Post: #1

I remember there was a thread on this topic. I couldn't find it through search. If someone could link it, that would be great.

Myself, I'd say 3 days unless we made plans to see each other sooner than 3 days.

Post: #2

"How long do you normally wait before contacting a girl after having sex with her?"

As long or a little as I want.

Post: #3

Assuming you want to see the girl again, I don't see what benefit is gained by waiting three days- you are just more likely to provoke buyers remorse.

I send a text just to say hello the next night, and we normally have a short text or phone conversation. This continues the relationship on a friendly basis and they almost always want to come back for a repeat.

I do this even if the girl was a pump and dump-leaving a girl with bitter feelings really isn't a good idea.

Another reason-having a record of friendly texts from the girl after the bang provides you with evidence the sex was consensual which is vital if the girl decides to later claim it wasn't

And it happens-it's happening to a younger friend of mine right now-he banged a girl at a party the same night he met her and she is now telling people and putting on Facebook that he forced her. The other people at the party are taking his side and there's no police involvement yet, but he is naturally very concerned. And he has no after-bang texts from her.

I do think that texting her the same night of the bang (if you don't sleep with her) or the next morning is a bad idea as it makes you seem to eager and involved.

Post: #4

no particular method. every girl is case by case basis

Post: #5

Does it matter? If she doesn't hit you up first, doesn't that mean you didn't hit it right? She didn't have fun?

MrXY is right, keep it cool just for record. If she wants to kick it with you, then she will hit you up again. My last rotation was mostly college girls, so there wasn't really the "who call who" game. Maybe older lizards play that shit for their pride, but the young dumb naive girls want you to accept them so they will call/text soon after to let you know you were great. If they don't then fuck them. Too easy

Why did you start this thread? Whats the reason behind it? Are you waiting on a call? You think its "soft" to let a girl know you had fun the night after? You have been burned by texting too soon or not soon enough? Speak on it OP.

Post: #6

(07-22-2012 03:24 PM)TexasMade Wrote:  Does it matter? If she doesn't hit you up first, doesn't that mean you didn't hit it right? She didn't have fun?

MrXY is right, keep it cool just for record. If she wants to kick it with you, then she will hit you up again. My last rotation was mostly college girls, so there wasn't really the "who call who" game. Maybe older lizards play that shit for their pride, but the young dumb naive girls want you to accept them so they will call/text soon after to let you know you were great. If they don't then fuck them. Too easy

Why did you start this thread? Whats the reason behind it? Are you waiting on a call? You think its "soft" to let a girl know you had fun the night after? You have been burned by texting too soon or not soon enough? Speak on it OP.

Just wanted to see what other forum members usually do. I just dont want to seem too eager but at the same time i would like to contact girls soon enough.

Post: #7

If you're fucking her right, she'll being contacting you.

Post: #8

I contact her the next day some time (if she left the same night), or later in the night if she left in the morning. That's my style. I don't mention the sex, but bring up some random]-ass thing from the evening. I don't make plans. I don't say how much fun it was hanging out with her. I don't make promises. I don't lavish her with compliments. I don't fish for compliments.

Everything is implied, and they know it.

Post: #9

(07-22-2012 05:01 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  If you're fucking her right, she'll being contacting you.

That's it. They'll be in touch don't worry. The bang is the game changer. The equalizer. Now what? Dinner? Where? 6pm with your friends? Ok go ahead. I'll text you if I have time.

Post: #10

(07-22-2012 05:01 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  If you're fucking her right, she'll being contacting you.

This. She'll contact you. Here are some texts from my phone.

"Hey that was fun!"

"You left your shirt at my place, I guess you'll have to see me again "

"Hey, want to see a movie tomorrow?"

"I was wondering why the back of my throat hurt this morning, now I remember!"

Amazing how 99% of them turn into sweet girls afterwards.

Post: #11

(07-22-2012 07:19 PM)Neo Wrote:  

(07-22-2012 05:01 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  If you're fucking her right, she'll being contacting you.

This. She'll contact you. Here are some texts from my phone.

"Hey that was fun!"

"You left your shirt at my place, I guess you'll have to see me again "

"Hey, want to see a movie tomorrow?"

"I was wondering why the back of my throat hurt this morning, now I remember!"

Amazing how 99% of them turn into sweet girls afterwards.

This shit is so cliche, but is so fucking true. Every time I've put down a tepid bang (which I lament has happened), the girl either disappears or is hard to secure for a subsequent date. When I've put down champion-level, pile-driving, merciless, jungle-style, You-dirty-whore-I'm-going-to-fuck-you-to-death, McDonald's-style sexual beat-downs, the girls somehow manage to show up at my house again (usually bearing something baked or brewed).

They also strangely become preoccupied with "how [I'm] doing" and what "[I'm] doing" on random nights.

   

Post: #12

Quote:Posted by el mechanico - Today 09:08 PM

(Today 07:01 PM)MikeCF Wrote: If you're fucking her right, she'll being contacting you.

That's it. They'll be in touch don't worry. The bang is the game changer. The equalizer. Now what? Dinner? Where? 6pm with your friends? Ok go ahead. I'll text you if I have time.

True- I often get a text from her as I'm driving home from her place, and if not, early the next morning.

Quote:Posted by Tuthmosis - Today 08:58 PM
I contact her the next day some time (if she left the same night), or later in the night if she left in the morning. That's my style. I don't mention the sex, but bring up some random]-ass thing from the evening. I don't make plans. I don't say how much fun it was hanging out with her. I don't make promises. I don't lavish her with compliments. I don't fish for compliments.

Everything is implied, and they know it.

That's exactly how I handle it as well. No sexting, no compliments for a while. I don't want her to think she has me just because i banged her once- I want her to know she has keep working to get into my favor.

Quote:Posted by Tuthmosis - Today 09:31 PM


This shit is so cliche, but is so fucking true. Every time I've put down a tepid bang (which I lament has happened), the girl either disappears or is hard to secure for a subsequent date. When I've put down champion-level, pile-driving, merciless, jungle-style, You-dirty-whore-I'm-going-to-fuck-you-to-death, McDonald's-style beat-downs, the girls somehow manage to show up at my house again (usually bearing something baked or brewed).

They also strangely become preoccupied with "how [I'm] doing" and what "[I'm] doing" on random nights.

I can attest to this 100%. If I like a girl enough to want to see her again, I make a special effort to give her a hard and rough fucking. And if you make her come, you've almost guaranteed yourself repeat business