Post: #51

(03-13-2013 11:01 PM)Fredster Wrote:  SO I took your advise and when she made fun of me, I told her " I rather be short than have your personality and brain "

the BF full on white knighted me and started a physical shoving, but I lift, so he was quite weak . I held him down and while doing so, I told her" your personality is so bad, that you hooked up with someone like that, but if you were just less superficial , you could have found an awesome person who, even if he was shorter than you."

The guy tried to throw hooks this time round, , I took one to the face, blocked the second one and told him" why do you defend her, you can do so much better than her, plus your rich and tall ".


Gonna try to make some new friends in my new uni course I started.

Thank you for your help everyone.

Kind of a sad ending, but I admire you still trying to explain and help the guy after he attacked you. Some real spiritual generosity there. I would have just hated him hahahha.

Post: #52

Look forward to hear how she behaves next time you see her...

Thought you stood your ground and maybe more important, sent the message that you will tolerate a joke yes...but not harassment!

Ps. What idiot would defend a girlfriend if she bigmouths and get it back? I would pull her away from the situation and tell her to not look for trouble she can`t handle herself.

Post: #53

these are not real friends....

Post: #54

(03-13-2013 11:01 PM)Fredster Wrote:  SO I took your advise and when she made fun of me, I told her " I rather be short than have your personality and brain "

the BF full on white knighted me and started a physical shoving, but I lift, so he was quite weak . I held him down and while doing so, I told her" your personality is so bad, that you hooked up with someone like that, but if you were just less superficial , you could have found an awesome person who, even if he was shorter than you."

The guy tried to throw hooks this time round, , I took one to the face, blocked the second one and told him" why do you defend her, you can do so much better than her, plus your rich and tall ".

I saw something in his face changed, like I had gotten through to him( I hope), he backed down, and everyone went and comforted her( like WTF???, she was did not even fight, how is she a victim? I really hate feminism).

She was speechless and that incident broke up the whole social circle, but I don't care, no point hanging out with a bunch of betas. I have not heard from them since.

Gonna try to make some new friends in my new uni course I started.

Thank you for your help everyone.

First off. I have no clue who you are. But I'm proud. Oh so proud. Second of all, you made the right choice. Women complain, men take action. You took action. Third, as a guy who trains in muay thai, i don't get why the average jerk off even throws a punch. They have no clue how to fight, and when they do (unless they are large and/or naturally athletic or have training) they just look sad. It's why I'm always humble. So I don't get 'humbled' by joe schmoe off the street. You stood your ground. Faggy friends who let their girls talk shit to their friends aren't friends at all. Fuck them. If it's lonely that's fine. Better to be lonley and full of excitement about what the future holds vs. having dead end friends that hold you back. Everyone in this forum should be proud of what you did. If you're ever in the east coast US let me know, I'll get you more hammered than a sailor in singapore. Congrats.

Post: #55

Those weren't real friends and they probably talked shit about you behind your back long before you told them something.

Post: #56

This is a fascinating coming-of-age story. Keep us posted.

Post: #57

(03-13-2013 11:04 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  Kind of a sad ending, but I admire you still trying to explain and help the guy after he attacked you. Some real spiritual generosity there. I would have just hated him hahahha.

I know of feminism and how it has brainwashed men into being pussy worshiping and display just faggotry towards their fellow men rather than having a brotherhood mentality. This is why I just don't hate men who do this, I know they were raised like this. I was also this kind of person, but I am slowly trying to eliminate my negative beta-ism.

(03-13-2013 11:13 PM)The Pirate Wrote:  Look forward to hear how she behaves next time you see her...

Thought you stood your ground and maybe more important, sent the message that you will tolerate a joke yes...but not harassment!

Ps. What idiot would defend a girlfriend if she bigmouths and get it back? I would pull her away from the situation and tell her to not look for trouble she can`t handle herself.

Yeah he is a beta guy who hit the genetic jackpot and has money to booth so he will still get girls, but low quality girls. It is guys like that that inflate women's ego to a high level so it makes it even harder for the less attractive shorter guys<-- I don't know how much of this is true, but this is from personal experience.

And there will not be a next time, I refuse to ever meet up with them. I know this sounds cold, but these people are just generally bad people and not good for my mental state if I am trying to improve.

(03-13-2013 11:24 PM)nek Wrote:  First off. I have no clue who you are. But I'm proud. Oh so proud. Second of all, you made the right choice. Women complain, men take action. You took action. Third, as a guy who trains in muay thai, i don't get why the average jerk off even throws a punch. They have no clue how to fight, and when they do (unless they are large and/or naturally athletic or have training) they just look sad. It's why I'm always humble. So I don't get 'humbled' by joe schmoe off the street. You stood your ground. Faggy friends who let their girls talk shit to their friends aren't friends at all. Fuck them. If it's lonely that's fine. Better to be lonley and full of excitement about what the future holds vs. having dead end friends that hold you back. Everyone in this forum should be proud of what you did. If you're ever in the east coast US let me know, I'll get you more hammered than a sailor in singapore. Congrats.

Thanks man. Yeah I did not expect him to punch and shove. I assume he had some major insecurities. I have a huge height insecurity that I am working on curing, so I can relate. I did not punch back even though I took 1-2 punches. I was just shocked at how much the situation escalated + did not want to do time in jail.I did my best to hold him down until he eventually backed down. I look forward to getting hammered really hard if I even come on vacation to the U.S. .

(03-13-2013 11:51 PM)houston Wrote:  Those weren't real friends and they probably talked shit about you behind your back long before you told them something.

I agree. I just lacked the social calibration not see this. I need to keep on making more friends to learn how to pick out this sort of faggotry . My friend network is small right now, so it must expand Right now my concern is getting ripped and getting a better job. So I can move out of my parents place, which in turn will help out with a good socail network.

Post: #58

Damn dude. You're a tough motherfucker — and you got a good heart. Mad respect.

Post: #59

this fredster guy is a well known troll on other forums. i have evidence if anyone wants to see it.

Post: #60

post it up babababalot

fuck your name was difficult to copy haha

Post: #61

I think he was referring to the facebook group where I would say silly things; the group was for entertainment purposes, so everyone jokes around.

I am a hard case with issues and I certainly had plenty of them and still do now, but I never had the intention of trolling or spamming forums like this or the melb lair, because I know and respect that these are self help forums.

Post: #62

You should pull her aside and ask her to please stop.

Post: #63

(03-14-2013 01:25 AM)babababalot Wrote:  this fredster guy is a well known troll on other forums. i have evidence if anyone wants to see it.

Yay more troll accusations

Post: #64

(03-13-2013 11:01 PM)Fredster Wrote:  She was speechless and that incident broke up the whole social circle, but I don't care, no point hanging out with a bunch of betas. I have not heard from them since.

Gonna try to make some new friends in my new uni course I started.

Thank you for your help everyone.

Super glad to read this. Way to maintain frame and be willing to lose their friendships. You learned that they weren't really good friends OR good people in the first place and now you're free of them. As you focus on your goals and begin to achieve them, the growth you experience will leave you astonished that you ever associated with them and you won't miss them one bit.

One bit of advice, I'd completely ignore any girls that bring up your height in person if they continue to bring it up past the point of it just being a shit test. Not worth having someone swing at you because they're trying to white knight some axe wound.

Post: #65

You stood tall, and did the right thing. We're proud of you Fred.