Post: #2276

(08-07-2015 03:34 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(08-06-2015 11:40 AM)babaelly Wrote:  new guy on the block here, hoping to learn the shit out of day game.

-> Saw mexican HB8 at bus stop
->introduced myself
-> she's 26, im 20, she only been here 3 months, not exactly confident with her.
Instadated her and hung oiut with her but i didnt do any escalation cause i didnt realize you can do it even when meeting her for the first time in the day time lol

anyways got her number at the end and have a date arranged for this saturday. It's just gunna be hard escalating physically after already having spent 3-4 hours with her not having done so. Should I hang with her normally, enjoy the chill sesh, and then go in for a kiss close?

also met an asian 8 at the same bus stop, she has a bf but gave me her number, said she'll text me for a date today or tomorrow, so well see. Question gents, if she doesnt text me today or tomorrow, do i text her later or should i move along?

Sure you can escalate on the second date. Who says you can't? Just do things like calm high fives every now and then when she reveals some cool fact about herself. Occasional fist bumps...just don't over do it.

Touch her arm or leg when y'all or joking about something. When you get up to walk somewhere, put your hand at the small of her back as she goes through the door, lightly touching her.

Just touch a bit on and off throughout the date so she gets comfy with it.

Then, when you go for the kiss at the end, it won't be as big a deal.

For the Asian, I'd wait a few days and throw out a 'what's up' text, but since she said she has a BF, don't expect much.

Thanks man. Ill let you know how it goes later today.

Post: #2277

Hello everybody my this is Just Approach. I'm fairly new to the forum after lurking for a while, but I'm not new to the game. I've been cold approaching girls and daygaming/night gaming for over 2 years now. But started recording this year.

Overall I highly recommend you all when possible video record your approaches. It forces you to take action, and overtime will make you more confident in taking on new challenges especially since now you have it on video for proof. The video helps you look back at your approach and find out where you went right and where you went wrong. How long you took to do certain things, it will help you hear how you sound and your conversation skills, help you analyze body language on both your part and the girl you approach, and it will also show you how good or bad your screening/escalation skills are.

I plan to start posting more of my video cold approaches on this forum more often to help others see and learn.

Last night I went to Hollywood and walked down Hollywood Blvd with a good friend/wingman of mine and we did a bunch of night game cold approaches.

With this girl below I said High 5 to her and her friends and she was the only one to give me the high 5 so I told her to hold up.

I then told her that her high 5 deserves a hug and she gave me some church hug. I called her out on it and told her this is Hollywood and that she can give better hugs than that and proceeded to hug her while lifting her off her feet.

Her friends as you can see immediately saw this and became alert and started walking towards us, so I told her I was taking her to home to my Beverly Hills Mansion as a joke.

I then asked the girl for her phone number and she gave me resistance trying to make the excuse that she has to go. I didn't buy it and proceeded to hand her my phone to type her phone number in while I hugged her other friends.

I have a lot more videos from Hollywood last night including a Kiss close, spanking girls asses, taking selfies and more from the past months that I have been doing this. I just have to find time to sit down and edit all these videos on Adobe Premiere Pro CC which is time consuming.

But if any of you are in the Los Angeles area and want to link up to do some cold approaches, daygame, nightgame with me let me know and we will try to schedule something.
Enjoy





And a little preview to my Hollywood Nights Approaching Videos




Then I proceeded to give them

Post: #2278

Your wing should have held the camera for you. We don't really see what body language is being used or even the reactions on the girl's faces. I do like the idea and that you're putting yourself out there. What I think though is that the interaction wasn't long enough for the girl to really hook. I'm interested in seeing your future infield reports though.

Post: #2279

"The negative effects of thirsty men are not trivial. First, unless your game is in the top 1% that an attractive girl has encountered, she will be quick to flake on you or dismiss you outright. She will be less likely to give investment into any relationship with you if her phone is blowing up from so many other men on OK Cupid or Tinder. You must aim to be in the top 1% if you want your shot at the best women."

This is a quote from Roosh's "An Epidemic of Thirsty Men is Making it Harder to Get Laid", one of his best articles.

I can safely say that I routinely dwell within the top 10% that she's encountered that day, but guess what, ya gotta aim even higher. And so, knowing that it's not getting any easier (to the contrary), and that I simply need to become more skilled . . . I strive to be that 1%.

Post: #2280

(08-08-2015 05:34 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  Your wing should have held the camera for you. We don't really see what body language is being used or even the reactions on the girl's faces. I do like the idea and that you're putting yourself out there. What I think though is that the interaction wasn't long enough for the girl to really hook. I'm interested in seeing your future infield reports though.

I have a lot of respect for people like you ~wrIghter~, Giovonny, Mess O, and many others in this approach thread who post their approaches on a regular basis. I just want to take things to the next level and get it to the point where more people are posting videos of their approaches which shows the action actually going on rather than just reading about it.

No having my wingman or a camera man record video is not my style of recording my approaches. I like to be in control of the camera at all times which I only record video using my phone especially because I focus primary on direct approaches rather than wasting a significant amount of time talking to her attempting to build a stronger connection while there are tons of other better looking girls out today who have the potential to be my number one fan.. I'm not trying to be like those popular pick up channels they have on youtube where they film somebody from a distance, and have mics and other camera equipment.

I am trying to set a new standard for others to follow when recording their approaches so that they don't rely on a wingman or a camera man to film.

Alot of my approaches I do lone wolf status so there is no time to catch perfect angels and stuff of that nature.

I try to film these approaches so that the viewers can feel like they were walking in my shoes while doing the cold approach.

In regards to body language this was a very short clip as I was able to edit that real quickly on my smartphone and throw it up on youtube as a little warm up to the bigger stuff I have coming in the future with more extensive interactions. I have a bunch of infield videos recorded for my channel. But editing the footage takes so much time. I'm learning how to use Adobe Premiere pro cc to edit footage and there is a huge learning curve. To protect myself from legal issues in the future and to protect the privacy of the girls I approach I have to mute their names, blur their faces, and mute when they give me their phone numbers verbally. There's also so many other factors that effect decent infield footage such as the environment. Last night I was filming my cold approaches in hollywood and I ran into issues of girls not talking loud enough, me not talking loud enough, to much background noise from cars passing by or the clubs/bars nearby playing loud music. Other people passing by being loud, etc... it's hard to get this infield footage out especially since I record all my infields with my phone and don't rely on a cameraman. So please understand why my infield videos look the way they do. I want these videos to provide value to myself and others who are willing to watch it so that they can get help and learn to do cold approaches.

Post: #2281

Went to get contact lenses fitted today at the shopping centre. There were two shop attendants, one ugly one and another was cute. The cute one was an asian, 7-8 face, body a 7 and was wearing a lowish cut top. After my appointment, I was waiting to be paid but the fat ugly one attended to me. I was disappointed and I couldn’t think of a way to open the cute one.

Disappointed, I left to get some food, and 30 minutes later came back, pretending to ask for the time for my next appointment, but again the fat ugly one quick rushed up to attend to me. Fuck I hate her.

Angry I didn’t get any day game in, I went to the local $2 dollar shop as I knew there was a cute attendant in there (Asian, face 7, body a hard 8.5). I was nervous as fuck as I’ve day gamed before but I knew I was going to be very direct with this approach (I was almost to the point of shaking)…

Me: “Hi, do you guys sell the little alcohol flasks that you can use to put spirits in?”
Her: “Umm… I don’t think so but I’ll ask.”
(Manager was about 2 feet away attending to another customer so we waited)
Me: “Is it a busy day for you?”
Her: “No not really, pretty chilled.”
Me: “Cool, what’s your name?”
Her: “Amy.”
Me: “Nice to meet you, I am studmuffin52” (shakes her hand)
Me: “Listen, I think you’re really cute…”
Her: “Oh ummm…”
Me: “…. and I’d like to have a coffee with you sometime.”
Her: “oh…. Ummm… nnn…” (begins shaking head)
Me: “… not interested?” (smiles)
Her: “nnnoo…. not interested”
Me: “ok.”
Her: “Were you still interested in the flask?”
Me: “No. Thanks” (smile and walk off)

My body language was way off. I was holding a shop item and fiddling with it as I talked to her, which showed lack of confidence and presence. I smiled after exiting the shop because I considered this a success. I was happy I at least approached and that I was finally openly rejected. I’ve never pushed my day game approaches far enough to the point of me potentially being rejected (ie. if I can sense the girl won’t be open to giving me her number or is stand offish, I don’t even ask when I should). I also was looking horrible (just got out of bed, so wore the sweat pants and loose gym t-shirt I slept in, unshaven and my hair was messed up).

I don’t really care about the actual rejection though. Of course your ego is shaken up a little, but the main objective of game for me is to help with my career. That is, to learn how to get over my ego, improving charisma and being fun to speak with regardless of mood.

Post: #2282

Public speaking did a lot for me in terms of breaking down a bit of my anxiety. I'd also suggest pacing yourself a bit. Asking her out right away probably wasn't the best idea, you two have only just met and exchanged names. Sometimes attraction can be built. Get her to laugh or point out something about what she's wearing. It's awesome that you went for it. It'll only get better with the more work you put in. Remember to have fun!

Post: #2283

When I'm in the mood for Asian, I cruise on through to the local 99 Ranch Market. I wrangled some weak-ass plays to at least warm-up. but a decent conversation ensued with one of the samples girls who was handing out what turned out to be a delectable array of juices. By the time I figured on sweeping it up, I opted to find out when she got off work, but she didn't know (yeah), and upon going for the distant consolation prize of the number, she told me how she doesn't have one, and living with relatives or some shit. Yeah, college chick with no phone. Dry on options, I hand off my number, a stunt I rarely pull, and we can see why, given how I won't hear from her. She seemed rather bright and bubbly. Oh, well.

Post: #2284

Out today near the Met, I see a girl walking by in a summer dress with great tits and a fantastic ass. Approached and found out she was Brazilian, as I expected. When I told her I thought she was, she thought I was quite good. I opened confidently and when she started asking me personal questions quickly, I knew it was on.

Small talk proceeds from there. Telling her I knew people that spent some time in Rio seemed to build up some rapport. She shit tests me by asking me how old I am. I tease her and reframe. I'm glad I spotted it quickly. I tell her a bit about where I grew up (nearby - don't underestimate native street cred) and what I do, she was pleased and mentioned more of herself.

She gets back to the age shit test again. I told her to guess. This was a great way to defuse it, it kept things fun while also showing that I wasn't going to respond to her at the drop of a hat. She guessed 25 which was quite close and then I told her for real. I then told her she had to tell me her age, it was 23.

She wants to go to a specific location and I tell her my connection to it. I stopped her for a bit to talk further and display some career status by telling her a few things she should do in the business she wants to start. I was tempted, but I didn't want to by into her frame by going to that location with her.

She was going to give me her # as soon as I asked but unfortunately it's that pesky international calling code again. I asked for an email instead, learning from failures past. I'll proceed from there. She's here for three more weeks. I want to get her out and escalate fast. I've been looking for my Brazilian flag for a while.

Despite the social justice insanity rapidly overtaking that country, she was quite warm and feminine. Total contrast to the North American harpies we saw most prominently on display in Montreal this past week.

I have audio of the approach but since we were on the move it has a lot of interfering noise and you can't really hear me, let alone her. I'm trying to get rid of it but not having any luck so far. Tips? Edit: And yes, I have tried audacity and auphonic, it isn't working too well.

Post: #2285

What up my fellow approachers. I posted this in the gaming foreirn girls in a different language thread and I'll post it here as I see it's beneficial here as well.

As a Black Guy gaming girls in all over Los Angeles I have an advantage speaking to girls in different languages.

It automatically gives me bonus points just for knowing basic greetings in foreign languages.

I usually just remember how to say Hi, How are you, what is your name, you are cute, and good bye.

I can do this in Spanish, and Russian easily. After that if gets harder to remember how to pronounce it properly when I speak German, Sweedish, French, Japanese and all the other languages. But usually just knowing at least 1 or 2 words makes it easier to have them engage in the conversation with you.

My favorite thing to do when daygaming, nightgaming, and doing cold approaches overall is to learn new things to say in the girls foreign language that can impress girls.

Here is an example of me daygaming at Venice Beach with no wingman. I opened a set of 3 French girls and tried to hit on the leader who was the main one talking with my direct game. Unfortunately she and her girls were here for her Bachelorette Party so I ended up getting Rejected. But they did end up telling me a few words to say to impress girls in French so it's all good.

Then later on that day I headed to Hollywood to do Nightgame and opened a set of 2 French girls with a High 5 and they were cool and in a great mood. They tried to help me learn something in French as well but learning a new language takes time as an adult. Learning it from Cute Girls helps speed things up, but practice makes perfect.

Post: #2286

^You have an interesting idea. But I'd suggest using something to stabilize the camera or use a Go-Pro. Because it's distracting watching the shakiness of the camera. Lot's of props for having the balls to approach women cold especially in a tough city like LA.

Post: #2287

(08-10-2015 06:40 PM)Libertas Wrote:  She was going to give me her # as soon as I asked but unfortunately it's that pesky international calling code again. I asked for an email instead, learning from failures past.

Why not use Whatsapp? Brilliant tool for a player.

Post: #2288

(08-11-2015 03:03 PM)Clemmo Wrote:  ^You have an interesting idea. But I'd suggest using something to stabilize the camera or use a Go-Pro. Because it's distracting watching the shakiness of the camera. Lot's of props for having the balls to approach women cold especially in a tough city like LA.

^^^ Yeah I don't plan to do that anytime soon.

I have been filming in this style for months.

I am not a pick up artist and have a film crew and wingman to follow me around all day recording.

I am a young guy just living a red pill like and Just Approaching 1 Day at a Time.

I understand that it may distracting having the camera shake for some people but that is just something you are going to have to deal with.

I film these videos from my phone so that people know I am real and not using all sorts of fancy editing tricks and stuff the other people on youtube use.

I film these videos throughout my day so that you guys can feel as if you are walking in my shoes doing these approaches.

I use my Samsung Galaxy 5 to record the video basically all day, and have 4 removable batteries with a 64gb micro sd card to be able to record videos like this.

I don't have the funds to waste money on a go pro to record video of me approaching, and people would easily spot the go pro.


Thanks for the props tho. At first it was hard cold approaching girls especially here in Los Angeles where a majority of girls are shallow, materialistic, and have short attention spans. But after approaching over 1,000 girls and tons of rejections you eventually stop giving a fuck and start challenging yourself to do more bolder stuff and pust yourself to the limits.

I am past the point of hoping to get girls numbers and don't even care about them anymore because Los Angeles is Flake City in regards to girls.

But I am fortunate enough to live in Los Angeles where we get beautiful women from all over the world and everyday is filled with multiple opportunities to explore, socialize, work hard, have fun, and improve myself in a positive manner.

I don't drink or do drugs so when I do these cold approaches I know exactly what I am doing and enjoy the thrill of the hunt and adrenaline rush you get from approaching a beautiful girl.

It's hard to describe how awesome you feel during and after you cold approached a girl especially while she is with her friends, and make out with her in a very short amount of time, and fuck her the same day/within 10 days without wasting money on her, investing too much time on her, getting emotionally involved with her, and knowing that you have the power to do it all over again with a different attractive girl.

After a while gaming these girls become a lifestyle and you learn to live by being outcome independent rather than outcome dependent, have an abundance mentality, not making permanent decisions based on temporary feelings, and by Always Replacing not Chasing these girls.

If any of you guys ever come thru Hollywood or Venice/Santa Monica Beach and feel like linking up to do some Cold Approaches let me know.

Post: #2289

FAKE AUSTRALIAN ACCENT GAME:

So, I'm at the coffeeshop and I see a girl walk in with her friend. Early 20s and the best set of legs I've seen in ages. (probably a track or gymnastics girl....almost perfect set of tan gams)

Her and her friend sit outside. So, I wait 20 minutes and go outside. I'm trying to think of an angle as there's not many people around. I sit at a table next to them. For some reason, I feel as if I must do something special to get their number....Not sure why I feel this way. Maybe because it's a two girl set instead of just one girl.

I get an idea/inspiration: Fake an Australian accent and it'll pique their interest. They'll be obligated to ask me where I'm from.

I go to youtube on my laptop and plug in my headphones. I watch a quick instructional on how to do an Australian Accent.

They stand up to leave and begin to walk off. I'm sitting at my table. So as they're leaving , I open in my best Australian twang:

M; Excuse me, do you guys know where (such and such ) is.
They seemed receptive off the bat as they both kind of smiled at me with a little intrigue.
The hot girl started telling me where it was. Her friend ( who was okay just not as hot ) who was talking on her cellphone, interrupts the hot friend and starts explaining. Then, she kind of gets interrupted by whoever she's on the phone with so I say:
M: Why don't you tell me? She's on the phone ( smirk )
Hot girl: blah blah blah
so we chat about where it is, once I mention that I'm new here ( hoping she'll take the bait of that combined with the fact Ive got an accent)
I ask them what kind of cool things there are to do at night in the city. They give me some ideas. I banter about that saying I've heard of that place....but no, I've not heard of that one. They're being quite helpful and sweet.
M: yeah, my mates and I are heading out tonight so I appreciate that, we'll probably just end up at (such and such place)
They're nodding,pretty good eye contact.
M: What are you guys up to tonight?
One's going to a baseball game ( the hot one ) and the other is working.
M: Tell you what, we're going out later this week, maybe I could text you guys if we get into something fun you could meet us for a drink? Both of them were affirmative to that.
As I was handing the hot girl my phone she asked where I had come from.
M: Australia.
Her: No way, I want to go there so bad. Which city?
M: near Melbourne.
H: what's it like.
I told her it was a great country but quite hot, a lot like where we were and blabbed a second about a few things I've heard about Australia.


I got the hot girls number and chatted for another second about the ball game.

They kind of kept hanging there with him after I collected the number as if they didn't want to leave. Especially the hot one. her friend kind of wanted to walk off but the hot one was kind of looking expectantly at me. I couldn't think of anything to say. The whole time I'm sitting and they're standing.

M: Alright, great. I appreciate the info and I'll text you in a few days.
Them: Bye.
They walked off.

As they're walking off I realize I never told them my name or shook hands. I guess my weird voice was throwing me off. I'll message her in an hour with something to follow up.

Very early in the whole interaction but from the receptivity, this may have some promise.

Post: #2290

(08-11-2015 04:40 PM)robreke Wrote:  FAKE AUSTRALIAN ACCENT GAME:

So, I'm at the coffeeshop and I see a girl walk in with her friend. Early 20s and the best set of legs I've seen in ages. (a combo of track, gymnastics, and ballet....almost perfect set of tan gams)

Her and her friend sit outside. So, I wait 20 minutes and go outside. I'm trying to think of an angle as there's not many people around. I sit at a table next to them. For some reason, I feel as if I must do something special to get their number....Not sure why I feel this way. Maybe because it's a two girl set instead of just one girl.

I get an idea/inspiration: Fake an Australian accent and it'll pique their interest. They'll be obligated to ask me where I'm from.

I go to youtube on my laptop and plug in my headphones. I watch a quick instructional on how to do an Australian Accent.

They stand up to leave and begin to walk off. I'm sitting at my table. So as they're leaving , I open in my best Australian twang:

M; Excuse me, do you guys know where (such and such ) is.
They seemed receptive off the bat as they both kind of smiled at me with a little intrigue.
The hot girl started telling me where it was. Her friend ( who was okay just not as hot ) who was talking on her cellphone, interrupts the hot friend and starts explaining. Then, she kind of gets interrupted by whoever she's on the phone with so I say:
M: Why don't you tell me? She's on the phone ( smirk )
Hot girl: blah blah blah
so we chat about where it is, once I mention that I'm new here ( hoping she'll take the bait of that combined with the fact Ive got an accent)
I ask them what kind of cool things there are to do at night in the city. They give me some ideas. I banter about that saying I've heard of that place....but no, I've not heard of that one. They're being quite helpful and sweet.
M: yeah, my mates and I are heading out tonight so I appreciate that, we'll probably just end up at (such and such place)
They're nodding,pretty good eye contact.
M: What are you guys up to tonight?
One's going to a baseball game ( the hot one ) and the other is working.
M: Tell you what, we're going out later this week, maybe I could text you guys if we get into something fun you could meet us for a drink? Both of them were affirmative to that.
As I was handing the hot girl my phone she asked where I had come from.
M: Australia.
Her: No way, I want to go there so bad. Which city?
M: near Melbourne.
H: what's it like.
I told her it was a great country but quite hot, a lot like where we were and blabbed a second about a few things I've heard about Australia.


I got the hot girls number and chatted for another second about the ball game.

They kind of kept hanging there with him after I collected the number as if they didn't want to leave. Especially the hot one. her friend kind of wanted to walk off but the hot one was kind of looking expectantly at me. I couldn't think of anything to say. The whole time I'm sitting and they're standing.

M: Alright, great. I appreciate the info and I'll text you in a few days.
Them: Bye.
They walked off.

As they're walking off I realize I never told them my name or shook hands. I guess my weird voice was throwing me off. I'll message her in an hour with something to follow up.

Very early in the whole interaction but from the receptivity, this may have some promise.

Post: #2291

At my favorite mexican restaurant around the corner from my house , ive noticed this cute little mexican girl (6, with a cute nose ring) that has just started working there for the past 3 weeks.

since she has started working there ive flirted with her every single time ive gone in ( pretty much each week)

today i go in and order my food, she takes my order and i sit down, she is moving around me when we make eye contact;

Me; ( i stick my tongue out at her)

Her; do i look that tired

Me; (gesturing with my hands) meh

Her; OMG is my make up that bad?

Me; (gesturing meh) what time do you get off

Her; at 10

Me; i just got off i feel the same

Her; yea haha

Me; when do you go back to school

Her; next tuesday,

Me; the JC

Her; yea, are you in school

Me; i might take a class over there

Her;oh cool

she brings me my food,

Her; have a good day ( while maintaining eye contact the whole time)

Me; yea you to, hopefully i see you around the JC

Her; me to

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Of course sketness can't close with the number... Jesus Christ im a dumbass

im pretty sure she likes me i just gotta stop being a fuck fuck and close for christ sakes

over all it was a good interaction

Post: #2292

Really kicking myself over an approach I didn't make today need tips.

Was doing work at a busy coffee shop as I normally do a couple times a week. Hot girl walks in with what I assume must be her parents, they sit down way across from me but she sits facing me. I caught eye contact with her and she smiles at me, proceeds to do so another 3 times. I'm already thinking what the fuck kinda angle can I play here. The shop is busy and her parents are sat with her. I was hoping she would go up and order on her own or head downstairs to the toilet at some point but nothing, she stayed with her parents the entire time (maybe 15 minutes) and left.

There was maybe one point where both her parents left her for less than a minute to go and order the coffee. It was probably my only opportunity and I blew it.

It got me thinking, I've never approached a girl with her parents, much less done a completely cold direct approach in a busy coffee shop.

What's the best angle to play this situation guys? Cold direct approach in front of her parents seemed like the only way to do it and it got in my head a shit load and I pussied out. I'd probably have had to have done it on the way out as well, only way to save face if I got rejected (walk of shame back to my seat lol). Tips welcome.

Post: #2293

(08-14-2015 12:16 PM)NewMeta Wrote:  There was maybe one point where both her parents left her for less than a minute to go and order the coffee. It was probably my only opportunity and I blew it.

If you want the easy route, that was it. Walk up, say "Hi, look I know you're busy, but I thought you were really cute. Give me your number and we'll go hang" (not necessarily that exact wording, but that's the idea - short and direct).

(08-14-2015 12:16 PM)NewMeta Wrote:  It got me thinking, I've never approached a girl with her parents, much less done a completely cold direct approach in a busy coffee shop.

You've got to do more coffee shop approaches clearly. If you go there to work a lot, make a point of it. I do it at least once a week and I make a point of chatting up some kind of woman during my trip. Even if I'm not interested, don't just sit there in your own head space. Be social.

(08-14-2015 12:16 PM)NewMeta Wrote:  What's the best angle to play this situation guys? Cold direct approach in front of her parents seemed like the only way to do it and it got in my head a shit load and I pussied out.

Well you ID'd the problem - get the fuck out of your head. This is basic approach anxiety, nothing more.

(08-14-2015 12:16 PM)NewMeta Wrote:  I'd probably have had to have done it on the way out as well, only way to save face if I got rejected (walk of shame back to my seat lol). Tips welcome.

Don't know your age but I'm guessing you 2 were close in age. Me, I might be the same age as her parents so I'd likely not do it. For you... dude, you're a guy, she's a girl. Her parents know what's up. There ain't no walk of shame in a 20 something guy hitting on a 20 something girl. What's she going to say? "I have a bf". OK. "Ah, no, I'm good...". Harder rejection but still you say thanks, enjoy your day. "Get out of my face you fucking creep". She's going to go that route in front of her parents? Most chicks won't nuclear reject in a daygame situation anyway, let alone in front of her parents.

Now that I'm overthinking it though, let's do this. Somebody else can chime in, but my take is you treat the parents like the ugly chicks in a 3 set. You want them to be winging for you. My gut says you could pay the mom a compliment. How about something like "Hey is that your mom? You look exactly like her. I bet you're going to look like her when you get older. <scope out mom>. Yeah, definitely. Hey could I get your number? We'll go out sometime".

Basically imply that her mom is hot and therefore she's good long-term material. Just be smooth in front of her parents.

Post: #2294

I'm 24 and I'm guessing she was somewhere in the 18-21 range. I'm usually super social while doing my work, but I've always done everything in a coffee shop the indirect way, suddenly there was an instance that took me out of that comfort zone and I realised I'd never done a direct approach in a coffee shop. You're right though, was just approach anxiety and it got the better of me and ruined my day, there will always be logistics I'm not comfortable with but I'll only get over them by actually making the approach.

Cheers for the ideas, it's plenty to take into consideration.

Post: #2295

I don't think anybody would say it was an easy situation. First, I'd carefully observe the family, and find out by observation who was the leader. Then you need to address the leader. It was a perfect opportunity when they went to order - you could've done the same and open her parent in a queue and start chatting. Then, if a short convo went well, do your gambit, for example: "You know what, I saw your daughter smiling at me a few times, how about you introduce me to her?" If all done correctly, it would be tough for them to decline - in social settings people feel very uncomfortable acting impolite. If this route seemed unfeasible, RockHard's suggestion would be a good option. You'll do better next time.

Post: #2296

I've been trying out different ways of starting convos, either direct or indirect.

Direct is much nice, filters quickly. However, not sure if I'll keep doing it in Toronto because there's about 5 other dudes doing the same thing.
Indirect using Rooshs GALNUC thing is pretty good, however I translate to direct somewhere down the line. Usually I ask "do you have a boyfriend" and based on that answer I gauge where to take the convo.

Once colleges start I will be all up on this thread.

Post: #2297

Approached a girl today on the bus sitting next to me and get her number. A personal achievement.

Hop on, see a cute girl sitting next to a window with a free seat next to her. Put my earplugs in my pocket, sit next to her, she's a solid 7. I take a book and read for awhile just to establish that I'm not a creep. After couple of stops I open her with asking about the cardigan in her lap as it's 25 C outside.

I ramble about all the things that I can think about occupation, education and such, I playfully accuse her of either being a mobster who went out early in the morning with warm clothes to collect money or being a fisherman. My favourite part was when she asked what I do: I show my military dog tag chain and tell her I'm a professional bath tester and I carry my own plug.

As I'm getting off in the next stop, I take my phone out ask for her digits, she puts them in and clarifies how to spell her name, which should be an indication of interest. I tell her that I'll text her over the weekend and take off. Fun!

Post: #2298

There was some talk about business cards on this thread... It works lol.

Last 5 or 6 approaches I've given girls my card, says CEO and founder of website I developed.

100% succesz ratio so far - every one of them has texted me, and gone out. Unfortunately not a bang on each one but about 50%.

If you have anything you can put on a card, use it! Shows power and girls will be more attracted to you as you are giving them the option to text you, ie more investment on their behalf.

Post: #2299

On my way to doing an errand, I saw a very attractive girl in an elegant dress pass me by on the street. She looked Fillippna. Don't know for sure (yet), but I must say that tanner skin tones on Asian girls are quite attractive to me. Her hair was down to near her waist. As I've mentioned before, I don't usually do street approaches, but the way she looked and the subtleties she was displaying indicating that she was open to an approach so that pushed me into it. My dick commanded and I obeyed.

As expected, she was quite receptive. Turns out she's going to the same school that I went to, so that created instant rapport. She's actually a STEM major so I teased her about that. She's also a cheerleader at the school. Talked about the gym a bit and grabbed her arm Good Looking Loser style.

She was as elegant as she was dressed. She told me that she just loves going to the Met (where she was headed), sitting on the steps, and reading. She had a Dickens book in her hand. Given that I'm a writer and created a fiction last year, this added more rapport. I mentioned my love of Homer and she mentioned that she's read the Iliad and Odyssey once, but would need to reread them again.

Goes without saying, but this was not a girl you ordinarily meet. I mentioned with approval that it was good that she reads that stuff because everyone else sits with their heads buried in their phones. As we walked a bit, she actually asked if I was religious. I'm not, she isn't either, but grew up raised by a Catholic mother and a Muslim father.

Once again, we see the effects of some religion being influential on raising high quality women, and people in general. She agreed with me that it's grounding.

She was great - sexy but elegant, demure but confident, with something more going for her than attention whoring and pseudo-masculine traits thinking they make her empowered.

She mentioned a boyfriend once, and when I asked for her number, but it was such a weak objection and she gave it to me so willingly that something is up. Either it's a test, she does have a boyfriend but he's a simp so she's ready to jump ship at the first sign of something better, or she won't text me back because her mood changed. We will see!

At any rate, I added value at the end by recommending the Arms and Armor exhibit at the Met (she's surprisingly never been inside). I'm glad to have met her.

Hopefully it all works out, because you don't meet girls like this too often. Amazing how pretty much everything the culture we live in tells women is attractive to men is basically the complete opposite of what actually is, and you don't need to be here to know, it's just instinctive. I wasn't thinking about "red pill truths" in that moment, to be sure. Even the bluest of the blue pill guys out there would feel the same thing.

We'll see what happens. Hopefully it works out (I get horny just thinking about her), but if not, not. After a year of consistent approaching you know to keep your expectations in check.

Post: #2300

A Pavilions is right up to the road from the school I've been stationed at this week. At least one approach every time I go through there. A mile from the beach, so all these cute little outfits to be seen. Damn near to the point by where virtually every time I scope out a genuine prospect, I go for it. I feel that once I get that charge, I must approach.

It's a hell of a thing. The scene is more competitive than its ever been, and the mountain's getting only steeper. One must strive to craft one's game into a smooth machine - a work of art to be honed into a masterpiece. To play on . . .