Post: #1

I'm starting to think that I have no interest at all in coming home to a chick no matter how hot she is, how good the sex is, and how much she cooks and cleans.

Talk to me.

WIA.

Post: #2

Well yes. I get sick of them faster and faster as the years pass. I feel like a live in girl is just a live in cockblocker. I have a little kid to spend my free quality time with which blows away hanging with a girlfriend or wife. Also my house runs like a swiss watch. When a girl stays here even for a couple days shit gets fucked up. Then she wants to talk to me. Even worse have people over which means I have to do something beside what I usually do. Then there's the family. Her family. What's their problem this hour? Don't forget the friends too. Their going to want to go to dinner at 6pm. I eat at 12 to 1 am. They get in your business, fuck with your phone, computer etc. We can talk about closet space too if you like. Your shit will slowly end up in the most inconvenient places. I mean unless you have huge his and hers closets. I don't.

Post: #3

I'm not against it. I need to be in charge though. And I don't deal with any crap. Like Jay Z says ...as soon as they fuss I'm breezin'.

If she doesn't bring some kind of benefit to my life ...cook for me, clean for me, sex on demand ...what's the point? I'd rather be single. There's no social stigma to being a single guy at any age.

Post: #4

Never say never. In life, it's always best to leave as many options open as possible. I'm not against an ltr.

Post: #5

I know me. At some point, I'll get tired of her. I don't want to deal with the day-to-day of an LTR. I don't need it. There's nothing that I need done that I can't do for myself (other than fucking of course!). It's great to spend some time with a chick that I like and am attracted to. But then I need my peace to do what I want and go where I want, without factoring in some chick's feelings or neediness. That's why I love internationals - I go for a visit, we do our thing, and I'm off. Maybe they'll come to town, I'll show 'em a great time, and send them on their way smiling. I can't say I'd NEVER end up in an LTR/marriage, but it will only be because I want a kid, and the terms have to be strongly in my favor.

Post: #6

(06-02-2012 02:09 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Like Jay Z says ...as soon as they fuss I'm breezin'.

But of course, he's now married and has a kid.

Post: #7

(06-02-2012 01:11 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Well yes. I get sick of them faster and faster as the years pass.

Chicks in my bracket have said that if a man is not married by his early 30's, he's un-marriable. Now I understand what they mean. No man of age and means is that interested in putting up with a chick for years on end.

I guess if I had a kid by now, it'd be different.

Post: #8

I just can't see it happening for me. If I was going to get locked down, it would have happened before I started traveling and my game got tighter. Once you travel and start banging chicks all over the world, staying with the same chick FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE seems crazy. The only way I could do that is if I was cheating on her regularly, and I am not that kind of guy.

A few friends have recommended polyamory, or an open relationship, where I have a woman but we are allowed to fuck whoever we want. My response has always been , what's the point? What am I getting from her in this open relationship that I couldn't get with her just being a fuck buddy?

Post: #9

(06-02-2012 04:24 PM)joehoya Wrote:  A few friends have recommended polyamory, or an open relationship, where I have a woman but we are allowed to fuck whoever we want. My response has always been , what's the point? What am I getting from her in this open relationship that I couldn't get with her just being a fuck buddy?

Hot meals, someone to pick you up from the airport...
*shrugs*

Yeah, I have no idea either.

Post: #10

(06-02-2012 04:03 PM)Sparks123 Wrote:  

(06-02-2012 02:09 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Like Jay Z says ...as soon as they fuss I'm breezin'.

But of course, he's now married and has a kid.

Yeah but look who he married. If she divorces his ass it won't hinder his lifestyle at all. If he married some ghetto hood rat it would be a different story.

(06-02-2012 04:24 PM)joehoya Wrote:  A few friends have recommended polyamory, or an open relationship, where I have a woman but we are allowed to fuck whoever we want. My response has always been , what's the point? What am I getting from her in this open relationship that I couldn't get with her just being a fuck buddy?

Open relationship implies a form of emotional connection. Something more than fuckbuddy but less than a traditional girlfriend.

Post: #11

Something else here that wasn't mentioned. Getting rid of her. What a pain in the ass. You live at her place you just wasted your money for whatever time helping with her bills. You share a place? Who leaves? Own a house together? Pain in the ass! you have to deal with her. Do you know what it's like and how long they drag that out? Nightmare.

In the house. Nothing is ever good enough. Kitchen cabinets, the Fridge, The back deck or whatever. any of you guys ever take a trip in to home Depot with your girl?

Fuck all that noise. I'm sitting here coloring a sesame street big fun coloring book with a four year old. Nobody is yelling or trying to rush us around. I would like some ass tonight. Guess what? After the little one goes to sleep I will start trolling my text roll...

No problem.

Post: #12

(06-02-2012 06:18 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  In the house. Nothing is ever good enough. Kitchen cabinets, the Fridge, The back deck or whatever. any of you guys ever take a trip in to home Depot with your girl?

Fuck all that noise. I'm sitting here coloring a sesame street big fun coloring book with a four year old. Nobody is yelling or trying to rush us around. I would like some ass tonight. Guess what? After the little one goes to sleep I will start trolling my text roll...

No problem.

+1 Damn straight. Nothing is ever good enough. Women of a certain age are addicted to those home-improvement-house-porn shows. Take that granite countertop and stick it up your ass! The only quality long term relationship I have had with any females are with my little girls.

Post: #13

Thanks for reminding me i'm fucking old.

Post: #14

Another thing..Most girls get bored and are gonna need that vacation. What you say honey? Before we met you used to spend 5 hours a day on a " travel" forum? Let's look online for a cheap all-inclusive. You've been to the Dominican Republic right? what's it like? We should go.

Or the cruises....I live in Florida people here go on them all the time. Lets go on a cruise! Cozumel and Grand Cayman 7 days!

Post: #15

LTRs sure. My modus operandi is 3-4 of them at once. Marriage? I don't think so. I enjoy my freedom too much. Maybe at 60+ I'll find a hot, loyal 40 year old, who knows.

Post: #16

Maybe when I'm around 50...???

Post: #17

Maybe. I'm 32. Not sure if marriage is right for me ever, since I have cheated on every single girlfriend I had whenever I was able.

I would have said absolutely not for LTRs too, but a Brazilian girl who I haven't even met yet has led to me randomly having LTR/marriage thoughts about her.

She contacted me out of the blue on Beautiful People almost 2 months ago, and after a few emails we talked on skype and ended up talking for over an hour, and have done so a couple of times a week since then. She is sweet, funny, a tv reporter, redhead, solid 8/10.
I did not tell her my birthday or my address. She took the initiative, got my bday from FB, found a shipping address from my business website, and sent me a nice gift based on a joke between us and a sweet letter, sent by express mail and timed to be delivered right on my birthday. She also sent me a modeling picture of her that was sexy but still classy (white shirt open though no nips showing, wearing black undies).

The whole thing was unexpected and has given me a nice high for the past couple of day leading to me smiling at random times.

/was that beta?


p.s. at a certain point, what is enough? what does a woman have to do or be to add to your life rather than detract from it?

Post: #18

A Brazilian Redhead you say? Hmmm ...I'm intrigued.

Post: #19

Most guys think monogamy is the worst part of being in an LTR. You'll hear guys say, "How can I only have sex with one woman for the rest of my life."

Brothers, all the other shit is way worse than monogamy.

Remember being a kid? Did you have a mom who nagged you about "wasting your day" laying around in bed/watching TV/cruising the web?

Well, you just moved in with your mom.

"Why are you spending so much time online?!" A woman wants you to do something productive - like spend money eating dinner out, or shopping at Bed, Bath, and Beyond.

I have friends who have loaned me money, I've loaned money, cars, whatever. Guys I love and who are there for me and I for them.

There's no friend I'd want to be with 24/7.

Yet a woman in a LTR, who is way less interesting and cool than your best guy friends, will expect you to give her your every free hour.

She'll say things like, "I'll let you go to the gym."

If you want to go out and get wild, you'll hear things like, "You can't do this now! You're in a serious relationship!"

To a woman, she is always "letting" you do something, since you are expected to have no autonomy.

Post: #20

(06-03-2012 12:58 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  A Brazilian Redhead you say? Hmmm ...I'm intrigued.

Yes, they do exist.

Post: #21

(06-03-2012 12:43 PM)Keyser Söze Wrote:  Maybe. I'm 32. Not sure if marriage is right for me ever, since I have cheated on every single girlfriend I had whenever I was able.

I would have said absolutely not for LTRs too, but a Brazilian girl who I haven't even met yet has led to me randomly having LTR/marriage thoughts about her.

She contacted me out of the blue on Beautiful People almost 2 months ago, and after a few emails we talked on skype and ended up talking for over an hour, and have done so a couple of times a week since then. She is sweet, funny, a tv reporter, redhead, solid 8/10.
I did not tell her my birthday or my address. She took the initiative, got my bday from FB, found a shipping address from my business website, and sent me a nice gift based on a joke between us and a sweet letter, sent by express mail and timed to be delivered right on my birthday. She also sent me a modeling picture of her that was sexy but still classy (white shirt open though no nips showing, wearing black undies).

The whole thing was unexpected and has given me a nice high for the past couple of day leading to me smiling at random times.

/was that beta?


p.s. at a certain point, what is enough? what does a woman have to do or be to add to your life rather than detract from it?

You're having thoughts because it's so rare for a woman to behave this way. To take initiative in making contact. Hunting down your info because she wanted to do something nice for you. This is what a woman is supposed to be. This is what she's supposed to do, how she's supposed to make us feel. I've had a couple of them tell me they wanted to hear my voice - a German chick most recently. I have one in Peru that calls me a couple of times a month or so, and sends me little things in the mail. I have others that I videocall with, and have gotten some nice bikini pics from a couple of others. And yeah, I smile when I think about them or when one of them says or writes something nice. As men, we're so starved for that kind of treatment that we can't help but smile when a chick steps up.

Post: #22

Ha! Can you imagine going on this forum in front of her? Turn that shit off!!You got no game. I'm going on there to tell your forum buddies about your game now take me to outback I have a coupon..The one near Wal-mart we need to stop there too.

My big 350lb "alpha" mechanic has to leave work at 5 because his wife gets nuts on him if he's late. I drunk text him at 2am to tell him about pussy.

Post: #23

LTRs are for the young and foolish. Without the blinders of raging hormones and a romantic, delusional image of women, I don't know why any guy would consider an LTR.

Post: #24

(06-03-2012 12:43 PM)Keyser Söze Wrote:  p.s. at a certain point, what is enough? what does a woman have to do or be to add to your life rather than detract from it?

Love is how you will feel today. Marriage is where you will be ten years from now.

I am very sappy and sentimental and enjoy the feeling of being in love. It's the best drug out there.

As a man who married the woman I love with, I've seen the difference between marriage and love.

But it's fun to fantasize about winning the lottery, having super powers, and living happily ever after with a caring, beautiful woman.

I know that such things are fairy tales and live my life accordingly.

Enjoy the ride, but get off before it crashes.

Post: #25

Marriage is an investment for women. Pussy now in exchange for security later.

Alimony is an offset for female depreciation in the sexual marketplace.