(03-01-2013 10:17 AM)Hooligan Harry Wrote: (02-28-2013 07:53 PM)Mersault Wrote: (02-28-2013 07:43 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote: (02-28-2013 07:36 PM)Mersault Wrote: Romanian girls, as any European will probably know, are recognised as the easiest in Europe.
Didn't know that.
Is that the indisputable truth?
Like, if you asked anyone on the street, "What are the easiest girls in Europe?"
People will respond, "Without question, Romanian girls."
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Indisputable truth? Well, that's an epistemological conundrum. When it comes to such normative statements, i think we might agree there are no absolute indisputable truths. Let me put it this way...
a European businessman has money and a reputation to consider.
If he marries an Italian he gains in credibility.
If he marries a French girl he gains in credibility.
The same for Sweden, Norway and, perhaps, Denmark. Finland, not really.
If he marries a Bulgarian it's because he didn't have enough game, money or credibility to 'get' an Italian, French, Scandinavian and didn't have enough confidence to get a Romanian. Moldovan's are even lower.
Sure, these are weak social strata i am describing here, but the perceptions run through a typical European mind. A Spanish construction worker who marries a Romanian is seen as having 'bought' her because she is easy. And that is a low Spaniard, and a Spaniard is a lower European in the standards (compared to Italian, German, Scandinavian, French, British etc).
Hmm. This is cultural actuality without the required deconstruction to prove it or convince you that it is anything more than a theory. Perhaps another time i will think this out and make it clear, but, right now, i maintain what i said. Romanian girls are considered easy, the easiest in Europe, and any man with one is seen as having bought her, regardless of how hot she is. Now, sure, that also applies to Russians and Poles, and so on, but with Romanians, it is seen as a little cheaper.
Is it fair, or even prudent? Probably not. But it is a type of meme that runs through a western European individuals mind.
This is an outright crock of shit.
Romanian women are not easy, its just that so many of them are whores these days simply because the typical financial situation of the average Romanian is brutal by European standards. One of Romania's biggest exports is its women and this is driven predominantly by poverty. Romanians abroad are not an indication of Romanians in Romania at all though.
Its one poorest of the Eastern European countries and the women are prone to fucking their way out of poverty, as was the case in most of EE and Russia when it was in the pits too. Which means that all those players talking up how easy Romanian women are, are banging out pro's for the most part. Either in their own countries as they mack it up in brothels and strip clubs which are inundated with Romanians, or in Romania itself, which has been hammered by sex tourists from Italy and Turkey in particular.
And how the hell does any man gain credibility based on the nationality of the woman he marries? Im curious to know how marrying a French or Italian women ADDS to ones credibility. Likewise how there is some sort of European ranking championship underway where a womans nationality somehow holds some sort of status marker? Christ, I have no idea where people come with this shit sometimes.
Anyone who has been to Romania will tell you that Romanian women are probably some of the most diverse in Europe. Romania is a melting pot of Slav, Balkan, Gypsy, Turk, Persian and European to the point that the people can often be so diverse in looks you wont know what the hell their nationality was until they told you they were Romanian. They are probably the most exotic women on the continent. Which means you could have walked past 100 Romanians in the street yesterday and not even realised that they were fucking Romanians 95% of the time.
Its not a place to trust people easily and the women are no different. There are a lot of scammers there and the women are no different in some cases. Which means whoring is a national pass time in the place for many women, but that is not a reflection on all of them.
Romania is no easier or more difficult than most places in Eastern Europe. As always location will matter. The women are very approachable for the most part, and while some have bitch shields they are not a mile high. Its easy to plow through it though and its not over the top by any means, but it exists because of the sex tourists that have been hunting there for two decades now. Decent chicks and middle class chicks are going to take the mandatory 2-3 dates/nights out to lay unless you really hit her buttons right. SNL is always possible, but its not always certain there at all and the women are pretty damn conservative despite the fact that they are affectionate.
Looks wise they are right up there. I have a thing for brunettes with very green eyes or blue eyes and its the one place I have found it the most common. There are a lot of average women there by EE standards, but there are some outright stunners that will knock your socks off too.
This is one of the odd things about Romania. There are a lot of average looking women by EE standards. A lot more 4's and 5's and some real pigs. Its just that the 9's and 10's are so off the chain sometimes that the fuglies become invisible.
The top 10% of women in Romania would arguably be some of the best in the world.
In Romania you can bang more 7's and 8's per approach then anywhere else i have been. Yes, it might be 2 dates after the initial meet, that doesn't detract from the point. How so you might ask? Well...again, i will resort to zooming out and generalising, but, were you to take a Moscovite 7-8 on a couple of dates, you would need to play it pretty well, put in some work, and then maybe get the bang, depending on so many external factors you might as well be gambling on whether the borsch she had for lunch was warm or hot. See, to my mind, regardless of game, there are factors beyond oneself that contribute to an end result. I might chance to work some incredible wit, humour and innuendo into a discussion, have her drink, and do everything else correct besides, and still end up NOT banging, whilst, on another time with a Russian 7-8, for whatever it is worth, i might be in a nihilistic mood, talk about ennui, mumble my way through proceedings and be as charming as a broken headphone, but still end up with the bang. How and why? Simply, by my reckoning, because something are beyond our control, which is a truth i am willing to cede to and not argue with. To think otherwise is to have no wisdom. Not that i have wisdom. No no. Yes yes. Anyway.
The point i am trying to make is that in other countries, like Russia (specifically Moscow), getting a 7-8 on a date isn't that hard. It's not like turning a pillow, but it isn't like changing sheets. It takes a bit of effort, but not loads. In Romania it is even slightly easier. And, as the little example above attempted to show, once you have them out again, where it is all up in the air and we try to direct probability / chance in our favour, well, in Moscow, let's say that we need that probability chance favour to be on our side at, say, 70%, then we get a bang, whereas in Romania, so long as you don't mess up, shit, i just thought of a fairly good example. It is like a course rate with a low pass mark. So long as you don't truly mess up, just turn up, do a bit of work, present yourself as somewhat credible (achievable simply by default by being a nationality that is western as opposed to European but not being a douchebag from there) then you can get the bang with only 40% mark achieved. You need not be particularly cool, funny, interesting. Just be a little bit of something, get that 40%, and you will bang the 7-8.
That constitutes Romanian girls being easier. Oh, that is a horrible turn of phrase. Let me put it another way. Romanian girls take less work than others.
Sure, you can bang a 7-8 after 2 dates anywhere in the western world, but your chance of 1) getting them on the date 2) banging them after 2 dates...... is dependent on many things. In Romania it is easier to get them on the date and then easier to bang them through less work. That is the case not merely relative to western and northern European countries but also to eastern and southern European European ones.
If you still maintain that isn't the case then fair enough. Only i have elaborated upon my reasoning, across a handful of posts, and explained fairly clearly, although not in any way succinctly, why it is so. Romanian girls are easier.
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Now, to the other part. I never said there was a European ranking championship. I alluded to a ranking type system. What is the difference? Your terminology suggests there is an end game, with a winner, whereas mine suggests a constant table of slowly changing rankings. It is a fine subtle difference, but, either you missed it, changed my point for your own benefit, or something between the two, but, it needs to be clarified. It is not a championship. It is a ranking type system.
So. You state that such a suggestion is, well, a crock of shit and you implore for Christ to help you understand where such a theory might come from. Well, ask yourself, really, in a world ranking type strata, are Americans not considered 'above' Thai's? Or Fillipinos? Or Indians?
I think we might say that they are. Is it just? No, but this isn't an ethics class so let's avoid that debate for now and stick upon what is. Americans are considered above Thai's. An American man being with a Thai woman, well, he is seen, by his and western society at large, as having 'failed' to pick up one of his 'own', or he might be considered a seedy type, or as having 'bought' her. Again, just to clarify, i won't touch upon the ethics of such views, i will merely state the case that they are.
Now. This example is both true and easily observed, right?
Ok, wait, allow me to hold up a moment. As a fellow forum member, i'd like to add something. Excuse this pedantic form of Socratic method i am employing here, which no doubt comes across as cuntish, but i'm at a loss as to how better get the point across when it has already been missed earlier. No doubt that is my fault for not making it clear enough.
Ok. So, the example about the American, i think most would it true and readily observable? An American, in world game, is above a Thai and the other nationalities previously mentioned, plus hundreds more.
And, by similar observation, we might also agree that French, Italians, Germans, Spaniards, Danes, Swedes, Brits, are also above other nationalities in terms of 'social standing' (read...world game). I think very few would disagree on this. A man, a Swede, for example, approaching a Thai, would think, and quite accurately too, that she is reckoning upon him a type of value, one that is above herself and her other fellow suitors. Besides everything else, simply be being Swedish, he has value to her. What am i saying here? Nothing new. Nothing controversial. And yet this very thing is merely a part of the very theory you were dismissing, calling crock shit and so on. Just as America or Sweden might be above the Thai, so, too, in the upper echelons of the ranking, among Europeans, is there a strive for ranking type action constantly taking place. Just as would agree that an American would be considered above a Thai would you not consider it ridiculous if i said that a Bulgarian was above a Brit?
Yes, i think any reasonable person with a sense for the sensible and a comprehension of the world would see as much. To say that a Bulgarian, in world ranking of (appearance, credibility, etc) is above a Brit is as foolish as to say that a Peruvian man is above a Portuguese man. Sure, there are exceptions, after all, were it not for exceptions we, humans, would have gone crazy many a generation ago, but, by and large, the rules stand. A German is, in many regards, above a Greek, whilst a French is above a German and so on and so on. It isn't that hard to recognise that such a system exists, in fact, by merely acknowledging that Americans are above Thai's you are acknowledging that such a system exists. So, merely dig a little deeper and see what you find. You will find that within this ranking system there are other nationalities involved. It isn't simply black and white. It isn't Americans on one side and some Asians on the other. In between there are Kenyans, Croatians, Aussies and Chileans, all vying for ranking in world credibility. They do not do so knowingly or consciously as individuals, rather, it is a mass collective thing unseen to most eyes. It isa consequence of soft diplomacy, hard diplomacy, economics, world trends, media, culture, and everything else to boot.
Such logic, if you might care to agree, is merely a continuation, and nothing more, of the idea that Americans are considered above Thais by Thai women. If you accept that then you acknowledge the idea of social ranking by nationality.
See, just as we know that when a fridge is opened the light will usually go on, but not always, we know that within a country there is a ranking system. It is typically called class. Thanks Marxists. Now, beyond that, not 'in' countries, no no, but what i am speaking of is that 'class' that exists 'between' countries.
One above another, one below, and so on.
Now, in Europe, where we have so many nations sharing such a small space, such battle for class between these nations is nothing new. This isn't historical revisionism and it most certainly isn't economic theory applied to social studies. No. This is far simpler, cruder and yet, still, absolutely true. I don't deny i haven't formulated the argument suitable, in fact i have done so in a rush, whilst following the football and eating some bacon. Forgive me. I don't deny your anecdote served your point well (about being with the hot Romanian and her being well received for - or in spite of - it). Just as you have the anecdote that suggests her nationality wasn't an issue, i too might provide one or several that say the opposite, only i have been typing too long now and am actually going to end this hastily. I just become sick with myself for wasting too long typing this up when it occurred to me that i actually could care less what you think and if you wish to deny what is the case then fair enough. Yet, i might as well round this up. Oh this stupid vanity.
Anyway, you say, or at least insinuate that you think, that there is no social ranking between nations and not in Europe. You suggest it is preposterous that being with a beautiful Romanian girl for an Italian, for example, might be seen as a social negative, but yet you would, i imagine, readily agree that were it an American with a Thai such a social negative idea would form....
When i am comparing an American being with a Thai with a western European being with a Romanian, i am essentially acknowledging the social strata that exists in the world and is acknowledged, at some level, although not necessarily consciously, by all who partake in it. The American being with the Thai is the obvious example because they are almost two polar opposites. The western European being with the Romanian isn't that easy to see and needs a clearer less obfuscated take on things. It is like comparing a team in 7th with a team in 11th. It isn't that easy. Only, for some, it is easily and readily understood.
A Frenchman is above a Greek, and a Greek is above an Albanian. Is it fair? No. But, again, this isn't about ethics. This is about common perception. Shit, i have various passports. I know from experience (you know when you were younger and in a bar and a girl nagged you to prove you aren't local and you eventually agree after some playful teasing) that if i use my British one somewhere, as opposed to one of my Mediterranean ones, the look she gives is completely different. The very fact she will look at me different depending on which passport i produce, to me, is proof that such things such as 'class' between nations, exists. You can dispute it, as you did, but i have seen it in action and continue to do so.
This, as said before, is relative to each country but, despite that, by and large, there is a general concept of what such a ranking strata looks like.
And so, from such class perception between nations, Romanians are considered by other Europeans among the lowest in Europe. Ought they to be? Probably not. But they are. And that is the case.
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So, i have explained how and why i said that Romanian girls are easier than others in Europe and i have explained why my theory of social ranking between nations is quite obvious and nothing deemed worthy of being called 'a crock of shit'.
There is no satisfaction from me having done so. It was a waste of time. I might as well delete this whole thing. But it is here, i have written it, and i might as well spite you with it.