Post: #9701

She was probably on vacation

Post: #9702

Almost had a same night pull Saturday night but was cockblocked by a bizarre coded text exchange she was having with her bro and his friend who were waiting outside (insert southern incest joke here). Got a number and plans to meet up Sunday.

Sun we had one drink, then went to bounce to a new venue before home but on the way out there was a maybe 30" high gate that didn't open so I grabbed her and lifted her up onto it. Was going to set her down on the other side but she jumped, landed wrong on her ankle which she had already hurt the night before on the dance floor and almost fell back though I caught her. Went to the second venue but she was hurting and left from there, says today she broke it and sent a pic of it all swollen up. Feeling like I might've dodged a crazy bullet anyway.

On the plus side this town is about to be flooded with young eastern European women for the summer, working on one already. About freakin time, tourist dependent towns are total feast or famine.

Post: #9703

Lol'ed hard. Love how he can drag his sentences and leave you hanging.

Post: #9704

Matched an old plate on Tinder again, 23 year old.

She came right over when I got home and we smashed like nothing ever happened - she was less mouthy and more admiring this time around.

Her butt looks better, forgot she had a tattoo, her tits look great still - it's good to have another plate in the rotation.

I've been lagging on dates this week but I got a few lined up - not really feeling the girls this week at all.

Post: #9705

(04-18-2017 10:49 AM)Ringo Wrote:  Lol'ed hard. Love how he can drag his sentences and leave you hanging.

God bless this kid.

Also - this would be a fun day game approach:

Post: #9706

Shy girl is a little crazy, definitely not LTR material. I'm still waiting to put my dick inside her, if I don't do it tonight I'm nexting her, I have better ways to use my time that to have lesbian sex, no matter how hot she is. Also, this would free me to go after two girls in the same venue that are giving me strong IOIs. I still want this one though, but I won't care that much if I have to next her. This is big for me, an important shift in my way of thinking.

I have to talk with 1st girl, she's going for 3 years as I said, but she acts as if we were in a LTR. She uploaded a pic to FB! I will bring this up next time I see her, probably in a couple of days. Any tip as to how to do so will be appreciated. I'm thinking of just saying "hey, I see we're doing very good but you are going to go away, so I just want you to know that I intend to enjoy every moment I can with you but I don't like LDR". Something along those lines. I could always just shut my mouth until the moment comes and avoid a possible crash of this plate, but I want to be somewhat ethical about this, as I do care about her.

My friend tried to bring the discussion about me being with 2 girls at the same time, and I just told him I was doing nothing wrong and I was going to keep those aspects of my life to myself from now on. Everything cool, he's still a bro. I'm happy about this, I care about this guy a lot.

I'm very happy about how things are going! Some things I have to work on are: night-game, day-game, and my fitness. I still have trouble going for the close after approaching, also, all of my notches have come from social circles. Not acceptable, so it's time to put more work on. I started doing bodyweight exercises and I'm running tomorrow morning even though I'm still on a cut, but I want to build the habit in my mind. Last thing, I'm planning a trip with some friends for this summer to France, so this should be a good occasion to get a french flag! I'm excited as hell about the direction I'm going, thank you all (again) for your inspiration.

Post: #9707

one of my regulars told me yesterday that she was looking for flatmates and found one guy that at the end asked to be her slave. Dude has this fetish of being humiliated by a woman. I told her I am going to buy a leash and that I will walk her next time we go out to a club. She said ok.

Post: #9708

Got a few matches on Tinder yesterday. I've been too busy for much else. Got one of them to come to my apartment.

Her Tinder said she was 6'2" which I thought was a bit weird but she looked fairly proportionate so I was like fuck it. I've never fucked a girl that tall so I was kinda down.

This bitch was huge, she must have been 6'4" at least and she did not look like her pictures at all. From the second I saw her I just thought WNB. I wasn't even going to front like I was attracted to her. No kino, no flirting, nothing. Treated her like a platonic guy friend until she left.

I'm gonna lay off the online shit for a while. Need to start daygaming more anyway.

Post: #9709

have over 2000 matches on Tinder now.

I would rather save money than even bang or date right now. So weird. I dont even want to date. It seems like such a hassle. One girl is playing games, another wants to hook up, my fb I totally ghosted last weekend.

Right now I would rather not spend a dollar on a woman, focus entirely on my diet and lose weight, and watch documentaries.

Post: #9710

^^^Sometimes that shit happens and you're over it, it comes in phases man.

Hell sometimes I hope a girl flakes, so I can delete her number and move on. (Subconsciously your gut is telling you they aren't really even worth the time)

Matched this Tanzanian cutie whose here for schooling, very conservative and educated.

Went on 2 dates

Has a cute body, she's 23, and has her shit together.

Only experience with guys is maybe a month or 2 or dating.

I did a little digging - she's a virgin.

Basically I don't want to pursue her, or burn her. I just don't have it in me to date a girl and not bang or take her virginity.

Met up with a Korean cutie who I kinda of ghosted last year. She was busy with school and I wasn't waiting around.

She's done now and has a job at the hospital, the sexual tension is still there, she told me it was good seeing me and not to wait too long to see her again. I'm gonna try and plate that once I bang.

I'm meeting up with the ska/punk girl tonight, she told me she wanted to get away, and invited me to her hotel near a cool plaza to drink.

I had to hit up the Jap girl I'm going on a date with this evening and try and shift it as early as possible - I'll be working double shift tonight with girls.

Odds are I'll probably bang ska girl tonight, I think she'll be a fun fuck.

Lining up dates for next weekend, already nexted a few girls I got selfies from because they ended up being siffy.

Post: #9711

(04-21-2017 02:53 PM)kaotic Wrote:  ^^^Sometimes that shit happens and you're over it, it comes in phases man.

Hell sometimes I hope a girl flakes, so I can delete her number and move on. (Subconsciously your gut is telling you they aren't really even worth the time)

I am seeing a late 20's, tall very blonde Russian software developer. Nerdy girl, but so hot. Last time we were out she wanted the d but ended the night, it was our second night out. We were almost there in a back of a cab. I like her but she acted coy this week when I tried to lock down a time with her this weekend. It annoyed me so I said screw it, I am not taking her out. She texted me last night, I responded today, we are texting back and forth, and told her I haven't made any plans yet.

Another professional late 20's Chinese girl keeps texting and we are playing the flirty text game. I like this girl a lot. But I dont want to see her.

I've never actually given myself the time to lose weight, and rest and take a break from dating. I want to get to 14% body fat, and hit a few other goals again, before I go back out dating. I need a real break. The Russian girl is cute and delicious, but have no desire to 'push through' with her, so I will let her go. More interested in playing with my money, and working out and losing weight, than chasing after girls.

Post: #9712

Make sure your life is in order, job, money, etc (which I'm sure it is)

Then focus on your diet, lifting, and managing your weight.

Girls should be a lower concern.

Basically have one or two fuck buddies - and focus on a slow burner girl that is decent to hang out with and be around.


Right now I'm sifting through girls at a rapid pace thanks to dating apps. 3-4 dates a week my text inbox is full of girls to reply to do and setup dates.

Occasionally it gets old....until you see another cutie that gets your dick hard....ah for the love of the game.

Post: #9713

A few thoughts:

1. Photos are super important for online game. A month ago I was mentioning how I got basically no tinder matches. I went on a trip last weekend and had some friends take some nice pictures. Now I've gotten 20+ matches in a few days. Granted, it's not top shelf level girls but they're not terrible either and it's better than having basically no matches. As a Asian guy on there, I'm still not getting a lot of white girl matches and this was true 2 years ago when I was doing okay on Tinder.

2. All girls are whores with the right man within the right conditions. ALL OF THEM. I was out with some coworkers last night. Left them to go on a Tinder date which didn't go that well because the girl was kind of weird/socially and didn't show me a lot of IOIs. I rejoined my original group of coworkers shortly after and my views on women basically were solidified.

Girl 1: Totally low self esteem with some depression/anxiety issues which she revealed to me for some reason (I'm a good judge of character and I knew she had some issues to begin with). She's engaged to the biggest beta slub and she told me that she is into girls and sometimes hooks up with them. Her and I danced/grinded EXTREMELY intimately for most of the night . I didn't escalate it any further because there was no upside to doing so. It wasn't surprising that this girl and I grinded for most of the night but the next girl...

Girl 2: Church going devout Christian girl in a long term relationship. She never goes out and seems very prim and proper. She had a few drinks and was far from inebriated but then started grinding on me super hard. We were basically having sex on the dance floor. I've never had a girl thrust her pussy into me as hard as she did. She felt up my body and told me to grind harder and deeper into her. Also didn't escalate it further than that.

In both cases, I'm better looking than their relationships. All it takes is a few drinks and people's true intentions come out - even the "proper" and "good" Christian girls. Basically if your girl is going out a lot, drinking, "dancing", you're going to get cucked eventually. There's too much temptation out there and most if not all people will give in. It's sad and really makes you re-evaluate how much you want to give to yourself to any woman.

3: In larger, higher tier cities with tons of beautiful women, game is very tough. I only approached 3-4 chicks last night and didn't get anywhere. I was in a few different drink spots/lounges last night and a lot of girls do the "GIRL POWER" stuff but I'm sure when they get horny enough, they'll just go onto tinder and find the best looking guy to get drilled by them. It doesn't help when there's so many options out there and the top level options are so easily accessible by all women.

Where there's a lot of women, there's a lot of guys approaching. I live in a city where there's a hugely dense population of attractive women. You go anywhere within the out-skirts of the downtown core and there's probably 25 women who are extremely attractive within 1 block. Even the tinder girl I went on the date with told me that she gets approached a ton and she's about a 6/10 and wears no make up, dressing down all the time.

Post: #9714

(04-21-2017 02:53 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I had to hit up the Jap girl I'm going on a date with this evening and try and shift it as early as possible - I'll be working double shift tonight with girls.

Odds are I'll probably bang ska girl tonight, I think she'll be a fun fuck.

Lining up dates for next weekend, already nexted a few girls I got selfies from because they ended up being siffy.

Gut told me to bail on Jap girl, ended up having her call me and she didn't seem to stoked and was tired, told her fuck it, reschedule.

Met up with Hapa/Ska girl, good god the more she got drunk the more she reminded me of an old ex of mine and had to calm her down, total cunt.

Ended up fucking her tho, but that bitch IS CRAZY.

Check it out: /thread-11951...pid1556069

Post: #9715

So the date I had lined up hasn't replied way past the time we were suppose to meet up. So tell me, players, what should I do tonight to fix this. Should I head downtown and try to rein in a girl? I don't ever get lucky, but you never know. I ain't feeling it, that's for sure. But I also want some pussy.

Post: #9716

(04-22-2017 07:46 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  So the date I had lined up hasn't replied way past the time we were suppose to meet up. So tell me, players, what should I do tonight to fix this. Should I head downtown and try to rein in a girl? I don't ever get lucky, but you never know. I ain't feeling it, that's for sure. But I also want some pussy.

Don't ever rely on a girl to be prompt or courteous.

Go do your own thing with your boys and don't worry about her.

The last thing you should be doing is chasing a girl who probably flaked.

Sure go downtown, rein in a girl, just not the one you were waiting on.

ALWAYS have back up plans or a plan B girl.

Post: #9717

(04-22-2017 07:54 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(04-22-2017 07:46 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  So the date I had lined up hasn't replied way past the time we were suppose to meet up. So tell me, players, what should I do tonight to fix this. Should I head downtown and try to rein in a girl? I don't ever get lucky, but you never know. I ain't feeling it, that's for sure. But I also want some pussy.

Don't ever rely on a girl to be prompt or courteous.

Go do your own thing with your boys and don't worry about her.

The last thing you should be doing is chasing a girl who probably flaked.

Sure go downtown, rein in a girl, just not the one you were waiting on.

ALWAYS have back up plans or a plan B girl.

Thanks, bud. I'm actually a little still new to the game, but I've been told I have "natural game", whatever that is. I'm still to nice and too honest with myself to go into another character, but I'm trying it on. But yeah, I'll be hitting the town in an about an hour and see what that does.

If I don't run into any of my boys, got any tips for solo game in crowded places?

Post: #9718

Sound words K man.

Girl that didn't confirm with me on Wednesday for tonight, has been blowing up my phone with texts. She texted me last night asking if we were still on today, and I said no, I made other plans. Her English isn't 100% and she blamed it on that, haha. But she works for a major tech company, so go figure. Not giving in to go see her, I made other plans when she wouldn't confirm. Now that she is blowing up my phone, I know its on. But I am going to make her wait a few more days.

Post: #9719

Always stand fast Vaun - that's basically what happened with Jap girl, I subtly suggested perhaps another time would be better, then she made excuses, so I jumped on that to bail, she promised next friday, after all I got a bang this Friday.

As for Blue - if you got natural game that's awesome - who says you need to be another character ? Sounds like you can be charming and can tease a girl or two.

Here's a forum search on rolling out solo - tons of fantastic advice:

https://cse.google.com/cse?cx=0126445502...gsc.page=1

Post: #9720

(04-13-2017 03:37 AM)Zanardi Wrote:  Girl:

1. Just turned 20
2. Very pretty. Dresses feminine, according to her age
3. No tattoos or anything
4. Doesn't speak much, lets her actions talk louder
5. She enjoys my company a lot. Even actively tries to persuade me to spend more time with her, when it makes sense
6. For the last few weeks, after we finish classes she waits for everybody to leave and looks at me with puppy eyes
7. Gave me a few presents in the last months
8. One of my students
   

I'll go for it and see what happens.

Update:

Because she was working very much in the last two weeks (about 10 days), I paid a 2-3 "accidental" visits to her workplace (barista at Cinema City) to have a chat. Most of the chats are short, because she has customers to serve, I don't want to cause her trouble and it's not an appropriate place to game. And hell no, I won't do anything in class; I treat her like any other students.

Asked her out for Easter Wednesday. Unfortunately she couldn't come, because she needed to to shopping with her mom and do the Easter preparations, as Wed was the only day in that week she didn't work, beside Easter. OK, fair enough.

Yesterday I saw an attempt to escalate on me, unsuccessfully trying to grab my wrist (hand?) while she was passing by me. And for the first time since these "accidental" visits, she opened herself more. Needless to say, I number-closed her effortlessly.

I notice that, from time to time, she likes to escalate as well, mostly when few people are around and we are into a more intimate area.

One of her class-mates continuously tries to set her up with me, giving her advice. Did the same thing with me, once. Social proof FTW!

If I am not misreading the whole situation, it's a matter of time before I'll make her my LTR.

Post: #9721

(04-22-2017 09:04 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Always stand fast Vaun - that's basically what happened with Jap girl, I subtly suggested perhaps another time would be better, then she made excuses, so I jumped on that to bail, she promised next friday, after all I got a bang this Friday.

As for Blue - if you got natural game that's awesome - who says you need to be another character ? Sounds like you can be charming and can tease a girl or two.

Here's a forum search on rolling out solo - tons of fantastic advice:

https://cse.google.com/cse?cx=0126445502...gsc.page=1

kaotic, love the nuggets of gold you drop on this forum.

How tall are you? Just curious.

Post: #9722

(04-22-2017 03:21 PM)BetaNoMore Wrote:  3: In larger, higher tier cities with tons of beautiful women, game is very tough. I only approached 3-4 chicks last night and didn't get anywhere. I was in a few different drink spots/lounges last night and a lot of girls do the "GIRL POWER" stuff but I'm sure when they get horny enough, they'll just go onto tinder and find the best looking guy to get drilled by them. It doesn't help when there's so many options out there and the top level options are so easily accessible by all women.

BetaNoMore, guessing you're in Toronto?

How often do you think this really happens in real life? Do you think women are less inclined to go home with a guy they met at a bar now compared to 10-20 years ago, before dating apps?

My impression is the best looking players aren't going out to bars and clubs anymore as they're killing it on dating apps. Girls still go out as they like attention/dancing/free drinks/"girls nights".

Also, younger guys in this generation aren't as socially skilled in chatting up girls outside their circle compared to young guys 10-20 years ago.

Thus, a guy with good game doesn't have as many hot/smooth-talking guys to compete with at the bar compared to 10-20 years ago. He can still go home with a girl simply on account of being one of the hottest/smoothest guys in the bar and finding a DTF girl before another guy gets to her first.

Thoughts?

Post: #9723

(04-23-2017 09:11 AM)GymBro Wrote:  Thus, a guy with good game doesn't have as many hot/smooth-talking guys to compete with at the bar compared to 10-20 years ago. He can still go home with a girl simply on account of being one of the hottest/smoothest guys in the bar and finding a DTF girl before another guy gets to her first.

Thoughts?

Millenials and Gen Z's are having less sex, that is widely shown from multiple sources. Men are just as, if not more, addicted to their phones and were brought up in feminized, father less day care school systems. Pure indoctrination has seen its peak. Being between to the two generational gaps, I remember how competitive it was in the late 80's as a young teen, and the 90's "in my prime". Men are far less aggressive now by every measure. To the point of limp wristed passive aggressiveness that started in the 90's, which is easy to slap down and blow past. Never before has it been easier to hook up or connect with an attractive girl. Multiplies infinitely if you approach her in person, day or night.

I would say though, with the rise of Trump, red pill, and generally more game aware men, I thought the competition would rise dramatically after the election. But from what I can tell in the trenches, we have a very long time to go for that....

Post: #9724

Another weekend out two days. Must have done about 30-40 night approaches. Got two solid prospects to try and bang in the next couple of weeks.

While in terms of bangs this weekend was weesh, my circle of close of friends is finally getting up to speed with going out after girls.

For years I've been trying to get them into game to no avail. I started revving up my own efforts, and after witnessing multiple successes they're finally getting after it too. There's nothing like quality hype men/wingmen by your side to get you in a social mood and help with larger groups.

Best part is when you go nuclear on an approach just to get them riled up and laughing.

I have one buddy who is good at closing after I open girls, but he'd never open groups himself. I pressured him into opening a pair of girls on a club balcony. "You can do this, man. You can do it."



He breathes in deep, smiles and goes. Opens them, hangs on for 5 minutes, gets them laughing. I intervene to hype him up and isolate the friend and he makes out and almost bangs the other one - chick was an 8 or 9.

I've been hyping him up at every chance for the past few days to get his confidence up. He laughs and tells me to stop but I know it's working - yesterday we went out again and he approached like mad. Feels good.

Side note, my buddies and I have been developing some ridiculous dilemmas to use on girls and generate more banther.

Yesterday we used: "Would you rather fuck Donald Trump once for a whole night, no holds barred... OR, have to give him a quick little peck on the lips everyday for the rest of your life?". Worked like a charm and the reactions were hilarious.

Post: #9725

Last night, I went out with one thing in my mind: I am out to not have sex with any girl, or try to talk to them as if I'm attempting to open them. This way, I could have a relaxing evening and talk normal with people. Funny enough, last night was when I had the most opportunities, as if all nine planets lined up. Had a lot of friendly girls who spoke to me and chatted with. And then there were others at a dance bar, who were pulling me onto the dance floor and wanting me to mingle. Which I did for a bit before I decided to sit back down and casually enjoy the music.

I did this mostly so I can learn how far a girl will go to get your attention. That way I can build a foundation for later meeting. It was a sacrifice of a game tonight, but I think I walked away with something greater.