

I squeeze by her, met some pretty girls, but when I saw who she was referring to I was very annoyed. 30ish, lots of makeup, wide and fat ass.



I let it get to me more than I should have, and it killed my mood. What was positive vibes went to negative vibes.

Post: #5168

(04-09-2015 06:50 PM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

(04-08-2015 10:23 AM)General Mayhem Wrote:  

(04-08-2015 03:59 AM)Ingocnito Wrote:  

(04-07-2015 11:49 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  It's funny how attractive brunettes become when your LTR is blonde.

It's also funny how an LTR will absolutely confirm almost every red pill teaching on the true nature of women in the most apparent way.

It is so damn odd you just posted that, because during an encounter with my ex LTR just 3 hours ago (a blond), everything I learned being with her I've landed on a final conclusion.

That is: I've been learning game going on almost 5 years, and apparently I've internalized it where it resides now in my subconscious. I stumbled upon a phone with text messages that verified every single suspicion I had about her, her friends, and her family. The layers upon layers of orchestration I witnessed.

Holy shit was it an eye opener. I'll never cease to follow my gut instincts going forward. And yea, I think brunettes are my thing.

You stumbled upon a phone? That sounds like a hairy situation.

She used the age-old lure of:"I've got some of your stuff here still, if you want it you'll have to come get it, otherwise I'm throwing everything out.".. hoping I would come onto her I'm sure. I didn't. We never lived together, but she claimed she had a DVD with pics of my daughter and other stuff so I went and got stuff.

Oddly, under the bag was her old smart phone with a cracked screen. Snagged it for kicks... and stupidly enough, she hadn't erased old messages. Or maybe she planted it there, but she is pretty dumb so probably just left accidentally. You know ignorance is bliss, but I was curious to know just how fucked up she was.. more like a sociology experiment post relationship. Red pill is a truth seeking adventure, and man O man did I get the truth.

That's crazy. I don't even like to look through girl's phones if I have the opportunity. Ignorance is bliss like you said. I am trying to keep some faith in American women ha.

Post: #5169

I'm fucking knackered, boys.

I ended up accidentally daygaming this girl while walking back to my dorm. I escalated a bit too fast, however. Oh well, she won't remember me in the morning. But, I learned a valuable lesson, I guess.

A lot of my drunk stories teach me how not to do game.

Post: #5170

Just got friendzoned before being able to get the bang. I have to admit that I fucked up.

Met through daygaming, got her Line ID, since I was on the way to class, I scheduled an insta-date for after my language class. I can't go home because my girlfriend was there, so we went to eat something (yeah, I know).
I saw her the next day on the way to Bangkok, and I had lunch with her before going to class. I invited her to come to my house Thursday afternoon (2 days later). She will "let me know". Radio silence for 2 days, and the dreaded text:
"Hi, don't be angry at me, but I thought about it and I think we should be friends".

I didn't even bother answering, not even "k", and deleted her.

Where I think I fucked up: 2 times in a row for food, I was probably throwing too much of a provider vibe, perhaps borderline beta. Next time: go for the bang directly.

Post: #5171

Yea, I never discuss getting food with chicks that I want to bang. If a girl drinks, the better your chances of having a few and getting the bang.

Post: #5172

it's been an interesting week for me

Saturday: 7.5/10, 18 years old. didn't even match with her on Tinder, added her to snapchat right away. snapchated her for 4 days before saturday, learned that she likes to smoke hookah, so had her come over, so we could go somewhere and smoke hookah. she came over, had drinks made out and all, tried to bang her but had so much LMR. She insisted we'd go smoke hookah and then come back and "cuddle", we go smoke and learned then that she was still a virgin. came back, made out in bed but still wouldn't give it but promised she wants to lose it next time she sees me, I said I won't be able to see her until Thursday and she agreed.

Monday: a 20 year old, 8.5/10 girl I've met 4 years ago, thought she was LTR/main material, ended up flaking last minute, but suggested to meet up Tuesday, I said I cant. and they suggested Wednesday and said I can't either lol (because I had dates lined up for the whole week)

Tuesday: 18 year old, 7/10. I texted her 2 hours before the meet up and said "let's meet up my place, then figure out somewhere fun to go to". she said she wants to meet somewhere public. I wasn't gonna go for it, so I texted the monday girl and said I might have couple of hours to hang out if she still wants to do Tuesday like she suggested the day before. she agreed, so I flaked on the one I was supposed to meet that day.
The monday girl comes over (as I told her I had to petsit my roommates dog until he comes back), it was going good at the beginning but after a drink, I tried to go for the kiss (after playing with her hair the whole time) but she avoided it, drink more and try again, still no. she had leave 2.5 hours after coz she got work the day after. we went outside, I suggested we check out the pool at the complex I live in, she agrees and we check it out. Tried to kiss her one last time before she left, still no.
she left, I sent her a snapchat the day after (a snapchat you'd send to all your friends, nothing specific) and she never got back to it. so I nexted her

Wednesday: 8/10, 19 year old. I've met her at a one of my college's parties 2 months eariler. had her come over because "I had to petsit my roommates dog", which she's seen in my snapchats so many times before. she comes over we make drinks and we vibed really well, went for the kiss and she was into it grabbed her boobs, ass and all, tried to escalate but then had LMR where she only wants to "kiss and talk", tried 10 mins after but still and then got cockblocked by time as she had homework and class next morning. she told me she liked me and all that stuff, so I think I have a solid chance getting a 2nd meet up
I sent her a snapchat the day after (she still hasn't even opened it yet) could be good as she doesn't wanna open it unless she could respond right away and could be bad as she's just ignoring me. I might have her number but not sure if it's hers, never saved her name when I got it.


Thursday: +1 the Saturday virgin girl comes over, got the notch after ton of LMR as "she wasn't ready" but I managed to get it after 3 hours of LMR haha. she kept snapchating me after she left, saying that she left her phone case and "that's a reason for her to comeback"

Friday: I have a date set up, but I have a feeling she's gonna flake, so I'm tryina set up something else right now


*** I hate typing, so I probably missed on so many details

Post: #5173

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Post: #5175

I have a feeling flaking gets worse when spring comes around.

I've gone from minimal flaking to high levels in the past weeks. Girls are out and about, racking up suitors?

I'm not even surprised when a girl flakes anymore. But, not gonna lie, it's getting to be a bit discouraging.

I'm not doing anything differently from what I did during winter, pre-meet wise.

Perhaps the god of Game is pushing me to finally sack up and try day game? Always wanted to do that, but us Swedes are a peculiar lot when it comes to macking during daylight, sober hours...

(Talking about Tinder broads flaking here btw)