Post: #376

I was flipping through OKCs locals.. damn there are some ugly women out there.

You can tell their parents didn't give a shit about what the kid was going to look like and just cared more about the idea of "having a kid"

Today I had phone sex with a woman I've never met who has an area code in a far away state, made out with a kaiju, and collected a couple of numbers.

Post: #377

When a chick keeps mentioning how everyone keeps staring at her tits and covering them up by pulling her shirt up or putting her arm in the way does she want you to stare at her tits. (Provided youre following the #1 rule of "be attractive")

The big titty 18 year at work has break the same time as me and we always talk. Shes shown some solid interest, but Ive decided against shitting where I eat (save for the one chick that just left for another job who I'm going to have to add on facebook because I didn't know she was leaving so early)

Every time I looked at her she covered up her tits, even though I wasn't looking at them. I swear she was "covering up" to attract my attention there.

Later she shoved a pack of smokes in her bra and mentioned how she got yelled at last time for doing so. I stared down and studied her cleavage intently. I told her it looks fine. She giggled and said thanks... Now to figure out when she's leaving so I can grab the digits and try for a bang.

Post: #378

Wow, I think I'm the laziest boyfriend.

Whenever I've got a few girlfriends/harem, I get stressed out when I feel like I have to hang out with them at least once a week to keep everything going.

I just called one of my regulars to see if she wanted to hang today and she told me she's out of town until next week.

I feel like weight has been lifted from shoulders. I do like to have sex with her obviously, but it's a drag to think that if I skip out a week with her, she'll take it as a sign that we are breaking up or go fuck some other guy (she probably is fucking other guys anyway).

Post: #379

Wow.

This is the first time I've had such a direct reply to me over pof.

I made a new account, two pictures. My main being a very recent one and probably my best solo pic I've had. Nothing over the top. Second pic is just a group pic with my buddy and a couple girls, nothing special either.

I messaged a few. This is one of my exchanges:

Me: what's up hotbox
Her: Hey, not much really, If you want you can get inside my hotbox anytime of the day
Me: as long as you're not too crazy.
is you're name xyz
Her: I'm not a psycho lol Yes it is and yours?
Me: i'm nascimento.
if you want you can come over later for a bit, we'll have a drink
Her: And where is it nascimento lives?
Me: give me your number, i'll shoot you a text and we'll have fun
Her: #######

Problem is, I signed up in the UK lol.

Just testing out my profile really, and practicing.

Post: #380

I need to make a profile in different areas and test it seems like a good idea.
Got the Indian/Sri Lanka flag last night from the chick who is going to be married to the world of warcraft 33yr old guy.
I feel bad for the dude knowing his chick is riding the carousel behind his back and he is none the wiser.
Gonna cut her off though because she is rather annoying and rather shit in bed.
Anyways I'm getting a flat with my friends in like 2 months so the notches will rise.

Are we allowed to post pics or profiles of chicks we have notched for other guys to abuse or nah because I have a couple chicks off POF/OKC that I have banged and they are still on there so I was thinking other UK/London forum user could get the notch as well.

Post: #381

(07-22-2013 11:24 PM)soup Wrote:  Does anyone here who has LTR side with the girl's parents as a way of antagonizing her?

Like telling her to call her mom. It could be a way of making yourself higher in status than her.

The beta might side with everything she says "my mom is so annoying blah blah"

Absolutely. I did this like 2-3 weeks ago and I could see in the girl's eyes I jumped up like 1-2 notches. I usually drop the 'Your mom carried you for 9 months, you can talk to her for 9 minutes when she misses you,' but in a smiley way.

If she tries to steal the frame back by saying how crazy her mother is I simply reply that mine is equally crazy, and its no excuse.

Post: #382

Guys, I need a little post-game analysis here...

(BTW, is this thread a continuation of this thread from 2009: Post game analysis.., or should I be posting this somewhere else)

Anyway, I just got home from a successful date I would say, except for the fact that I couldn't seal the deal, even though both of us wanted to fuck. The cat was in the bag, so to speak, and I let it out. Kinda frustrating to say the least.

Ok, here is a brief background story and then the story of what happen tonight:

Girl is from the UK, has been 1 year in Canada. Tall and pretty brunette with a slim body, but a flat chest, nice ass and pretty eyes.

Met her actually a few months ago at a party where we made out but then lost touch as she went back to the UK to visit family. So, we essentially started dating just a few weeks ago. Date one was beers at a small tapas place to talk as we haven't seen each other for a while. This got the ball rolling. We made out afterwards briefly on the street and went our separate ways.

Date two was down at the beach close to her house. Shared a bottle of wine and had pretty good convo. Walked her home (as her place was closest to the beach). As we were lingering outside and kissing goodbye, she said she would invite me in but her place was a mess and had to get up early the next day. I wanted to pull the old washroom routine to get inside, but I said fuck it, next time.

Date three was tonight. We made plans to go biking to another beach further away and grab some food to eat there.
She invited me upstairs when I came to pick her up (good sign). I went upstairs, we hung out for a few mins, grabbed her bike and left. (I purposely left my bike helmet at hers to have an excuse to come up later.)

Date was going phenomenal. We went to a beach she has never been to, which she loved, we had food (which she paid for), bottle of wine (which I brought), good convo, laying down on the sand, against a log, making out. Things were going great.

It got dark, people started to leave, got even darker and the stars are out now and she is telling me how much she likes this and how thankful she is for a really great night. I start escalating kino slowly at first, then faster: my hands are on her tits as we make out, then sucking her nipples. She gets on top of me and its great. I start fingering her and she is moaning. She rubs my cock through my shorts. I start pulling her shorts down and...

the moment of truth. She says, "we are not doing this unless you have a condom". I say, "well let me look in my backpack, I probably have one." (of course I do) "How presumptuous of you" she says. (half jokingly probably)

And this is where I got cockblocked by the cops. Fuck. They just happen to be either chasing after some one or arresting someone by the road by the beach so there were police lights flashing everywhere and so on. It was annoying, cause it really disturbed the dark and quiet of the beach. At first we ignored it but as we were going to bang, my chick got kinda uneasy and that was it. Her shorts came back up and we hung out for a bit more and then left. I the back of my mind, I was like, ok let's go, as much as it's exciting to have sex on the beach at night, sex in her bedroom would be even greater still

So we get back to her place. It's past midnight on a weekday, so I am not expecting much. Surprisingly, she invites me up, but only for like 5 minutes, she says, as she is dead tired and has to be up early tomorrow for work. I say ya sure and mention I left my helmet at hers.

We go up. She gets me a glass of water. We sit on a couch and start making out again. She gets on top of me and I escalate, start removing her bra, sucking her tits, kissing her neck. Then I go for the shorts again, but she resists. Try one more time, but no go. Fuck. She starts to get off me and I get the hint and try to 'push' her back a little to show that I won't be making out with her, without her giving me something in return. (Push-pull). "Alright, I'll be heading out" I say as I go for the door. We say goodbye, but the goodbye kiss turns into another passionate make out session. Fuck, I am thinking one last attempt to bed her here and now. I grab her legs, pick her up, push her against the door and start kissing her neck in order to start the sex Steam-machine rolling here, but to no avail. She cools things down and we finally part ways (still kissing and her saying how much she had a great night.)

That was long, thanks for the read. And now, some Questions/Comments I have:

- How can you tell whether a chick is inviting you up out of politeness (but has no intention of banging) or whether she is truly DTF? I understand this is s fluid dynamic and it's our job to make the bang happen, but sometimes it feels like the wheels are spinning and you need to put the gear in reverse so to speak.

- She was basically ready to bang on the beach, but not ready to bang literally half an hour later in the comfort of her place, this doesn't make sense to me. Again, I know you cannot use logic to explain a girl's behavior. You gotta strike the iron while it's hot, I guess and I messed up on that tonight. Any other insights/ideas regarding this phenomenon?

-Beach went as well as it could have IMO, but should I have been more aggressive towards the end by pushing through the external distractions for the bang?

Post: #383

Hrmmmmm

It sounds like there's something mentally holding her back when her place is brought up. I had a girl once who wouldn't bang at her place no matter what. We get to mine she's still hesitant. My roommate's leave and she goes nuts and I fuck the shit out of her. Try to figure out if she's mentioned anyrhing about her place. Did she live there with a bf or something? Does she have embarrassing stuffed animals or twilight posters?

Another thing I would suggest is switching things up. Get her emotions going and herself feeling good. Maybe take her to a club and dance for a bit after a few days of radio silence.

Post: #384

(07-25-2013 05:18 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  It sounds like there's something mentally holding her back when her place is brought up. .... Did she live there with a bf or something? Does she have embarrassing stuffed animals or twilight posters?

@Western, yeah man I really don't know her past that well yet but could be that she is hesitant to let another man into her life (bedroom) so quickly. Maybe she was hurt recently or smth.

Anyway, I will see her again this Sat for fireworks (she actually mentioned we can hang at her place), so will try again.

Post: #385

Working on a 20 year old version of Christina Hendricks, but with a smaller ass.

Post: #386

(07-25-2013 01:46 PM)Gemini Wrote:  

(07-25-2013 05:18 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  It sounds like there's something mentally holding her back when her place is brought up. .... Did she live there with a bf or something? Does she have embarrassing stuffed animals or twilight posters?

@Western, yeah man I really don't know her past that well yet but could be that she is hesitant to let another man into her life (bedroom) so quickly. Maybe she was hurt recently or smth.

My guess is drinks and makeout on beach leading to sex is ASD'd by 'Oh wow I've never done anything like that! I got carried away!'

Versus taking you home makes it totally 'real' to her, she feels like it has to be more serious, she can't internalize the same ASD card. And you may be right in your estimation - still getting over the bf she used to bang there for months, last guy P&D her there.

Post: #387

Here's a video of me on the way to my date tonight. I'm tired as a mother fucka

Post: #388

Damn Kickboxer thats gonna be me tomorrow. My shift switched to 6am instead of pm.


Some chick from WAYback in the day like when I was 15 added me on facebook and started messaging me.

She said we should hang out and now is saying that she can't sleep and its easier if she's sleeping with someone.

Shes a 5 at best. Let's see how this goes.

Post: #389

Twitter has actually turned into an interesting way to lay down pipe on local chicks.. Who knew

Post: #390

Doing your service for the month Wc?

Went to that chicks place last night and her parents were in the living room.

We went to her bedroom to watch a movie. 30 minutes in I'm in the midst of slipping my hand down her pants when her mom comes into the room unannounced and tells us that she would be more comfortable of we watched the movie in the living room and not on her bed




Didn't get the bang

Post: #391

A 20 year old polish girl i met in the street a couple nights ago might come by my house to blaze in a little while.

Post: #392

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Post: #393

(07-22-2013 11:59 PM)Plutoman Wrote:  Sounds like it's all or nothing, man.

I went for nothing.

She invited me over to her place later that afternoon.

I went over there and 15 minutes later I told her that what we wanted was too different and it couldn't work out. I walked out, got a couple more texts from her, but it has ultimately died.

She was pretty cute, nice, smart, but her mix of desperation and weirdness was too much for me.

Post: #394

Looks like I'm ordering in tonight from a previous bang.

update: nope

Post: #395

(07-28-2013 12:49 AM)All or Nothing Wrote:  She was pretty cute, nice, smart, but her mix of desperation and weirdness was too much for me.

You did the right thing. There's nothing worse than deciding to stay with/bang those girls a bit longer and then when you try to leave they threaten to kill themselves. Trust your gut and bail immediately.

Post: #396

(07-28-2013 03:21 PM)horn Wrote:  You did the right thing. There's nothing worse than deciding to stay with/bang those girls a bit longer and then when you try to leave they threaten to kill themselves. Trust your gut and bail immediately.

Yeah, I thought about it. It probably would have taken me 2 to 3 months to bang her, and by then she would have hooked onto me so strongly it would be hard for us to separate.

She told me, her ideal situation would be to have sex with one man, they would get married, and build a life together. I am 21, that is not my fantasy right now.

I wish her the best though because she is a nice girl.

Post: #397

Chilling at home on a saturday night then write a twitter status saying I wanna go see Wolverine but most females are too boring and don't wanna see it.
One chick hits me up in my direct messages and tells me she wouldn't mind seeing it with me, I say half an hour and then meet her in Wimbledon.
6/10 18yr old Eastern European chick from Macedonia? who's into anime, gaming and such so we watched the film, walked and talked after the film but no kiss close just kino and what not.
She kept my scarf so I'll be seeing her again soon which I think was part of her plan.
On my way back from there I run into one chick I was laying down pipe to for a while and she tells me she has a bf who she got with after I got bored of fucking her.
I walk home with her because it's like 4am in a dangerous area but also because I initially hugged her, said hi and then was about to part ways to which she complained "How am I just gonna say hi and walk off like that".
Spoke to her doing the usual catch up, she doesn't answer her phone to her bf in my presence as he is calling her to see her and she's telling him she's tired when she's actually with me.
Outside her house she keeps asking me what I'm thinking which of course as heartiste said means she is thinking of you and wondering if you're doing the same then I kiss her.
We kiss for abit then her bf calls again, she tells me she feels bad and starts crying saying all her feelings for me came rushing back.
I say yeah its getting late and start walking back, she chases after me and tells me I didn't even give her my number.
I feel like fucking her again but really don't know if I can be bothered with the drama.

Post: #398

(07-24-2013 01:07 PM)Millz Wrote:  Got the Indian/Sri Lanka flag last night from the chick who is going to be married to the world of warcraft 33yr old guy.

ha ha - literally burst out laughing at my desk in the office when I read that...colleagues were like "what's so funny" and I'm like "nevermind...tell u later"....

poor dude....so many screwed up relationships out there with the guys getting the short end of the stick for the most part...

Post: #399

(07-26-2013 09:54 AM)kickboxer Wrote:  We went to her bedroom to watch a movie. 30 minutes in I'm in the midst of slipping my hand down her pants when her mom comes into the room unannounced and tells us that she would be more comfortable of we watched the movie in the living room and not on her bed.

That really made me chuckle, to be honest.

(07-28-2013 12:49 AM)All or Nothing Wrote:  I went for nothing.

If you're not down for something serious, then definitely the right decision. And if you were, it still was highly likely to be the right decision. That was a bit much.

Got my call last night, saw a movie at 10:15pm after work, stayed there with her for another 3 hours after the movie, no bang but plenty of progress. Girl's a bit of a serial dater from how she talks but she's a runner and very cute with a nice tight, in-shape body. Haven't felt like calling that brazilian girl back up... went out with her to a movie last thursday, made out a bunch, etc. Just not that motivated to complete it. Had an awkward moment of - I blew off a girl (the one I saw last night) to see a girl saturday night, stopped at a starbucks in downtown before I went and ran into the brazilian girl an her roommates. Keeping it to 3 girls right now... can't handle more with my business. And I'd honestly start forgetting their names.

Post: #400

Picked up a 27 y/o in front of her mom. By the end of our conversation, her mom was trying to set us up and was leaving us alone for a bit, and the girl, when putting her number in, called her phone and has already texted me within an hour of meeting. Interesting. Considering I'm 21, that's fun. She's another runner, too. Guess I'm adding a fourth girl into the queue.