Post: #1

So I was in the grocery line yesterday at 4 pm, and this really cute 30 something, blond hair, blues eyes, cut off jean shorts, flower sandals and one of those ankle tatoos, was paying in front of me.

As she waited to get her receipt, she yawned.

So I pounced.

"Yawning? And it's not even 6 O'clock yet."

The reaction was priceless. Head goes down. The furtive glance up. The apology that comes out, "I'm so sorry."

Alas, she shuffled off so by the time I paid she was long gone.

But I thought, this would be good thread to start here. Not just negs -- great opening negs. In my view, the best opening negs are situational negs.

Post: #2

Negs? People are still doing those? And what did this achieve? I can honestly say that negging in Daygame has never produced anything of value for me. While it might work fine in a club I can't see it as anything but asocial during day time.

Post: #3

(08-16-2012 11:14 AM)Vicious Wrote:  Negs? People are still doing those? And what did this achieve? I can honestly say that negging in Daygame has never produced anything of value for me. While it might work fine in a club I can't see it as anything but asocial during day time.

It started a conversation and got her on the defensive without being unkind. Easy follow-up if she's still there. How is that bad?

Post: #4

A neg is a backhanded complement. This isn't a neg, it's just teasing/flirting.

Post: #5

I always open girls who yawn...

"you need a nap girl"
"somebody needs a nap"
"its nap time for you huh?"
"time for a nap"


Something like that.

Post: #6

Time for some beauty sleep huh?

Post: #7

(08-16-2012 01:38 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Time for some beauty sleep huh?

Nice Fisto! I'm using that one today! I always catch girls yawning in the mid afternoon..

Post: #8

My dad would stick his finger in your mouth if you yawned near him I never figured out why.

I have a friend who would open girls by pointing to the floor and saying "You dropped your pussy" and then laugh if they looked down. Is that a neg opener?

Post: #9

(08-16-2012 01:49 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  My dad would stick his finger in your mouth if you yawned near him I never figured out why.

Some girls I know do this perpetually and say yawn rape, pisses me right off.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOTaJr27-WU

Post: #10

I caught a girl yawning in a bar in Houston and just went "hey, you're not allowed to do that in here".. smirked/ smiled.. and from that point on it was lovely, until her boyfriend caught my messages on her cell phone.. lovely fun girl.

Post: #11

(08-16-2012 01:49 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  My dad would stick his finger in your mouth if you yawned near him I never figured out why.

I have a friend who would open girls by pointing to the floor and saying "You dropped your pussy" and then laugh if they looked down. Is that a neg opener?

Hilarious. I want to try this one so bad even though it might get me slapped

Post: #12

i like "you look so bored" or just straight up "you look bored as fuck". it's funny to say that especially to a girl who's not bored at all ie when she's all bubbly or dancing or excited, etc.

Post: #13

From roissy: "you look like the type that would date a starving artist but then marry a lawyer" Does NOT work on college chicks, but on late 20s girls.

"You have an unhealthy sense of entitlement." Then callback to 'princess' behavior later on.

Post: #14

hahahaha i know where that "You have an unhealthy sense of entitlement." comes from. same source as "trouble in paradise?!" line (for very pretty girls looking pissed/cranky/acting bratty)

Post: #15

(08-16-2012 04:37 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

(08-16-2012 01:49 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  My dad would stick his finger in your mouth if you yawned near him I never figured out why.

I have a friend who would open girls by pointing to the floor and saying "You dropped your pussy" and then laugh if they looked down. Is that a neg opener?

Hilarious. I want to try this one so bad even though it might get me slapped

That should go in your approach study thread.

Post: #16

(08-16-2012 11:22 AM)Sphere Wrote:  

(08-16-2012 11:14 AM)Vicious Wrote:  Negs? People are still doing those? And what did this achieve? I can honestly say that negging in Daygame has never produced anything of value for me. While it might work fine in a club I can't see it as anything but asocial during day time.

It started a conversation and got her on the defensive without being unkind. Easy follow-up if she's still there. How is that bad?

Exactly! Its almost always better to start the interaction by putting her on the defensive rather then making her the object of your desire.

I always look for things out of place with her appearance like..

lint in her hair, crumbs on her lips, boogers in her nose, stains on her clothing, untied shoes, loose strings on her clothes

Any little thing that I can pick on to start the conversation with her on the defensive.

I sometimes say...

"excuse me sweetie, you have a something on your lip"
"wipe your face girl" (she will quickly pull out her mirror)
"you spilled something on yourself"
"there is something in your hair"

Any little thing to put them on their heels and get the chat started. This makes it seem like you were not hitting on her but just trying to help her. Its also good because you have not complimented her and instead noticed something off about her appearance.

Post: #17

The origin of people covering the mouth when yawning was not to hide bad breath or germs, but to hide their bad teeth or fillings.

Post: #18

(08-17-2012 02:22 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(08-16-2012 11:22 AM)Sphere Wrote:  

(08-16-2012 11:14 AM)Vicious Wrote:  Negs? People are still doing those? And what did this achieve? I can honestly say that negging in Daygame has never produced anything of value for me. While it might work fine in a club I can't see it as anything but asocial during day time.

It started a conversation and got her on the defensive without being unkind. Easy follow-up if she's still there. How is that bad?

Exactly! Its almost always better to start the interaction by putting her on the defensive rather then making her the object of your desire.

Why are you implying those are your only options?

To me this seems to be the classical mistake of running night game during the day.

Quote:Alas, she shuffled off so by the time I paid she was long gone.

Again, how can this be interpreted as a positive result? I don't see a conversation or any real interaction. Just this girl being embarrassed and her flight mechanism kicking in.

Post: #19

"Wassup Freshman"

I plan on using this on any chick I know tomorrow. More hilarious since they're not freshmen anymore.

Post: #20

There are many peroxide blondes in my city.
The giveaway is the color difference between eyebrows and hair.

Cos of this, I've taken to asking women about their hair color
It's in a curious, slightly judgmental tone, so girls respond defensively without shutting down entirely.

"Is that your natural hair color?"
-"No, but it used to look like this!"
"When?"
-"When I was younger..."
"How old are you?"
-"22"
continue ramble

Post: #21

I think it will come off as a loser if you are throwing it out because you know you won't have a chance with her, you are just bitter so you are just saying mean things to feel better about yourself.

I don't support the idea of complimenting a girl either since she know she is hot and she must hear that all the time from the clubs and bars.
It's hard to balance. you say nice to things to her but she will write you off as one of those losers. you say something sarcastic eg: 'hey your friend talks too much' 'hey you are too crazy for me' , they will call you an asshole......
(I was talking to those 2 lesbians. I didn't give a fuck since they were lesbians. One girl started saying before I finish. I told her 'excuse me?? can I finish my sentence??? geez' she didn't get offended at all. At the end, she said 'you should take my number'. I told her 'I don't take numbers, you can facebook me LOL' she ended up chasing me for my name to add me on facebook. So I guess it depends on a girl and their interest level on me)

Question for you guys. I met this girl. she was all over me, calling me 'gorgeous' 'please take my number' 'please call me'
They had partying pics on facebook. I commented 'bratty girls'. I was also talking to her friends on facebook. I told her friend 'she seemed like a Wild girl lol' She stopped talking to me. I ran into her today and she said those words 'bratty' and 'wild' was very rude.
I tried to explain I was just being sarcastic but it was a dealbreaker for her. Was it really stupid to use 'bratty' and 'wild' words?

Post: #22

(08-18-2012 03:50 AM)Sebastian Wrote:  Question for you guys.

Was it really stupid to use 'bratty' and 'wild' words?

Obviously, it was stupid. To a woman, "wild girl" = "whore"

So, you basically called her a whore. I know you were joking but you should have been more careful. She already liked you. She was already offering herself to you. There was no need to tease her this hard and risk insulting her, especially over Facebook. Girls are very sensitive about their reputations and public image.

Sometimes we take this asshole stuff to far, if a girl is already into and already offering herself to you, you can just be cool and friendly. All you had to do was ask her out for drink and you would probably be banging her now.

I've made the same mistake before.

Post: #23

"You look weird" has worked for me multiple times.

Post: #24

At a costume party: (looking her costume up and down with a faux-confused/judgmental smirk) "what are YOU supposed to be?"

She'll immediately get defensive, explain her costume, etc.

Works like a charm.

Post: #25

(08-16-2012 04:37 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

(08-16-2012 01:49 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  My dad would stick his finger in your mouth if you yawned near him I never figured out why.

I have a friend who would open girls by pointing to the floor and saying "You dropped your pussy" and then laugh if they looked down. Is that a neg opener?

Hilarious. I want to try this one so bad even though it might get me slapped

I want to try this as well...I would love to see some video on that too haha