Post: #1

I'm talking about girls who choose not to respond to calls or texts. I think it's cowardly (how hard is it to send a text "sorry, I'm not interested"?), but obviously it's a tactic that's here to stay.

But I went out with this girl for 3 and a half hours, actually had a good time aside from any sexual vibe. Kissed her, she hesitated, but went for a pretty solid kiss, at least. She threw out some basic ASD, "I don't usually kiss on a first date, but I had a *really* good time." Wow, I would never say that on a date. Afterward I texted her saying that this bar down the road looked fun (it was a place she had talked about), and she responded "I know! We'll go there next..." Seems like solid ground for a D3 bang, which I don't mind for 7+s, especially if they're fun to hang out with.

Hit her up 2 days later...radio silence. So obviously, if you get a crappy number, didn't spend enough time building up some attraction/comfort, you've got to expect a certain number of radio silences. And there's nothing you can do, just move on. But what's up with radio silence from a girl where there's obvious attraction and comfort. Is there anything you can do with that? Or is radio silence still the kiss of the death in that situation?

Post: #2

Extremely similar thing happened to me. I mean it's kind of eerie. Truthfully it is a little confusing, but girls don't make sense. And will flake for any number of reasons. But if you don't want to move on so quickly, wait a couple week and restart.

Post: #3

It is eerie. The silence ended up meaning nothing. She called a couple days later and things are right back on pace.

Good call on the restarting concept, in general. I should try that more often.