First time in my life I've been alone in a room with the lights off with a chick, music blasting, and drinking vodka resulting in her pulling out a literal bowl of Macaroni and Cheese to eat out of nowhere.

Of all things you could pull for LMR. Of all things. I decided to promptly leave and never text her back again until I feel like sending a restart text months later.

+.75, Asian 7.5

After a blasian from okc flaked on me, I went and number closed a cute Asian girl I saw at the bookstore out of rage. Went in direct, said she was cute, said I was on a trip around the world, she said she'd love to do that someday, went from there. She was in the bookstore to wait out traffic on the roads so she eventually left.

I slipped up on text game. She said she'd love to meet me before I left early next week (I actually did have to, but deadline helps, as does the fact I'll probably never see her again). I overplayed here. I first texted we should do something more low key before I leave.

I SECOND GUESSED MYSELF and texted another message "Wine at your place perhaps?" She did not text back until yesterday, saying she would be open tonight. She later confided that she was turned off that I basically invited myself over to her place. There was no need for this from me, I should have left it more vague and open ended. Not making that mistake again.

Ultimately, she apparently decided what the hell, might as well see what's up. We meet at a wine bar she recommends, NO APPETIZERS, just one glass for me, I suggest that I have a bottle of champagne, so we should continue our fun and flirty chat at her place. She mentions her roommate is sick and there. They are actual roommates, sharing one room.

I drop it, suddenly she proposes that we get ice cream and that we should hurry before the place closes. Alright, not going to look a gift horse in the mouth here. I drive here there, pointing out the wine bottle that actually exists as we get in. On the way, she asks me if I've heard of a thing called simple pickup LOL, I play dumb about the whole thing and just deflect, saying I'm naturally very social and approach women I find attractive, the rest of American men are the emasculated pussies.

There, spend a good 45 minutes talking, I escalate, hand touching, holding her side, pulling her into me, having her rest her head on my shoulder. Much of our conversation is about redpill truths, the downfall of America, and the problem of radical feminism, which was quite nice, since it's not often I can have such a candid conversation like this.

Eventually go back to the parking deck of the wine bar where she left her car. She proposes we go to her car and keep chatting. Do so for a little bit, then go for the makeout. Easy. Move on to tits, she's making these extremely adorable little squeaks and moans. She throws me a "how many women have you been with" shit test. I respond with "one million.... and one." Finger her pussy, lick and smell it. NO TASTE OR SMELL. Holy shit, her pussy lube is clean as water. She's very fit and healthy. FUCK.

Unfortunately it's a super small hatchback, so there is no physical way anything can happen. I get her off and she gives me a handjob and blows me, but that's it. She says she would have invited me up if her roommate weren't there.

Am I disappointed I didn't get the notch? Yeah.

But I am staying positive and reveling in the experience. This had a little bit of everything. Deal with a flake, overcome AA, do a direct approach, number close, quick and clean text game, build comfort then attraction, escalate, pass shit tests, overcome LMR, put my newly developed sex skills to the test.

She's four years older than me.

Logistics man..., Sucks, you didn't get the bang but you made a hell of a lot of progress. I want to make the transition from indirect as well. Its a good way of establishing attraction and letting your intentions be known. I made the mistake of trying to invite myself over to a chick's place as well (remember that text? lol). It was nice running game with you bro. I'm sure you'll kill it when you touch down in the next town.

Not having your own place is literally the worlds biggest game cockblock and a huge logistical challenge.

Met a girl at whole foods this weekend. Tall blonde from out of town a few days. She was shopping with mom. After talking with her a few minutes, her mom kept bouncing around us at the buffet line like she was listening in. Finally, the girl introduced the mom and I conversed with both of them. I was probably closer in age to the mother than the girl. Girl was hot...about an 8. The mom was kind of busted unfortunately.

Girl was a straight up conservative republican who'd worked on Mitt Romney's campaign and like a lot of those kinds of girls, pretty hot.

We text back and forth and couldn't hook up before she left town. She wants me to go to Dallas to visit her. I told her I'll be in TX in the next few weeks which is true.

She asked my last name. I texted back an incorrect common name, though I made it a 'variety' of my real name by using the first 3 letters of my real name. Plausible deniability I can say spellcheck filled it in automatically with an incorrect name if I ever do tell her my real name. That is, if I ever see her again.

I think I'll text her when I'm in TX and see if she'll drive to the city I'll be in.

Fuck!

Just had this hottie little 23 year old over my place. Went caveman on her and didn't get the bang.

Standard setup for getting her to come over to my place. We had great banter via text, and things were looking pretty solid.

The two red flags were that she "isn't drinking" for the summer, because she's training for a bikini competition. And also, she had to bail by 10pm to go babysit her friends kid.

So I'm thinking: "alright, I don't have a lot of time with this girl, and she doesn't drink. I am going to have to go in strong and sexual."

I warm her up via text beforehand telling her that if she likes my music playlist, then she has to make out with me, blah blah blah, and she is biting on all of my bait. Good sign!

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She rolls up and I can't stop staring at her tits and ass. Anyway, my sexualization is going according to plan. Within 25mins I've had my hands all over her as I showed her around my place, and talked about some shit with her. I am being much more aggressive and moving faster than I normally do, and she is accepting all my advances without a flinch.

Soon after we're sitting on one of my couches. I got my hand on her leg, pull her hand and put it on mine. I can tell she wants me to kiss her, so I go in for it and we start making out.

I bounce her around my place, push her against the wall, standard stuff that gets the pussy juices flowing.

Pop off her shirt and bra, and she starts slowing me down and is like "I'm a good girl" and "I'm not taking off any more clothes" and shit like that. I think I believe her, because although she's kissing me back, she's not really using her body, and isn't very sexy to me. I mean, she's got a great bod, but she isn't using it.

I tell her to get on top of me and kiss me, and she says "no." At which point I know the whole thing is over. Non-compliance is a major mood killer because I know what it implies.

Long story short, she gets dressed again and tells me she has to leave.

In and out within an hour and fifteen minutes!

Anyway, here's a picture of her tits:

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I was texting one of my boys after, and his reply had me laughing.

I wrote: "Dude, she didn't drink, I had no idea what to do with her."

And he writes back: "Nah, sounds like you knew exactly what to do. You got a closer look at those titties. Mission accomplished."

On to the next one....

^And she is wearing a cross around her neck. Not that it always matters, but no drinking etc etc... You gave it a good shot.

Had a date with a really cute blond cheerleader from my college. Just ended in a kiss close, but she is worth waiting a few dates for a bang IMO. Was in Vegas over the weekend and garage pulled a hot El Slavadoran women. She gave me a BJ in the parking garage and I cum all over her face. Would've banged had I had a car to pull to. Was a fun weekend in Vegas.

ATOWN, (assuming you're from ATL...if so props!) are you doing a summer session? I'm curious of what the campus life is like if you are. Been to a couple of Universities but perhaps it was the days we went that played a factor in who was on campus.

I haven't been posting here lately (nothing exciting...standard game and some drama BS) but I wanna give a shoutout to everyone who regularly posts here.

It's always interesting to see the random day to day things that happen, and how guys are progressing.

I guess I might as well give a few updates.

Came back from a music festival 2 weeks ago, stayed 5 days with my good friend, my main, and this music crew I know.

It was fucking fun, everyone dug my girl, told us we were one of the best looking couples that weekend.

My boy was a solid 3rd wheel (he's married with a kid) so he was excited to be out of the house, he just wanted to get high and party.

However, I also wished I didn't bring sand to the beach because there were so many hot hipster/punker girls. I wasn't getting away with that since I had a wild fucking time solo at another more well known music festival.

Then again there was a girl who ended knowing my main....she seemed pretty interested in my main....I was trying to parlay that into a threesome didn't work out of course. I was crouching in a large group photo and this cutie plops her ass on my knee and gives me a semi kiss....right in front of some dude she was with of all things.

I also noticed alot of the girls in our crew weren't that top notch but they were eye fucking me when my girl wasn't around - of course most were cold when around my main

I ended up hanging out with one of my favorite bands and doing blow in the bathroom with the drummer - I swear European dudes are so chill he even invited me out the next night before they left for another country.

All in all the main is chill, I've got a few plates I see regularly, the one that really sticks out is the transplant from chicago, aka blondie booty, if she just lost a few more pounds she'd be a hard 8, but her tits are money. She loves giving me head, and I'm the first guy she's done it too.

I've literally been switching between girls I'm banging the last 2 weeks straight with maybe a day off - I'm sort of getting burned out by....banging so much. (first world problems right ?)

I think I need to take some time off and recharge, but then again I might have a lay up lay tonight so who knows.

I think I might be a little addicted to banging and constantly farming numbers, I got to keep off my phone for a bit. Maybe I'll take this weekend to reset myself.

(06-03-2015 10:48 PM)ordinaryleastsquared Wrote:  ^And she is wearing a cross around her neck. Not that it always matters, but no drinking etc etc... You gave it a good shot.

Yeah man that's what I was thinking. Religious girl that doesn't drink, it was probably a long shot from the start.

I also figured I post a lot of success stories, that I ought to share a story of coming up short.

It's good for the ego to face failures head on.

BlurredSevens I really appreciate you posting the field report of coming up short. I have nothing but the upmost respect for your game but it's reassuring to see someone as experienced as you struggle from time to time. I've had many experiences just like yours where I got a woman back to my place and it seemed like all lights were green and then she flatly refused any escalation attempts from me. It goes to show that as tight as games can be and as experienced as we are at overcoming objections there's just no getting a 'yes' out of a flat 'no' girl.

Used to bother me but now, I don't let it get me down some women get off on taking guys (specifically players) to the brink and then shutting them down

Next time look at the twisted since of vindication in their eyes

Makes them feel desired and fulfills their need for attention

*If they were genuine, they won't mind coming back a 2nd time

Me and a buddy golfing yesterday. We're walking up to the 12th green and he says:

"I think I'm gonna try and get with Sara this weekend"

Now, this is a chic in our social circle we hang with all the time. She's mid-30's, but still solid 7. I've always assumed I'd bang her eventually, I just don't go too overt in the social circle...figure I'd wait till were both a few drinks deep and just go home together.

Anyway, my buddy is one of those guys who, while a good friend who I spend a lot of time with, annoys me with this sorta shit, for the following reasons.

1) Why not say "I think I'm gonna fuck Sara tonight". I mean, we're fairly honest with each other. Hell, why say anything. I actually don't think he said it for me to stay away, he was actually just making conversation and thinking out loud.
2) I think he'd be more annoyed if I fucked her now than before he said that...whether that was his intention or not.
3) I think he'd be pissed for banging a chic a couple months ago he'd been pining for. I think he'd be pissed he talked a lot to me about this chic (this girl was a 25 yr old solid 8) only to find out I fucked her.

Anyway, she just texted me and told me my friend and her were gonna bar crawl Friday..."you should come".

My buddy's attitude and actions just make me wanna ramp the flirting up...actually something I started to do last weekend a bit.

Something interesting I've noticed is that the last two notches I got from OKC were women who answered "yes" to "would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date?" My first instinct was to chalk up the bangs to them being easy/sexually liberated but I'm wondering if some of it is due to my feeling more confident and relaxed that as long as I gamed them properly and just played the chill guy the bang was all but guaranteed? It's kind of a chicken or the egg type of question but I thought it would be interesting to ask...

Pays to have good friends. My bro met a girl off Tinder and she invited him over to swim with her and her friend so he brings me along. A pack of beer and some separation later and he's banging one out in her room while I bangs the other on the couch.

Good day.

Had a really fun date, the only irritant was I drove more than halfway for her (it was less than 30 minutes).

She's 29 going on 30, has a baby face, and a cute smile.

Her pictures made her look like almost an 8. We talk on the phone a bit, she loves my shit talking and perverted talk. She's surprised that she's expected to drive to me, I tell her if I'm going anywhere near her, she's paying for the first round.

I show up automatically drop her half a point, she definitely thick, but she's got thick nice ass and her tits are just pouring of her low cut shirt.

We hit it right off the bat, she buys a pitcher of beer and got to know each other a bit, I dropped my standard "well you've made it past 15 minutes" -instant hamstering-

The venue was turning into a sausage fest and we were people watching, I could tell alot of people were eye fucking my girl, obviously because her tits were falling out. We finish our pitcher of beer and bounce to another venue.

There's an older lady working the bar, it's dead, perfect.

My date talked about not staying out late earlier, it's already 11, and we're having another beer. I keep teasing her and she's eating it up.

She's actually a really cool girl, bubbly personality, told me she hasn't laughed this hard in a long time.

Turns out two years ago she let herself go towards the end of a relationship, she's lost 45 pounds, and losing more.

Which is pretty impressive, but obviously not LTR material.

I tease her about the time and being an old lady and being up late, clearly she's enjoying herself, even kills more time by putting music into the jukebox.

The bar closes at midnight we leave, walk out to her car, we chat for a bit. I come closer, she thinks I'm going to kiss her so she gets ready but I just wanted to hear her better

Then I tell her I have to bounce and she comes in close not knowing what to expect, I kiss her, she sighs and hmmms a bit. I break it off and tell her good night.

Then realize I can't cut through a restaurant to get to my car so I walk back and get into her car.

We chat as she drives and with a smirk tell her you think I'm going to get in her and not kiss you again she "awwws" me as we kiss which I interrupt with a smart ass remark and kiss her again. Break it off and bounce and she please that I text her that I'm home safe.

Of course I didn't, she also texts me this morning to see if I'm ok.

Clearly there will be a second date and she's coming my way.

Just shut down a cute faced 6 (more than likely a SIF) suggesting I come visit her.

She showed she was really interested but "not really wanting to drive to (my city) haha"

"I rebutted asking "so If I drive near your to you, you wouldn't do the same?"

Girl: I would but I think it's good for the guy to make that little trip first dont you think ? Call me weird but I believe in Chivalry "

Me: It's not weird, chivarly is earned not given, tell you what meet me in (city that is in the middle), great spot plenty of bars, lots of fun"

Girl: "Well i think this date came to a halt"



Me: "It's a meet and greet . That's fine, I'm just not going to be pushover and drive all the way to you on the off chance we dont vibe and I leave early (which has happened a few times) Time is extremely precious to me, (X city) is more than halfway for me to you, I'm happy to met you there. If not, it's all good, the door is always open for you."

I have no intention of meeting this entitled hamster, I'm sure her hamster will go into overdrive when she read it lol.

This was more of a polite nuclear option.

Online chicks are fickle, got denied by a chick with no avatar (maybe lucky/maybe was troll?) that had a pretty full inbox. Then matched with a HB 7.5 black chick who's probably waiting before she replies to my initial message. I really have to make something of the weekend. I have a feeling cold approach may be a bit better.

^honestly not a fan of online sifting through dating profiles and messaging people. A fan of my local coffee shop, night club, or rave. That and I'm not a fan of taking pictures. Rarely do I end up in them.

Hungarian flag captured. We met on Tinder and went out for drinks about a year ago and kept in touch. She was in town for a show with friends the other night, I tagged along, went full caveman and was making out with her within 15 minutes. She ditched her friends so I could take her home to get the notch. She texted me "You'e so much more foward than I expected." a couple hours later.

On that 'chivalry' line, You should have said 'Come to mine and I'll hold the door open for you.'

Met a cutie at an anime convetion. Went there to game sexy bikini girls and look at nerdy shit.

Found out she is one of those cam girls after I banged her.
Still banging her.

Anyone want to shine some light on this plate?

Last night we had farewell drinks at the place I work at for one of the chefs and his waitress partner. Free booze and pizza for two hours either side of midnight. Suffice to say that it was interesting to observe the animal kingdom was still alive and well, seeing everyone form into cliques and then bunches of chefs and waiters macking en masse on the few cute waitresses available.

For the longest time I've been neglecting game due to having crap logistics, and tonight was no exception. I was chatting and being social, but when you have a certain goal in mind, yet you pre-emptively decide that the odds are against you, you don't bring your A-game. All I could do was sit back and watch with an amused expression as other guys tried their luck.

When time came for us to bounce venues, I decided to leave for home early instead - going out just to get drunk gives me no pleasure any more. I'd rather sit at a nice outdoor bar and smoke a cigar over a cold beer than try to compete for a girl's affections in a sausage fest.

This morning one of the cute waitresses texted me asking is she did anything stupid, because she couldn't remember how she got home. Girl, you're all grown up, a strong-indepedent woman ™, you can take care of yourself and what you did last night is none of my business.

TLDR - Crap logistics kills motivation and damages mindset.