Post: #51

I need to get past the threshold. I don't know about any of you comrades but if I haven't fucked in a minute or I'm fucking a new girl there is a definite "quick nut window" where I feel like I could bust right outta the gate. I need to get through that window then I can last a long time.

Anyway, for me I have to chill out on dick sensation if it's really intense. Pull out for a sec and take a breather. Tease her with your dick or much muff for a minute. Also I will put my head somewhere else. Think about your grandparents and baseball.

I used to work at a machine shop this this old timer named Bob. Awesome guy used to fuck off and chat all day while our machines would run or waiting for inspection. Anyway, often times I would think about him explaining shit to me. If only he knew...

Post: #52

(12-12-2016 02:34 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Anyway, for me I have to chill out on dick sensation if it's really intense....

....often times I would think about him explaining shit to me. If only he knew...

Something else you wanna tell us here Stalin...

real talk though, I think about my great grandma naked saggy gross titties and keep the stroke going. Shit snaps me out of a quick nut and hasn't failed me yet.

(12-12-2016 09:18 AM)Meat Head Wrote:  Girl on top.

Bust quickly in first round and wait for round two.

Who cares if you come quickly? She should take it as a compliment.

The grandma thing has also backfired on me multiple times where I just get tried from fucking or she cums and I'll take a water break. The girl I'm currently banging our first few rounds I came once. One the second time we hung out we got drunk together and in the AM she was on some super self conscious shit. SUPER. Talking about how I never came with her and that I didn't find her attractive and that I should find another girl. I asked her if thats what she really wanted--she says no. Ask her if she likes me fucking her--she says yes.

Shit was bananas.

Managed to calm her ass down and now I make it a mission to cum every single time. I thought I was satisfying her with me giving her orgasms turns out she needs my nut lol.

Similar situations have happened in the past and I'm noticing a trend.
Fucking her to orgasm with some deep conversion dirty talk and myself NOT CUMMING has yeilded all of my repeat bangs...All of them.

Post: #53

Maybe those 2 things will help someone :

1) Elevate your "fuck game" to professional level like there is something to gain out of it. No pleasure, no fun, you're there to plow your way to her heart, insert some talk about how you want her to feel about you.

2) One Trantric yoga practice is delaying the orgasm(pleasure) and the éjaculation(cum getting out). You'll have a semi-limp dick for some minutes and it also take the sensitive sensation off but if you keep plowing you'll get hard again.

The inconvénient is that you need to fuck a lot to see results with this but this way of doing it will get you some mémorable moments.

Post: #54

The porn star way of practise is to masterbate and not cum, take a break and do that again repeatedly. After a while you will get much better control of it.

Endurance condoms also do help.

I have periods of a couple of weeks here and there where I finish after 5 minutes whilst for the majority of time I can easily last all night.

Post: #55

Viagra, booze and condoms

Post: #56

Off topic. If you have erection problems will a girl leave you or stick around to help you overcome your condition?

Post: #57

^ An average-to-hot girl from the West? 100% no chance. Too many options to stick it out with softcocks

Post: #58

How long have you been together?? How old are you that you can't get it up?

Post: #59

^It was a hypothetical question.

Post: #60

Is it possible to pick up Viagra or something similar over the counter? I suffer from occasional whiskey dick syndrome and trouble getting it up quickly during repeated sessions.

Post: #61

try Indian pharmas online that use the same factory that just makes extra pills on the side [i.e. all of them] Do a bit of research and you'll be fine for something like V.

Post: #62

Well, one thing I just found out was that jerking it in the morning before banging that night seems to help. I was trying to lay off that practice, but I guess going a few days without an orgasm makes it happen much faster.

Post: #63

Can't go wrong with the ol' tried and true approach of "cleaning the pipes" before a date.

   

Post: #64

I didn't really believe it until I experienced it --- 30+ year old girls, any booze, a lot of times barely can get wood. Young girls, even with booze? Watch out, and quickly.

It's amazing how scarlet the red pill really is.

Post: #65

Yeah its easier to last longer when drunk or you masturbated before, but i wouldnt recommend both. I shoot huge loads and i dont wanna waste them on masturbation, the chick should take it. And you cant get drunk all the time before fucking chicks.
I suffered similar issues too, they all disappeared quite easily. First no porn and no masturbation. Then best is to find a chick to fuck whos outside of your friends circle and that you can fuck a lot of times. On the beginning these condoms who make you last longer can help. Roll them over when getting the boner, then finger them (or do something else) for 5 minutes and then fuck.
After i had sex on a regular basis with a couple of chicks again it completely disappeared.
Now, sometimes, when Im too horny, it can happen that I come quite early but who gives a fuck. Next time I fuck them even longer.
Only thing I experienced lately is that like after 1 hour of sex my boner disappears. Ah yeah, and I usually take cordyceps as daily supplement, heard it helps too.
But in the end I think, the more you fuck, the longer you last.

Post: #66

When I started posting I talked about my dedication to a slow/gentle technique. Well, a big part of that evolved out of a desire to last longer. I didn't know it at the time but I was discovering edging. It's also, presumably, similar to tantric sex, only without completely denying the male orgasm.

I really don't think it's possible to go fast/aggressive straight through for a long time. I see it in porn but then the guys have become so desensitized that they wind up having to wank off for two minutes at the end. You don't want to rewire your brain/sensations to the point where it's not even pleasurable anymore.

Post: #67

Sometimes I last for 2 minutes. Sometimes I can for a long time. If I'm fucking a new young fwb I just met - I don't usually last very long the first time or two. Nerves. So turned on by a new young body. whatever. It's OK. By the third time I see her I can relax, last longer. I like to live in the moment - think about her body, her skin, her nipples, her lips. Enjoy the taste. the feel. I want her to enjoy me. So thinking about baseball isn't my style. I also don't masturbate before - I like that first explosion to be in her. So the key is to fuck - maybe it's 10 minutes the first time and do your thing. I like her to cum, too. Then lay around in bed, tease her, whatever for 20-25 minutes until you can go again. Second time I can go for a long time. She'll be sore that night and my cock will be worked by then. Good day.

Post: #68

Squats and deadlifts, seriously.

Post: #69

I know this remedy won't be popular with "No Fappers," but for the rest of us who enjoy a nice, occasional wank -- next time you're watching porn, don't use it to get off quickly. Instead, use it to help "train" your dick to prolong orgasm by subjecting it to longer durations of sensation without release.

Other alternatives are:

. Repeated exposure to that which causes your premature ejaculation until you become more desensitized to it.

or

. Avoidance of exposure to that which causes your premature ejaculation until later in the session when it's more acceptable to "blam." (e.g. if you find "doggie style" to be a particularly enticing, save it for later and start with missionary position)

Post: #70

I have gotten to the point where I bang so long I cant even nut. My question is how do I cum quicker?

Post: #71

When using condoms I can usually go pretty long. But hitting it raw...oof, that's when I can run into trouble. Here's some methods

Bust one out beforehand: Of course this works. But on the downside, it reduces the pleasure you feel in the act. Usually if I plan on having sex one evening, I will try and bust one out that morning/afternoon.

Condom: Condoms reduce sensitivity. Start out using a condom and then switch to raw later.

BREATHE: The simple act of maintaining a constant in-out breathing pattern during sex will help you. We tend to unconsciously hold our breath during sex.

Dont clench your butt muscles/Kegel muscles: Along with breathing, focus on not clenching our muscles

Yoga: Sex after a yoga class gives me more control (as well as having a natural viagra effect)

Piss beforehand: Having to pee makes me cum faster

SMILE: Here is something I discovered during a wank session. If you smile really hard (so you can feel it in your cheeks) this prevents you from cumming. Try it. This method works well when she can't see your face.

A lubed vagina: A wetter vag leads to lasting longer. If there's too much friction it makes me bust faster, especially when initially entering the vag. So use lube.

Hotter chicks: Strangely enough I last longer w/ hotter chicks. I think it's because I'm enjoying it so much more that subconscously I don't want it to end.

Substances:

Alcohol: A couple drinks can work wonders, just don't go overboard

Dapoxetine: This is the only drug prescribed for premature ejac. I've tried it and it works. It is an SSRI. It can be ordered from overseas pharmacies. You need to take it a hour or so before sex. Probably not something you want to use often.

Opiates/Kratom: Any kind of opiate (vicodin/percocet) will make it harder to cum. Kratom works similarly.

MDMA: Makes it harder to reach orgasm, but also can affect your erection if the dose is too high.

Post: #72

(01-10-2017 06:57 AM)Pride male Wrote:  I have gotten to the point where I bang so long I cant even nut. My question is how do I cum quicker?

Same here. If I dont focus on my blasting I'll just go and go and tire out without nutting (which sucks). Over the years Ive wondered if choking it 3-4 a day every day in my early teens gave me "leather dick" or something.

If I dislike the girl as a person I'll have fun with it.

PT: "What's wrong with you? Can't you make me cum?"

Her

Post: #73

This has recently became a problem for me...Busting too early. Last night, in two separate sessions, I lasted probably 20 minutes total. It was pretty intense and she came a few times herself, but I used to be able to last a lot longer.

I think my issue is that I have seriously reduced the time I have spent on fapping. I was a once a day (at least) for years. But I have gone down to once a week over the last 6 months. The advantage is my erections are rock hard, but the disadvantage is it feels so fucking good and I am finishing too early. I have to find a happy medium.

Post: #74

Has anyone ever gotten a Tantric Massage. I heard they can help you last longer in bed.

Post: #75

- Talk to your doctor about priligy. Tell doc you are having pre-ejaculation issues and tryed everything and nothing works. All porn stars are on priligy. Kiegals, Kiegals, Kiegals!!! Do 100-200 reps every other day starting out. After a month hold the squeeze for 20 sec for each rep. (Will take you 30 mins or so) Do these for 8 months and gurentee you #1. Your pre-ejac issues will vanish. #2 you will be able to literally shoot your cum a couple feet (yes this is how porn stars are able to shoot there cum). #3 It increases the size of your dick, bothing crazy but mine increased about .25 inch when first starting out.

#2 Practice edging. Edging is a method where you masturbate and bring yourself near ejaculation and keigal to either hold the nut or nut in your bladder (ppl nut in there bladder all the time and don't know it.)

#3 Look into hydro pumps. I have a bathmate extreme x30. Google it if you are serious. This pump is one of the best things I bought for girth penis gains, and lasting longer. I speak from experience. Not to brag but I am Well Hung. Been doing exactly what I explain for a little over 2 years now. I can last a good 20 mins before I enter that (point of no return) and when I do, just do a quick kiegal and keep going rock hard. If you get serious about this shot, you can literally last as long as YOU want to. You choose when to nut. I'm not going to post any links but I remember reading a coupke good write ups over at goodlookingloser.com a few years back. How serious are you at controlling your nut?