Ive been to Copenhagen last year for two days. Had pipelined 1 week before. Managed to set up two dates with a Lithuanian and a Finnish chick. Unfortunately didnt get the notch but two heavy make out. From texting I was pretty sure they were up for a second date but I didnt have the time. Im Mediterranean looking, so I guess this might he annadvantage there. Im also doing solid in Germany amd Ive heard Budapest is also good...

The worst are for sure Spain, Italy and England. I guess France and whole of East Europe could be alright. But it seems the forum is right and Tinder is slowly dying in Europe, too. Maybe Im too blended though from my horrible results in England for the last months. Had a 3 weeks break in Germany over christmas and smashed 3 chics on 3 days. After that chilled out for christmas?

(04-11-2019 03:27 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

(04-11-2019 02:27 PM)Arising Wrote:  I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

I'm 40 as well, if you aren't in a big city you're pretty much fucked.

If you can get away with it you need to change your age to 30-33. If you're actually hoping to have success on apps as a legit 40 year old you're going to be very depressed.

(04-12-2019 05:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  

(04-11-2019 03:27 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

(04-11-2019 02:27 PM)Arising Wrote:  I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

I'm 40 as well, if you aren't in a big city you're pretty much fucked.

If you can get away with it you need to change your age to 30-33. If you're actually hoping to have success on apps as a legit 40 year old you're going to be very depressed.

..but but they told us we age like French wine


even MILFs over 40 look for younger guys, from women's point of view there is no use case for 40+ yo man unless its for betabux purposes and that is not what apps are about

(04-12-2019 05:48 AM)griffinmill Wrote:  

(04-11-2019 03:27 PM)quaker13 Wrote:  

(04-11-2019 02:27 PM)Arising Wrote:  I tried doing boost, seems you have to get $raped$ by tinder in order to get some matches IF you're 'just' average looking. Anyway, Im 40 and not expecting much and, dayymm, these chicks that swipe 'like' on me, even though we're same age, look my goddamn MOTHER (and she's not hot..) or they look like they've slammed the wall HARD. All kinds of trolls popping up on the app. Its frightening, yet interesting.
Do these female beasts actually get laid from this app? I have nothing to be attracted to, except from their looks - and it aint looking good! Seems like a waste of time if youre plus 35. Or I have to change my age, but that seems kinda dodgy. But I guess the entire app is.

I'm 40 as well, if you aren't in a big city you're pretty much fucked.

If you can get away with it you need to change your age to 30-33. If you're actually hoping to have success on apps as a legit 40 year old you're going to be very depressed.

I can't pass for 30-33. My skin hasn't aged but i'm salt and pepper all over. However, I've had success despite that.

(04-12-2019 09:08 AM)Bananaman711 Wrote:  even MILFs over 40 look for younger guys, from women's point of view there is no use case for 40+ yo man unless its for betabux purposes and that is not what apps are about

Only the hambeasts and prematurely aged single moms will go for 40+ y/o (average looking) men it seems, it's ridiculous. I can't even get a decent looking 38 y/o, they all look like fucking Gollum.

Got 50+ likes from Tinder Gold, including one traffic accident - and they ALL look like shit. I'm supposed to pay for this "service"?? Is this the Ugly People app?
I'm not wasting any more time on Tinder. Makes me feel deformed.
I superliked 2 people which matched me, too - but no response.

I've had slight success with 23-33 y/o women IRL, so that's where I'll continue.
Man, Tinder's a disappointment. NOT like 2013. And, yes, seemingly I got old.

Those disposable SMS numbers websites don't work for tinder am I right? They immediately ban you or something, not sure why. Any way to circumvent this?

Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

Hey Tinderheads, do you ever hit unmatched women up on their snap/Instagram if it's posted, do they ever respond, and does it ever turn into a bang

(04-12-2019 03:28 PM)SW15 Wrote:  Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

I suggest joining the MGTOW movement buddy, you will fit right in.

(04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  

(04-12-2019 03:28 PM)SW15 Wrote:  Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

I suggest joining the MGTOW movement buddy, you will fit right in.

Opting out of Tinder does not mean opting out of sex and interacting with females. There are multiple other venues.

The sex ratios are really bad on Tinder.

Not every channel is worth the effort.

(04-12-2019 09:52 PM)SW15 Wrote:  

(04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  

(04-12-2019 03:28 PM)SW15 Wrote:  Tinder is an absolute farce now. I want nothing to do with it. Lots of effort on swiping & texting with little to show for it.

More men need to opt out.

I suggest joining the MGTOW movement buddy, you will fit right in.

Opting out of Tinder does not mean opting out of sex and interacting with females. There are multiple other venues.

The sex ratios are really bad on Tinder.

Not every channel is worth the effort.

The ratios are bad anywhere for any woman worth pursuing. Actually you are right if you are old and ugly please leave online game and night game, you scare off the women for the rest of us.

tind3r (alternative web based tinder client) seems to be down for me, (has been for awhile). anyone else still able to use tind3r - or any other alternatives?

Going back to the app seems so slow and inefficient after tind3r

(04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  The ratios are bad anywhere for any woman worth pursuing. Actually you are right if you are old and ugly please leave online game and night game, you scare off the women for the rest of us.

I have enjoyed your posts so far, but you are being a bit of a douche here.

(04-13-2019 09:47 PM)ChefAllDay Wrote:  

(04-12-2019 09:29 PM)Tinder Scientist Wrote:  The ratios are bad anywhere for any woman worth pursuing. Actually you are right if you are old and ugly please leave online game and night game, you scare off the women for the rest of us.

I have enjoyed your posts so far, but you are being a bit of a douche here.

I admit I was in the wrong, something unrelated to that comment pissed me off and I guess I took it out on the forum.

My tinder is desperately in need of a reset. What's the best way to go about it?

If it matters a few weeks ago I paid for a 6-month Gold membership

(04-13-2019 09:20 PM)dirty_old Wrote:  tind3r (alternative web based tinder client) seems to be down for me, (has been for awhile). anyone else still able to use tind3r - or any other alternatives?

Going back to the app seems so slow and inefficient after tind3r

Try using the website (tinder.com) beats using the app on your phone and you can spoof location very easily.

(04-13-2019 10:11 PM)Snag87 Wrote:  My tinder is desperately in need of a reset. What's the best way to go about it?

If it matters a few weeks ago I paid for a 6-month Gold membership

You need to delete the account and use a new number/facebook.
If you ever paid for plus/gold (your case) you can't use the same apple id/ google play account. Do not link spotify or instagram again.

Only other way to reset is to delete account and waiting 90-100 days, after that they should delete your data and you can use the same number/accounts and they won't identify you.

In your case, you are better off not resetting unless you want to pay for tinder gold again. Since as soon as you restore your purchase you will be identified.

I think the new algorithm is officially "live". I'm getting more matches than I was getting in te past few weeks (still not using boosts or Plus now).

The reason I think the algorithm update is active is because now you can't even swipe left if you're out of swipes for the day. Before, they restricted the swipe limit to right swipes. Now it's all swipes. So if "activity" is what gives you a boost in the algorithm, you could theoretically be out of swipes but still swipe left, and then the app would recognize you're being active. Now, that's no longer possible...

So to have any "activity" on the app, you either need to wait or pay up.

I tell them we should talk on Facebook Messenger but sometimes they do not want to share it because the I know their identity. Same with WhatsAapp. Which app do you guys ask them to talk on? And what do you say if they say they do not have it? Now I am experimenting with asking for Snapchat because many seem to have it.

Depends on the country. In Europe, girls seem completely fine to only talk on Snapchat.

In South America, girls give out their WhatsApp like its candy.

In USA, always push for their number

(04-18-2019 08:06 AM)Phanes Wrote:  I tell them we should talk on Facebook Messenger but sometimes they do not want to share it because the I know their identity. Same with WhatsAapp. Which app do you guys ask them to talk on? And what do you say if they say they do not have it? Now I am experimenting with asking for Snapchat because many seem to have it.

Apparently they simply don't feel comfortable or intrigued enough. Work on this by either increasing their comfort or your banter. Once the girl openly says 'no' I respond with a generic banter like 'don't worry, I booty call chicks drunkenly at 3AM only on Saturday and Sunday nights'. It converts some of them. If not, I move on. You shouldn't ask for a number out of the blue, always have an accompanying reason - e.g. ask for the number only when talking about setting up a date.

(12-15-2018 03:50 AM)yang2287 Wrote:  Propose a date and get a feeler if she is looking to meetup or not. Dont go to the phone number directly (Thats what every guy does). Only ask for digits for planning date logisitics. I think this has been said many times on this forum before

However in the "Best of Tinder: Tactics, Advice, Best Posts and FAQs" thread the advice is:

Quote:"The general consensus from forum users who use Tinder, and from my own experience, is that the sooner you switch to text, the better. I believe that once you switch to text, girls will mentally differentiate you to the guys they talk to on Tinder. It's a lot more personal and more permanent than the craze of Tinder. "

(04-18-2019 11:43 AM)EwartGrogan Wrote:  

(04-18-2019 08:06 AM)Phanes Wrote:  I tell them we should talk on Facebook Messenger but sometimes they do not want to share it because the I know their identity. Same with WhatsAapp. Which app do you guys ask them to talk on? And what do you say if they say they do not have it? Now I am experimenting with asking for Snapchat because many seem to have it.

Apparently they simply don't feel comfortable or intrigued enough. Work on this by either increasing their comfort or your banter. Once the girl openly says 'no' I respond with a generic banter like 'don't worry, I booty call chicks drunkenly at 3AM only on Saturday and Sunday nights'. It converts some of them. If not, I move on. You shouldn't ask for a number out of the blue, always have an accompanying reason - e.g. ask for the number only when talking about setting up a date.

Thanks. I usually say pretty quick "We should talk on Messenger because there are so many messages here"

In "Best of Tinder: Tactics, Advice, Best Posts and FAQs" thread the advice is to get their contact as soon as possible, and to coordinate the meetup preferably not via Tinder.

Phanes, you have to create some spark before you go for the number. Ideally it should be done in less than 10-15 messages but if you just go from opener to number close you will fail to filter a lot of girls who will just waste your time.

I usually confirm their intention of meeting before asking for their number (why would I want it otherwise), also adding them on facebook sounds like a terrible idea.

I personally do not like the "there are too many messages here", you shouldn't make up excuses for wanting her number. She should know you are asking for her number with the intention of meeting her, not because it's more "convenient"

Contrary to what the internet says, I’ve found it helpful to have no pics with girls and no shirtless pics unless I have a killer body. Gotten 5+ likes a day

In terms of getting digits on tinder, there are some basic rules as well as exceptions.

If a girl doesn't want to give her digits, 99% of the time she's not looking to meet up. Exceptions can be made for some DTF girls who either want to come straight over while chatting, or who don't want their boyfriend knowing about you.

An example of the above would be a tourist girl who's flying out the next day. Here's a sample conversation:

You: Hey what's up?

Her: Just smoking a J...etc. Wbu?

You: Cool just doing X. How the dude's treating you on here?

Her: Don't really know, I'm actually flying out tommorow lol

(If a girl is about to leave your country in a few hours then don't waste time with stupid games, just move to meet them ASAP)

You: DTF?

Her: Yeah I'd be down

As soon as the girl is down, throw your clothes on and ask her where she's staying. That's it.

Situations like that are rare, but still something you should prepare for. Can often lead to the quickest and easiest sex in your entire life, and I've even fucked legit 8s doing this.

I've seen tinder from a girls perspective after banging like this. You have hundreds of losers sending DiCaprio GIFs, signalling to go out for a drink. A girl leaving in 12 hours doesn't want a date, she wants to get fucked.

For girls who aren't about to dissapear, it's very important to get them off tinder ASAP. All about narrowing the pool of guys you're competing against for the pussy. A guy on the phone has slightly more importance to her than a guy not on her phone.

You should try to get the number in 3-4 messages. All it takes is for a squad of thirsties to spam her tinder, then you find yourself so far down her inbox that she forgets about you.

I wouldn't even bother downloading snapchat. I've added lots of girls who didn't give out numbers on there, and guess how many I've even gotten a date with? ZERO. That's right, none. The app is for attention only.

I've even had girls unfriend on there when I asked for their number again. Don't fall for the trap, just remove the app.

I'm new to instagram so can't comment on that yet.

Key points:

-Push to move off tinder ASAP

-If girl wants sex now, use tinder and keep messages clear and logistical in nature.

-Don't waste time with attention seeking apps that delete all your content (snapchat)

Catchy/specific opener > banter > comfort > ask out in a cocky funny way (important imop as it allows you to save frame if you do get knocked back - which is unlikely) > bag number (no need to embellish just move it to the logistics stage from here) > revise the first date bang thread

Even if you’re doing a mundane task when the standard “what are you doing today” comes up just throw on some cheesy crap after it like “I like to live dangerously” or “I’m such a rebel”. Alternatively drop a value activity/hobby

When you do bag the number and interest, and you’re not that fussed about her because she has a slut defence prowling, leave it for 24hrs before you WhatsApp or whatever. Then open them with some “wanted to look like I was playing hard to get” then hit them with some random bullshit story about what happened to you that makes you look cool and why you didn’t get in touch, that enhances your value

Some girls are crap at banter and just reply with one line that doesn’t give you much to work with. I wouldn’t give up straight away though, see it as a shit test to lead them, as girls love to test “chemistry”

Read/screen them from their profile/responses, this allows you to lead them.