Post: #1176

I have decided to do the 100 approaches. This is because I really need to learn how to approach, and learn how to have a sexual flirty chat with women. This will hopefully lead to me having more active prospects.
After the approaches are done I want to be confident in knowing that I can go out at night and just do approaches with minimal approach anxiety that feel semi-natural to me.
However this is going to be interesting for me as im very lazy and am very good at procrastinating/making up excuses as to not approach women especially in the daytime.
I think ill update you all every 25, but don't hold your breath as it will take me a while haha.

Post: #1177

(01-26-2014 01:47 PM)Dusty Wrote:  Have you guys ever experienced a boyfriend/husband walking up during an approach?

All the time. I just say "thanks" and walk away.

Never had a problem.

(01-27-2014 10:58 PM)MidWest Wrote:  Any advice?

Not really. You did well.

If you had been staying in that town, you would have had a same day ice cream date with her. Good work.

Next time, try to game in closer proximity to your bedroom.

The circumstances were not in your favor.

Keep being aggressive until you feel that aggression is hurting you and than cultivate your less direct, less aggressive style of game. You will need both types.

*****

Yesterday, I was exiting the grocery store, I see a 8.5 entering the grocery store. Cuban or Puerto Rican maybe, amazing body, black yoga pants, gorgeous face. She didn't see me.

I turn around, go back in and find her in the produce section. I was nervous as I was thinking about what I was going to say but I have learned to ignore this nervousness and just have faith that I will be okay.

She turns and walks straight towards me. I notice her furry boots..

me: those look comfy
her:

She looks at me and smiles but doesn't say anything.

me: let me ask you something
her: huh?
me: i promise it will just take a sec
her: oh im kind of in a hurry
me: im in a hurry too, do you date white guys cause i wanna take you out for a drink
her: oh haha im married sweetie

Shows me her ring.

me: oh shoot, where are you from pretty lady?
her: blah, blah, blah
me: blah, blah, blah

When she showed me the ring. I should have said something like -- "Oh you probably just wear that thing to scare the guys away". Something like that..

As I was driving out of the parking lot I saw another Asian cutie walking in and I almost parked my car and went in after her but I decided against it.

I'm better than I was last year, it feels great!

I'm gonna pull some bad bitches this year!

Gonna approach at least 10 more today!

Post: #1178

Yeah, I approached a hot young Mediterranean looking one on Sunday . She was sitting on a bench by herself looking at her phone. We locked eyes, so I did a little wave and started talking and sat down next to her. She was very receptive to conversation. When I asked for the digits, she said she had a bf. I said "don't you want another boyfriend on the side?" She laughed and said "I always wish I could be the girl to do something like that, but it's not in me."

I'm learning. I used to just say " ok nice meeting you" when they said they have a bf, now I throw out a wise ass comment like the above. Maybe one will bite on it.

Post: #1179

Bad day, only two approaches and both of them failed. One girl who I should have known was a bitch from her vibe, faked a call and walked away then smiled like it brought her joy and the other one no number got nowhere.

Eh, will be better tomorrow.

Post: #1180

I just came home from a sunday dinner at KFC.
Instead of taking the bus I went for a walk since I was so full. Saw this HOT african chick walking her dog. All dolled up, high heels and a huge fat ass.
Omg I have a thing for black chicks.

Went after her and opened her with "excuse what kind of dog is that?"
She said she didnt know, shes just walking it for her friend".
So I rambled a bit "it looks a bit like a chihuahua its so tiny..."

When I ran out of steam I switched to direct
"you know actually I thought you were really cute, so I just wanted to come talk to you".

She gave me a big smile.

I said "I would really like to have drinks with some time, how do you feel about that?"

She was kind of reluctant and giving me that scan from head to toe, anyone know that?
Like theyre checking your armor for weaknesses.

But I was very relaxed, must be the daily meditation Im doing so I just smiled at her.

I said "give me your number Ill take you out for drinks some time"

She said she doesnt do that and gave me her email.

So I bet I wont get her out for a date.

But Im really getting anxious to get back into the daygame. When spring comes around here I will start approaching every day, mass approaching gio-style. Only the hottest sl00ts I can find.
Its gonna be amazing.

I really wanna test this daygame model more, open indirect, ramble, then switch to direct.

Seems a lot more promising than the direct daygame Ive been doing for so long. I just need to approach more. Alot more.

I was surprised how confident and relaxed I was since I havent been approaching much lately.

Post: #1181

Approached a girl sitting next to me on a bus today.

Me : Hey, what type of phone is that?
Her : Oh it's a samsung S3 mini.
Me: Mini? what's the difference?
Her: I don't know haha.
Me: So why'd you buy it.
Her : Well I needed a phone and it seemed like a good phone so.
Me: You're that rich huh.
Her: no haha just needed a phone.

Then I blank out. So I pull out my phone.

Me: This is my phone.
Her: Oh ok it's ok, I used to have an old phone before.
Me: What so my phone is old?
Her: Well yeah, kind of.
Me: That's offensive.
Her: *Smiles* You like phones or something?
Me: Nah, just making conversation.
Me: What's your name?
Her: ******** and you?
Me: ********
Her : Ok.

Then we don't talk anymore. But the bus ride was short.

Post: #1182

(02-03-2014 03:45 PM)YoungDominican Wrote:  Approached a girl sitting next to me on a bus today.

Me : Hey, what type of phone is that?
Her : Oh it's a samsung S3 mini.
Me: Mini? what's the difference?
Her: I don't know haha.
Me: So why'd you buy it.
Her : Well I needed a phone and it seemed like a good phone so.
Me: You're that rich huh.
Her: no haha just needed a phone.

Then I blank out. So I pull out my phone.

Me: This is my phone.
Her: Oh ok it's ok, I used to have an old phone before.
Me: What so my phone is old?
Her: Well yeah, kind of.
Me: That's offensive.
Her: *Smiles* You like phones or something?
Me: Nah, just making conversation.
Me: What's your name?
Her: ******** and you?
Me: ********
Her : Ok.

Then we don't talk anymore. But the bus ride was short.

Sounds like the girl was warmed up to you, but the two of you were playing chicken.... concerning whose turn it was to speak, next....


Was there something non-verbal going on that caused you NOT to continue speaking with her or to get her number?

Post: #1183

Not really, I was just wondering if I should get her number because she goes to the same college as me and I think that not asking for her number there would be better.

On another note what do you/anyone suggest I do for the next time I meet up with her.

Post: #1184

So I met up with her again, this time I got her number. Not sure if it made a difference getting it later than sooner.

Post: #1185

(02-06-2014 08:11 PM)YoungDominican Wrote:  So I met up with her again, this time I got her number. Not sure if it made a difference getting it later than sooner.

Personally, I believe that there can be advantages to either getting the number right away or waiting for a future encounter ... - except when you think that you are going to see her again and it does NOT happen.

The other part is the vibe and the reason for getting her phone number, and whether any energy has been generated by something that you may have in common.

The energy can be built up in person or by text.

I remember one girl that I could never really get her to hang out with me when I would make suggestions to her in person, but I kept sending her texts at random times about going to the beach with a blanket... sooner or later, she finally took the bait and we went to the beach with a blanket.... he he he... and you probably you would be able to guess what happened next...

Post: #1186

Jay, so how did you pull that off via text without looking desperate? I'm curious.

Post: #1187

(02-06-2014 11:42 PM)blkgatsby Wrote:  Jay, so how did you pull that off via text without looking desperate? I'm curious.

I do NOT really have any formula. In that particular situation I just kept weaving the beach idea into the topic of our ongoing texts.

Probably, the key in that particular situation was that I could tell that the girl was generally interested in that idea or possibly some other similar idea. She was playing, and I was playing back.

It seemed to me that we were building a kind of energy between us, and it seemed that I ended up being correct, that she was just acting shy and/or innocent (that some girls do that) and did NOT really want to accept my offer too early. But she kept inching in the direction of taking the offer and sometimes in the context of texts, she would also drop hints that caused me to conclude that she remained interested in the beach idea.

Post: #1188

(01-28-2014 01:06 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Gonna approach at least 10 more today!

I was not able to approach 10 girls on that day!

I have been very busy with work.

A few days after I wrote that..

I wrote this:

I got off of work late, I hadn't approached anyone all day. I was a little tired and I was just going to go home to eat and relax..

But, I have a lot of momentum built up right now, when I am on a mission, I don't like to take days off, not even one..

I went to the mall about 20 minutes before closing, I told myself I just want 2-3 good approaches..

I get on the escalator at Target, there is a cutie in front of me with a shopping cart, I immediately scan her shopping cart looking for something I can comment on.

This is a good strategy for making conversation at the grocery store.

She is just ahead of me on the escalator..


me: wow chocolate waffles! those look amazing!
her: ha yes there so good
me: i gotta try that
her: ya you should
me: wanna make me some? (I gave a soft smirk/smile)
her: huh? oh haha
me: is that a yes?
her: actually, i will be honest, im with someone
me: oh ok, enjoy your waffles

Next!

*****

I am in another store, at the top of the escalators going down, as I am about halfway down, a pretty girl is going up in the opposite direction, she looks at me, looks away, and then looks back at me.. She is interested, I must approach..

I walk around to start heading up, just as I am about to go up, I see her coming down..

me: hi
her: hi
me: hey let me ask you something
her: ok
me: whats your name?
her: clarissa
me: hey clarissa im gio

We shake hands.

me: you looked at me and I thought you looked nice
her: oh thank you
me: are you single? wanna get a drink or something sometime?
her: im flattered but im in a relationship..
me: oh seriously ,i won't say anything
her: haha have a nice evening

Im still getting warmed up.. I need to be more extreme, more ballsy, more edgy. That stuff always works well for me.

*****

The next day..

At the local public library because my computer is in the shop.

See a cutie in the "teen ' section, young asian/white

me: you're too old for these books
her: huh?
me: dont you go to city college?
her: no i go to st marys
me: oh i thoght i saw u in my yoga class
her: no wasn't me
me: u go to st marys eh? u must be smart
her; im ok
me: what do you study?
her: biology
me: oh wow, what will you do with that?
her: i wanna be a doctor
me: thats awesome, good luck
her: thanks
me: do you hang out around here?
her; yeah, i live around here
me; oh cool, wanna get a drink or something sometime?
her: oh i have a boyfriend
me: oh ok take care

Some of these girls don't have boyfriends, they are just saying that so I will leave them alone.

That approach didn't go well but I was proud of myself because it was actually a very ballsy approach.


Momentum is building..

*****

A few days later, back at the mall, I walk past a store and make eye contact with a cute Latina who is working. We hold the eye contact, I sort of smile and then the moment passes. I think to myself -- I gotta go back and talk to her"

I continue walking and looking for cuties. I decide that I will go back in 10 minutes and just go in and talk to her. After 10 minutes, I go back towards her store and notice that she is talking to a customer, I wait patiently for that interaction to end. After a few minutes the customer leaves and she goes to the cash register by herself.

I enter the store with a smile.

me: hello
her: hello
me: do we know each other?
her: umm, i don't think so
me: i walked by a minute ago and we looked at each other. I thought we used to do yoga together at city college.
her: oh, ha, no, i never did yoga at city college
me: oh, well i thought i would come back and say hi
her: hi
me: do you have a pen?
her: um ya

She hands me a pen. I grab a little piece of paper and write down my name and number.

me: hey I know its random but here is my number
her: its not random, whats your name?
me: gio, yours?
her: im mya

We shake hands


me: nice to meet you
her: you too
me: text me later

I'm still pretty rusty, my confidence is okay but I'm not "In The Zone"!.

I just have to keep grinding. It usually takes me 20-40 approaches to really get back into my flow.

*****

Today, at the mall..

I'm in Forever 21, I see a few cute girls, I quickly analyze which one are the most approachable (are they alone?, are they 18?, are they in a good location?)

I see an cute asian girl looking at bras and panties, I start walking over towards her but the location is not so great, right next to the cash registers and a big group of store employees, I'm afraid that if I open her, I might get on the "radar" of the employees.

I see a hot blond, thin and statuesque. She is looking at clothes in the women's sections, I position myself right on the outside edge of the mens section, she will have to walk near me..

30 seconds later, she is 4 feet from me..

me: i love your sweater
her: oh thanks
me: is like denim in front but it has this cool velvet or whatever in the back
her: ya i think its wool actually
me: and is has a nice little hood
her: no the hood is a seperate
me: oh. is that made for guys?
her: this isn't for guys but im sure they make them for guys
me: oh where did you find it?
her: urban outfitters
me: ya i like that place
her: ya me too
me: do they have one here?
her: no i got this at the stanford mall
me: i love that mall
her: me too
me: do you go to stanford?
her: no i go to west bay high school
me: oh where will you go to college
her: im trying to get into ucla
me: thats a great school, i gotta run, good luck
her: ok thanks

Next!

*****

I go next door to H&M, I see a cute latina working in the back, we make eye contact, she looks away, I keep walking, I look, she is looking, we hold eye contact, she looks away, I keep walking..

...straight to a cash register where I get a pen and right down my name and number. I walk back to where she is working, she is helping an older lady with pants, she is using a metal rod to grab pants from off the rack on the wall. I walk up and engage both of them..

me: she needs a long stick to get your pants off the wall
old lady: yes i cant reach them
me: those are very comfortable pants
old lady: yes they are

The cute latina drops a pair of pants onto the ground.

me: let me get those for you
her: thank you
me: no problem
her: what size are those?
me: let me see here, umm, small
her: sorry miss, we dont have any mediums in that color
old lady: ok, thanks for looking

The old lady walks away.

me: there is something on your show
her: wha?
me: ya a tag is stuck or something

She looks down and see the paper stuck to her shoe.

her: oh thanks
me: sure i dont want you walking around with that
her: omg its probably been there all day
me: i cant believe no one told you
her: well i have been working in that back all day so they didn't see it
me: oh that explains it than

She was just sort of smiling as I think she knew exactly what I was doing and sort of enjoyed it.

me: I saw you as I was leaving and I thought you looked nice
her: oh thank you
me: I started to leave but I was regretting it
her: huh?
me: ya i wrote down my number because i didn't want to get you in trouble
her: oh i wont get in trouble, i run this place
me: haha, well here's my number, im gio
her: hi gio, im gaby
me: i know its sort of random but you know..
her: no thanks for coming back
me: ya call me later
her: ok

Momentum is building.

*****

I leave the mall and go to Whole Foods, I need to get a few good approaches in today, no matte what!

I immediately see a hot blond in yoga pants leaving the store, I leave the store behind her. She enters Starbucks, I wait a few minutes and then I enter the Starbucks. She is waiting for her coffee. I decide that I will wait for her to get her coffee and then "meet her at the door". Which basically means that I will wait for her to heads towards the exit door and when she does, I will touch the door at the exact same time she does while pretending that is the first time I saw her.

She gets her coffee and heads straight to creme and sugar area. I head straight for that area. She reaches for creme, I reach acrossher for sugar..

her: opps sorry
me: no problem, go ahead
her: im gonna go right
me: ill go left

We both grab a few things. I can tell that she came form the gym.

me: how was your workout?
her: not so good, i hurt my back
me: oh no, doing what?
her: dead lifting
me: shoot, was it bad form or what?
her: i dont know
me: where is the pain
her: in the small of my back
me: was it a heavy weight for you?
her: not really

Blah, blah, blah.. We exit the store together and begin walking along the sidewalk.

me: it doesn't sound like anything too serious, i think you will be ok
her: thanks
me: do you have an accent
her: i don't know, what do you think?
me: i think it sounds russian
her: close im ukrainian
me: oh you were born there?
her: yes

Blah, blah, blah.. We talk a little more..

me: whats your name?
her: olga
me: im gio
her: hi gio
me: olga
her: yes
me: lets hang out sometime
her: oh gio i cant i have a boyfriend
me: no dont tell me that
her: sorry gio

Little by little, I am working myself in to "The Zone".

"The Zone" is when I don't think, I just react instinctively. It feels like all of my gaming powers come together and I reach a higher state of awareness.

I will be there in a few weeks. You will notice that my approaches will get much more seductive and powerful. It isn't so much my words but how I say things and how I present myself.

Now, I'm going to do some research about "charisma" to speed up the re-wiring of my brain on this topic. I like to totally immerse myself in the subject.

Post: #1189

Gio, you still in SF?

anyway, was at a bartending class today. Approached a classmate, had lunch with her, went to an art show and ended with a kiss. Not bad for someone I cold approached! Approaching and venue changes are everything.

Post: #1190

(02-09-2014 12:21 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  Little by little, I am working myself in to "The Zone".

"The Zone" is when I don't think, I just react instinctively. It feels like all of my gaming powers come together and I reach a higher state of awareness.

I will be there in a few weeks. You will notice that my approaches will get much more seductive and powerful. It isn't so much my words but how I say things and how I present myself.

Now, I'm going to do some research about "charisma" to speed up the re-wiring of my brain on this topic. I like to totally immerse myself in the subject.

Nice work Gio!

I know what you mean by the zone. When I am in it, I can't contain myself. I see a cute girl, I just have to talk to her. Can't stop myself. I get the best responses from the girls when I am in the zone too. They can sense my confidence and passion, and they seem to like it.

I lost a little momentum since the holidays due to work and buying a condo/moving, but I will get back on track soon.

An progress with the tv reporter?

Post: #1191

(02-09-2014 01:15 AM)Dusty Wrote:  

(02-09-2014 12:21 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  Little by little, I am working myself in to "The Zone".

"The Zone" is when I don't think, I just react instinctively. It feels like all of my gaming powers come together and I reach a higher state of awareness.

I will be there in a few weeks. You will notice that my approaches will get much more seductive and powerful. It isn't so much my words but how I say things and how I present myself.

Now, I'm going to do some research about "charisma" to speed up the re-wiring of my brain on this topic. I like to totally immerse myself in the subject.

Nice work Gio!

I know what you mean by the zone. When I am in it, I can't contain myself. I see a cute girl, I just have to talk to her. Can't stop myself. I get the best responses from the girls when I am in the zone too. They can sense my confidence and passion, and they seem to like it.

I lost a little momentum since the holidays due to work and buying a condo/moving, but I will get back on track soon.

An progress with the tv reporter?

This ''in the zone'' stuff is interesting. I also get better responses when I am in the zone.

Usually I am in the zone when I haven't masturbated or had sex for more than one week and I am really hungry for sex. This makes me get more sexual with girls and my approaches tend to be sharper, girls sense that my testosterone is high and they sense that I will fuck them hard.

Also, the sharper the approach, the easier to get laid.

Post: #1192

(02-09-2014 01:05 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  Gio, you still in SF?

Yes.

(02-09-2014 01:05 AM)blkgatsby Wrote:  Approached a classmate, ended with a kiss.

Day time, cold approach to kiss = your game must be pretty solid!

(02-09-2014 01:15 AM)Dusty Wrote:  An progress with the tv reporter?

No. We have been emailing a little but we haven't hung out, yet.

I watch her segments on tv to get more insight into her ways of thinking.

(02-09-2014 01:32 PM)pitt Wrote:  This ''in the zone'' stuff is interesting.

Yes, "The Zone" is a fascinating concept. I experienced it occasionally as an athlete and I always studied it in order to help myself and other athletes. Basically, you get so aware of the present moment that your senses become heightened, time seems to slow down and you perceive "reality" a little differently.

It feels like we do not process information and stimuli through our conscious mind but rather our body knows exactly what to do on its own. When this happens, we some how can draw on powers that we didn't know we had. It's like our sub-conscious takes over and we go into auto-pilot. Really an amazing experience.

When I'm in "the zone", I say and do things that I didn't know I was capable of, I surprise myself.

I will head back to the mall today in order to force myself a little closer to this state of mind.

Post: #1193

Fastest way to get into the zone is to do an ABSURD approach.

This means approach a girl in the worst possible situation.

That has worked for me the last few months.

Approaching chicks while you're wearing shitty gym clothes and she's walking around in a dress haha. You realize life is a big joke and then you're locked in like death row

If you want to get into the zone do something you've never done before

Post: #1194

(02-09-2014 02:43 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  Fastest way to get into the zone is to do an ABSURD approach.

This means approach a girl in the worst possible situation.

That has worked for me the last few months.

Approaching chicks while you're wearing shitty gym clothes and she's walking around in a dress haha. You realize life is a big joke and then you're locked in like death row

If you want to get into the zone do something you've never done before

Sort of similar, one weekend recently I was feeling "stuck." So I decide I would go out and deliberately be rejected. I would do aggressive and risky approaches that I normally do not do, just to experience rejection full on. I ignored my screening filter and just tried to get a lot of approaches in even if I thought rejection was certain.

I actually got mostly decent responses. I got a few "I have a boyfriends" but still they seemed happy that I approached them. No one got pissed off or acted bothered.

That mindset though of deliberately trying to get rejected, really takes the pressure off and helps you push the envelope.

Post: #1195

(02-09-2014 12:21 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(01-28-2014 01:06 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Gonna approach at least 10 more today!

I was not able to approach 10 girls on that day!

I have been very busy with work.

A few days after I wrote that..

I wrote this:

I got off of work late, I hadn't approached anyone all day. I was a little tired and I was just going to go home to eat and relax..

But, I have a lot of momentum built up right now, when I am on a mission, I don't like to take days off, not even one..

I went to the mall about 20 minutes before closing, I told myself I just want 2-3 good approaches..

I get on the escalator at Target, there is a cutie in front of me with a shopping cart, I immediately scan her shopping cart looking for something I can comment on.

This is a good strategy for making conversation at the grocery store.

She is just ahead of me on the escalator..


me: wow chocolate waffles! those look amazing!
her: ha yes there so good
me: i gotta try that
her: ya you should
me: wanna make me some? (I gave a soft smirk/smile)
her: huh? oh haha
me: is that a yes?
her: actually, i will be honest, im with someone
me: oh ok, enjoy your waffles

Next!

*****

I am in another store, at the top of the escalators going down, as I am about halfway down, a pretty girl is going up in the opposite direction, she looks at me, looks away, and then looks back at me.. She is interested, I must approach..

I walk around to start heading up, just as I am about to go up, I see her coming down..

me: hi
her: hi
me: hey let me ask you something
her: ok
me: whats your name?
her: clarissa
me: hey clarissa im gio

We shake hands.

me: you looked at me and I thought you looked nice
her: oh thank you
me: are you single? wanna get a drink or something sometime?
her: im flattered but im in a relationship..
me: oh seriously ,i won't say anything
her: haha have a nice evening

Im still getting warmed up.. I need to be more extreme, more ballsy, more edgy. That stuff always works well for me.

*****

The next day..

At the local public library because my computer is in the shop.

See a cutie in the "teen ' section, young asian/white

me: you're too old for these books
her: huh?
me: dont you go to city college?
her: no i go to st marys
me: oh i thoght i saw u in my yoga class
her: no wasn't me
me: u go to st marys eh? u must be smart
her; im ok
me: what do you study?
her: biology
me: oh wow, what will you do with that?
her: i wanna be a doctor
me: thats awesome, good luck
her: thanks
me: do you hang out around here?
her; yeah, i live around here
me; oh cool, wanna get a drink or something sometime?
her: oh i have a boyfriend
me: oh ok take care

Some of these girls don't have boyfriends, they are just saying that so I will leave them alone.

That approach didn't go well but I was proud of myself because it was actually a very ballsy approach.


Momentum is building..

*****

A few days later, back at the mall, I walk past a store and make eye contact with a cute Latina who is working. We hold the eye contact, I sort of smile and then the moment passes. I think to myself -- I gotta go back and talk to her"

I continue walking and looking for cuties. I decide that I will go back in 10 minutes and just go in and talk to her. After 10 minutes, I go back towards her store and notice that she is talking to a customer, I wait patiently for that interaction to end. After a few minutes the customer leaves and she goes to the cash register by herself.

I enter the store with a smile.

me: hello
her: hello
me: do we know each other?
her: umm, i don't think so
me: i walked by a minute ago and we looked at each other. I thought we used to do yoga together at city college.
her: oh, ha, no, i never did yoga at city college
me: oh, well i thought i would come back and say hi
her: hi
me: do you have a pen?
her: um ya

She hands me a pen. I grab a little piece of paper and write down my name and number.

me: hey I know its random but here is my number
her: its not random, whats your name?
me: gio, yours?
her: im mya

We shake hands


me: nice to meet you
her: you too
me: text me later

I'm still pretty rusty, my confidence is okay but I'm not "In The Zone"!.

I just have to keep grinding. It usually takes me 20-40 approaches to really get back into my flow.

*****

Today, at the mall..

I'm in Forever 21, I see a few cute girls, I quickly analyze which one are the most approachable (are they alone?, are they 18?, are they in a good location?)

I see an cute asian girl looking at bras and panties, I start walking over towards her but the location is not so great, right next to the cash registers and a big group of store employees, I'm afraid that if I open her, I might get on the "radar" of the employees.

I see a hot blond, thin and statuesque. She is looking at clothes in the women's sections, I position myself right on the outside edge of the mens section, she will have to walk near me..

30 seconds later, she is 4 feet from me..

me: i love your sweater
her: oh thanks
me: is like denim in front but it has this cool velvet or whatever in the back
her: ya i think its wool actually
me: and is has a nice little hood
her: no the hood is a seperate
me: oh. is that made for guys?
her: this isn't for guys but im sure they make them for guys
me: oh where did you find it?
her: urban outfitters
me: ya i like that place
her: ya me too
me: do they have one here?
her: no i got this at the stanford mall
me: i love that mall
her: me too
me: do you go to stanford?
her: no i go to west bay high school
me: oh where will you go to college
her: im trying to get into ucla
me: thats a great school, i gotta run, good luck
her: ok thanks

Next!

*****

I go next door to H&M, I see a cute latina working in the back, we make eye contact, she looks away, I keep walking, I look, she is looking, we hold eye contact, she looks away, I keep walking..

...straight to a cash register where I get a pen and right down my name and number. I walk back to where she is working, she is helping an older lady with pants, she is using a metal rod to grab pants from off the rack on the wall. I walk up and engage both of them..

me: she needs a long stick to get your pants off the wall
old lady: yes i cant reach them
me: those are very comfortable pants
old lady: yes they are

The cute latina drops a pair of pants onto the ground.

me: let me get those for you
her: thank you
me: no problem
her: what size are those?
me: let me see here, umm, small
her: sorry miss, we dont have any mediums in that color
old lady: ok, thanks for looking

The old lady walks away.

me: there is something on your show
her: wha?
me: ya a tag is stuck or something

She looks down and see the paper stuck to her shoe.

her: oh thanks
me: sure i dont want you walking around with that
her: omg its probably been there all day
me: i cant believe no one told you
her: well i have been working in that back all day so they didn't see it
me: oh that explains it than

She was just sort of smiling as I think she knew exactly what I was doing and sort of enjoyed it.

me: I saw you as I was leaving and I thought you looked nice
her: oh thank you
me: I started to leave but I was regretting it
her: huh?
me: ya i wrote down my number because i didn't want to get you in trouble
her: oh i wont get in trouble, i run this place
me: haha, well here's my number, im gio
her: hi gio, im gaby
me: i know its sort of random but you know..
her: no thanks for coming back
me: ya call me later
her: ok

Momentum is building.

*****

I leave the mall and go to Whole Foods, I need to get a few good approaches in today, no matte what!

I immediately see a hot blond in yoga pants leaving the store, I leave the store behind her. She enters Starbucks, I wait a few minutes and then I enter the Starbucks. She is waiting for her coffee. I decide that I will wait for her to get her coffee and then "meet her at the door". Which basically means that I will wait for her to heads towards the exit door and when she does, I will touch the door at the exact same time she does while pretending that is the first time I saw her.

She gets her coffee and heads straight to creme and sugar area. I head straight for that area. She reaches for creme, I reach acrossher for sugar..

her: opps sorry
me: no problem, go ahead
her: im gonna go right
me: ill go left

We both grab a few things. I can tell that she came form the gym.

me: how was your workout?
her: not so good, i hurt my back
me: oh no, doing what?
her: dead lifting
me: shoot, was it bad form or what?
her: i dont know
me: where is the pain
her: in the small of my back
me: was it a heavy weight for you?
her: not really

Blah, blah, blah.. We exit the store together and begin walking along the sidewalk.

me: it doesn't sound like anything too serious, i think you will be ok
her: thanks
me: do you have an accent
her: i don't know, what do you think?
me: i think it sounds russian
her: close im ukrainian
me: oh you were born there?
her: yes

Blah, blah, blah.. We talk a little more..

me: whats your name?
her: olga
me: im gio
her: hi gio
me: olga
her: yes
me: lets hang out sometime
her: oh gio i cant i have a boyfriend
me: no dont tell me that
her: sorry gio

Little by little, I am working myself in to "The Zone".

"The Zone" is when I don't think, I just react instinctively. It feels like all of my gaming powers come together and I reach a higher state of awareness.

I will be there in a few weeks. You will notice that my approaches will get much more seductive and powerful. It isn't so much my words but how I say things and how I present myself.

Now, I'm going to do some research about "charisma" to speed up the re-wiring of my brain on this topic. I like to totally immerse myself in the subject.

Hello Gio!

I am always happy to see your new posts. I notice your conversations are getting better; less interview mode, more fun and humor. If i can give my two cents you are still not aggressive and persistant enough. You are also too logical. I would tease them, use absurd humor, provoke them. The less logical the conversation is the better.

Did you saw this guy named vadim? He is able to suck these girls in the NOW with his extremely strong presence, confidence and humor. They stay no chance just surender to his aura. Also he does not give a fuck if she mentions a boyfriend or not. If he can suck her in his reality its become irrevelant. The second video is more like entartaiment but his game is still aamazing.

Post: #1196

(02-10-2014 05:16 AM)starmaze Wrote:  you are still not aggressive and persistent enough. You are also too logical. I would tease them, use absurd humor, provoke them.

Starmaze,

Thank you for saying that! I agree with you!

I will watch those videos and I will be even more aggressive and "absurd"!!!

Fuck, I've been trying to do that for like 2 years!!!

Changing my game has not been an "over night" process. It's been more of a slow and steady type of change.

*****

Here are 3 more from yesterday:

I was at the mall. I see a cute, slim white girl, young and with a nice little body. She walks right past me without noticing me, I turn and follow her to a cash register. She starts talking to the employee and starts doing something on the store computer.

I think about my options..

After a minute or 2 the store employee leaves and the girl is at the counter all by herself. I start walking over to her, I have no idea what I will say but I just trust myself to come up with something when I get there.

I walk up to the counter..

me: hey do you work here?
her: ya but im actually off the clock right now, she can help you

She points to the other girl.

me: ok

I take a few steps towards the other girl and say -- "where can i get a gift card?", "You can get them at any sales counter", she says. "ok, thanks", I reply. "I'm, gonna come back later".

I walk a few steps back towards the target girl, pretending like my business is done and I am leaving. I take an angle and a pace that suggests that I am leaving, but then, at the last moment, I pretend like I notice something about her..

me: i love that turquoise, such a cool color

She was wearing a turquoise sweater and scarf.

her: oh thank you
me: its pretty but sort of mysterious at the same time, im an aquarius and i think that is my color
her: oh really
me: ya are you an aquarius?
her: no, im an aries
me: oh shit, you guys are crazier than us, ha
her: haha
me: where are you from? new york city or something?
her: lol no im from the valley
me: really? i never would have guessed that
her: no, why not?
me: you seem like a big city girl with all those loud colors and everything
her: well, i've been here for 2 years
me: ya do you like it?
her: its ok
me: i actually have a lot of family out in the valley, i like it out there cause its slower and warmer
her: ya if you were from there you wouldn't like it as much
me: ya thats probably true, hey i gotta run but its nice chatting with you, wanna talk again sometime, maybe get coffee or a beer or something?
her: um well
me: i know its weird because you work here but dont worry, I will write my number down right here, no one can tell whats going on, i don't wanna get you in trouble
her: um ok

I right my number down on a business card and leave it for her to pick up on the counter.

me: here, text me later, my name is gio
her: hi gio, im shauna
me: hi shauna, text me, lets hang out sometime
her: okay

We'll see what happens. Not bad for my first approach of the day.

Honestly, when it comes to these young, mall girls, if the are dtf, they usually text me same day. The fact that she didn't text me last night is not a good sign.

*****

Still at the mall, I see a gorgeous, thin girl that looks north african or persian or something. Tight, yoga pants with long hair and nice skin, olive complexion. She has on a nice jacket but there is a huge piece of lint on her shoulder..

She walks near me..

me: hey you probably want to clean off your jacket

I point to her shoulder.

her: oh my god, thanks
me: no problem, i don't want you walking around with that
me: thats a nice coat
her: oh thank you, i love it
me: how are you liking this rain?
her: well we need it i guess
me: ya and it give us a chance to break out our winter wardrobe
her: ya thats true
me: whats your name?
her: dounya
me: hi dounya, im gio, i know this might be a little random but are you single? wanna get coffee or something sometime?
her: sorry gio, i have a boyfriend
me: oh no dont tell me that
her: sorry im really flattered tho
me: damn

I move on.

*****

I go a Whole Foods, there a no cute girls in there. Rainy, Sundays are not good for day game. As I'm leaving a see a hot, black girl walking in..

me: hello
her: hello
me: you look nice today
her: thank you
me: whats your name?
her: amanda
me: hey im gio

We shake hands.

me: can i ask you something?
her: sure
me: do you date white guys?
her: um i have before but im in high school
me: oh shoot, well have a nice day!

Next!

This rain is really hurting day game. But, we need it so I won't complain. I also had a little date with the 19yo that I recently banged (the 2nd approach in that post). She has a 31yo boyfriend. She told me that she loves older white guys and doesn't like guys her age.

It seems like almost every girl I bang has a thing for older guys. Those are the ones I'm looking for.

Post: #1197

There posts are great Gio!

Can't wait till the drilling season slows down so I can start posting some day game approaches.

Are you using any kino - either social or flirty?

Post: #1198

(02-10-2014 04:05 PM)Irishman Wrote:  Are you using any kino - either social or flirty?

Not much.

I am only about 15 approaches into this new year. (I was in hibernation from Dec 20th - February 1st) I don't have all my powers just yet.

Once I get going and get back to full strength, I will try to be aggressive with my kino.

When I use it, it works.

Post: #1199

Cool Gio.

Ill Pm again about coaching when the timings right.

Post: #1200

Gio I don't think you want to use the approach from that guy on the video.

I like his attitude but is not the right attitude to get laid, he jokes too much. I think these type of guys make those videos for youtube views, not to get laid.

I think your attitude is just fine. Remember that you are using the father figure approach, I think your lines go in line with your personality. You know it better than me, I could be wrong.