ryansoldat
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RE: Soma's Jakarta (Big Durian) Nightlife Guide
Hi,
I will be there the 30th around 9am if some of you will be around Jakarta lemme know i will try x2 for the first night i think
Cheers
Ryan
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JayJuanGee
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RE: Soma's Jakarta (Big Durian) Nightlife Guide
(04-19-2014 04:32 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote: (04-19-2014 03:48 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote: That statement logically does NOT sound right - b/c wouldn't this depend upon whether these good english speaking girls are exposed to English speaking foreigner men. If she learned her english in school and by hanging out with elites within her country, she may NOT have been meeting very many foreign men. And, ratio of foreign men to Jakarta women is NOT very high, or is my understanding incorrect? Are you speaking from experience Chinito Loco...? Your assertion , just sounds strange to me.
Long story short is that these social circles tend to be much smaller than they appear. This is especially true if you're hanging out with people that like to party and have a decent amount of money in what is basically a third world country. People in these "money" places know each other pretty well.
My thing (whether it's in the Philippines, Thailand, or Indonesia) has always been to hang out with well heeled westernized local friends who know the scene well. The girls who have money and like to party tend to do it a lot and much more than they will let on due to face reasons etc.. I have experience with many girls with money who aren't "whores" per se but juggle boyfriends as well because they enjoy a good time and have the freedom to do so. With the fluent english comes a degree of westernization but just not total westernization into bitchy feminist territory.
Fluent English and hanging out in the club scene goes hand in hand with this lifestyle. If she's even slightly hot it's likely she has a decent amount of attention and experience anyways even if the ratios are way off in a place like Jakarta. This is also true in Manila or Bangkok.
It seems that you have changed the variables a little bit, and added "hanging out in the club scene." I have little doubt that girls who hang out in the club scene are probably more sexually active than girls who are NOT hanging out in the club scene, yet my point remains that the mere fact that an asian girl in any of those destinations who happens to speak English well would NOT necessarily automatically cause her to have ridden the cock carousel anymore than some girl who barely speaks english.
In other words, I would think that we need more information about the girl - for example, her life style and where and how she learned english to determine how likely that she has been sexually active or how likely she may lie about her past sexual activity (if it matters).
Accordingly, if a guy is worried about girls riding the cock carousel too much, there are probably better ways to screen those kinds of girls out, if a guy thinks that is an issue, besides jumping to conclusions about them being sexually active merely based on that fact that she may speak very good English.
(This post was last modified: 04-19-2014 05:45 AM by JayJuanGee.)
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JayJuanGee
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RE: Soma's Jakarta (Big Durian) Nightlife Guide
(04-19-2014 05:56 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote: (04-19-2014 05:42 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote: It seems that you have changed the variables a little bit, and added "hanging out in the club scene." I have little doubt that girls who hang out in the club scene are probably more sexually active than girls who are NOT hanging out in the club scene, yet my point remains that the mere fact that an asian girl in any of those destinations who happens to speak English well would NOT necessarily automatically cause her to have ridden the cock carousel anymore than some girl who barely speaks english.
Sure, but my original reply was in response to someone talking about going to places where bule chasing girls hang out in abundance ie. the club scene. I don't think I was changing the variables as you said. If you are meeting them at some other social function then that may be a different story. But like I said before when it comes to girls with money in the third world it's a small world overall. The ones who have money, speak fluent english, like to party, and chase foreign dick tend to do it a lot. At least that's been my experience with years of living in SEA.
O.k. fair enough.. especially if we are referring to girls in the club scene. Personally, I am NOT much of a club scene kind of guy.. except to the extent that I like to dance salsa.. Yet, i understand that the kinds of girls met are going to vary from club to club, so in that respect, there may be a correlation with good english speaking in the club scene and how much that girl has gone around the block.
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RE: Soma's Jakarta (Big Durian) Nightlife Guide
(04-19-2014 06:11 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote: (04-19-2014 05:56 AM)El Chinito loco Wrote: (04-19-2014 05:42 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote: It seems that you have changed the variables a little bit, and added "hanging out in the club scene." I have little doubt that girls who hang out in the club scene are probably more sexually active than girls who are NOT hanging out in the club scene, yet my point remains that the mere fact that an asian girl in any of those destinations who happens to speak English well would NOT necessarily automatically cause her to have ridden the cock carousel anymore than some girl who barely speaks english.
Sure, but my original reply was in response to someone talking about going to places where bule chasing girls hang out in abundance ie. the club scene. I don't think I was changing the variables as you said. If you are meeting them at some other social function then that may be a different story. But like I said before when it comes to girls with money in the third world it's a small world overall. The ones who have money, speak fluent english, like to party, and chase foreign dick tend to do it a lot. At least that's been my experience with years of living in SEA.
O.k. fair enough.. especially if we are referring to girls in the club scene. Personally, I am NOT much of a club scene kind of guy.. except to the extent that I like to dance salsa.. Yet, i understand that the kinds of girls met are going to vary from club to club, so in that respect, there may be a correlation with good english speaking in the club scene and how much that girl has gone around the block. 
I feel its worth mentioning that the lower class girls in jakarta give you IOIs but there parents will have serious issues with them dating a bule its hard to close and there english is not good.
If want to see this walk through/ shop in Thamrin City it is a flee market type place and the young girls working the stands will eye fuck you.
"Look Mama, no hands..."
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RE: Soma's Jakarta (Big Durian) Nightlife Guide
(05-04-2014 08:42 AM)ChrisGambi Wrote: i dont agree, why would the parents have an issue? the big issue is the language barrier. into culture is pretty open.
Good girls who live with their parents are under curfew. Reminds me of a Russian joke:
-Why does a good girl have to be in bed by 9?
-Because she has to be home by 11.
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RE: Soma's Jakarta (Big Durian) Nightlife Guide
(05-04-2014 09:34 AM)Brodiaga Wrote: Good girls who live with their parents are under curfew. Reminds me of a Russian joke:
-Why does a good girl have to be in bed by 9?
-Because she has to be home by 11.
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Seadog
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RE: Soma's Jakarta (Big Durian) Nightlife Guide
The parents would have an issue because of religion. Indonesia is very much a third world, uneducated place. In that sort of climate religion and superstition take off. Women will smile, giggle, chat with you, but beyond that it *can* be difficult to go further (woman specific). For some women you're a novelty, but not a serious relationship prospect.
A couple examples, basically our whole shop would shut down Friday at 1130 for 2 hours so people can go to mosque. It was me, the one Christian guy, and a non-religious, but raised Muslim girl who stuck around the shop. I made some inroads with her, but after some talk, she said she was basically 'expected' to marry a Muslim. This is a country that doesn't recognize Atheism. Another girl who I banged got to talking, and she basically said she had to marry a Muslim, she would date and sleep with non-muslims, but that if her bf didn't convert before marriage, they couldn't be together. I had a boss from the states who married a local girl. He had to convert to appease the family. He doesn't take it seriously at all, but on paper he's Muslim which is often all they care about. Even the non-muslims are super into religion. Kind of like Catholicism in the Philippines.
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