Post: #1

May have been mentioned in a previous thread, but any of y'all encounter girls that have attitudes for no reason? Not girls that you know necessarily. But, moreso, a random chick you can encounter like on the street, mall, or in my case from earlier, grocery shopping. I was standing in line waiting to checkout behind one person. After being there for a couple minutes, this girl appeared behind me. I didn't stare right at her because I sometimes have too much pride to give a girl that much credit. She seemed cute out of the corner of my eye. Young, brunette, 5'6", probably early 20's. I could smell the attitude though. Just that vibe you get. Like when they act like you're checking them out when you've barely looked in their direction.

I remember a friend telling me about something similar. He worked at a store a few years ago. This girl, one of his coworkers, barely said anything to him when he started working there. And at times, had a huge attitude. Would roll his eyes when he would come by, look at the ground. She was, in his words, a stuck up b***h. Fast forward, they ended up having a three year relationship starting weeks later. As it turned out, she had a crush on him. My old job, this nice-looking blond girl, slightly same scenario. Rolled her eyes, barely looked at me. A few days later, I came in to work late. As I sat down, for like one minute straight out of nowhere, she was staring hard at me. Even after I looked at her for a few seconds, she didn't break eye contact. I never approached her though. Didn't see her often anyway. I found out after I left that job she started going out with another coworker. Women: can't live with them; can't live without them.

Post: #2

Chick at my work place was like this would randomly roll her eyes and stuff when I was about but then someone told me she liked me and it made sense.
Females sometimes act as if they are not interested by acting overly uninterested and disgusted at your presence when in reality they want you

Post: #3

(11-18-2012 08:53 PM)Millz Wrote:  ....she liked me and it made sense.
Females sometimes act as if they are not interested by acting overly uninterested and disgusted at your presence when in reality they want you

I don't want to live in this world anymore haha

Post: #4

This past summer I went to a concert with a prospect, and she brought a friend along. I only agreed because I really, really wanted to go to the concert and cared more about that than either of the two chicks. After listening to this friend talk with her ugly-as-shit boyfriend in the parking lot from where we were leaving for a solid 15 minutes, I was already internally irate. She just emanated a holier-than-thou, I'm-a-smart-independent-woman-and-I-can-see-what-you're-trying-to-do-to-my-friend-and-therefore-I'm-gonna-give-you-shit attitude. Needless to say, she was a bitch who took herself way too seriously, and I found myself making fun of her increasingly during the car ride as I took more sips of my water bottle of vodka. During the concert, my girl left to use the bathroom and her friend was left there with me. I was pretty bombed at this point, and I decided to put my arm around her friend. Needless to say, I was pushed away. I just laughed at her and kept dancing. Never apologized or compromised on my beliefs, and my girl later gave me props for doing this, stating her friend was often a bitch anyway.

Basically, figure out if it's a playful attitude or a genuine bitchiness.
Play back if it's the former, show no mercy returning the favor if it's the latter.

Post: #5

(11-18-2012 08:53 PM)Millz Wrote:  Chick at my work place was like this would randomly roll her eyes and stuff when I was about but then someone told me she liked me and it made sense.
Females sometimes act as if they are not interested by acting overly uninterested and disgusted at your presence when in reality they want you

Flirting level: kindergarten

Post: #6

(11-18-2012 08:53 PM)Millz Wrote:  Chick at my work place was like this would randomly roll her eyes and stuff when I was about but then someone told me she liked me and it made sense.
Females sometimes act as if they are not interested by acting overly uninterested and disgusted at your presence when in reality they want you

this is so german it hurts.
we are the masters of death stares and our girls hold the gold medals in the discipline called being an ice princess without human emotions .

.... well okay , not that german guyswould be much different lol

Post: #7

Just start laughing at her.

Don't take her seriously.

Her: "What's so funny?!"
You: <laugh again shake your head> "Don't worry about it"

She'll soon be qualifying herself to get some type of reaction out of you. "Why do you always laugh at me? How come you never take me seriously?"

Post: #8

@OP- mock her gently. Say something absurd and out of context implying shes a child.

Yo, whats wrong? Did somebody eat your peanut butter jelly sandwich this morning? (mocking tone) wink*

Try it out and have more fun and LOLs than you can EVER imagine

Post: #9

Any kind of an attitude from male or female is a sign of internal weakness or self-esteem related problems. Either way, the best approach is just to ignore it and proceed like the attitude don't exist and they will eventually crack.

Post: #10

(11-19-2012 04:47 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  ...Any kind of an attitude from male or female is a sign of internal weakness or self-esteem related problems...

(11-19-2012 05:11 AM)thebassist Wrote:  Flirting level: kindergarten

What's funny is that's the EXACT thing I told myself today. Not about the girl I mentioned, but regarding a chick from my current job. Makes me realize, us guys don't give ourselves enough credit. We are so even-keel and observant, but yet get afraid to approach girls just because... they're girls.

As the expression goes, "the power of the p***y". No matter how smart we are, we get weak when it comes to that. Lol.

Post: #11

We are afraid to approach because we take rejection personally. As soon as we learn to not to do that then approaching actually becomes a fun game. I approach girls the same way guys play games. It's just a game, when you get shot down. You just restart and go again

Post: #12

A good way to get over it is to talk to EVERYBODY. Girls, guys, married girls. Just shoot the shit. Experiences smoooths the fear. Non-the-less, everybody gets nervous w/somebody hot. Just breathe and approach and keep it simple. Say hi....

Post: #13

(11-18-2012 08:08 PM)dly267 Wrote:  May have been mentioned in a previous thread, but any of y'all encounter girls that have attitudes for no reason? Not girls that you know necessarily. But, moreso, a random chick you can encounter like on the street, mall, or in my case from earlier, grocery shopping. I was standing in line waiting to checkout behind one person. After being there for a couple minutes, this girl appeared behind me. I didn't stare right at her because I sometimes have too much pride to give a girl that much credit. She seemed cute out of the corner of my eye. Young, brunette, 5'6", probably early 20's. I could smell the attitude though. Just that vibe you get. Like when they act like you're checking them out when you've barely looked in their direction.

Women sometimes look this way no purpose, in which case its part of their "bitch shield", and its purpose can be to weed out the weak.

Sometimes they don't mean to appear this way, so it is also possible she was just having a bad day and you blew an opportunity to be an interesting/exciting/fun change to that.

IMO by making an assumption with almost no information you missed out on something valuable to you (even if it went poorly that was another approach to build on)

Post: #14

Who cares if she has a bitch attitude. Open her anyway. Battle through it. Ive definitely had my share of shut downs. On the other side of the coin I've pulled out 4th quarter swoops after breaking her down relentlessly. No girl can keep up that brutal attitude all night. The hamster gets tired eventually...

Post: #15

Just something Im thinking about after a girl called me an idiot for asking about a job. The nasty attitude and stick up the ass starts around 18 when they hit the real world. Why does every girl have it? Was it always like this? Im guessing because every guy will treat them like a queen no matter what they say or do.

Post: #16

You ever hold out a toy or a piece of food to a cat? About 90% of the time it will turn its head and pretend to look away while slightly tensing up in the body. Until it sees the object move out of the corner of its eye...

Post: #17

Isn't that the same for guys?

It's not hard for me to smile when I make an eye contact with a decent looking, just a bangable chick. But if she is totally my type in and out, I keep my poker face and turn my head.

IMO, those behaviors keep men&women away from each other even though they both liked each other.

(11-18-2012 08:53 PM)Millz Wrote:  Chick at my work place was like this would randomly roll her eyes and stuff when I was about but then someone told me she liked me and it made sense.
Females sometimes act as if they are not interested by acting overly uninterested and disgusted at your presence when in reality they want you