Post: #6676

Great feedback.

If there's one thing to be said, it's that she hasn't spared games of her own as well.

Post: #6677

(12-15-2015 06:37 AM)Nascimento Wrote:  she hasn't spared games of her own as well.

If you play games and manipulate people, dont be surprised if they treat you the same way in return.

If you want to avoid silly games, don't play them.

They follow our lead.

Post: #6678

NVM

Post: #6679

My first girlfriend pre-red pill would only wear flats all the time as she coudn't walk wearing high heels. My current girl wore high heels to go to McD after a mindblowing sex session last night.

Post: #6680

To clarify, my situation has been in good fun for the most part, for both parties. This girl in question and I are in good terms. A lot of teasing and playfulness. Teasing on its own is most effective in my experience.

Post: #6681

It's been a tough week in the game :

2 straight up no shows: First girl I had confirmed with during the day and she had responded in the affirmative that she'd show up at 7:30. She just didn't come. I texted something 20 minutes late and she responded an hour later with "Im so sorry" ...Deeeee leeeete!

Second girl - the Brazilian mulatto I'd already banged. She texted me yesterday in the morning she wanted to get together this afternoon. She was 30 minutes late as I wait in my apartment and I shoot her a text. She sends something 30 minutes later saying she's stuck in such and such town with a little emoticon. I slightly let it rip: " well if you could respect my time by letting me know if you're not coming next time. common courtesy" She texted something later about couldn't be helped....blah. Who knows where it'll go but she was a damn good bang.

I'm guessing she's going to fall off the reservation - girls who don't show and don't even bother texting before hand are mostly ones who are disappearing from your life/lost interest.

Last Friday, I had a date with a girl I've been flirting with for months where she works at the store. We had good energy every time I talked to her at her work. I bumped into her at a grocery and asked her out and she readily accepted.

On the date, she seemed closed on and off and, to be honest with myself, my energy was off that night ( allergies was acting up) . Another factor is she doesn't drink, so it was a stone cold sober date. Lately, I've been getting some of these and, my results are much better where alcohol is involved. Also..this girl was 29 which is the oldest I've dated in a while. She only wanted to hug at the end of the date which disappointed me, but I did a "forehead kiss" which is all she offered me. She sheepishly smiled and said 'let's do it again' I texted her 4 nights later and no response so far ( been about 3 hours ) It really sucks that, somehow, I couldn't bring that good energy from flirting with her at her work, to the actual date. It also sucks, how she's apparently not willing to do a second date.

Jesus women give no second chances these days after first dates. Everything has to be just so right....if you're off just a little. They're like fuck it....no second chances. In addition, I probably need to evaluate my date game. Like I said, I felt my energy was a tad off that night...but damn.

To cap it off, I opened a very attractive blonde tonight at whole foods before going out ( a simple elderly opener). She was super bitchy from the get go. This never happens to me in the daytime...girls are at least usually friendly. An older man heard me opening her and tried to white knight. I ignored him. She was acting like someone was hitting on her in a loud nightclub in terms of her walls she was throwing up. I haven't had such a bitchy response in day game, probably ever. As a note, I had eye contact with her in another part of the store earlier twice, so she might have been defensive to my approach since she saw me "checking her out" earlier. Although the first time we saw each other, she was watching me walk in the store and looking at me first.

I'm aware of the negative tone of the post, but I needed to vent somewhere.

Maybe I ought to just be happy with my relatively successful year in terms of number of bangs I've gotten and just take off until next year. Because right now, things aren't going so good. They ain't buying what I'm selling so far in December.

Post: #6682

My main girl was out at her work Christmas Party last night dressed up as a sexy Mrs Claus and the plan was for her to come by my place after.

I get a few drunken text messages from her 9 - 10pm. At 10.30 I text her asking how far away she is as the rules are she can't come over on a work night if she's not going to arrive before 11. She calls me drunk as all hell telling me she is about to leave but has lost her lipstick and trying to find it. I tell her she knows the rules so she better get here fast or she's going home to her place.

She's still a no show by 11 so I go to bed when she calls me at 11.15 and tells me she's leaving the venue. Just as i'm about to tell her not to bother it's too late, I hear the phone drop and this commotion followed by someone asking if she's alright. Turns out she fell down the fucking stairs of this bar on the way out.

She starts crying and asking me to come and pick her up (20 minute drive for me), telling me she's pretty banged up. I've made it clear to her in the past that I'm not her taxi and she needs to be able to look after herself so calling me to pick her up when she's drunk is not on. She's only tried to do it once in the 12 months we've been seeing each other and I shot her down then but this time she sounded really distressed so after a quick internal debate I caved and went and picked her up.

Was that Beta?

She was pretty banged up, huge lump on her head, cut jaw, grazed back, knee, shin and ankle.

Post: #6683

^That's a tough call to make in real time when she's crying on the phone with the drama and all.

One the one hand, she's out getting drunk in public. It sounds like she's making an ass of herself then falling down the stairs.

Then after she has her drunk fun with all her coworkers and friends she calls her bf to come rescue her, which you do.

The pure alpha move would have been to not answer texts after 11, go silent for a few days claiming you had an unexpected trip or some such and let her come crawling back promising never to do it again.

But then again, few men are pure hardcore alpha and in real time, in the situation you describe, it's much harder to actually do.

At the very least, don't reward this (or any ) bad behavior.

Post: #6684

^^ I didn't reward her at all and she apologised as soon as she got in the car. Also I gave her a blast, letting her know how pissed I was to have to go rescue her drunk ass and how much of a fool she'd made of herself. Told her I felt like her dad having to go pick up his drunk teenage daughter who couldn't handle her alcohol. That served to upset her even more but I stood my ground and ignored her tears. Once she sobered up this morning she was very apologetic.

To be fair she's only 19 and still has a lot to learn. I remember what I was like at that age, always drinking to excess, vomiting and passing out. I thought it was great fun.
Not to mention the number of my drunk friends I've escorted home over the years (ah pre red pill days, such a white knight).

Post: #6685

(12-16-2015 12:05 AM)Roardog Wrote:  ^^ I didn't reward her at all and she apologised as soon as she got in the car. Also I gave her a blast, letting her know how pissed I was to have to go rescue her drunk ass and how much of a fool she'd made of herself. Told her I felt like her dad having to go pick up his drunk teenage daughter who couldn't handle her alcohol. That served to upset her even more but I stood my ground and ignored her tears. Once she sobered up this morning she was very apologetic.

To be fair she's only 19 and still has a lot to learn. I remember what I was like at that age, always drinking to excess, vomiting and passing out. I thought it was great fun.
Not to mention the number of my drunk friends I've escorted home over the years (ah pre red pill days, such a white knight).

The story is more complete now that you filled in the 'post pick her up' gaps.

Sounds like you handled it well.

Post: #6686

(12-16-2015 12:35 AM)robreke Wrote:  

(12-16-2015 12:05 AM)Roardog Wrote:  ^^ I didn't reward her at all and she apologised as soon as she got in the car. Also I gave her a blast, letting her know how pissed I was to have to go rescue her drunk ass and how much of a fool she'd made of herself. Told her I felt like her dad having to go pick up his drunk teenage daughter who couldn't handle her alcohol. That served to upset her even more but I stood my ground and ignored her tears. Once she sobered up this morning she was very apologetic.

To be fair she's only 19 and still has a lot to learn. I remember what I was like at that age, always drinking to excess, vomiting and passing out. I thought it was great fun.
Not to mention the number of my drunk friends I've escorted home over the years (ah pre red pill days, such a white knight).

The story is more complete now that you filled in the 'post pick her up' gaps.

Sounds like you handled it well.

Thanks. I thought I'd handled it failry well but I just had this nagging feeling that I'd lost frame and should have just ignored her.
However she's been very contrite and apologetic since and is coming over this weekend in her Santa Outfit to provide "positive reinforcement" haha.

Post: #6687

I was at the gym today and this cute little latina that looked about 30 today approached me. I was entertaining it and having a conversation with her. Then I told her I liked her workout outfit and had her spin around for me to get a look at the "outfit."

At this point I realized she had literally no ass and was skinny fat. I was disappointed because her face was cute too. I told her I had to get back to my workout. Then she stretched near me for around 5 more minutes then left.

Post: #6688

(12-15-2015 10:59 PM)Roardog Wrote:  Was that Beta?

She was pretty banged up, huge lump on her head, cut jaw, grazed back, knee, shin and ankle.

No, it wasn't beta. She was genuinely hurt. Everyone makes mistakes and while you certainly shouldn't encourage someone to make more, it's okay to help her out as long as you have her make it up to you...and sounds like you are.

Post: #6689

From about a month ago.

This crazy ultracatholic 'traditional' chick that I met through Tinder while traveling. For two weeks we have talked over the phone for almost two hours in total, somehow I get her to talk about sex with her ex, and later she questions how I got her to talk so openly about it (jedi mind control LOL) so rapport is good and I assume the bang. She says she only has been with one boyfriend, and she wanted to save herself for marriage. I chalk that as a shit test and proceed as normal.

She meets me at the bus station in the city I was visiting again for work, where she lives. From a 7.5 in pictures to a 6.5 in person, has an ass I still wouldn't mind tapping. She is in awe at my height. I put all my luggage on a cab and off we go to my hotel, all friendly and stuff. She lied to her cousins she lives with to meet me. I check in with her and ask her to help me carry a small bag (compliance test). We go up the elevator and drop my stuff in the room (milestone achieved: she's been in my room). I think it would be good to go buy something to drink then come back to the room. We go on a short walk to the convenience store and return to the hotel.

We chat for a while, I turn on the TV and she mentions there will be a football match later and she wants to see it. I try to steer the conversation but she wouldnt stop talking about random things. She is laying next to me, so at some point I decided to cut the crap and go all in and escalate. In the following minutes I kiss her and get a good handle of her legs and ass, but it seemed clear that she wasn't ready or she hasn't done this in a long time (a year without fucking I guess). Intense LMR and she telling me she does not understand what I want, thus I had to tell her we liked eachother, this was natural and we wouldn't be together anothertime and other BS. I run all the standard anti-LMR procedures but she never budged.

I knew this would be a pump and dump, but she pulled off her bullshit about saving 'the best of her' for marriage (hell, she already had a psycho boyfriend so what's left of that?), even if that meant becoming a cat lady or getting cervical-cancer because of a lack of sex (you can't make this shit up). This and some clear disrespect from her made me lose any attraction, so I entered damage control mode. I lied down a bit (been working long hours the past two weeks) to think how to get rid of her politely without her making a scene and possibly getting me in trouble with the hotel (paid by my company). She teases me offering to sleep next to me instead but I know that is instant friendzoning so I refuse. I tell her I need to grab a bite and we go outside. I walk a bit to the plaza and I tell her it was unfortunate we were looking for different things but it was nice meeting her. Pleasantries were exchanged and off I went to my hotel feeling like shit after thinking I had it in the bag.

Fast forward she still texted me a couple times with random comments, and even asking for my photo AGAIN (this reveals she had deleted our WhatsApp chat but wants the pic for some obscure reason).

Radio silence on my side. Hard next.

Since then, abandoned online game for at least all 2016. Too many SIFs, crazies, cunts, golddiggers... Yea I got an amazing FWB from it for 5 months and we fucked like rabbits, but she was an exception.

It's do day-game or go home.

-TD

Post: #6690

How is SIF still a thing when every girl I know takes selfies at least 1x a day?

Post: #6691

^^^ Had my share of disappointments with those the first half of 2015. Then at any moment I suspected she was one, I implanted a rule of asking for current pics before setting any date. Thus the SIFs had no chance.

Post: #6692

Met up with a chick in town after matching with her on tinder a while back.

One of the more kinky bangs I've had, considering she's a shy country type.

Post: #6693

(12-16-2015 08:52 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  How is SIF still a thing when every girl I know takes selfies at least 1x a day?

You just have to be wary of the myspace angles. I haven't been SIF'd yet by looking out for the red flags i.e. no body shots, plump face, high angle shots, no collarbone

Post: #6694

You gotta take a long hard look at their biceps. The arms are ALWAYS a dead giveaway.

Post: #6695

(12-17-2015 06:32 PM)brob Wrote:  You gotta take a long hard look at their biceps. The arms are ALWAYS a dead giveaway.

Yep, collarbones and arms don't lie.

Post: #6696

I've been in the game a minute.

High school kid is on the train yesterday with a deck of cards. He's got on his swim team sweats. I'm expecting a "Pick a card, any card" at any second. And then he starts talking to just random people, and their all nervous and excited to talk to him.

The kid is not particularly witty, but he has the attitude and demeanor of a character. Mentally you can fill in the details of what this kid is about without him having to say something.

He never does a trick, but has his immediate audience captivated.

This follows script theory, that we all live out these scripts. If you act a certain way, people respond a certain way automatically.

WIA

Post: #6697

Protip: UBER always gets lost trying to navigate my apartment complex.

Used iPhone shortcuts to program one for "dxx" which outputs complete directions to my house. Right after I call the Uber text it to the driver.

http://lifehacker.com/5849229/how-to-con...-expansion

Post: #6698

^I have the same problem.

Post: #6699

(12-19-2015 09:44 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  ^I have the same problem.

Life HACKED!!!

Post: #6700

So i almost got my polish flag here in lodz. We were dancin, makin out a bit however like always like my brother told me I lack killer instinct after I lost her. I couldn't get her to my place, she was all over me, giving me compliments and touching my body . And then before I lost her she told me she wanted to SE me again. And then she disappeared.

She got my info and she told me she would contact me when she arrived in Sweden which would be soon because of work. I will take this with a grain of salt. If thatwas a smart move I have no idea.

I was wondering how you would get that killer instinct. Maybe I am making excuses for losing the bang but sucks when you think your doing well but in the end you lost.