Post: #2176

I met up with LINUX and a friend of his last night and hit the nightlife in Denver. I haven't been out at night in years, and haven't done it as a single guy since Clinton was President. It was pouring rain for a while which made it a slow start. We started at this place with a rooftop patio but it was a complete sausage fest, 30 guys watching the NBA Finals and maybe 3 women. We eventually went across the street to a country bar, which had better ratios at least. It was still kind of slow. I think Linux & his buddy weren't seeing much they liked, and I was stuck inside my head doing the old "she looks alright... OMG how do I open her?" The other guys were giving me good pep talks, Linux said something like "you gotta start with the ugly ones and work your way up". His buddy advocated going to the hottest chick you could find and getting blown out so you realize that a blowout is no big deal. I was just pissed off at myself for being a pussy. Funny thing too, we ran into a couple guys Linux knew, turns out they're RSD guys in Denver.

Eventually we tried a couple other bars, then the other guys got the idea to head up to a big country bar a bit north of Downtown. We walk in and get separated, I wander around window shopping and finally see a girl sitting by herself. She was alright, plain looking but skinny enough and I wouldn't be ashamed to be seen with her, and I told myself this was as easy an approach as I was going to find. I opened with something like "did your friends abandon you too? I turned around and my buddies are gone". She opened right up and we talked about bullshit, she grew up here but lives out of state and is back here visiting friends. I made a bunch of mistakes (asking about what she did for a living etc.) but managed to keep conversation going and then her friend shows up, a skinny geeky arabic guy. I owe that dude a drink. He comes up and we do introductions and he says "why aren't you dancing with her?" I'm making some excuse that it's been a long time and she'd have to play dance instructor, and arab guy says "she's a great teacher, she taught me to 2 step!" Every girl should have friends like this, it was the instant wingman.

So we go out to the floor and dance for 3 songs and I learn to 2 step. I need to practice this. I'd forgotten how much fun it is to dance with a chick. When we finished she said something like "I have a philosophy that you'll never learn something unless you get out and do it", and I said "funny, my friends were telling me the same thing tonight".

Linux and his friend were not liking the crown and had bailed on the bar, and at this point it's getting late and I need to get up in the morning and get to work. I ask for her number so we could hang again, but she has a boyfriend back home. Whatever. So we say our goodbyes and I feel pretty good about myself - I got over myself and did a cold approach at night and it paid off with a whirl on the dance floor, so I accomplished something. It's frustrating going back to dealing with AA, but you I'm just going to have to push through it.

Also, I got to see a taste of Linux in action. It was a slow night, but the dude is real and completely consistent with his persona on here. I really appreciate him inviting me out as a total game noob. Guy didn't have to do that, but he's the kind of guy we all should be, ready to help out a fellow man. He and his buddy are both good guys and I hope we get to hang again before long.

Post: #2177

Pretty proud of myself even though the achievement may seem nothing compared to some others on here. My first cold approach, sober, day game, for a complete newbie.

I was in a 2 dollar shop, browsing and saw one of the shop attendants stacking ribbons on the shelf. A hard 7 without make up (with, she’d easily be a 8 to 9). I browse the shelves next to her and gradually move in. Eventually:

Me: “So they call it the $2 shop, but not everything is $2.”
Her: “Yer, not everything is $2s… didn’t you know that?”
Me: “No… I feel I bit ripped off”
Her: “Haha…. well if you want to feel that way I guess. We have a $100 Buddha statute over there just to let you know”
Me: “Really? That’s the most expensive item I’ve heard of in a $2 shop.”
Her: “Even Daiso have raised their prices. Average item is $2.80”
Me: “Inflation”

We chit chat about her studies (she studies commerce & law, majoring in HR) and she asks me what I study and I say I work (felt good since it made me feel young, I am 29). I introduce myself and give a handshake. Handshake was weak so I need to work on that. Didn’t know how to ask for her number, can someone advise? Didn’t really matter to me though as I just wanted to make my first ‘intentional’ approach. Eventually I go “well, see you around and walk off.”

I was struggling just before the approach. Hands shaking, throat feeling choked. Nervous as fook. But I remembered that "a lame approach is better than no approach" and I did it. Might try doing an approach every day to desensitise myself, as I am still nervous about doing the whole thing again. I am happy with myself but know I have still lots to go through.

Post: #2178

(06-13-2015 11:17 PM)studmuffin52 Wrote:  Pretty proud of myself even though the achievement may seem nothing compared to some others on here. My first cold approach, sober, day game, for a complete newbie.

I was in a 2 dollar shop, browsing and saw one of the shop attendants stacking ribbons on the shelf. A hard 7 without make up (with, she’d easily be a 8 to 9). I browse the shelves next to her and gradually move in. Eventually:

Me: “So they call it the $2 shop, but not everything is $2.”
Her: “Yer, not everything is $2s… didn’t you know that?”
Me: “No… I feel I bit ripped off”
Her: “Haha…. well if you want to feel that way I guess. We have a $100 Buddha statute over there just to let you know”
Me: “Really? That’s the most expensive item I’ve heard of in a $2 shop.”
Her: “Even Daiso have raised their prices. Average item is $2.80”
Me: “Inflation”

We chit chat about her studies (she studies commerce & law, majoring in HR) and she asks me what I study and I say I work (felt good since it made me feel young, I am 29). I introduce myself and give a handshake. Handshake was weak so I need to work on that. Didn’t know how to ask for her number, can someone advise? Didn’t really matter to me though as I just wanted to make my first ‘intentional’ approach. Eventually I go “well, see you around and walk off.”

I was struggling just before the approach. Hands shaking, throat feeling choked. Nervous as fook. But I remembered that "a lame approach is better than no approach" and I did it. Might try doing an approach every day to desensitise myself, as I am still nervous about doing the whole thing again. I am happy with myself but know I have still lots to go through.

Post: #2179

Grocery Store:

I see a beautiful blond, yoga pants, great body, feminine, long hair.

She was looking at some cupcakes..

me: oh my gosh, you eat this stuff! how do you stay in such great shape?
her: haha good genetics i guess
me: yes that always helps, all the girls want a physique like yours
her: really?
me: ya are u a trainer or something?
her: oh no im not
me: you have a little accent, are you swedish?
her: no im from latvia
me: oh wow i love latvia
her: you know it?
me: yes of course

We talked for a minute.

me: how are you enjoying san francisco
her: i love it
me: maybe we should go out for a drink sometime
her: oh sorry

Next!

--

On the Street:

I see a beautiful latina walking ahead of me, thin, toned body, clean, flawless skin, sexy, gorgeous face.

I speed up to catch up to her. I get a few steps behind her..

She sneezes.

me: bless you
her: oh thanks
me: allergies?
her: no just a random sneeze
me: you look like a new york city girl
her: what?
me: ya its your crazy sunglasses and gangster strut
her: haha
me: do you live around here?
her: no

I tried to talk to her but she didn't seem interested in talking.

me: can i call call you some time and flirt with you, maybe go out for a drink or something?
her: um im not interested

Next!

--

Mall Parking Lot:

I see a gorgeous half asian/half white girl, tall and athletic, very sexy..

I passed her, pretending to go to my car,

me: you look like a volleyball player
her: oh i dont play volleyball
me: oh no what do you play?
her: i just run
me: any yoga or pilates ?
her: no
me: hi my name is gio
her: hi
me: whats your name?
her: katie
me: do you go to school around here?
her: i just graduated from high school
me: oh congratulations

She stopped and started getting into her car.

me: katie
her: yes
me: id like to take you out for coffee or something sometime
her: oh sorry no thanks

Next!

--

Driving in My Car:

I see a beautiful black girl in short shorts, spectacular ass and body, clean caramel skin, pretty face..

I pull over and jog a block to catch up to her. She stops walking at a red light.

I pretend to be on my phone as I walk up to the intersection. I noticed that the tag on her shirt was sticking out..

me: excuse me young lady
her: uh huh
me: your tag is sticking out, you might want to tuck that in
her: oh ok
She started playing around with it.

me: need some help?
her: no i got it
me: im like your fashion adviser

She just looked at me funny.

me: whats you name? mine is gio
her: amanda
me: can i ask you a question?
her: ya
me: do you date white guys?
her: sorry im not dating right now

Next!

***

I love fishing for my next 18 or 19 year old girlfriend!

Post: #2180

@Gio Great stuff, your approaches always make me laugh!
It takes balls to do what you do and publish the results here, for us to learn from.
I really admire how you keep banging the guns, taking the positives from the interactions that don't go anywhere and persisting til you get the desired results.
What's interesting to note is how few of the girls you interact with are outright rude, shows that you're doing the right things.
Massive props sir!

Post: #2181

@Gio Im impressed dude. Reading your approach posts , You just really do not give a fuck of beeing rejected, I love how you always continue to game. That is some motivation right here.

Post: #2182

Gym approach last night.

Girl sits down on a machine across from me. Asks me if maybe I should move because she was worried she would kick me??? I say sure, give her a smile and move because all I was doing was playing with my phone.

Go over to swing the KB and lift a little. She is bouncing around between machines. I am checking her out. No tummy. Cute face. Nice 34-6ish boobs. 5'7" Roundish ass and skinny legs. White girl. She looks good.

We are practically the only people in the gym on a Saturday afternoon. Except for this other dork who took over the squat rack, but didnt do anything with it. I hate that. I just walked up, asked him if I could work in, and proceeded with my workout. He seemed confused, had set the bar too high, and asked me to help him lower. Sure kid.

I noticed she laughed at this and was at the next rack over. We sort of exchanged grins like wtf. At the end of the workout I went over to chat her up, got her name, her number, then texted. My plan was to bang her last night, but she was "busy". I am going to meet her in 45 minutes.

I never approach in the gym. This was my second this week. It was also a week of no fap. That stuff works.

Also got another number yesterday at a festival of hipsters. Chic never wrote me back.

Got flaked on by an old Tinder girl who texted me out of the blue. Fuck Tinder.

Post: #2183

^^^^

I hear you on the gym approaches

I just got a 5 day a week 9-6 job, so Im going to have to start approaching where i can, which will include: the gym and whole foods

Post: #2184

@ Gio, it's a great injustice that we're not allowed to rep you twice, thrice, and so on.

Post: #2185

On the Street: (near a "Hooters")

I see a cute light skinned black girl with hot little body, clean skin, sexy.

She is walking towards the Hooters bar.

I quickly cross the street and walk along side of her..

She is holding a book, "Fahrenheit 451".

me: hey thats a cool book
her: oh have u read it
me: ya back in high school, years ago, its like "the matrix" right?
her: well, its about propaganda
me: oh ya, they burn all the books and stuff
her: yup, thats it
me: are you a political science major or something?
her: no creative writing
me: oh wow ya thats makes sense, at what school?
her: i go to school in Pennsyvania
me: ok just back for summer?
her: yup

We walk towards the Hooters.

me: are you a Hooters girl ?
her: ya
me: oh how sexy, well, you have the right look for it, cute and confident
her: thank you
me: whats your name
her: nya
me: hey im gio
her: hey
me: well, i better let u go to work, wanna talk again sometime, maybe go out for coffee, i'd like to read some of your creative writing
her: oh im kinda with someone

Next!

P.S. - She was wearing earbuds when I approached her. Alot of girls are wearing ear buds when I approach them. I literally just ignore the earbuds and approach as if they aren't wearing any. Sometimes, they take the ear buds out and say, "what was that" or something similar. But, often times, they just respond normally as if they weren't wearing any.

I don't use any of the special tricks that I used to experiment with:

'Overcoming Ear Buds"

Just fucking approach!

Post: #2186

at the gym this morning

Im walking towards the squat rack when i seen this brunette ( about a 6, though she works out so that bumps her up to a 7) that ive seen around the gym before

As i pass her she smiles at me and i smile back

i start to prepare the squat rack while she is working out on the press rack behind me

somthing told me "open this chick"

i notice that she has dinosaur socks on so i open her

Me; are those dinosaur socks?

her; yea haha they are one of my favorites

Me; yea those are cool, where did you get those

Her; at the mall, i have pizza, and doughnut ones

Her; yea they go with my shoes haha

Me; yea ive got to get new shoes to mine are worn out

Her; im thing about those lifting shoes though i usually just squat in my converse

Me; have you seen those shoes that people wear here that are just rubber that are like your barefoot?

Her; yea my friend has some and he swears by them

Me; those are so sketchy to wear in the gym though

Her i know

Me; thats cool, how long ago did you start training

Her; 9 months ago, i met my trainer and it was all down hill from there

Me; oh really what are you training for

Her; im gong to compete in a body contest

Me; for sure ( i see she is wearing a organ ducks shirt)

Me :did you go there

Her; no i went to sac state, i played soft ball there

we chat for a bit more, towards the end of the conversation i go;

Me; by the way im sketness

her; im taylor nice to meet you

me; cool, well ill let you get back to your work out see you around

Her; ok, see you around

--------------------------------

over all it was a decent approach, ive been working a dick ton so i havent had the opportunity to swing by my local JUCO to scout the talent. So mainly ive been just lightly gaming at my gym.

I really want one of these fitness chicks and by god im going to get one or die trying

Post: #2187

Haven't had many stories to tell in this thread lately because of a few immediate blowouts and an overall dearth - I just haven't seen much lately that I've really wanted to approach, that my dick tells me to approach. After a bit of experience you really want to get that feeling if you're gonna put that effort out.

Today I saw a couple. As usual, the hotter the girls, the tighter my game is.

Girl #1:

She was wearing an elegant day dress that gives her a look of sophistication. I like that. I went over and did my thing. She's from London and usually for some reason I don't have much luck with UK girls, but this one I did. We just talked a lot about different things, mostly drinking. I showed her a few pics of bars I've been to and baseball games because she wants to see a game. We joked about opening a bar in the bahamas where only cool people would be allowed, but no freaks. We looked at people around the vicinity and she asked me if this or that person would be around. I ramped up sexually by telling her she'd be in a hot bikini constantly. This is the very compressed version, we were probably talking for close to an hour.

I liked this girl. Of course as usual when I find a girl I like, she's leaving soon. But we are going to keep in touch.

The funniest thing was that her mom was nearby and came over at the end. I handled myself well, represented my city well to both of them, and told them a few things they should do.

The lesson there is that if you're high energy and likeable, you can at times get away with blatantly hitting on daughters with parents in the vicinity. Interestingly the mom was Asian, so I think this girl is half white, half Asian, but she looks essentially white, just a bit more tanned.

Girl #2:

Hot Asian girl with nice tits just beckoning you to come over. One older dude tried to hit her up but got shot down. Yours truly was not going to avoid the attempt since my dick demanded it.

To any newbies who haven't approached yet or just have started approaching, I want you to remember this pun on some traditional lyrics:

My dick commands, and I'll obey.

That's the mentality you need to have when approaching.

I opened her up. She seemed a tad bit closed at first (although she accepted my direct opener well), but I got her talking fast. We just do normal talk, though I ramp up sexually here too by telling her I thought she looked sexy in her dress - if there's one thing I need to do a bit more in day game, it's some subtle sexual escalation. I used a story about smoking weed when I was a kid to pull her closer.

We joked about a lot of stupid things. Honestly guys - joke about Bruce Jenner and transgenderism. It's hot now and we often remark on the degeneracy, but girls seem to love joking about it so use it to your advantage. Tease her about being a man in a sexy woman's body, and joke about how you might be too.

Enjoy the decline.

She's only here for a few days, but I told her I'd like to take her to a place. She gives me her number readily when asked but was mentioning not to me in particular that "her phone died."

We'll see what happens when I text her. I really don't care, that's the abundance mentality provided by approaching.

The one thing I think I did wrong today was that I possibly stayed too long. When I meet girls (or people in general) that I legitimately like talking to I get a bit reluctant to leave them. That's an extrovert weakness in the game possibly.

Any more experienced players know as to whether you ending the interaction first affects success rates in the long run?

Post: #2188

Got in line at a Starbucks this morning, and a light-skin freckle-faced black girl in yoga pants soon gets in line behind me, and picks up a panini sandwich from the display case. So I turned to her and busted out the lame-but-effective elderly chat:

Me: Those any good?

Her: I think so. I usually get them a lot.

Me: Maybe I'll try one next time. By the way, I'm Saul.

We shook hands, I lingered grasping her hand, and she was cool with it, didn't pull away or look uncomfortable.

The tone of her reply and body language let me know she was at least casually interested. After my drink was served, I stopped in front of her on my way to the exit.

Me: It was fun running into you, I've got to get back to the office. But I'd like to get together with you, go ahead and give me your number.

Her: Sure, that'd be great. It's ...

Me: Did I punch it in right?

Her: Yes, but call me now to make sure.

Then I went on my way.

Post: #2189

Walking along while I was out doing some reading, saw a hottie on her computer with beautiful tits. We made repeated eye contact, and after sharing a smile (due to some kids jumping around nearby - thanks guys ), I saw my chance I went over to her. I knew by that point it was already on. Her body language was very positive.

She's young, 19, appears to have her head in the right place but comes across as naive in that cute feminine kind of way. We both grew up in the same area so we had that commonality to start with. We rambled about a lot of different things, but the more important things were the subcommunication and some of the emotional topics being brought up.

She mentioned "my boyfriend" a couple of times and talked about the "relationship" that she says has lasted for a month. She mentions some of the beta things he's doing. I tease her that she's gonna dump him soon. She laughs but says that she's clingy too, but that she also "likes to mingle."

Going on, she starts talking about astrology and how I must be a Scorpio (humorously, I am). I ask how Scorpios and Cancers are together (establishing some more sexual subcommunication), all the while making it guessable that I think it's all bullshit and am just playing along. We keep going on talking about different things. I tease her about being a telepath while making sexual eye contact and a masculine grin and ask her to tell me what I'm thinking.

This goes on. I tell her to give me her #. She agrees but starts to backtrack and ask for Facebook instead. I tell her I don't use it too much but I'll text it to her later, maintaining frame. She agrees and gives me her # and starts asking me if I like to talk via texting - obviously her hamster is at work because she associates texting with being unfaithful to her "boyfriend." I tell the truth and say I don't like it very much, mainly just use it to set up plans. She starts going "oh my god help me" as she's giving me her #.



Honestly this was one of my best-ever approaches. I can't think of a single thing I did wrong this time. I just established my usual dominant frame and turned up the sexual heat appropriately for the daytime. I need to do approaches just like this in the future.

I am 100% confident that she's going to put "boyfriend" out to pasture in favor of someone more masculine soon, especially given she admits all her relationships are "short term" even though she's "clingy." How do you guys think I should go about communicating with her from here? Thinking just my normal game, tease her about being a telepath while I give her the link as I said I would for something for her to bite into, and then invite her out to something I might be going to next week.

Post: #2190

Killer approach Libertas! Haha I'm a Scorpio too and if you believe in all that astrology mumbo jumbo, Cancer is one of the best matches there is. I have an ex GF who bugs the living shit out of me but we still hook up from time to time just because the sex is so good and she's a Cancer go figure.

As for the "boyfriend" line pay it absolutely zero attention. I had a 19 year old that I had smashed on the first date later on tell me she now had a "boyfriend" but agreed to meet up for a tea anyway just to catch up for our second "date". I got her back to my apartment and the whole time I'm taking off her pants, then panties, then eating her pussy then fucking her she's saying over and over "this is bad, this is sooo bad..."

Post: #2191

Outstanding Approach Libertas + 1 from me. Seems like you were calm and collected and did what Gio would call a Indirect-Direct Approach.

Post: #2192

glostic sense

Post: #2193

Girl 1 walking in the mall (taller than me, model looking girl):
I cut her off in the mall
Me: Kind of random, but you look nice. Almost like a model
Her: No I'm not
Me: That's ok. Enjoying the beautiful day so far?
Her: Yes, just shopping till I go home.
Me: (sensing she was wandering) Before you go, do you have a bf? (shouldn't have asked this, duh)
Her: Yes, sorry bye.

This girl was nice enough. Towered over me by a foot in her heels. Glad I said hi.

2 Girls walking in the mall
I cut them off and use a similar approach
Me: Excuse me, hi. You guys look like you're in town for the event this weekend, right?
Them: No
Me: So you're not tourists?
Them: We are from Buffalo, shopping here. (this in Toronto btw)
Me: I use to go to Buffalo a couple years ago to shop, but now your dollar got ahead of us.
(they start wandering - dummies)
Me: Before you go, this is going to be a good night to go out. Keep in touch?
Them: Yeah (as they walk away)

These two were cuntry, so I let them go.

3 girls working for a marketing company standing around in Coke shirts

Me: Excuse me, hi, do you guys know where abouts I can get some pepsi?
Them: haha we don't talk about pepsi around here
Me: Yeah I hear coke ppl get fired if they drink pepsi. But you don't work for coke direclty; probably some marketing company.
Them: Yeah, that's true.
(They get a call from there boss, saying they got to go to another location)
Me: Wait, before you go, do you have boyfriends
(a couple of them indicate yes, they are acting uncertain)
One girl: Why, you would just take any of us that are single?
Me: Actually I was watching that show sister wifes, everyone looks so happy. I was going to get all your numbers (balls to the wall, why not)
One girl: Well we all have boyfriends
Me: That's nice. Take it easy

Lately I've been experimenting with asking a group if they have boyfriends or not. In the past, I just went straight for the hottest one, but this has backfired on me a couple times. Once I commit to one, and she turns into a no go, it can be hard to move on the others. I shouldn't have asked the question like this, though, anyway. Next time I'm going to try asking it indirectly. eg. "Do your boyfriends ever take you to the event?" Then I'm going to move away from the point. e.g "Ya that event is going to have a lot of Indie bands." Then from there, I will focus on the single one and try close the deal.

Another method I've tried with multiple girls is trying to let them decide which one wants me. I'll say something like, "it would be good if meet up at that bar later, if we all end up going out. Which one of you is reliable to text with me as event organizers." This one doesn't work well. Normally they end up all giving hesitation, or the ugly girl of the group pipes up that she will text.

Post: #2194

Hot Ukraine looking girl in the mall:
Me: Hi, you look really nice.
(sensing she was confused)
Me: Are you lost?
Her: Yes, I'm looking for (names a restaurant in the mall)
Me: Hmm let me check the board for you. I think it's here. (I find out where it is)
Me: I'll walk you over, since I'm so nice. Where are you from anyway? (we start walking)
Her: Ukraine
(shoot the shit for awhile, she brings up having a boyfriend at some point
Me: Ok it's right over there. I'd come eat with you but I just had lunch. Tell you what, we can get coffee sometime.
Her: sure
Me: (hand her phone for number, and go my own way)

This chick was hot, of course she has a boyfriend. Tried to jump the gun on this one and get her out pretty quickly, no dice. I actually called her on the phone the next day. She is up for going out next week (so she says). I will probably call her again Monday and try to set something up for during the week.

Post: #2195

I don't think I've ever really "approached" until I tried cold-open day game. Holy crap. Huge shout-out to Octavian for motivation and guidance.

Approach 1
Octavian: Go get her!
Me: (Runs to catch up with her) Hey, Excuse me, Uh...I really like your jacket...
Her: Thanks! (Keeps walking)

Approach 2
Me: Hey, that bag is really cool
Her: Oh, uh, thank you...
Me: Where did you get it?
Her: Blah Blah place...
Me: Oh is that a local place?
Her: Yeah, its over (somewhere)
Me: Asks random question about place
Her: random comment about the store being BoHo or some such
Me: Cool, Cool... (running out of steam)
Her: Why do you ask?
Me: Oh, uh...I do...marketing...just curious.
Her: Oh cool!
Me: Yup Bye! (Sadly, I got a bit nervous. She wasn't really attractive either.)

Approach 3
Octavian: Take this shirt, don't come back to this level (of the store) until you use it to open.
Me: Hey does this shirt...match my vibe?? (Smoking hot girl. I'm laughing at my own words and stumbling a little on them)
Her: (in sexy-as-hell voice) Yeah...looks great!
Me: Yeah I just, ya know...I'm just looking for a normal shirt...this looks ok right?
Her: Oh yeah, it's a great shirt...and it's on sale! There ya go!
Me: (Almost blacking out from anxiety and in a kind of horse whisper) Ok, well...thanks then!

I was so nervous the first few times Octavian told me to go chase a girl down we decided to just have me work on stopping them and making some kind of compliment or observation.

Nerve wracking as hell but I'm hooked now. Must. Approach. More!!!

Post: #2196

I'm searching for a new sexual partner.. It's great fun!

Driving:

I see a beautiful blond in yoga pants, tight body, long hair, sexy..

I pull my car over a block ahead of her and get out. I cross the street and position myself right in front of her. We are walking in the same direction, I'm a few steps ahead..

me: hey how was your workout?
her: oh im just going right now
me: oh ok which gym
her: soul cycle
me: oh cool whats that? like spinning?
her: ya basically
me: cool have fun
her: thanks
me: where are u from?
her: sacramento
me: oh are you freezing down here?
her: yes
me: im gio
her: hi, stacy

We spoke for a minute.

me: nice meeting you, you look great, can i take you out for a drink sometime?
her: no thanks

Next!

**

At the Mall:

I see a pretty light skinned black girl, beautiful body, 18 or 19

She is wearing a University of Washington shirt..

me: hey are u a huskie?
her: wha?
me: do u go to washington?
her: oh no my sister goes to howard
me: oh they have the same colors as washington
her: hehe
me: where do u go to school?
her: we;;m i just graduated from high school and ill be attending loyola in the fall
me: wow congratulations, loyola is beautiful
her: thank you

We spoke for a few minutes.

me: im gio
her: hi, crystal
me: nice to meet you
her: you too
me: im almost thinking that we should maybe talk again sometime
her: oh umm
me: i mean, only if you interested, if not, no worries
her: thats okay
me: you sure
her: ya

Next!

**

Subway:

A beautiful asian mixed looking girl gets on the train. Maybe asian and white, very sexy, slim body, long hair..

We make a little eye contact.

10 minutes later, we both exit the train.

I time my steps so that we arrive at the escalator at the same time.

She is right behind me, I slightly turn..

me: you are so pretty, where are you from?
her: oh hehe thanks, i live here
me: really i thought you were from honolulu or something
her: oh my gosh, i did grow up in hawaii
me: wow im pychic
her: haha
me: how long have you been here
her: oh like 10 years
me: thats great

We talked for a minute.

me: you interested in talking again sometime?
her: oh sorry Im in a relationship

Next!

**

In the Mall:

I make eye contact with a hot latina, she looks away, she looks back at me.

I head straight over to her.

me: hey
her: hey
me: did u see me coming down the escalator?
her: no
me: what, we made eye contact
her: oh we did?
me: ya it seemed like your eyes were saying hello to me
her: hehe really
me: ya what do u do, are you a dancer or an athlete or something?
her: oh no why?
me: your body, you're in great shape
her: you think so
me: yes

We talked for a minute.

me: you wanna flirt again sometime? maybe we should exchange numbers
her: sorry im with someone

Next!

**

In the Mall (5 minutes later):

I see a spectacular body walking right in front of me, a white girl in yoga pants with a lucious, round ass and perfect legs and hips..

me: you have an amazing body
her: oh thank you
me: where are you from?
her: chicago
me: are u here on vacation?
her: yes
me: how u liking it?

We spoke for a few minutes.

me: when are we going out for a drink?
her: oh im leaving tonight, sorry

Next!

**

On the Street:

I see a pretty light skinned black girl in yoga pants, hot body, clean, vibrant skin..

She is holding a brand new yoga mat.

I walk along side of her at a red light..

me: new yoga mat?
her: yes
me: looks like a good one
her: oh i just got it a ross
me: my favorite store, dont tell anyone
her: hehe me too
me: u from around here?
her: well, i just moved here from denver
me: oh cool, welcome

We chatted for a minute.

me: wanna exchange numbers, maybe i can show you around a little
her: ya sure

I texted her an hour later.

She replied and we have been texting back and forth a bit trying to set a date.

**

University Summer School:

I see a sexy little white girl in yoga pants, beautiful, tight, young body and very pretty face.

She is lying down on a patch of grass.

I walk over and pretend to be taking pictures of a near by tree..

me: hey i like your pink sweatshirt, very stylish
her: oh thanks
me: im just looking for places to hang a tire swing
her: oh
me: did u have a nice nap
her: well, im just resting before class
me: what do u study?
her: kinosiology
me: oh thats my major also, where area?

We talked for a few minutes.

me: well, i better run, nice meeting you
her: ok take care
me: hey wanna talk again sometime
her: you can look me up on facebook
me: oh i dont have facebook, can i text u later?
her: um well
me: only if u want to, if not, no worries
her: thats ok

Next!

**

University Summer School:

I see a hot white girl walk right past me, short shorts, stomach exposing shirt showing her tight body.

I turn and catch up to her at a red light. She is wearing ear phones

me: hey what are u listening to?
her: oh hey excuse me
me: what are you listening to? you look like a house music kind of girl
her: no this is just a rap mix
me: rap? what rappers do u like?

We talked for a minute.

me: wanna talk again sometime
her: i have a bf

Next!

**

Driving:

I see a beautiful blond walking in a short skirt, great legs, smooth skin, pretty face

She is rolling a large suitcase, she is obviously a flight attendant.

I immediately park my car and run over to the opposite side of the street where she is waiting at a red light.

me: hey how was your flight?
her: oh haha it was ok
me: where did u fly in from?
her: boise
me: oh i love idaho, my mom lives in montana so i drive through there
her: oh really?
me: ya great people up there, where are u from?
her: im from salt lake city
me: no way im a huge jazz fan
her: haha
me: do u have a layover here in san francisco or soemthing?
her: yes, im based out of boise and san francisco international
me: oh cool, my name is gio
her: hi im heather

We talked for a minute.

me: hey what are u doing later? wanna get a bite to eat or a drink maybe?
her: my friends might be going downtown but ya maybe
me: wanna give me your number and ill text u in a little bit?
her: sure

I texted her an hour later. She replied but claimed that she was unavailable.

I'll try to get her out soon.

**

Inside a clothing store::

I see a cute mixed girl, maybe asian and white, thin, toned body, long black hair, pretty facy, sexy vibe..

She yawns.

me: oh its nap time
her: hehe

She just started walking away.

Her shirt said "Stone Brewery"

me: where is stone brewery?

She turned slightly.

her: oh its in san diego
me: did u go to school down there?
her: no my sister lived there

Again, she just sort of started walking away.

Next!

**

During an Uber pool ride:

My co-rider is a sexy, young, college girl, filipino and black, slim, toned, feminine, long black hair, pretty face, clean skin.

During the ride, we chat about school, etc.

We stop to let her out, I get out with her and tell the driver to wait for a few seconds..

me: emily nice meeting you, wanna chat again sometime, maybe get coffee or something?
her: oh well
me: only if you're interested, if not, no worries
her: im sort of dating someone
me: ya I figured that
her: im flattered tho, great meeting you

Next!

-----

Im having a lot of fun doing this. I feel no fear.

But, I am not getting emotional reactions from many girls. I am being a little too conservative, too plain, too vanilla.

I've decided that I'm going to get a a little crazier. I want/need to cause extreme reactions in these girls. I need to have even more fun with this!

It will be higher risk but higher reward.

All of us will be more entertained. The girls, you guys, and myself.

I'm starting today. My 40th birthday is coming soon. I want to end my 30s with a real bang!

I will be out on the town all day today so I will likely do at least 10 more approaches before sun down!

Post: #2197

Something to be admired Gio. I'm sure a lot of the girls will remember you though. I'm sure not many guys have the balls to do what you do. I'd like to develop that same fearlessness.

Post: #2198

Gio is my inspiration as I am also turning 40 soon. My game is nowhere even close to that level..I have no fear approaching...but I always go very direct....compliment..ask for the.number.....I know it i
Has bee done to death but top.level is direct game hurting my chances more often than not?!

Post: #2199

Yea gio approches period. Thats why he's so successful.
Gio, if you can get the chick to ask you a personal question i bet a lot of those no girls would be yes girls. Also, i used to eject after the "i have a bf" try hanging in there with a
"Oh that's coo, i respect that. It's nice to find someone you know your not wasting your time on and one day marry and spend the rest of your life with." More times than not (at least for me) they would start speaking negatively about their man.

Post: #2200

I don't approach a lot, i know I have to fix this. Was at walmart in line, chick behind me was on her phone saying how she got a job and she was happy. I opened with, congradulations (smirk).
Her: what?
me: on your new job
her. Oh thx, yea i blah blah blah
me: back when I was job hunting I would exaggerate my resume. And it worked, now i work a job im happy with and get paid well. (Preying she asks me a personal question of "what i do for work"
her: thats nice, what do you do?
me: i'm a computer scientist for the po
her: thats cool
me: by the way are ypu colombian?
her: no why?
Me: 4got but bullshitted why i thought she was columbian.
her: blah blah blah
Continued the rest of galnuc until i got to c (changed up c) (also on n i introduced myself 1st and shook her hand and held it for about 15sec while she told me hers and bullsbitted that her mom had great naming skills bla bla bla) i believe the extended handshake works wonders.
Me: yea clubs are so overrated now a days (we were talking what she does for fun she said shes a movie junkie) well since todays the forth and my kids have visitation with their mom today how about we pop some fireworks and watch some teeth on netflix?
Her: ummm idk u mean at your house?
me: not quite sure where else we would watch it at
her: idk, i dont know you like that (came on too strong i know) so how about you give me your number and i'll see what ur up too later?
her: ok
we chilled last night but went to see fireworks, couldn't get her back home or to hers so no bang bit going to try agian soon.