(09-17-2015 08:48 AM)mpr Wrote:  One thing I’ve noticed on campus is that getting numbers is easy. Getting them to reply to you afterwards is difficult. I’m not sure if it’s because text game is a weak point for me, if it’s because I can’t set something up right afterwards, or if these girls are just giving me their number because they’re afraid to reject me.

How long do you wait to text? You're competing against all that social media so memories are short these days. Strike while the iron is hot. Minutes, not days or hours.

You might be right about needing to work on your day game, but once you've gone to text it's basically online game, right? So you should be able to transition, but you have to get your opener to hook. Maybe a better opener. "Let's get coffee" is pretty generic, "let's go to xyz club tonight" is better. Try going for specific plans right in the opener? Going to take some experimentation.

(09-17-2015 11:13 AM)RockHard Wrote:  

(09-17-2015 08:48 AM)mpr Wrote:  One thing I’ve noticed on campus is that getting numbers is easy. Getting them to reply to you afterwards is difficult. I’m not sure if it’s because text game is a weak point for me, if it’s because I can’t set something up right afterwards, or if these girls are just giving me their number because they’re afraid to reject me.

How long do you wait to text? You're competing against all that social media so memories are short these days. Strike while the iron is hot. Minutes, not days or hours.

You might be right about needing to work on your day game, but once you've gone to text it's basically online game, right? So you should be able to transition, but you have to get your opener to hook. Maybe a better opener. "Let's get coffee" is pretty generic, "let's go to xyz club tonight" is better. Try going for specific plans right in the opener? Going to take some experimentation.

I usually text them immediately after I get the number saying "Hey this is...", and then to make a small inside joke about something I noticed. My response time after that to set up the date is slow I'll admit. I have two days every other week that I can try and bang girls. So a lot of numbers go stale unfortunately. But numbers from cold approaches seem way more perishable then numbers from online game. I guess one thing I could do is continue to integrate cold approaching into my daily schedule, but do cold approach marathons 1-3 days before I have a free night.

I assumed texting a prospect from a cold approach and texting one from online would be the same but that doesn't seem to be the case. Maybe it's because everyone I contact online is already interested in meeting someone unlike cold approach. Or maybe it's because with online prospects they've already invested something into the interaction, and I've already been able to charm them with witty scripts and strategic DHV's.

Yeah I might start trying to make specific plans in person after I open to these girls. Or I might just need more volume. I learned how to fuck close from Paul Janka's material, and applied it to online game because my ex trapped me. Which didn't leave me enough time to go out. I listed to a podcast where Janka said he opens to 10 women just as a warmup. So his warmup is roughly 1/3 of my total approaches so far. Maybe I just need to increase my volume.

Approach #32 - See a cute blonde with long sleeves on while waiting at a crosswalk. I hesitated on the approach, the crosswalk turned green, and everyone started walking. We happened to be walking in the same direction so I eventually opened to her. "You must be really hot. I couldn't handle wearing long sleeves right now." She replied: "Yeah it is hot!" and started slowly drifting away from me. I tried to re-engage with: "So I guess today is laundry day?" and she said: "Yeah I guess so"; then started to peel off in a different direction. It was a gentle blow off.

9/18/15

Approach #33 – See a Hispanic chick who’s a borderline 7 walk up to the crosswalk waiting to get across the street. She’s obviously carrying what looks to be an instrument case.

Me: “What’s in the box?”
Her: “An instrument.”
Me: “What kind?”
Her: “A trumpet.”
Me: “Oh so you’re in the band at the university?”
Her: “No I’m just a music major.”

Then our light turns green and the crosswalk signal comes on. She starts to cross at a faster clip then me. lol Apparently she wasn’t interested, that’s fine. I’d bang her, but I wasn’t too interested either. Maybe it came across in my approach. Also I tried a halfhearted open to a blonde using a situational opener just before that. It's possible that she saw it as she was approaching our group.

(09-17-2015 05:46 PM)mpr Wrote:  I assumed texting a prospect from a cold approach and texting one from online would be the same but that doesn't seem to be the case.

Why would you assume this? Those are too different modi operandi, to start with. The girl will perceive your status of dg vs online approach as two different worlds. With the former, you're one of few, with the latter, one of many. It's easy to make inferences how these modi would affect the girl.

9/18/15

I’m not counting this these as approaches because for the first one I didn’t get a chance to work my game. And the second one I ejected because the chick outed herself as a holy roller.

Attempt #1 – I went to the campus bagel shop because I was starving. I ordered a bagel; there were plenty of targets around but I didn’t approach because I didn’t want to do so in front of a crowd. When I got outside I saw a chick sitting down at a table. I took my stuff and sat down at the same table.
Me: Do you mind if I sit here.
Her: Yeah sure I was just about to leave anyway.
Me: you’re heading to class?
Her: Yeah.

Attempt #2 - Then I saw a petite brunette 8 walking out of the bagel shop with an interesting t-shirt on. It had some sort of symbol on it. I asked her what it meant and she said it was the symbol ISIS used to mark christians. There was a small barrier wall about knee high dividing us, so I hopped it and went to sit down on her table. I asked her where she bought her shirt. She said her church was giving them out as to try and raise awareness about the situation over there. I ejected because women living on their own who go to church while they’re young are usually prudes.

Decided to run a quick approach while exiting the train. Made eye contact with cute girl (brunette and petite) as she was leaving too. Solid body language and IOIs. We both smiled and I opened while walking beside her.

Me: Hey.
Her: Hi (she continues to smile)
Me: What's your name?
Her: Christina
Me: You from this town?
Her: It depends. I jump back in forth when I don't have class.
Me: You must be a college student
Her: Yeah.

(My parking lot was coming up shortly- decided to just jump to the number/meet-up proposal)
Me: Lets go for a drink sometime.
Her: I don't know, I'm under 21.
Me: Guess I'm gonna have to sneak you in.
Her: Haha I also have a boyfriend.
(she says this almost as we're both turning in opposite directions)
Me: Ah. See ya later.

Next.

Why didn't she just say that right off the bat? Didn't really care, only had a few minutes and it's fun to flirt/just troll around.

I usually wait about four to five hours to text, but I'm starting to think this is too long and that I should cut it down to two or so.

I did an approach today that went well.

I dropped some of Roosh's bait game here and took your guys advice to heart to stop interrupting my fishes. Seemed to work well.

That three day wait text/call move is bullshit. These girls get blown up so much by thirsty men that she will completely forget who you are. What I usually do is have the girl put her number in my phone and text me from her phone "hey" or something stupid like that. That way, you filter out the crap numbers and now she has you already in her top text contacts for the day. You can respond to it later a couple hours later.

(09-14-2015 06:10 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(09-14-2015 05:31 PM)Mess O. Wrote:  [...] she asks my age, and I tell her truthfully, "34", she snorts out, "Oh God, that's old." All I had for that was something along the lines of how much experience I could offer her. She then said she was 19, and said I looked maybe 30 in response to me asking how old did I look.

Still got what I imagine is a bogus set of digits. Fuckin' weak. How do y'all's deal with that kind of shit?

In a simple manner.

Girl: 'How old are you?'

Me: 'Well... I think you might be too young for me... but then, it doesn't mean you can't be intelligent.'

What does that accomplish?

Well, what I learnt from personal experience, a man who delivers plain, to the point answers can be perceived, especially by young female conspecifics, as, you guessed it right - boring. No more, no less. Plain b-o-r-i-n-g. They don't want a vanilla Starbucks latte type guy, they want sex on the beach cocktail type guy!

Instead, challenge them. She gave you an offer on a silver plate, yet you went with a predictable retort, like most guys do. Too many males are afraid to play with girls' expectations. The 'But then, it doesn't mean you can't be intelligent' is optional, judge accordingly and execute if a girl seems snubby in her attitude. Ideally, the whole thing should be delivered borderline serious/playful so she can't really figure out whether you joke or do think what you've just told her. Make her think. That is not to say, that you shouldn't reveal your age because you're afraid of rejection. That's not the motivation, of course.

A skilled, linguistically creative player will come with many answers, but when the mind goes blank go for one or two rebuttals of your choice. The above is my go to reply. Never be straightforward, always keep them on her toes in the initial seduction stage, be vague, obfuscate, challenge, or downright laugh at them. This much better than vanilla Starbucks latte, right?

A few more, impromptu examples:

Girl: 'How old are you?'

Man: 'You already thinking of marrying me? Fat chance.'

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Girl: 'How old are you?'

Man: 'If you impress me, I might tell you later on.'

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Girl: 'How old are you?'

Man: 'This is of no relevance to you. Rather, how old are YOU?'

---

Girl: 'How old are you?'

Man: 'Do you girls never come up with more interesting questions?'

---

Your imagination is the limit what can be done with a question like that.

So, make a (f)risqué play to get that lay!

How old are you?
I just turned 18!

How old are you?
Don't worry, I'm not underage.

How old are you?
I remember I was 16 when JFK was shot!

How old are you?
How old do I look like?
27
That's pretty close!

How old are you?
How old are 'you'? Let me guess.....(Say something like 10 years older than what she looks like)


I's just "cat and string theory".

(09-14-2015 05:31 PM)Mess O. Wrote:  Marvelous, Gio. Absolutely. It was a pleasure to simply read it and imagine. Christ, I must've gone in the other direction with this next one. You go over it and tell me how you would've grappled with it . . .

. . . Must've been my 4th approach at the University today. I'm walking past this big wide staircase, and this chick is hangin' at the top, with her phone and all that. Wearing this ripped up looking red tank, knee-high socks and these daisy duke type shorts. She's sitting with her legs splayed out wide, so I take that as my cue to advance. 1st, I merely sit down at the top of the stairs within a few feet of her, and then ask her if she was in one of my classes. I have to beckon her a couple of times in order to get her off the earbuds and turn around.

She says we've never met, and is givin' off a pretty snarky 'tude, cigarette in hand, but I manage to keep the chat going, finding out she's a computer science major, and so given my experience in that field from way back, we strike up a decent chat. Turned out she's Indian (she looked more Hispanic), whose father works for Symantec. Boy, she had quite the lil' mouth on her, but hey, she coulda walked away but didn't.

However . . . when she did finally get up to leave, I try to make an arrangement, but she balks, and on top of that, in response to my persistence to at least snag a number, she asks my age, and I tell her truthfully, "34", she snorts out, "Oh God, that's old." All I had for that was something along the lines of how much experience I could offer her. She then said she was 19, and said I looked maybe 30 in response to me asking how old did I look.

Still got what I imagine is a bogus set of digits. Fuckin' weak. How do y'all's deal with that kind of shit?

Reemember: Truth is what you can make yourself and others believe in.
In other words it's what you can pull off successfully. It's called "game" (and not "epistemology") for a reason.

(09-05-2015 09:02 AM)ksbms Wrote:  

(09-03-2015 10:14 PM)Mess O. Wrote:  The college scene presents what has become among the most prominent, and yet, interesting challenges - while in the very midst of executing an approach, maybe 9 other fucking gorgeous girls will stroll by at differing time intervals . . . and I'll feel an urge to actually disengage from the current play in order to give chase upon an even more intriguing target. Jesus. Lock on to ONE prospect, see it through, and then move on.

That kind of shit would weigh on me while still mired in the chasing phase, as I'd be honing in on one girl, but get latched on to another goin' in an opposite direction, and then even a 3rd time, culminating in [i]zero[/] actual approaches. Again, focus on one, play it through, and only then move along onto the next object of desire.

True that, adrenaline is pumping through your system making you ecstatic you can talk to any girl you want. Yet, you can't do that simulatenously with all of them. Lock on the girl who you fancy most and just wipe out from your visiual field the others. If you choose the one your brain prefers, you'll probably be as genuine as you can and put maximum effort.

Yeah but it's fun to look at those passing girls who look at you and the girl you've approached and tell them with your facial expression "Yes! That's what I'm doing!"

(09-18-2015 01:46 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Decided to run a quick approach while exiting the train. Made eye contact with cute girl (brunette and petite) as she was leaving too. Solid body language and IOIs. We both smiled and I opened while walking beside her.

Me: Hey.
Her: Hi (she continues to smile)
Me: What's your name?
Her: Christina
Me: You from this town?
Her: It depends. I jump back in forth when I don't have class.
Me: You must be a college student
Her: Yeah.

(My parking lot was coming up shortly- decided to just jump to the number/meet-up proposal)
Me: Lets go for a drink sometime.
Her: I don't know, I'm under 21.
Me: Guess I'm gonna have to sneak you in.
Her: Haha I also have a boyfriend.
(she says this almost as we're both turning in opposite directions)
Me: Ah. See ya later.

Next.

Why didn't she just say that right off the bat? Didn't really care, only had a few minutes and it's fun to flirt/just troll around.

Dude, attention (from a man who doesn't look like a looser) is like cocaine to girls. And you don't know if her "boyfriend" was real.
I think you qualified her too fast. You could've said something like "Why don't you give me your phone no to get to know each other better." Or if you want to be cocky "to see if you've got potential."

Quick approach coming home late on train (silent acquisition method). I sit in the adjacent seat across from the target (brunette, early 20's and glasses- probably a 6).

I hand her my phone with a grin. She looks at me and smiles with a laugh.

Her: Haha why are you giving me this?
I give her a playful look while grinning.
Her: Is it for me to keep? I need an upgrade. (she's holding an older iPhone model)
Me: Oof the iPhone 4. That's rough.
Her: Yeah.
Me: Put your number in my phone.
Her: Haha I'm leaving the state in 2 weeks.
Me: A lot can happen in 2 weeks.
Her: Haha (her tone is feminine and playful)

Me: What were you doing in the city tonight?
Her: Went to a movie screening and had some wine.
Me: Ya don't seem too inebriated.

(she starts to laugh again)

(I keep the tone playful/light showing no sign of discouragement)
Me: What stop are you?
Her: (she says which stop- which is coming up shortly)
Me: Clock is ticking.
Her: Haha for what?
Me: Well at least you got your ego boosted. What girl wouldn't want a good looking guy to approach em'?
Her: Haha you're right. If I see you on the train again I'll go out with you. That will mean it was meant to be.
Me: Sounds like somethin' out of one of your movies.
Her: Haha yeah.
Me: See ya.

Her stop approaches. I get up and walk to another train car. She gets up and exits the train.


Maybe she would've fucked if I just went flat out direct. Making plans for that night might've been more appealing than exchanging numbers with a guy who could potentially just send her boring/annoying texts.

Just came back from a social gathering. Did 4 approaches. The first 3 I opened with a "Hey, how are you guys doing?"

1-set of two, one of them attractive (8) the other fat. They did a strange gig at a "hunted mansion" over weekends. I talk to them some but took it as a warmup so didn't hit on the 8,

2-set of two, one blond (8-9) the other short latina or maybe pacific islander (6). I asked them what they did and after they answered the Latina asked me how I liked the event and then told me "I hope you'll have a nice evening". Admittedly I was speaking slowly and couldn't come up with a way to rebuff her in time so I fucked off.

3-Set of 3. Opened and then conversed with one of them which was more receptive. At the beginning we were interrupted by a long announcement but I restarted talking before it was over. Turned out we had gone to the same school (but she was much younger). In the end I went for the # close but made the mistake of asking "Would you give me..." Her facial expression when summoning The Boyfriend made it clear that he was not real.

4-Just as I was going to leave I found a girl with curly hair.
"Hey!" She didn't hear me because of the music so I waived my hand in front of her face.

"Are you new here?"
"Yes I am."
She was tipsy. Was in town to meet her friends and was leaving tomorrow. Rambled quite a bit. She said I sounded "very interesting". I did a little kino. Asked what I was going to do after the event to which I answered:
Going to a pub to grab a bite, do you wanna come?
I should see what my friends doing.

She went to a couple and after a little bit told me they were going to a restaurant for dinner. "It was nice to talk to you."

Was there anything I could've done at that point?
I guess I should've done Mystery's "Would you like to kiss me?" when she said she found me interesting. One interesting point was that since she was cool and not bitchy I spoke much more naturally and confidently compared to the other 3 approaches. When I was in the line at the parking lot she passed by my car alone but only noticed her when she entered the staircase to climb up. That was a bit strange.

(09-24-2015 08:16 PM)duedue Wrote:  4-Just as I was going to leave I found a girl with curly hair.
"Are you new here?"
"Yes I am."
She was tipsy. Was in town to meet her friends and was leaving tomorrow. Rambled quite a bit. She said I sounded "very interesting". I did a little kino. Asked what I was going to do after the event to which I answered:
Going to a pub to grab a bite, do you wanna come?
I should see what my friends doing.

She went to a couple and after a little bit told me they were going to a restaurant for dinner. "It was nice to talk to you."

Was there anything I could've done at that point?
I guess I should've done Mystery's "Would you like to kiss me?" when she said she found me interesting. One interesting point was that since she was cool and not bitchy I spoke much more naturally and confidently compared to the other 3 approaches. When I was in the line at the parking lot she passed by my car alone but only noticed her when she entered the staircase to climb up. That was a bit strange.

I would have given her 'Do you always let your friends make your decisions?'. Easy to say in hindsight but there's not much else to say that doesn't come off as too desperate.

This is from my trip to Italy that I wrote about elsewhere on the forum. I was in a very small town and one day while walking in the streets notices a teenage girl seemed to be 19, wearing makeup, a 7. I asked her were the park called [...] was. (I knew the directions) Like most others there she couldn't speak much English. She told me with sign language that she would walk me there. I thought she was going there herself. I asked her some questions on the way.
How old are you?
15.

NOOOOO! She looked older. When we got there it turned out she wasn't headed there herself. I thought I ask her if she liked something to drink but the...she was 15. When I got back home, just out of curiosity I googled the age of consent in Italy; and the answer?


14!!!!

Over the last week on campus I had been pulling the "lazy man's" game of camping out at a spot, ensnaring prospects to engage in chats. While hanging backon a wide set of steps adjacent to the library, I see a gal way off in the distance. Her long, snug-fitting, colorful dress was what caught my eye, even so far way. Glimpses of the morning sun seemed to pierce through the fabric.

I jump up and scamper over to her, quickly siding up to her as she approached the library, and strike up a chat based on one of the bags she was carrying. I also offer a compliment regarding the dress. She seemed fairly receptive, and we walked and talked for a minute as we entered the library lobby. An Iranian bio-chem major, oo-la-la. Frizzy hair, wide eyes. A real exotic look. Was wearing a necklace that spelled out her unusual name.

Once she concedes to handing off the digits, I sit down on an ottoman right in front the lobby entrance, while she stands just a coupla feet in front of me, so that I can enter it into my phone. She seemed anxious to move on, indicating that she was heading to the library to study before starting her marathon class load of the day.

We yap for another minute, and as we do, the sunlight beaming in from the lobby entrance easily shines through her dress as she adjusted her stance, parting her beautifully shaped thighs.

9/27/15

Approach #34: Had to eat on campus. Don't usually like doing that because it's a waste of money, but if you gotta eat; I guess you gotta eat. Went into the cafeteria and started scanning for a decent looking woman sitting alone. I was about to sit down by myself because I didn't see one; then I spotted a target.

Came up to her and said: "Do you mind if I sit here?" while sitting down. She said: "Yeah I'm just about to go". I started eating and began talking to her about: her major, when she's going to graduate, nightlife etc. She started with very little buy in and constantly looking at her phone. By the end of the convo I got a decent amount of buy in, she wasn't playing with her phone, and was still talking to me after she finished her slice of pizza. I finished and decided it was time to go. I went for the number close with: "Why don't we get a drink sometime?". I got: "I don't know if I want to give my number out". I plowed through and got the number though. But I could tell that I was talking too fast when I trying to plow though because she didn't catch what I said the first time. After I got her number she quickly left. My phone says the number she gave me is from the city she's from. So at least that's a good sign. She looked like an 8 when I approached her sitting down, but after she got up and I saw her body I'd revise that assessment upwards to a 9.

I don't have any time to pursue anyone for the next 2 weeks. I have some do or die tests coming up that are hard has hell. I just wanted to approach to keep from getting too rusty and to keep any major approach anxiety from creeping back in.

I see a tall, thin, pretty blond who looks european.. She is waiting at the bus stop..

I walk by..

me: hi how are you?
her: good
me: do i detect a little accent?
her: oh hmmm what?
me: you have a little accent. Where are you from?
her: im from austria
me: oh no way like arnold schwazeneger
her: ha yes
me: in actually a little austrian i think, i have family from prussia
her: prussia?
me: yes
her: oh
me: how long have u been here?
her: 2 years

We chat for a minute.

me: hey umm, do u wanna exchange numbers or something? Maybe i can show u around San Francisco?
her: no thank you

Next!

--

2 pretty white girls walk passed me.. One makes eye contact with me..

They are rich girls in beautiful clothes and expensive shoes/bags.. Very sexy.

I quickly turn and catch up to them.

The other one notices me first..

me: hey i wanna talk to your friend
her: what? me?!?
me: ya you, hold on

They stop.

me: we made eye contact back there, you're cute, whats your name?
her: stacy
me: hey im gio
her: hi
me: i see that your sort of in a rush but i wanted to come over and say hi, are u from around here?
her: no im from palo alto
me: oh paly or gunn?
her: wow you are so knowledgeable
me: thanks lol
her: hmmm
me: wanna go out for a drink or something sometime?
her: umm well
me: your friend approves, she is encouraging us
her: ya i dont know but thanks for offering

Next!

--

I see a pretty young latina walking..

Im right behind her..

me: hey i love your bag, is that from peru?
her: lol no i got it at h&m
me: oh haha it looks like a south american design
her: ya maybe it is
me: are u from south america
her: lol well i was born here but im colombian
me: oh cool, u ever been to colombia
her: no
me: im sure youll go ine day, if u want to
her: ya i actually going this summer
me: cool that shoulf be fun.

We walk and talk for a block

me: hey chatting with you
her: you too
me: this is sort of random but do u wanna talk again sometime, maybe get a drink or something?
her: oh no thanks

Next!

--

I see a beautiful white girl with a hot body.. She is wearing little workout shorts and a tight tank top..

me: you look great
her: thank you
me: do u do yoga?
her: umm rarely, i do a lot of crossfit type of stuff
me: i bet u have a good diet too
her: ya i try
me: i see ur shopping for peanut butter today?
her: yeah its actually for my husband

Next!

--

I see a pretty, young white girl at the bus stop..

me: i love ur boots
her: thank you
me: those are hot. Are u from around here?
her: no im from san diego
me: oh i love san diego, i have family in ocean beach and la jolla
her: really?
me: ya how do u like SF?

We chat for a minute.

me: hey i wanna ask u for your number and take u out for a drink sometime
her: oh im flattered but i cant, i have a bf

Next!

--

I see a gorgeous light skinned black girl at the store. I wait for her to pay and start to walk out. I exit at the same time as her..

me: you look nice today
her: thank you
me: do u date white guys?
her: oh hehe umm
me: i wanna text u later so i can take u out and flirt with you
her: haha your funny
me: thank you
her: i cant, sorry

Next!

--

I see a sexy little white girl in yoga pants..

me: hey i love that bag, very cool
her: thank you
me: ive never seen one like that
her: you havent?
me: no, not a see thru bag like that, u live around here?
her: ya right up the street
me: nice your a city girl
her: born and raised
me: ya me too

We talk for a few minutes.

me: wanna get a drink or something sometime?
her: ya sure

Got her number.

We'll see what happens.
--

I see a stunning mediterranean looking girl in yoga clothes, amazing body..

me: hey u look great, how was yoga?
her: fine thanks
me: i see its time for dinner, what are you eating?
her: oh ummm
me: dont worry, i dont bite

She smiled and relaxed a bit.

me: u study health and wellness so i just wanted to ask you
her: oh its just a salad
me: i see your in a hurry but i want to text u later and continue this chat
her: oh sorry

Next!

--

I see a pretty, young asian girl holding a birthday card..

me: happy birthday!
her: thank you
me: how old are you
her: 18
me: wow u made it, dont get in trouble now, you'll go to the adult jail lol
her: lol ya i know
me: are you having a party tonight
her: well, not really, just a family dinner
me: good for you, how is school going?
her: its ok

We chat for a minute.

me: hey i know this is random, but i was thinking about asking you for you number and seeing if u want to go out for ice cream or something sometime?
her: oh umm no thanks

Next!

--

I spot a sexy, young, latina at a sales booth.. Her jacket gets caught on the the table.. It almost rips..

me: hey good save, you have good balance
her: omg did u see that!
me: i was afraid u were going to rip ur jacket
her: ya i thought i did
me: u caught it just in time
her: u saw that?
me: ya it was a hell of a save, im impressed
her: ha

We chatted for a minute about school.

me: hey wanna talk again sometime?
her: i dont think so but thanks anyways

Next!

--

I see a sexy, young, asian.. I speed up and pass her..

Just as I'm walking by..

me: I love ur fashion sense
her: thank you
me: are you in design?
her: actually no i study business
me: well its important to look good, i makes customers feel comfortable.
her: haha

We talk for a minute.

me: do u wanna give me your number and ill call u later?
her: oh i cant but nice meeting you

Next!

*****

(07-21-2015 02:36 PM)ksbms Wrote:  Giovonny,

Do you ever experience pre-approach anxiety? That is, have you trained your mind to keep it under tight control or is it just not there anymore?

Yes, I feel "approach anxiety" almost everyday.

But, I have taken action so many times -- in the face of this anxiety -- that, it no longer has power over me.

I have trained myself to ignore it and act anyways!

I feel it, but it feels weaker and weaker every year.

It used to feel like a mountain, now, it just feels like a handful of dirt.

Repetition and practice is what worked for me, lots of repetition and practice.

Gio awesome report. It seems you're charming them, but for some reason they're not open to anything. What factors do you think play into their decisions? If anything that's exactly how men and women should meet and establish relations.

The most beautiful girl I've ever approached . . . and one of my boldest to date overall.

On campus (yo Gio), I'm just strolling down a main way, pondering as to which avenue I'll go next to scope out the scene - around 10 approaches so far today - when off in the distance I see a girl in a long black dress walking perpendicular to the direction I'm headed. Initially I can't really make out any other features, but lemme tell ya, my exact thought process was, "Oo! Long dress! Investigate." If I were to arrange a pie chart of my approaches according to outfit, the biggest chunk would be devoted to skirts, dresses, and leggings. I see the optimal effect is has on the feminine form, and I jump.

I practically run over there, and I'm able to cut into her path head on, pulling a Krauser-style intro. I stammer out an opener about how I just noticed her there, and thought her dress had "nice lines" to it. She stops and seems very, very friendly. After I'm given sufficient time to settle into the play, I lean back on a railing while she stands a few feet away.

She's one of the most attractive girls I've ever seen - light, creamy-skinned Hispanic, shoulder-length dark brown/black hair, large dark eyes. The black, ankle-length dress is billowy, but still reveals full hips and a narrow waist. Held on with thin straps, the dress was rather lowcut, her plump and firm B-cup breasts predominantly visible.

We exchange questions regarding college major, hobbies like art and dancing, work. Quite a bit of territory. I tease her regarding the quirky faces she made while both pondering my questions, but also as she conjured up stuff to ask me. I was mindful as to how much of the time I was talking, giving her the chance to take the lead in the exchange.

I get the number pretty early into it, as she shows enthusiasm toward the idea of me sending her a link to my DeviantArt profile, but given how this looked like a genuinely hot iron, I opted to strike on, as the bulk of the conversation went on past the acquisition of the digits.

At one point, she turned to face another direction, revealing how her bra was ill-fitting. At the adjusted angle, one could see that the cups were much too large, so in addition to displaying her ample bust, her nipples were visible as well. Yep, opted to roll with the chat.

Could've been as much as 20 minutes before she started to hint at how she was about to head to the library to study, but had a good bit of time before her next class. After a little more back and forth chat and teasing, I let her go. She extends her hand, but I brush past it and get an embrace. Upon our breaking away from such, I tell her I feel like kissing her, to which she politely says "no". As she very gradually steps back, facing me all the while, I predict to her that maybe by our 3rd meeting we'll dance and then kiss, to which she said, "no, not gonna happen".

I happily waved her off, and resumed my relaxed lean on the railing without a care in the world, glancing over her form as she sauntered off.

Readers'll know by now that I adhere to indirect most of the time, and I follow "Day Bang" like a fuckin' Bible. I really try to maintain the congruency of an approach, be it primarily indirect or otherwise. Here, clearly, we have the latter region of the spectrum, and I ran it as such throughout. I felt that I needed to try something a little different as I work toward crafting my own style of game.

And let me add that regarding this approach particularly, I'd very much welcome any commentary or analysis. How achingly new I am to all of this, I'm sure doesn't require any elaboration.

(09-29-2015 05:46 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  What factors do you think play into their decisions?

1) Age. I'm 39, they're are 18 or 19.

2) Looks. Some are attracted to me, some are not.

3) Her sexual needs -- If she is horny and doesn't have any better options, that helps me. If she is not feeling sexual or already has a satisfying sex life, that probably doesn't help me -- Things like that.

4) My game.

Those are the main factors at play, in my opinion.

Gio, do you not approach women in the 23-30 age range?