Post: #1201

(02-09-2014 02:25 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-09-2014 01:05 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  Gio, you still in SF?

Yes.

(02-09-2014 01:05 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  Approached a classmate, ended with a kiss.

Day time, cold approach to kiss = your game must be pretty solid!

Haha, I'm in SF too so I have an idea of all the spots you were talking about. And honestly I can't say that I've got solid game. I have a few moments of skill, but nothing amazing. I'd like to see you in action sometime though!

Post: #1202

(02-10-2014 08:02 PM)pitt Wrote:  Gio I don't think you want to use the approach from that guy on the video.

I like his attitude but is not the right attitude to get laid, he jokes too much.

I'm sure you're right but at the same time I think we can learn something from his attitude.

I haven't watched the videos yet but it's always educational to see how other guys do it.

(02-10-2014 08:02 PM)pitt Wrote:  I think your attitude is just fine. Remember that you are using the father figure approach, I think your lines go in line with your personality. You know it better than me, I could be wrong.

I do use the "father figure" type of approach a lot but I want to get better at other types of game also.

For example, there are some young girls that are sexual freaks and very open sexually. They want to experiment.

These girls are not necessarily looking for a "father figure" but rather a good older fuck buddy who can help them explore their sexuality. I will need to adjust my game with these types.

I like to try different styles just for fun and experimentation.

(02-10-2014 10:04 PM)blkgatsby Wrote:  I can't say that I've got solid game. I have a few moments of skill

Honestly, I would describe myself in the same way.

My game is not great, I just approach so many girls that the mathematical averages eventually work in my favor. I play the "Number's Game"!

*****

Here are two new ones from today..

I got off work and I was thinking of what I wanted for dinner. I wanted to go somewhere were I could approach a few girls before I ate. I thought of a good Thai restaurant in a big shopping center, I knew there had to be a few approachable girls there..

I enter a large grocery store, I immediately see a cute asian girl that gave me her number last year when she worked at the grocery store near my house. We texted a few times but nothing happened. I'm hungry and my food will be ready in 10 minutes, I just want to get in a few good approaches and then call it a day.

I see another cute asian, filapina I think, she is wearing a little half t shirt that shows off her flat, toned stomach, she is also wearing her pajama bottoms a little low to show off her nice hips and body, very sexy with long hair and a cute face..

She goes to aisle 7, I go around and enter aisle 7 from the opposite side, she is looking at some medicine, I walk up and grab some toothpaste that is nearby..

me: you are gonna freeze to death girl
her: ha this is actually a lot of clothes for me
me: really, your mom let you out like that?

She didn't really say anything. She just sort of smiled and nodded. FUCK! I really should have done a better job when she said -- "this is actually a lot of clothes for me."

I should have continued to sexual things! What would have been a good reply to that???

Anyways, I asked her where she went to school. She said the name of a high school. I excused myself.

*****

5 minutes later I see a gorgeous white girl, mid 20s, yoga pants, beautiful face and slim body. Everyone was checking her out because she is a 9. I walk past her once to sort of scope out the scene. I realize that outright boldness is the only option.

I turn around and walk straight back to her, a can see people staring at her, guys and girls, I act like I was just walking past as she unloaded her stuff on to the counter.. I slow down so she will notice me and I act like I noticed something in her basket..

me: what do you do with these coconuts
her: oh i drill a hole in them and drink the water
me: nice, what do you do with the meat?
her: i scoop it out and put it in smoothies or i freeze it
me: that beautiful, reminds me of brasil
her: is that how they do it?
me: ya basically, they chop it open with a huge machete
her: right, i use a big clever
me: i love it, you're so hands on
her: haha with some things
me: oh you have my favorite italian gelato too
her: oh thats for the hubby

She sort of looked at me to gauge my reaction. She knew I was hitting on her. She gets hit on all the time. We sort of smiled at each other as we both knew the deal. "oh well, enjoy, thats stuff looks amazing", I said as I walked away.

This was actually a good approach for me because it was ballsy. This girl had the attention of everyone in her vicinity. She was not an 8, she was a 9. The fact that I was able to casually walk right up to her and start flirting with her gives me a good dose of momentum as I get ready for tomorrow.

Post: #1203

(02-10-2014 08:02 PM)pitt Wrote:  Gio I don't think you want to use the approach from that guy on the video.

I like his attitude but is not the right attitude to get laid, he jokes too much. I think these type of guys make those videos for youtube views, not to get laid.

pitt, humor is good thing as long as you are not a clown and this guy is dominant and very sexual. also he makes out with girls during daygame whats requires good skills. if he can kiss close girls sober on the street i be he gets laid.

Post: #1204

(02-11-2014 12:09 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-10-2014 08:02 PM)pitt Wrote:  I think your attitude is just fine. Remember that you are using the father figure approach, I think your lines go in line with your personality. You know it better than me, I could be wrong.

For example, there are some young girls that are sexual freaks and very open sexually. They want to experiment.

These girls are not necessarily looking for a "father figure" but rather a good older fuck buddy who can help them explore their sexuality. I will need to adjust my game with these types.

This is a great point Gio. Something I am learning more and more over the past year. If you can come across as a cool, experienced, non-judgemental guy I swear your odds go up 10-fold.

Post: #1205

This week isn't off to a good start. What of you guys count as approaches, talking to girls with digits as the end goal, or just having conversation?

Monday: 0 approaches, 1 flaked date...she kept promising to meetup another time, but I'm not holding my breath over it. I might play around with this and see if I could squeeze a bang out of it.

Tuesday: Approached 3 girls, all claimed to have boyfriends. I honestly think my problems with work is cutting into my game (or lack of) so I should solve that instead of gamimg for now.

And on a side note, a girl I thought I had a good insta-date went radio silence on me. Ideas on how to fix this?

Post: #1206

(02-09-2014 02:55 PM)Dusty Wrote:  Sort of similar, one weekend recently I was feeling "stuck." So I decide I would go out and deliberately be rejected. I would do aggressive and risky approaches that I normally do not do, just to experience rejection full on. I ignored my screening filter and just tried to get a lot of approaches in even if I thought rejection was certain.

I actually got mostly decent responses. I got a few "I have a boyfriends" but still they seemed happy that I approached them. No one got pissed off or acted bothered.

That mindset though of deliberately trying to get rejected, really takes the pressure off and helps you push the envelope.

I've done this before with surprisingly good results. This reinforces my belief that you should look at failure as just practice for success and that you should always be aware that failure is imminent and it should not disappoint you. Your drive should not be to avoid failure but to experience, learn/improve, and ultimately succeed.

Post: #1207

I finally got back to a big university today. The last time I was on a university campus was December 18th, the last day of final exams.

I park my car and immediately began searching for cuties. Right away, I see a gorgeous latina getting into her car..

me: hello
her: hi
me: you look nice today
her: oh thank you
me: whats your name?
her: alicia
me: im gio nice to meet you

She just sort of smiled and nodded her head.

me: i know this is kind of random but can i call you and flirt with you sometime?
her: sorry i have to go, im late

I kind of startled her when I approached her, she was literally just getting into her car, that is a weird moment to open a girl.

My conversation was very basic. I felt like a newbie all over again. The good news is that I approached the first hot girl I saw and my fear is almost non-existent.

I quickly move on..

******

5 minutes later, I see a nice looking light skinned black girl with a nice body. She is walking right towards me, I pretend not to notice her until she gets very close..

me: excuse me
her: ya
me: can i ask you something?
her: sure
me: do you date white guys?
her: oh haha, i do but i have a boyfriend right now

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a cute white girl walking behind me on the stairs, I pretend to get blocked by the crowd a little and slow down to let her catch up. I get out my cell phone and make a fake phone call. I want to display a bit of my personality and vibe before I open her. I talk in my best masculine, seductive voice.

When she gets almost parallel to me, I end my phone call, "ok, just email me the stuff later, ok, bye", I say.

A moment later, she is walking right next to me, I pretend to notice her for the first time..

me: I love your all black look, its very powerful, and mysterious, ha

I smile and look her over.

She looks at me for a moment before she opens her mouth..

her: thank you
me: i was going to wear all black today myself but my button broke
her: im sorry
me: my button broke on my pants
her: oh haha
me: you have an accent
her: i do
me: yes from france
her: how did you know?
me: i dont know, parlez-vous francia
her: we
me: thats all i know
her: haha
me: i was just reading something about black clothes, how they project a certain energy
her: oh really
me: yes, like i said black is sort of mysterious but power right?
her: well, i didnt think about that when i was getting dressed
me: whats makes your outfit is the layers and textures, wool scarf, leather jacket, furry boots
her: is that what it is?
me: in my opinion
her: that sounds cool
me: what class do you have right now
her: art
me: oh thats a fun one
her: not this art class, we have a test today
me: oh no, dont worry

We walk and talk a little more. She seems receptive, probably because she is from Europe.

We get to a little fork in the road and I know she has to go to class.

me: good luck on your test
her: thank you
me: let me ask you one more thing?
her: what
me: do you wanna get a drink sometime
her: oh i have a boyfriend
me: what
her: sorry but thanks

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a cute blond, yoga pants and uggs, thin and attractive..

She goes into a building, I follow quickly about 7 seconds behind her. I go up a flight of stairs and find her looking at a painting..

me: what is that?
her: oh its just a repetitive design
me: its looks like dna
her: well, its not really based on science
me: whats the other one?
her: also just a repetitive design
me: cool, are you an artist
her: yes

An ugly girl walks up and touches the girl. They both look at me. I get the sense that they are lesbians. I eject!

me: alright later

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I am walking through the dorms, I see a cute white girl, yoga pants, dirty blond..

I notice her shirt says "Santa Cruz"

me: hey i love santa cruz
her: oh me too, im from there
me: really, how long have you been up here?
her: about a year
me: do you like it?
her: i love it
me: what dont you like about SF?
her: um the lack of trees
me: ya a lot of people say that, we have trees you just have you know where to find them
her: ya im noticing that

Finding the natural beauty of San Francisco is actually one of my specialties. We talk for about 5 minutes about the best parks, beaches, lakes, and hard to find locations.

It was a nice conversation. As the steam from that conversation was dying down. I made my move..

me: welcome to sf, have fun
her: thanks
me: hey um, would you wanna get a drink or something sometime?
her: oh no thanks

Next!

At this point, I feel pretty good. My confidence is strong and I am not hesitating much at all.

But, I can feel that my game is very elementary, it lacks the subtleties and complexities that make approaching a social art form.The little looks, the little jokes, the dramatic pauses, the word play, the double entendres, etc.

I can still display a lot more wit, power, and masculine energy.

And, I'm still fine tuning my wardrobe for this particular university.

All of these areas will improve simultaneously. I have been in this position many times, I know the answer is to just keep approaching..

*****

5 minuted later, I am walking past the library, some animal rights guy asks me if I love animals, I pretend I don't notice him and ignore him. He asks the girl right behind me who is a 6. She says "no".

I slow down a little to let the girl catch up to me. When she gets just ahead of me, I open her..

me: you don't love animals?
her: haha i do i just dont have time right now
me: i always tell those guys that they shouldn't be begging college kids for money, go ask some rich people
her: thats true

She doesn't excite me at all.

me: have a good day
her: thanks you too

*****

5 minutes later, I see a cute filapina girl holding a Mcdonalds cup. I follow her up a flight of stairs. As I'm passing her on the stairs, I say..

me: oh i could go for some mcdonalds right now
her: haha
me: once in a while, i crave it (not true)
her: exactly once in a while
me: your skinny so you can eat it but dont let your fat friends eat there
her: haha
me: where are you from?
her: long beach
me: oh i knew you were a gangster
her: what, no
me: whats your name?
her: katrina
me: hi katrina, im gio
her: hi
me: you look nice
her: oh thanks
me: i wanna ask you for your number so i can call you later a flirt with you a little bit
her: oh sorry no thanks

Next!

I feel like I'm having a bad day in terms of game but a good day in terms of confidence. I don't mind that. I "trust the process".

*****

5 minutes later, I'm walking through the food court. I see a beautiful girl, a 9, she looks latina/asian or filapina/spanish, amazing body like a black girl, yoga pants, long hair, beautiful skin..

I walk past her. She doesn't see me because she is studying and eating and has earphones in..

I think about my options. I know that boldness and supreme confidence is my best chance. I walk back to where she is sitting, its a small table with only 2 chairs, I casually sit down in front of her and smile..

me: are you a fitness model or something.
her: well, i do work out
me: ya you look great
her: thanks
me: i was walking by and i wanted to say hi
her: oh hi

She was looking at me a little funny, not sure what to think of me.

me: i bet guys dont come and sit with you too often
her: no not really
me: sometimes guys have to do crazy stuff to meet girls
her: oh haha
me: let me call you later and flirt with you for a few minutes, I think we have some chemistry
her: sorry im with someone
me: oh no

She opens her phone and shows me a picture of her boyfriend

I'm proud of myself. The chick was a 9, that was a ballsy approach.

I'm starting to feel my mojo returning!

My game is a little corny right now but I don't mind. It will all get worked out through practice.

*****

5 minuted later, I see a beautiful spanish/italian/greek looking girl, she is sitting with a group of friends, we make eye contact and hold it for a second..

I wink at her.

her: oh no what?
me: what you were staring at me
her: no i wasn't
me: well dont get mad its a compliment

She just sort of smirked and turned back to her friends but I know she liked it because she got a little emotional charge from it. The next time I see her, I'm gonna talk to her.

I was really starting to make some progress. That wink was actually a strong, macho, masculine play. I liked it.

Just then my cousin texts me. He needs my help with something. I decide to call it a day.

I got a little bit better today. Tomorrow I will come even harder.

Post: #1208

Gio, that last girl with the group, don't you think you could have taken it a bit further? If the girl REALLY likes you, her friends would hand over her number. It's happened to me a few times before.

Post: #1209

Gio, you are unstopable , you should get your new 2014 first bang soon hopfuly.

Post: #1210

On campus today I opened a tall girl who I knew was an athlete. Didn't get anywhere until I asked her if she was at the volleyball party last weekend. Once she realized I knew her whole circle she opened up. Just a testament to the power of social circle game in college.

Post: #1211

(02-12-2014 04:38 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  What of you guys count as approaches, talking to girls with digits as the end goal, or just having conversation?

Talking to girls with the end goal of sex. (and romance)

(02-12-2014 04:38 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  a girl I thought I had a good insta-date went radio silence on me. Ideas on how to fix this?

Wait 7-10 days and then text her the most emotionally engaging text you can think of.

(02-13-2014 01:07 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  Gio, that last girl with the group, don't you think you could have taken it a bit further?

Yes, I think I probably could have taken all of my approaches a bit further!

If I were her age, I might have stayed and engaged the whole group. But, I am probably 15-20 years older then her so I actually would prefer to meet her by herself. But, I don't have much experience approaching groups, maybe that would have been a good idea? I don't know? I should try. It wouldn't hurt to try!

(02-13-2014 06:42 AM)starmaze Wrote:  Gio, you are unstopable , you should get your new 2014 first bang soon hopfuly.

Honestly, I am not in a huge rush. I enjoy this process of sharpening my masculine power.

That said, I can't wait to find the next hot 18 or 19 year old who is into me.

Post: #1212

Geo am I the only one to point out that all your recent approaches are too short, Why not Invest a little longer in the approach, make a connection before going for a number ?

I know you don't follow a certain blueprint in mind while approaching but how about setting a goal to get a girl attracted to you wether it be by looks/Style, DHV Story that you throw in during the approach etc. as yoda said "No girl will Fuck you unless she thinks you are higher value then her"

Gonna go on a limb and say that it seems like you are thinking that girls are attracted to you from the get go and will go out with you but then you ask them Do you date Spanish Guys ? , Why ask for her approval ? Of Course she does if she is attracted to you .......

I know 10 - 15 approaches is a low number but even the best of players can get blown away for 20- 30 approaches, how about trying different venues around college capmuses where you can have Instadate with girls and spend more time with and make connection. Coffee Houses around Campuses, Book Stores, Library etc etc.

Post: #1213

(02-14-2014 09:43 AM)Lothario Wrote:  Geo am I the only one to point out that all your recent approaches are too short, Why not Invest a little longer in the approach, make a connection before going for a number ?

I know you don't follow a certain blueprint in mind while approaching but how about setting a goal to get a girl attracted to you wether it be by looks/Style, DHV Story that you throw in during the approach etc. as yoda said "No girl will Fuck you unless she thinks you are higher value then her"

Gonna go on a limb and say that it seems like you are thinking that girls are attracted to you from the get go and will go out with you but then you ask them Do you date Spanish Guys ? , Why ask for her approval ? Of Course she does if she is attracted to you .......

I know 10 - 15 approaches is a low number but even the best of players can get blown away for 20- 30 approaches, how about trying different venues around college capmuses where you can have Instadate with Girls and spend more time with and make connection. Coffee Houses around Campuses, Book Stores, Library etc etc.

Yeah I completely agree with you. I didn't say anything because I didn't want to sound like I was hating on the guy. But his approaches were very short and he is asking for numbers before he built any type of chemistry.

Also, I don't get it why you still asking girls ''do you date white(,spanish, whatever), guys''?..Even if she does, it's highly likely that she won't take your approach any further. That line sounds funny but it is not something that will get you laid.

Gio i think you are the one who used to tell us to build some chemistry first before you get her number, why are you not doing it?

By the way, do you think your joke game is good? If you can't throw good jokes, I would use a more serious approach.

Just my two cents, you may be going through a bad phase, that's all.

Post: #1214

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-14-2014 09:43 AM)Lothario Wrote:  Geo am I the only one to point out that all your recent approaches are too short, Why not Invest a little longer in the approach, make a connection before going for a number ?

I know you don't follow a certain blueprint in mind while approaching but how about setting a goal to get a girl attracted to you wether it be by looks/Style, DHV Story that you throw in during the approach etc. as yoda said "No girl will Fuck you unless she thinks you are higher value then her"

Gonna go on a limb and say that it seems like you are thinking that girls are attracted to you from the get go and will go out with you but then you ask them Do you date Spanish Guys ? , Why ask for her approval ? Of Course she does if she is attracted to you .......

I know 10 - 15 approaches is a low number but even the best of players can get blown away for 20- 30 approaches, how about trying different venues around college capmuses where you can have Instadate with Girls and spend more time with and make connection. Coffee Houses around Campuses, Book Stores, Library etc etc.

Yeah I completely agree with you. I didn't say anything because I didn't want to sound like I was hating on the guy. But his approaches were very short and he is asking for numbers before he built any type of chemistry.

Also, I don't get it why you still asking girls ''do you date white(,spanish, whatever), guys''?..Even if she does, it's highly likely that she won't take your approach any further. That line sounds funny but it is not something that will get you laid.

Gio i think you are the one who used to tell us to build some chemistry first before you get her number, why are you not doing it?

By the way, do you think your joke game is good? If you can't throw good jokes, I would use a more serious approach.

Just my two cents, you may be going through a bad phase, that's all.

I'm certainly no expert and don't have much advice to offer him, but I was thinking they were kinda' short too. I was chalking it up to him not wanting to expand every little comment the women say, and further assumed there might have been more conversation involved with some of the comments that were documented. There's also some spots where his conversations were decently-long, or ran until they couldn't run anymore (see: the student with the art exam that had to leave at the fork in the road/path). I'd say in those situations he made the best out of the situation the environment presented. He's daygaming in a place where some folks are "hanging out", but a lot of them want to get to that next class and leave campus ASAP, so he has to cater to the unknown in those situations.

I have a decent-sized (5000+ student) campus less than a 10-minute drive from my office, but I'm still nowhere near confident enough to daygame there. Reading his comments (and the many shutdowns) has provided quite a bit of insight as to how I can develop my daygame before I ever step foot on that campus.

Post: #1215

Yesterday, I went to a different university, the weather is better, girls were dressed sexier. I parked my car around 12:45pm, I was ready to talk as soon as I got out of my car..

No cuties for the first block or two until then I see a cute black girl with a great ass. She is ahead of me. I speed up my walk so I can catch up, I walk right past her. Then, I turn around and pretend like I am looking back at something down the block, I really focus my gaze way down the street so it appears like I a looking at a street sign or the name of a business or something. After a few seconds of that, I pretend to notice her for the first time. I pivot back around and continue walking straight ahead but as I'm doing that, I say..

me: hey whats up
her: hi
me: i think i remember you from last year?
her: ya i think so
me: hows school going?
her: oh just busy, you know
me: ya what do you study?
her: biology
me: oh thats cool, the world under a microscope is really a different world right?
her: ya what do you study?
me: well my bachelors is in business and my masters is in pe
her: oh ya
me: im thinking about getting a phd in sports psychology
her: wow
me: what was your name again?
her: du'vani
me:ok im gio
her: gio oh ya

Blah, blah, blah.. We chat for another minute or two and then we say our goodbyes..

me: ok jen have fun see ya
her: ok thanks bye
me: wait jen one more thing
her: what
me: i know i wont see you again for like 3 months, do you wanna get coffee or something sometime?
her: well, im not really a coffee drinker
me: we can make it beer then
her: umm ya sure

I notice that she had her phone in her hand. I point to it and say..

me: call me so i have your number
her: ok what is it
me: xxx-xxxx
her: ok got it
me: i wil text you later and try to guess the spelling of your name
her: ok

Once again, the first approach of the day is fruitful. Thats been happening to me a lot lately.

I feel better then I did yesterday. That is what I love about this stuff. You can feel your masculine power growing day by day.

*****

4 minutes later, I see a cute italian/spanish girl exit out a building, I look at her body which is nice and I hold my eyes on her body as she walks further past me so I can see her ass. She senses that I looking at her and turns and looks at me..

I don't say anything! Fuck!I should have told her that she had a nice ass!!!

I hesitated for a second and my tongue got tied. As I get better, I will just instinctively say stuff like that because my social fear continues to dissolve.

I keep walking..

*****

I see a hot white girl with her hair in pig tails. I speed up to catch up to her and when we get to a crossing, I take an angle that makes it seem like I am crossing just in front of her..

me: i love the pig tails
her: oh thanks
me: reminds me of shirly temple but you probably dont know who that is
her: no i know shirley temple
me: i dont know why i thought of her, but its a nice look

She just sort of smiled and was almost walking away. I could sense that she had to go to class.

me: listen i know you have to go but can just flirt with you for 1 minute and try to get you out ofr a drink?
her: im really flattered but i cant, i have a boyfriend
me: what, are you happy?
her: yes
me: well i tried

Next!

*****

4 minutes later, I see a 9, beautiful victorias secret model looking chick. She is walking right towards me. She is getting closer, closer.. I still don't know what the fuck I'm gonna say.. She gets about a half step past me and I say..

me: hey pretty lady

She turns and stops.

Luckily, we are right at a corner so it makes sense for her stop.

her: hi
me: you look nice today, whats your name? mine is gio
her: yes i remember, you talked to me before
me: what when?
her: last year
me: oh well i only see you once a year and you are the prettiest girl on campus so i always have to say hi
her: haha thank you
me: last time we talked, did i ask you to take my number?
her: yes
me: what did you say?
her: i told you that i was with someone
me: and you are happy with that someone?
her: i am
me: if you were single, you would date me?
her: haha maybe
me: what is your name again?
her: alana
me: and you are from australia?
her: no im from england

We chatted a little more but it was useless. She is a beautiful woman though..

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see another beautiful white girl, She sits on a bench in the middle of a group of tress. I walk up a minute or so after she sits..

me: this is a nice shady spot
her: yes it is
me: i like your boots, im headed to buy some new boots right now
her: umm

She just sort of nodded her head.

me: do you smoke?
her: no
me: i thought you were about to have a cigarrette or something?
her: no

She starts playing with her phone.

her: i have to call my mom now
me: oh ok

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a hot little french looking chick with a sexy body, feminine with long hair and short shorts..

I am standing at a corner, she is texting as she walks right in front of me..

me: hello
her: hi
me: you should send me a text so i can take you out for a drink
her: i cant
me: why?
her: i already told you i have a boyfriend
me: when did you tell me that?
her: last year
me: oh shoot i didn't recognize you, you look good though
her: oh thanks

I like the fact that I am approaching hot girls and i am not hesitating!


*****

3 minutes later, I see a decent white girl with a run in her stocking. She is sitting near the library by herself, its very close to the exit so I can make it seem like I accidentally happen to walk right past her, which is what I do..

me: you have a run in your stocking but I bet you did that on purpose
her: actually i didn't, im just clumsy
me: i think its goes better with your outfit, its like how ripped jeans look better sometimes
her: exactly thats what i was thinking

We chat a little more but I am not attracted to her.

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I am in the food court. I see a hot filapina girl sitting by herself with her laptop open..

I walk past her and say..

me: how is your wifi connection in here?
her: oh im actually not using the internet right now
me: oh i actually was just asking because i wanted to say hi, you look nice today, what is your name?
her: oh

She was sort of surprised ans she was blushing. She was looked around to see if someone was filming the interaction.

her: brianna
me: hi brianna im gio
her: hi
me: how is your work going?
her: ok im just doing some research
me: researching what?
her: chemistry
me: oh thats a hard one, for me at least.
her: ya its tough
me: listen brianna, i gotta run but do you wanna talk again sometime?
her: thanks but i have a boyfriend

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I am in the computer lab using a computer. A cute red head sits next me..

I quickly say..

me: hey a real red head
her: oh hey

She smiles.

me: i see so many fake red heads these days, its rare to see a real one, your hair is amazing
her: haha thanks

I sort of smile and turn back to my computer screen. I check my email for another 5 minutes. Then, as I am getting up to leave, I say to her..

me: nice to meet you, im gio
her: nice meeting you
me: i know i will probably not see you again til next year, wanna get a drink sometime?
her: oh gio, thanks im flattered but i not available
me: what?

Next!

*****

4 minutes later, I see a beautiful light skinned black girl with a great body..

I speed up my walk in order to catch up to her. I walk past her and when I am one step past her I turn over my shoulder and say..

me: hey pretty lady

She looks at me as if to confirm that I am talking to her..

her: hi

I notice she is holding a bag of nuts.

me: what kind of nuts did you get?
her: oh the toffee almonds i think
me: oh ya those are the best ones
her: ya they are good
me: whats your name sweetie?
her: monique
me: hey monique im gio
her: ya we met last year
me: we did?
her: ya in the library
me: oh well nice to see you again
her: lol
me: are you brazilian or something?
her: lol no im itailan and black
me: oh im italian too, black women do love us
her: ha
me: we should hang out sometime
her: oh i cant i have a boyfriend

Lots of girls pretend to "have a boyfriend" on Valentines Day. The main thing is I am approaching fearlessly with no hesitation.

My game is still crude but it is getting better quickly.

*****

6 minutes later, I see a gorgeous white girl wearing black fake leather pants and a cool green sweater, she is dressed like a model and she probably is a model..

I speed up to catch up to her and as I am passing her, I say..

me: i love that sweater
her: oh thank you i love it too, i just got it at a 2nd hand boutique
me: 2nd hand boutique, that sounds funny, which one?
her: its called granny glamour
me: haha that cute. there is a really good one palo alto
her: there is
me: ya its called fashion harvest, a lot of brand new stuff
her: wow i have to try that one
me: are you from arounf here?
her: no im from santa cruz
me: are you related to marissa miller
her: oh no haha i wish
me: you kind of look like her lol
her: lol
me: how are you liking SF?
her: um its ok
me: what dont you like about it?
her: there is no nature
me: ya you have to know where to look, do you see that mountain right there, you can hike to the top of it but not many people ever try.
her: really?
me: yes, i am an expert in SF nature.
her: haha
me: i can show you around whats your name?
her: its jenna
me: im gio nice to meet you
her: same
me: do you wanna exchange numbers or something?
her: im not sure my boyfriend would like that
me: oh no i wont say anything
her: haha
me: thanks gio sorry

This girl was beautiful. Possible 9. My game is getting better with each approach. I can feel it.

*****

4 minutes later, I see a decent white girl walking to the side of me. She is wearing a Texas shirt..

me: are you from texas?
her: oh no haha

I keep walking. She wasn't that cute. I didn't even mean to open her. It was just instinctive. This is a great sign.

*****

10 minutes later, I am walking down the street, a hot young white girl is walking right towards me. She rubs her arm like she is cold..

me: its getting cold out here hah?
her: yes
me: u look nice today
her: oh thanks
me: can i flirt with you for a minute so i can take you out for a drink sometime?
her: oh sorry

She keeps walking.

*****

Today, I feel great. I'm going to approach 10-15 more.

Post: #1216

(02-14-2014 03:15 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  4 minutes later, I see a 9, beautiful victorias secret model looking chick. She is walking right towards me. She is getting closer, closer.. I still don't know what the fuck I'm gonna say.. She gets about a half step past me and I say..

me: hey pretty lady

She turns and stops.

Luckily, we are right at a corner so it makes sense for her stop.

[i]her: hi
me: you look nice today, whats your name? mine is gio
her: yes i remember, you talked to me before
me: what when?
her: last year

I love reading your approach logs, Gio. Very detailed and you can really see how your approach is effective even despite a low success rate (I actually think you have a high success rate where it's important, which is to have a positive interaction). I bolded the part above that I love. A model-type chick remembers you from LAST YEAR! That's cool.

Post: #1217

I think this thread should be named Gio's approach thread. Unlike others that only post their succesful approaches Gio shares all his experience in journay towards the stars ( hot pussies). No matter if its goes good or bad. Even if his recent approaches are not succesful he sets an example of right attitude. He also puts us into a perspective of cold approching. You need to fail many times until you eventually succeed.

Post: #1218

(02-14-2014 03:15 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Yesterday, I went to a different university, the weather is better, girls were dressed sexier. I parked my car around 12:45pm, I was ready to talk as soon as I got out of my car..

No cuties for the first block or two until then I see a cute black girl with a great ass. She is ahead of me. I speed up my walk so I can catch up, I walk right past her. Then, I turn around and pretend like I am looking back at something down the block, I really focus my gaze way down the street so it appears like I a looking at a street sign or the name of a business or something. After a few seconds of that, I pretend to notice her for the first time. I pivot back around and continue walking straight ahead but as I'm doing that, I say..

me: hey whats up
her: hi
me: i think i remember you from last year?
her: ya i think so
me: hows school going?
her: oh just busy, you know
me: ya what do you study?
her: biology
me: oh thats cool, the world under a microscope is really a different world right?
her: ya what do you study?
me: well my bachelors is in business and my masters is in pe
her: oh ya
me: im thinking about getting a phd in sports psychology
her: wow
me: what was your name again?
her: du'vani
me:ok im gio
her: gio oh ya

Blah, blah, blah.. We chat for another minute or two and then we say our goodbyes..

me: ok jen have fun see ya
her: ok thanks bye
me: wait jen one more thing
her: what
me: i know i wont see you again for like 3 months, do you wanna get coffee or something sometime?
her: well, im not really a coffee drinker
me: we can make it beer then
her: umm ya sure

I notice that she had her phone in her hand. I point to it and say..

me: call me so i have your number
her: ok what is it
me: xxx-xxxx
her: ok got it
me: i wil text you later and try to guess the spelling of your name
her: ok

Once again, the first approach of the day is fruitful. Thats been happening to me a lot lately.

I feel better then I did yesterday. That is what I love about this stuff. You can feel your masculine power growing day by day.

*****

4 minutes later, I see a cute italian/spanish girl exit out a building, I look at her body which is nice and I hold my eyes on her body as she walks further past me so I can see her ass. She senses that I looking at her and turns and looks at me..

I don't say anything! Fuck!I should have told her that she had a nice ass!!!

I hesitated for a second and my tongue got tied. As I get better, I will just instinctively say stuff like that because my social fear continues to dissolve.

I keep walking..

*****

I see a hot white girl with her hair in pig tails. I speed up to catch up to her and when we get to a crossing, I take an angle that makes it seem like I am crossing just in front of her..

me: i love the pig tails
her: oh thanks
me: reminds me of shirly temple but you probably dont know who that is
her: no i know shirley temple
me: i dont know why i thought of her, but its a nice look

She just sort of smiled and was almost walking away. I could sense that she had to go to class.

me: listen i know you have to go but can just flirt with you for 1 minute and try to get you out ofr a drink?
her: im really flattered but i cant, i have a boyfriend
me: what, are you happy?
her: yes
me: well i tried

Next!

*****

4 minutes later, I see a 9, beautiful victorias secret model looking chick. She is walking right towards me. She is getting closer, closer.. I still don't know what the fuck I'm gonna say.. She gets about a half step past me and I say..

me: hey pretty lady

She turns and stops.

Luckily, we are right at a corner so it makes sense for her stop.

her: hi
me: you look nice today, whats your name? mine is gio
her: yes i remember, you talked to me before
me: what when?
her: last year
me: oh well i only see you once a year and you are the prettiest girl on campus so i always have to say hi
her: haha thank you
me: last time we talked, did i ask you to take my number?
her: yes
me: what did you say?
her: i told you that i was with someone
me: and you are happy with that someone?
her: i am
me: if you were single, you would date me?
her: haha maybe
me: what is your name again?
her: alana
me: and you are from australia?
her: no im from england

We chatted a little more but it was useless. She is a beautiful woman though..

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see another beautiful white girl, She sits on a bench in the middle of a group of tress. I walk up a minute or so after she sits..

me: this is a nice shady spot
her: yes it is
me: i like your boots, im headed to buy some new boots right now
her: umm

She just sort of nodded her head.

me: do you smoke?
her: no
me: i thought you were about to have a cigarrette or something?
her: no

She starts playing with her phone.

her: i have to call my mom now
me: oh ok

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a hot little french looking chick with a sexy body, feminine with long hair and short shorts..

I am standing at a corner, she is texting as she walks right in front of me..

me: hello
her: hi
me: you should send me a text so i can take you out for a drink
her: i cant
me: why?
her: i already told you i have a boyfriend
me: when did you tell me that?
her: last year
me: oh shoot i didn't recognize you, you look good though
her: oh thanks

I like the fact that I am approaching hot girls and i am not hesitating!


*****

3 minutes later, I see a decent white girl with a run in her stocking. She is sitting near the library by herself, its very close to the exit so I can make it seem like I accidentally happen to walk right past her, which is what I do..

me: you have a run in your stocking but I bet you did that on purpose
her: actually i didn't, im just clumsy
me: i think its goes better with your outfit, its like how ripped jeans look better sometimes
her: exactly thats what i was thinking

We chat a little more but I am not attracted to her.

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I am in the food court. I see a hot filapina girl sitting by herself with her laptop open..

I walk past her and say..

me: how is your wifi connection in here?
her: oh im actually not using the internet right now
me: oh i actually was just asking because i wanted to say hi, you look nice today, what is your name?
her: oh

She was sort of surprised ans she was blushing. She was looked around to see if someone was filming the interaction.

her: brianna
me: hi brianna im gio
her: hi
me: how is your work going?
her: ok im just doing some research
me: researching what?
her: chemistry
me: oh thats a hard one, for me at least.
her: ya its tough
me: listen brianna, i gotta run but do you wanna talk again sometime?
her: thanks but i have a boyfriend

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I am in the computer lab using a computer. A cute red head sits next me..

I quickly say..

me: hey a real red head
her: oh hey

She smiles.

me: i see so many fake red heads these days, its rare to see a real one, your hair is amazing
her: haha thanks

I sort of smile and turn back to my computer screen. I check my email for another 5 minutes. Then, as I am getting up to leave, I say to her..

me: nice to meet you, im gio
her: nice meeting you
me: i know i will probably not see you again til next year, wanna get a drink sometime?
her: oh gio, thanks im flattered but i not available
me: what?

Next!

*****

4 minutes later, I see a beautiful light skinned black girl with a great body..

I speed up my walk in order to catch up to her. I walk past her and when I am one step past her I turn over my shoulder and say..

me: hey pretty lady

She looks at me as if to confirm that I am talking to her..

her: hi

I notice she is holding a bag of nuts.

me: what kind of nuts did you get?
her: oh the toffee almonds i think
me: oh ya those are the best ones
her: ya they are good
me: whats your name sweetie?
her: monique
me: hey monique im gio
her: ya we met last year
me: we did?
her: ya in the library
me: oh well nice to see you again
her: lol
me: are you brazilian or something?
her: lol no im itailan and black
me: oh im italian too, black women do love us
her: ha
me: we should hang out sometime
her: oh i cant i have a boyfriend

Lots of girls pretend to "have a boyfriend" on Valentines Day. The main thing is I am approaching fearlessly with no hesitation.

My game is still crude but it is getting better quickly.

*****

6 minutes later, I see a gorgeous white girl wearing black fake leather pants and a cool green sweater, she is dressed like a model and she probably is a model..

I speed up to catch up to her and as I am passing her, I say..

me: i love that sweater
her: oh thank you i love it too, i just got it at a 2nd hand boutique
me: 2nd hand boutique, that sounds funny, which one?
her: its called granny glamour
me: haha that cute. there is a really good one palo alto
her: there is
me: ya its called fashion harvest, a lot of brand new stuff
her: wow i have to try that one
me: are you from arounf here?
her: no im from santa cruz
me: are you related to marissa miller
her: oh no haha i wish
me: you kind of look like her lol
her: lol
me: how are you liking SF?
her: um its ok
me: what dont you like about it?
her: there is no nature
me: ya you have to know where to look, do you see that mountain right there, you can hike to the top of it but not many people ever try.
her: really?
me: yes, i am an expert in SF nature.
her: haha
me: i can show you around whats your name?
her: its jenna
me: im gio nice to meet you
her: same
me: do you wanna exchange numbers or something?
her: im not sure my boyfriend would like that
me: oh no i wont say anything
her: haha
me: thanks gio sorry

This girl was beautiful. Possible 9. My game is getting better with each approach. I can feel it.

*****

4 minutes later, I see a decent white girl walking to the side of me. She is wearing a Texas shirt..

me: are you from texas?
her: oh no haha

I keep walking. She wasn't that cute. I didn't even mean to open her. It was just instinctive. This is a great sign.

*****

10 minutes later, I am walking down the street, a hot young white girl is walking right towards me. She rubs her arm like she is cold..

me: its getting cold out here hah?
her: yes
me: u look nice today
her: oh thanks
me: can i flirt with you for a minute so i can take you out for a drink sometime?
her: oh sorry

She keeps walking.

*****

Today, I feel great. I'm going to approach 10-15 more.

You're a beast dude

Post: #1219

(02-14-2014 09:43 AM)Lothario Wrote:  all your recent approaches are too short, Why not Invest a little longer in the approach, make a connection before going for a number ?

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  But his approaches were very short and he is asking for numbers before he built any type of chemistry.

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  Gio i think you are the one who used to tell us to build some chemistry first before you get her number, why are you not doing it?

Let me explain,

My approaches are a bit longer in real life. I often don't write the entire conversation. That would take too long. I summarize the chat to give you guys a basic idea of what I said.

I do try to find something in common with the girl. Then, I try to build on that commonality.

But, I don't care to invest too much into one girl right now. I prefer to play the "Number's Game".

I'm looking for girls that are sexually attracted to me right away!

Instead of the intellectual or emotional "connection" that I used to push for, I am now pushing for a more physical or sexual "connection".Instead of using words, I am using more vibe and body language. I am searching for sexual chemistry. A girl who is instantly attracted to me.

I could push for "insta-dates" and a deeper level of conversation but I am not in the mood for that style of game.

I am in the mood the approach.

The "insta-dates' and longer conversations will happen organically as I continue to increase my raw charisma.

Also, keep in my mind that these girls are often walking to class. Many times, they only have a few moments to chat.

I expect to have an "insta-date" very soon, In fact, I could have done 2 "insta-dates" today but I choose not too for the reasons I stated above. I didn't want to spend 20-30 minutes with one girl, I would rather approach 5 girls in that time span.

Which method is better for getting laid?

I don't know. I don't have enough data, yet.

I plan on approaching thousands if not millions more girls in the near future so I will gain more experience and insight on the topic.

I sort of see it as -- I am choosing to work on my looks (clothes, hair, muscles, etc.) and sexual charisma (direct approach, direct body language, etc.)rather then working on my verbal game and emotional bonding game.

If that makes sense..?

I think you guys are about one week ahead of me in my 2014 Playboy Season. I expect to be doing insta-dates and deep connections probably by next week.

I just like to do it this way. I know myself and I know my game. The fastest way for me to get my game back is to approach in mass.

I thank guys for your input and analysis. It helps me to improve my strategy.

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  I didn't say anything because I didn't want to sound like I was hating on the guy.

Don't ever hesitate to criticize me or offer suggestions. I welcome it.

Without it, I can not improve efficiently.

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  do you think your joke game is good?

No.

But, it's getting better.

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  ''do you date white guys''? That line sounds funny but it is not something that will get you laid.

That line has gotten my laid a few times, always with darker skinned girls. I'm not claiming that it's a good line. It just a line that I use sometimes when I can't think of anything better to say. I'm still experimenting with things and learning by trial and error. Of course, that line is better then no line!

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  Just my two cents, you may be going through a bad phase, that's all.

It's not a "bad phase". It's a growing stage. I went into hibernation on December 19th, the last day of finals. I came out of hibernation on February 1st. I go through this every year.

When a bear comes out of hibernation, he doesn't often catch the first fish he reaches for, he often must stand in the river and reach for many fish before he catches one. That's how I feel.

Also, I am 38. Most of these girls are 18-21. Every year, I get older but the girls stay the same age. I know I can't do this forever.

When I go 200 approaches without getting laid, I will consider retiring from day gaming on a university campus. I'm hoping to go at least until I''m 40 or 45.

(02-14-2014 01:39 PM)TouchpadSeller Wrote:  I'd say in those situations he made the best out of the situation the environment presented.

I didn't make the "best" out of all of them but I did okay in a few of them.

Everything you said is accurate.

These are mostly moving targets.

(02-14-2014 06:50 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  I love reading your approach logs, Gio.

Thanks. I like to think that they give guys a real sense of what approaching is like.

Everybody can learn form my mistakes!

I don't mind being the "guinea pig"

Post: #1220

(02-14-2014 09:48 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Instead of the intellectual or emotional "connection" that I used to push for, I am now pushing for a more physical or sexual "connection".Instead of using words, I am using more vibe and body language. I am searching for sexual chemistry. A girl who is instantly attracted to me.

I sort of see it as -- I am choosing to work on my looks (clothes, hair, muscles, etc.) and sexual charisma (direct approach, direct body language, etc.)rather then working on my verbal game and emotional bonding game.

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  ''do you date white guys''? That line sounds funny but it is not something that will get you laid.

That line has gotten my laid a few times, always with darker skinned girls. I'm not claiming that it's a good line. It just a line that I use sometimes when I can't think of anything better to say. I'm still experimenting with things and learning by trial and error. Of course, that line is better then no line!

I knew it there is a good reason why Geo is doing what he is doing , You are letting your vibe do the talking

Also agree with that line is better then no line. Falls in the same ism as "The only bad Approach is the one that you didn't make"

Post: #1221

Today, different university..

I park me car and walk onto campus, I immediately see a cute black girl in yoga pants..

I walk at an angle that allow are paths to cross, when I get past her about one step, I say..

me: i love your hair, you got alot going on up there but it all comes together nice
her: oh thank you
me: that one french braid is what makes it
her: you think so
me: yup, do you have class right now
her: yeah on my way right now
me: what do you study?
her: fashion design
me: you look like a fashion person
her: i do?
me: ya
her: haha
me: do you have a a little accent?
her: oh maybe im from indiana
me: your a hoosier
her: yes
me; i thought i heard a little mid western twang
her: ha, hey im about to go in here right now.

She points at a building that we passed a a few steps ago. The fact that she didn't stop at the building entrance but instead walked with me about 10 steps lets me know that she like me.

me: ok ill let you go to class, do you wanna text me sometime?
her: oh umm, well, u can text me
me: okay, here is my number call me so i have yours

She call me. We say our goodbyes.

I texted her about 2 hours layer and said -- "how was class? did i spell you name right??? -gio"

she got right back to me. We have been texting off and on all day. We might be going for frozen yougart tonight. I offered wed and alcohol but she said she doesn't do that. We'll see

*****

10 minuted later, I am in the administration building..

I see a hot white girl with a nice body, she looks at me and we hold eye contact for a moment. I pretend to be using a computer, she talks to a clerk. After a few minutes, she starts walking towards the door, I quickly head in that direction. Before she gets to the door I stop her..

me: excuse me
her: yes
me: i saw you over there, you look really nice today, whats your name?
her: shalia
me: like the country music star?
her: oh i dont know?
me: no i was thinking shania
her: oh
me: im gio
her: hi
me: i knows its crazy but can i call you sometime? lets have a drink or something.
her; sorry gio, i have a man

Next!

*****

10 minutes later, I am in the library..

I see a hot latina walking with a guy. she see's me and she looks me up and down. I know she is attracted to me.

They stop, the guy goes one way and the girl comes in my direction. We make eye contact right away..

me: hi how are you?
her: good you?
me: great
her: good

The eye contact and vibe is pretty strong. I can feel the chemistry.

me: how is your studying going?
her: oh ok i have some more work to do
me: ya this is nice friday afternoon to get some work done.
her: yes i need to get some work done
me; whats your name
her; beatriz
me: im gio, nice to meet you
her: nice meeting you
me: what are you doing for valentines day
her: i dont celebrate valentines day
me; not this year hah?
her: not ever, im from el salvador
me: oh i see, but if i was your valentine and i wanted to celebrate it, you would right?

Just then, I see the guy coming back.

me: i see your friend coming so ill let you go, see you next time
her: oh okay

The guy stands a few feet away. I say hi to him.

I say bye to the girl. She likes me, next time I see her I will try again.

*****

5 minutes later, I am in the library..

I see a hot white girl reading a book by herself, I walk by and then double back to walk past her again..

me: hey i love that book
her: you read this book?
me: ya i think so, let me see the front

She holds the book up.

me: oh no i thought it was another one.
her: oh
me: whats that about?
her: oh im not sure i just stated reading it
me: for what class?
her: english

Blah, blah, blah.. We chat for a few minutes and then I ask her if she wants to get coffee or something sometime.. She says she is flattered but has a boyfriend.

Next!

I supposed to meet WestCoast tomorrow for day gaming in downtown SF.

Post: #1222

(02-14-2014 10:16 PM)Lothario Wrote:  Also agree with that line is better then no line. Falls in the same ism as "The only bad Approach is the one that you didn't make"

Agree. When I feel stuck and don't know what to say, I remind myself I can say "hi." Sometimes thats all that is needed to get the ball rolling.

Post: #1223

(02-14-2014 02:20 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-12-2014 04:38 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  a girl I thought I had a good insta-date went radio silence on me. Ideas on how to fix this?

Wait 7-10 days and then text her the most emotionally engaging text you can think of.

Emotionally engaging? That I don't even know how to do.
And liking your approach stories Gio! They're fun to read!

Post: #1224

(02-14-2014 09:48 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-14-2014 09:43 AM)Lothario Wrote:  all your recent approaches are too short, Why not Invest a little longer in the approach, make a connection before going for a number ?

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  But his approaches were very short and he is asking for numbers before he built any type of chemistry.

(02-14-2014 09:51 AM)pitt Wrote:  Gio i think you are the one who used to tell us to build some chemistry first before you get her number, why are you not doing it?

Let me explain,

My approaches are a bit longer in real life. I often don't write the entire conversation. That would take too long. I summarize the chat to give you guys a basic idea of what I said.

I do try to find something in common with the girl. Then, I try to build on that commonality.

But, I don't care to invest too much into one girl right now. I prefer to play the "Number's Game".

I'm looking for girls that are sexually attracted to me right away!

Instead of the intellectual or emotional "connection" that I used to push for, I am now pushing for a more physical or sexual "connection".Instead of using words, I am using more vibe and body language. I am searching for sexual chemistry. A girl who is instantly attracted to me.

I could push for "insta-dates" and a deeper level of conversation but I am not in the mood for that style of game.

I am in the mood the approach.

The "insta-dates' and longer conversations will happen organically as I continue to increase my raw charisma.

Also, keep in my mind that these girls are often walking to class. Many times, they only have a few moments to chat.

I expect to have an "insta-date" very soon, In fact, I could have done 2 "insta-dates" today but I choose not too for the reasons I stated above. I didn't want to spend 20-30 minutes with one girl, I would rather approach 5 girls in that time span.

Which method is better for getting laid?

I don't know. I don't have enough data, yet.

I plan on approaching thousands if not millions more girls in the near future so I will gain more experience and insight on the topic.

I sort of see it as -- I am choosing to work on my looks (clothes, hair, muscles, etc.) and sexual charisma (direct approach, direct body language, etc.)rather then working on my verbal game and emotional bonding game.

If that makes sense..?

Exactly what Gio says. I think verbal game is always secondary to non verbal game. If you can hypnotize her with your powefrul dominant masculine presence you dont need much words. I belive cold approaching is more about creating instant attraction by your vibe than "winning over" an attraction by intelectual connection.


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Yeah Gio I had a feeling you were not writing down every single thing you said to these girls.

I completely understand your non verbal game strategy. I had days where I said cheesy lines to girls and I still got laid. I think how you say it and how you carry yourself always beats what you say. Girls know who is getting laid just by looking at you and listening you talk for few secs.

I also try to make my interactions short. I have rolled with forum guys with good game but they wasted a lot of time in girls they were not interested in. I would ask them ''why are you talking all this time to this girl if you are not interested? Time is money''..I guess they were doing for building momentum..but fuck it..building momentum to me is approaching different girls and invest time in those who are looking to get fucked.