Post: #1

Went to lunch with this girl about 6 weeks ago. Didn't communicate with her for 2 weeks and then texted her about a week ago, but no response. This is the last week before winter break so I won't see her for about a month. Should I try again or just drop this one and count it as a loss?

Post: #2

2 weeks is letting too much time pass by for re-initiating. She'll either lose interest or get offended. Keep it at no more than 1week. Since she never tried getting in touch with you after the dinner Im guessing there was never much interest to begin with. Dont contact her any more, it will only seem like begging on your part. Forget her and move on to the next one.

Post: #3

(12-10-2012 11:32 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  2 weeks is letting too much time pass by for re-initiating. She'll either lose interest or get offended. Keep it at no more than 1week. Since she never tried getting in touch with you after the dinner Im guessing there was never much interest to begin with. Dont contact her any more, it will only seem like begging on your part. Forget her and move on to the next one.

I disagree - There have been too many times where I've gotten busy with work / school or the chick initially rejected me and then I hit her up every once in a while and gotten date / bang.

Look at it this way - you have nothing to lose by hitting her up again. I keep a rotation of chicks that I text every month. A lot of these I wasn't able to meet up with initially but ended up converting into dates / 2nd dates.

Shit happens, people get busy, and shit changes in chick's lives too. Maybe you txt her and she just broke up with her bf or shes feelin horny. Or maybe shes feelin lonely. Make your move and get her horny. Go for it.

As for the neediness - don't even think about stressing about this ; as long as you arent catching feelings you should be goin for the poon till you hit it. Im assuming that she doesnt roll in your social circle? Then why stress about what she thinks? Think with your c*ck and dont think about whats going on in her head unless you're thinking about how much she wants to get with you.

Post: #4

I'll have to agree and disagree with you there. When I respond to posts I always try to go by what is written, I dont jump to assumptions about the OP or go by other unmentioned factors. While technically Amateur has nothing to lose in shooting a reinitiation text think about it from your perspective. You go out w/a girl, date went fine. A week or two passes she shoots you a text saying she'd like to do it again sometime etc. I understand maintaining some distance and mystery, dont get me wrong, but you're telling me you're too wrapped up to take 10 seconds to shoot an "im busy we'll hang some other time blah blah" text? Cmon man.

Post: #5

(12-11-2012 01:38 AM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  I'll have to agree and disagree with you there. When I respond to posts I always try to go by what is written, I dont jump to assumptions about the OP or go by other unmentioned factors. While technically Amateur has nothing to lose in shooting a reinitiation text think about it from your perspective. You go out w/a girl, date went fine. A week or two passes she shoots you a text saying she'd like to do it again sometime etc. I understand maintaining some distance and mystery, dont get me wrong, but you're telling me you're too wrapped up to take 10 seconds to shoot an "im busy we'll hang some other time blah blah" text? Cmon man.

Thats true, but imagine you are at work or hanging out with friends or drinking with somebody else and then you got a text but couldn't reply at that moment? Then later you might think to yourself "eh this text was from a while ago...whatever..." Of course you probably wouldn't do that with friend or somebody you are interested in, but it seems like the chick hasn't made a connection with OP yet. Or maybe she met some other guy. So he might as well go for it, what else does he have to lose? Shooting her a text takes practically no investment. But yeah, her lack of response indicates that probably nothing will happen. But he might as well just shoot her a text again.

p.s. hahaa, Alpha, I just realized you gave me input when I was on the other side of OP's situation :
/thread-17597-...#pid303989

Post: #6

Se7en-oh yeah lol. I dont want to hijack this thread, check your other link.

Post: #7

To clarify, she did contact me after the first lunch. It was just some light banter. She seems like the innocent type though, focused on her school work and not really paying much attention to guys. I'm trying to find a way to escalate in a subtle manner.

Post: #8

Did you try the Dick Picture move?