Post: #5326

(05-02-2015 06:40 AM)Vaun Wrote:  Two lays from two different girls this week, one from online, one from an approach that was over a year ago. Both 13-15 years younger. Good week...

Another super-long-game conquest! How did that year play out? I'm curious about how you maintain interest over the course of a year and culminate in a bang?

Post: #5327

Working shitty jobs is the way to go to easily meet broads IMO. You make side money whole you can game cute servers it is a win.

My new job just isn't that big so we dont have that much staff. The youngest girl who is just 18 is all over me. It is to obvious but its hard for me to navigate it because everybody swore the girl off because she "to young". I'm trying to figure how to game it low key so nobody at work finds out.

Post: #5328

I've seen a girl 4 times over the past month now and although things are going well, I can see where we're going to have issues. Call if "player acumen."

Yall know what I'm talking about. There are those few differences in character that at the beginning of a relationship seem benign. However due to experience and knowledge from RVF I can understand where we will butt heads.

Post: #5329

I need to learn to slow things down when you know it's in the bag. More patience less aggression. Last night I walked NY streets dolo and found a drunk ass girl. Teased for 30 seconds about her getting kicked out of a bar where she claims she's friends with the owner. Forget how it happened but she invites me in her cab to go to her place which was 3 min away. We're in the cab and I'm pushing for a kiss and touching her. There was really no need for this. She calls me too aggressive few times, I keep going and eventually she kicks me out of the cab.

Fast forward 10 min. I run into a girl sitting on a bench with a bookbag full of beer cans. 20yr old. Art student. She gave off a masucline vibe, maybe her voice. I bullshit with her for prob 20 min. As more of a newbie, I'm learning to show more interest in the girl first so I act like I'm interested in her crappy drawings. She tells me she's moving and mentions the street she lives on. I tell her about a pretty cool bar right by her and we take a cab over. This place is awesome because there's a restaurant in the basement. That area closes at 1am but I manage to get in by walking thru the kitchen. There's one light on, I have access to a full bar and dozens of bottles of wine. I pop a bottle and we take a seat. Just us. Perfect setup at a very sexy place. I push for the fk after not even taking a sip of my drink. She tells me to be aggressive then eventually mentions that I'm too agressive. Terrible kisser and her pussy stank. I fingered her and my cock was in her mouth for 5 seconds then she stopped because I think I was pushing her head too much. She wanted a condom but I didn't have one. Bartender upstairs comes downstairs and walks in on us and immediately turns around. We bounce and I walk to her apt. Shits empty because she's moving and she says she needs to talk to her neighbor and never comes back. I waited five min and went home.

No action but had fun hanging in the closed restaurant. I'll definetly be trying that again down the road.

Post: #5330

Just got back from a week's trip in Victoria to find an apartment for when I get posted there in two weeks.

Everything I need on a day-to-day basis - date spot, liquor store, gym, barber - is all within a 2 minute walk from the apartment I have.

I'm less than five minutes walking distance from all the major nightclubs and daygame spots in downtown Victoria as well.

Having logistics on lock is expensive - but damn if it doesn't feel awesome.

HSLD

Post: #5331

My cold approach game has gotten rusty over the last few months. Been relying too much on online, fuck buddies and a harem.

Think it's time for a 100 approach challenge

Post: #5332

A girl pissed me off by cancelling our meet-up Friday night (on account of a little rain), despite all the effort I made to create a logistically sound bang opportunity.

To get revenge, I declined her invitation to reschedule for Sunday and spent the weekend doing 50 approaches. My phone is now loaded with prospects, which will keep me busy for probably the next three or four weeks.

Post: #5333

How old is MrXY?

Dude said he was 50 a while back.

We need to find a new Tenderman100.

Post: #5334

(04-24-2015 01:23 AM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  Joined FetLife for the lulz the other day.

Traded messages and numbers with a woman 13 years my senior. She has a cub fetish. Attractive for her age.

Went out with her tonight and just wasn't feeling it. She was ALL over me.

Part of it probably had to do with that I'm 84 days sober and we were hanging out at a bar. Other part was that I saw all the younger trim walking around.

Oh well.

Shit man, this is how I'm starting to feel. I'm starting to become more self aware of my surroundings when going out with an older broad. This makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm starting to seek out younger poonany.

All this time, I was okay with it. Now at 23.....I'm starting to get "iffy". Perhaps I should upgrade. Then again, the Sheryl Sandberg broad is now a widow.

Goddamit, I confused Sandberg with Melissa Meyer.

Post: #5335

After getting blown out by an English post-wall 4-5 from social circle, and feeling a bit sorry for myself, things have taken a turn for the better.

Hot 25 year old Vietnamese girl is travelling over 4 hours to see me. Asian girls are so different to English girls. Feminine, less cunty and entitled. And less bullshit too.

Post: #5336

Still alive and kicking, some updates:

Food poisoning 2 Fridays ago, had a boys weekend in a buddies large city, I wasn't on party mode at all, ended up staying in one night, doing blow probably wasn't a good idea.

I came home not feeling well, went to the doc, said I was dehydrated, I also noticed my digestive system was fucked up, so they pulled blood and took some other samples.

Still awaiting those results.

Last week I took Weds-Sunday off for a music festival, got entirely too hammered, ate once a day, drank alot, opened a few girls, had a wing that helped amp me up, we'd literally bump into girls and start convos and probe.

Obviously still feeling a bit like shit, did way too much blow the entire weekend, but it made it that much easier to filter out hot party chicks. Had this girl all about me until she flipped about my friends CCW and I nexted her (she's from SF, makes sense). I had another girl thinking I was a cop, which was hilarious.

Came back Monday, ended up taking Tuesday off. I still haven't felt right since I've gotten back. Still feel like I'm in a sort of cloud/haze, it's probably allergies also.

I also hit the gym last week, COMPLETE weakness, I had to drop weight an reps, something definitely doesn't feel right. I'm done with booze and drugs for awhile.

This week took some blows to my ego:

-The tall 5'10 6.5 who was super nervous on the first and only date, got a makeout - she said she didn't "feel a spark" that we were "total opposites" me being all about living life, her about being a homebody. Told her the door was open and left it at that and deleted her number.

-Had the closet feminist 7 on the first and only date (the one with a cold sore on her lip) I wanted to hate fuck tell me she's leaving a longish trip and was seeing someone but wanted to hangout still, automatically deleted her number.

-Had the pretty cool asian 7 girl from the hockey game I made out with a few times, first and only date, basically tell me since our schedules are total opposites and we're both shitty texters, she wanted to just be friends, told her the door was open, left it at that, deleted her number.

-Almost lost this cute 7 used the "am I wasting my time texting you" line. She said yes, I was curious asked why, her response, "we live 2 different lifestyles etc" I called her out saying we haven't hungout we barely have talked" She explained that she has a daughter - so I mirrored her saying I dig being home and netflix also. Told her to meet up first then go from there. She agreed.


Good news:

The main HB 8 is stronger than ever, I honestly dig being around her, I can tell she's head over heels. We both keep our composure though, she adjusts to how I act.

The 7.5 black girl, the sex is just insane, I get so hard banging her, she's cool, but the sass just won't last. Eventually she'll get sick of me not being her BF.

The 19 year old latin girl with the fake tits is back on the market, she was "experimenting with a GF" now she's been blowing up my phone, hopefully I'll bang her this week again.

The blondie with the booty 7.5 spent the night last night (first time) only reason was I was tired as fuck and no Uber's were available. The sex is always good, she's losing weight also, she might just end up being an 8.

I've got the hawaiian girl looking for another girl to have a threesome with

I've got a few good leads from CMB and Tinder, a cute indian chick, another asian girl, another latin girl, and the solid 8 black girl is back in the picture, she's told me directly she's interested in meeting. I also got a number off IG of all things, this random girl started following me and commented on a post of mine, so I hit her up, got her number, setting things up for this week.


I gotta be honest, I feel like the energy I have is lower than usual, I'm hoping there's nothing seriously wrong with me.

I've been eating clean and looking forward to a strong workout in the gym.

I'm hoping all this feeling bad shit is just temporary.

I might be experiencing players fatigue on top of the fatigue I currently have. Sometimes I don't even feel like going out, or I turn down some days hanging with my plates.

As sad as it is to say, when I got back from the music festival, the last thing on my mind was pussy.

Post: #5337

Sounds like you just need some good r&r bro. Seems like your fan base is growing in the online realm. I'm thinking about investing in a camera and using that to my advantage as well.

Post: #5338

I'm asking myself, at the moment, which is worse: banging a 6 who you dont even enjoy being with, or went out and have a great date with an 8, but can not bang her. One you got the bang but you dont enjoy the girl outside of sex. One you really enjoy the girl but dont get the bang, yet.

Eventually I need to improve to move towards banging those 8.

I've been having a new plate for a few weeks now. She is a beast in bed and very nice, feminine during and post sex. But other while she is a huge bitch to deal with.

On the other hand I just went out with a beautiful art student brunette. Feminine and can hold a conversation about art, philosophy and life, in a very feminine way and not a "I'm a girl and I know better than you" way. Throw lots of compliments and really appreciate my presence. She lets me escalate physically, playing with her hand and thigh but when I go for the kiss she said she would want to know me better first. I just smile and say "we have plenty of time. Let's go" and walk her out the bar hand in hand. Should have been more persistent.

Not long ago I went on a similar date. Beautiful, feminine and very pleasant girl. Great make out but can't bounce to crib because she wants to take things slow. Never banged her. So I'm not sure if I have a chance here but I'm pushing for another date anyway.

Clearly my closing game needs more work to get higher quality girls.

Post: #5339

(05-04-2015 07:00 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  I'm asking myself, at the moment, which is worse: banging a 6 who you dont even enjoy being with, or went out and have a great date with an 8, but can not bang her. One you got the bang but you dont enjoy the girl outside of sex. One you really enjoy the girl but dont get the bang, yet.

Eventually I need to improve to move towards banging those 8.

I've been having a new plate for a few weeks now. She is a beast in bed and very nice, feminine during and post sex. But other while she is a huge bitch to deal with.

On the other hand I just went out with a beautiful art student brunette. Feminine and can hold a conversation about art, philosophy and life, in a very feminine way and not a "I'm a girl and I know better than you" way. Throw lots of compliments and really appreciate my presence. She lets me escalate physically, playing with her hand and thigh but when I go for the kiss she said she would want to know me better first. I just smile and say "we have plenty of time. Let's go" and walk her out the bar hand in hand. Should have been more persistent.

Not long ago I went on a similar date. Beautiful, feminine and very pleasant girl. Great make out but can't bounce to crib because she wants to take things slow. Never banged her. So I'm not sure if I have a chance here but I'm pushing for another date anyway.

Clearly my closing game needs more work to get higher quality girls.

Post: #5340

(05-04-2015 07:25 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

(05-04-2015 07:00 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  I'm asking myself, at the moment, which is worse: banging a 6 who you dont even enjoy being with, or went out and have a great date with an 8, but can not bang her. One you got the bang but you dont enjoy the girl outside of sex. One you really enjoy the girl but dont get the bang, yet.

Eventually I need to improve to move towards banging those 8.

I've been having a new plate for a few weeks now. She is a beast in bed and very nice, feminine during and post sex. But other while she is a huge bitch to deal with.

On the other hand I just went out with a beautiful art student brunette. Feminine and can hold a conversation about art, philosophy and life, in a very feminine way and not a "I'm a girl and I know better than you" way. Throw lots of compliments and really appreciate my presence. She lets me escalate physically, playing with her hand and thigh but when I go for the kiss she said she would want to know me better first. I just smile and say "we have plenty of time. Let's go" and walk her out the bar hand in hand. Should have been more persistent.

Not long ago I went on a similar date. Beautiful, feminine and very pleasant girl. Great make out but can't bounce to crib because she wants to take things slow. Never banged her. So I'm not sure if I have a chance here but I'm pushing for another date anyway.

Clearly my closing game needs more work to get higher quality girls.

So I'm wrapping up college and I was kicking back today thinking about all the girls that have come and gone in the last 4 years and came to a conclusion that is relevant to this discussion.

Some of the 6s I have banged have been just as memorable as some of the 8s and 9s. I've always wanted to be a guy who goes for quality over quantity but in reality quantity has its place.

I have had so many 6s and 7s just fall into my lap, girls I would never want to really be seen with in public. I have also missed out on a lot of 8s who were a lot more enjoyable to be around. In the end I would rather bang those 6s and 7s than hang out with 8s and not get to bang.

Honestly though I have enjoyed all of it. All of the 6s. All of the 7s. All of the 8s. In the end it's all about the pussy however you can get it. I don't even regret the girls that my friends still make fun of me for porking. Those memories are much sweeter than the 8s that I only made out with.

Post: #5341

(05-04-2015 10:38 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  I've always wanted to be a guy who goes for quality over quantity but in reality quantity has its place.

I agree here. Being a player means sleeping with a lot of girls, and some are going to be hotter than others. That is the reality of it, as you say.

But really, who cares?

I think what's even better is when you can let go of "what number" a girl is.

Tonight I had sex with a girl on out first meetup. She was skinny and had long hair. But, I have no idea if she was a 5, 6, 7, or 8.

What I do know is that she was a cool girl with a calm presence and I enjoyed hanging out with her, taking about life. The sex was some of the best first-time sex I've experienced. Afterward, we talked in bed for a bit then she got dressed and went home.

What would it matter what number she is on the 1-10 scale? It won't change anything. Stressing out about "quality over quantity" wouldn't change much either.

She just is. And so am I. And accepting that feels really good.

Post: #5342

I tried to kiss my VietNamese date yesterday. She wouldn't let me and said her culture was not like that.

I got one small kiss before she left. Definitely the hottest girl I have dated this year.


After she left, she said she was annoyed at me for not paying her taxi to the station. She pulled out a Prada purse out of a Prada handbag, the purse had plenty of notes in it, so I'm thinking she could afford the taxi, but wanted me to make a positive gesture. Can anyone throw some light on this? Or should I just not worry?

Post: #5343

(05-05-2015 01:27 AM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(05-04-2015 10:38 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  I've always wanted to be a guy who goes for quality over quantity but in reality quantity has its place.

I agree here. Being a player means sleeping with a lot of girls, and some are going to be hotter than others. That is the reality of it, as you say.

But really, who cares?

I think what's even better is when you can let go of "what number" a girl is.

Tonight I had sex with a girl on out first meetup. She was skinny and had long hair. But, I have no idea if she was a 5, 6, 7, or 8.

What I do know is that she was a cool girl with a calm presence and I enjoyed hanging out with her, taking about life. The sex was some of the best first-time sex I've experienced. Afterward, we talked in bed for a bit then she got dressed and went home.

What would it matter what number she is on the 1-10 scale? It won't change anything. Stressing out about "quality over quantity" wouldn't change much either.

She just is. And so am I. And accepting that feels really good.

Great insights boys.

I think that too often guys are focused on quantity and quality. Banging the MOST girls or banging the HOTTEST girls.

But at the end of the day none of that bullshit is sustainable. It's all about building a sex life for yourself that is the most fulfilling on many levels. For some this may be a LTR/wife, for some it's many ONS, but for most of us, we land somewhere in between.

This is why "game" is important, because having "game" gives you the freedom to go out and insert new women into your harem, molding what your sex life looks like.

Post: #5344

(05-05-2015 02:28 AM)Lizard King Wrote:  I tried to kiss my VietNamese date yesterday. She wouldn't let me and said her culture was not like that.


After she left, she said she was annoyed at me for not paying her taxi to the station.

And that, my brothers, is why I left my home country. Girls are soooo fake and pretentious in trying to put up a good girl act.

No man, you shouldnt worry at all, in fact tease her about it.

If it makes you feel better, I went on a first date with a Viet girl 2 months ago, bounce her to my crib and got crazy make out. So thats the culture for you :laugh : but she said she doesnt have sex when there’s no love. Heh. Had I got her more drunk that excuse would fly out of the window.

That Asian girl attitude when she expects you to pay for everything even though she can well afford it stinks of entitlement. Though it is Viet courtesy to arrange for her transportation to and from your place, its by no means necessary and the Viet players I know never do that. The fact that she told you she was annoyed pretty much raise the red flag for me, but treat it like a shit test, keep your frame and game as usual.

If she throws any more « cultural » resistance at you, treat it exactly like the « we’re not having sex tonight » shit test. Viet girls who come to the West do so for a reason, and even if thats not the case they are on your soil now so they have to play by your rule.

Post: #5345

(05-05-2015 04:35 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

(05-05-2015 02:28 AM)Lizard King Wrote:  I tried to kiss my VietNamese date yesterday. She wouldn't let me and said her culture was not like that.


After she left, she said she was annoyed at me for not paying her taxi to the station.

And that, my brothers, is why I left my home country. Girls are soooo fake and pretentious in trying to put up a good girl act.

No man, you shouldnt worry at all, in fact tease her about it.

If it makes you feel better, I went on a first date with a Viet girl 2 months ago, bounce her to my crib and got crazy make out. So thats the culture for you :laugh : but she said she doesnt have sex when there’s no love. Heh. Had I got her more drunk that excuse would fly out of the window.

That Asian girl attitude when she expects you to pay for everything even though she can well afford it stinks of entitlement. Though it is Viet courtesy to arrange for her transportation to and from your place, its by no means necessary and the Viet players I know never do that. The fact that she told you she was annoyed pretty much raise the red flag for me, but treat it like a shit test, keep your frame and game as usual.

If she throws any more « cultural » resistance at you, treat it exactly like the « we’re not having sex tonight » shit test. Viet girls who come to the West do so for a reason, and even if thats not the case they are on your soil now so they have to play by your rule.

Thanks mate. Solid advice and information.

Did I miss out on a bang yesterday? Or should I be thinking forward and game as usual, setting up another date etc...?

I don't want to give up on her or next her yet because of one red flag.

I think she knows I am strongly interested, and is trying to control the situation.

Post: #5346

Quote:Did I miss out on a bang yesterday? Or should I be thinking forward and game as usual, setting up another date etc...?

Its done, no point thinking about it. Plan your next interaction with her with the new info you have in mind.

On a side note, I'm interning in one of the biggest research firms in Europe where half of the people including managers are women, yet the environment seems chilled as fuck and really purple pill. Flirting is like basic conversation.

My team manager just showed me a NSFW image of a girl he bangs last night. He's taking lunch off to go see her.

France might be a lot of bad things, but I seem to only run into the good stuffs.

Post: #5347

Rare flags (Bulgaria and Israel) have been captured and added to my collection recently. I don't even want to chase Canadian girls anymore.

Post: #5348

Still consider myself a newbie but is it worth meeting girls that have been "difficult" pre-meeting? Eg. "What are you looking for?", born/raised in western culture (US/UK/AUS), frame control with deciding logistics/time/rescheduling, females in finance (career driven/cynical), live far away etc.

The last few SNLs were all straight forward (don't F up game). Easy to get number -> eager to meet/no text games -> 0 date/1 date formula -> no LMR. The above "difficult" things have been throwing me off. Anecdotaly a "difficult" girl I met on a 1 date formula was adamant about not going back to mine for another drink (great logistics, radio silence on setting up meetup 2).

Assuming I can setup a drink meet with the 0 date/1 date formula, is it still worth it to get the "experience" dealing with these kinds of girls or not? My gut says that so far pre-meet, they are similar to the "difficult" girl I met. I've also converted these SNLs into plates and I'm feeling a bit burnt out.

My gut says the the ROI is bad as 1) these are "no"/"maybe" girls and 2) may require 2 or 3 more interactions for something (which I have no time for).

Any thoughts?

Tl;dr - continue to take all 0 date/1 date formula meetings or begin to be choosier about who to meet with based on their "difficulty" pre-meeting?

Post: #5349

(05-22-2013 05:32 PM)Pacesetter20 Wrote:  I got up at 5:00am, got to work at 5:45ish, rsgoldaz.com straight getting my soul crushed until 6:15pm. Went fifacoinvip.co, then went to get something to eat...passed two absolute "2/10 would not bangs" but I hesitated and didn't approach either of them. Shame on me. Roosh's archeagegold4u.com on having to warmup before gaming are spot on. That is all.

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Post: #5350

How do you handle low energy girls on dates? Just got back from hanging out with a Tinder girl. She said she was sick and I believe her. She seemed like she just wanted to go to bed and I aborted after 45min as a result. I didn't really escalate as she was out of it. But say she she wasn't sick and just a boring girl, do you approach the date in a different way?