Post: #26

(09-12-2012 04:37 PM)Scorer Wrote:  You have a place in Manhattan and you don't think that is a positive in getting a one-night stand?

Your game sucks.

Hahahaha, you're probably right, but go easy on the dude.

Noballs, just work on your game. If she asks where you live, just tell her you live "nearby" and game on solider.


One thing I've noticed in NYC: You need to escalate fast. Go for the kiss in the first twenty minutes, and that's taking it slow.

Post: #27

(09-12-2012 04:37 PM)Scorer Wrote:  You have a place in Manhattan and you don't think that is a positive in getting a one-night stand?

That was not my theory. My theory was that if a girl thinks you are from out of town, she will not consider you a potential boyfriend which will make her more likely to have sex with you quickly. If a girl wants a guy as a boyfriend she will sometimes hold off having sex with the guy even if she is really turned on and horny. This forum shot down this theory.

(09-12-2012 04:37 PM)Scorer Wrote:  Your game sucks.

Yes, my game does suck but I make up for it by doing lots of approaches. Therefore I do pull on occasion. I would like to get laid more often but I can't complain. I do get laid more often than the average guy but less often that most of the guys on this forum.

Post: #28

(09-12-2012 07:37 PM)Samseau Wrote:  Hahahaha, you're probably right, but go easy on the dude.

Noballs, just work on your game. If she asks where you live, just tell her you live "nearby" and game on solider.

One thing I've noticed in NYC: You need to escalate fast. Go for the kiss in the first twenty minutes, and that's taking it slow.

Thanks Samseau. I think escalating fast is the key. In fact, now that I think about it, nothing good ever comes from normal conversation - just wastes time.

Post: #29

(09-14-2012 01:50 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  

(09-12-2012 07:37 PM)Samseau Wrote:  Hahahaha, you're probably right, but go easy on the dude.

Noballs, just work on your game. If she asks where you live, just tell her you live "nearby" and game on solider.

One thing I've noticed in NYC: You need to escalate fast. Go for the kiss in the first twenty minutes, and that's taking it slow.

Thanks Samseau. I think escalating fast is the key. In fact, now that I think about it, nothing good ever comes from normal conversation - just wastes time.

Night game in NYC is high octane game. It's fuck or walk.

Post: #30

1. Lower your standards.(imho, 8's-10's aren't easy In NYC).

2. Hang out closer to your crib.

3. Be on the look out for gIrls who already lIke you(provided they are not fat of course).

Post: #31

(09-05-2012 07:51 PM)bodmon Wrote:  

(09-05-2012 03:53 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  3. Women often tell me that they definitely want to have sex with me but want to get to know me first. After 1 or 2 dates without sex (with tons of making out) I usually just give up on them and do more cold approaching. (If I do end up having sex after 3 or 4 dates they fall in love with me and it's a big mess - avoid.)

i think this is your problem right here. so you get tons of making out... and just leave it at that? bye bye see you next time?

next time you are making out with a girl on a first or second date, stick your hand up her shirt to feel her boobies or down her pants to feel her pussy and go from there

Try cutting out the make-outs. Deny the kiss close, but escalate physically beforehand. I get more ONS and SNL's (USA) than going in for the kiss. You shouldn't be making out until you are in your apartment, or hotel. By that time she'll be ready to go all the way.

Post: #32

(09-14-2012 11:39 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

(09-14-2012 01:50 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  

(09-12-2012 07:37 PM)Samseau Wrote:  Hahahaha, you're probably right, but go easy on the dude.

Noballs, just work on your game. If she asks where you live, just tell her you live "nearby" and game on solider.

One thing I've noticed in NYC: You need to escalate fast. Go for the kiss in the first twenty minutes, and that's taking it slow.

Thanks Samseau. I think escalating fast is the key. In fact, now that I think about it, nothing good ever comes from normal conversation - just wastes time.

Night game in NYC is high octane game. It's fuck or walk.

High Octane Game. I like this phrase a lot . Definitely coined. Maybe we should create a High Octane Challenge. Something similar to the no-date challenge.

Post: #33

Lying that you are from out of town will only hurt you most places,but especially NYC...I've lived in brooklyn and had to move back to my parents in the suburbs for a while, and not having a reliable explanation to not take a girl back to my own place was always a major stumbling block, while admitting the actual truth was simply inconceivable. You should know by now new yorkers are extremely skeptical about anyone that doesn't live in nyc, LA, or abroad...add to that most girls aren't really on board with knowingly whoring themselves out for a ONS..gotta have some plausible deniability that you'll see her again.

i would second what everyone else has said here and just get very bold and direct--i've gotten probably about 10 lays since learning game about 3 years ago that materialized within 20 min or less just by immediately going for girls who were obviously very attracted to me (helps that i'm quite good looking). I may even be being very generous with the 20 min figure....last thur i banged a chick from around the corner from hotel chantel, in a public park raw, after what seemed like 3 jokes and 5 mins of dancing (she was a 6/6.5 but still). It's my opinion that NYC girls are more DTF than anywhere in the world, just be balls out about it.

oh and don't hang out near your crib like that one guy said, that area sucks for going out. just always be ready to take a girl by the hand and straight into the back of cab.

Post: #34

If you're a traveler, you should have a hotel.

This is often better than being a resident with an apartment, but a traveler with no place to stay isn't going to fly.