Post: #426

Day three and I feel great! Big up today. I know how lame that sounds but I'll record it anyway.

Post: #427

5th request or so for one of you to pm me a link to the google group...

Post: #428

I guess im on around day 60 now, stopped a few days before Jan 1st. I did look at some porn for like 20 seconds when someone posted the beauty pageant chick that got busted for porn on here... No fapping tho, havent viewed porn (other then those 20 seconds) or fapped in over 2 months

Post: #429

Taking the plunge - Day 1.

Post: #430

Lets try this again...
Round 2. Fight!

Post: #431

I have been trying no-fap on and off for a while. The problem I keep running into is that without out regular release, I often get an aching/stinging sensation in my dick that is really uncomfortable. It usually happens when I am trying to sleep and it makes sleep almost impossible. Fapping relieves the pain almost instantly. A couple times I suffered through it but it can take hours to go away. Anybody else experience this? What is going on here?

Post: #432

@Loveless, I know about this. I think it`s just the last part of the urine-channel (on the dick itself) that isn`t used to get streteched. I have had something like you explain. I don`t belive in 100% no flapping, but 2 times a week is fine. On a side-note: Let me add that there is a huge health benefit in having realeases. Scientists have come to the conclution that guys who get release on a regular basis will have less chance of prostate cancer.

Post: #433

(03-07-2013 02:36 AM)The Pirate Wrote:  @Loveless, I know about this. I think it`s just the last part of the urine-channel (on the dick itself) that isn`t used to get streteched. I have had something like you explain. I don`t belive in 100% no flapping, but 2 times a week is fine. On a side-note: Let me add that there is a huge health benefit in having realeases. Scientists have come to the conclution that guys who get release on a regular basis will have less chance of prostate cancer.

Yeah I don't believe in 100% no fap anymore. But when I do cut down as much as possible I do get stronger boners and have much more motivation. I totally cut out porn which also helps.

It is pretty random when I get these dick pains, but they only happen when I have not released in at least 2 days. I had a marathon sex session on Friday, fapped once on Sunday night and then Wednesday night my dick feels this strange pain. Other times I have gone 2 weeks with no release at all and I feel nothing.

Post: #434

Noticing a big difference on day five.

I don't know when I'll have time--work, then gym, then jiu jitsu, then sleep--but I feel the motivation to go out and approach, approach, approach, based on the no fap buildup.

Post: #435

I am unhappy - I refrained for 5 days and last night I came in literally 30 seconds. Fuck that shit. I'd rather be slightly less motivated and aggressive than horrible at sex. Any ideas how to fix this? Sure I was ready to go again in 3 minutes but I felt like a fucking clown. Luckily it was my 3rd time with this chick so she was not too bothered but can you imagine if you came that quick on first notch?

Post: #436

(03-08-2013 10:44 AM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I am unhappy - I refrained for 5 days and last night I came in literally 30 seconds. Fuck that shit. I'd rather be slightly less motivated and aggressive than horrible at sex. Any ideas how to fix this? Sure I was ready to go again in 3 minutes but I felt like a fucking clown. Luckily it was my 3rd time with this chick so she was not too bothered but can you imagine if you came that quick on first notch?

Exercise more, diet high in fats, supplement with a multi + zinc, sleep, and you will not have this problem. This is from my experience.

Post: #437

(03-08-2013 10:54 AM)Nascimento Wrote:  

(03-08-2013 10:44 AM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I am unhappy - I refrained for 5 days and last night I came in literally 30 seconds. Fuck that shit. I'd rather be slightly less motivated and aggressive than horrible at sex. Any ideas how to fix this? Sure I was ready to go again in 3 minutes but I felt like a fucking clown. Luckily it was my 3rd time with this chick so she was not too bothered but can you imagine if you came that quick on first notch?

Exercise more, diet high in fats, supplement with a multi + zinc, sleep, and you will not have this problem. This is from my experience.

Preciate this advice but I do all these things and am in best shape of life despite my high-protein diet. I have recently been proud of myself for generally speaking having the most and best-performed sex of my life. Last night was a curveball out of left field - was literally stunned when I realized I had cum like that bitch in American Pie. SMH.

Post: #438

(03-08-2013 10:44 AM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I am unhappy - I refrained for 5 days and last night I came in literally 30 seconds. Fuck that shit. I'd rather be slightly less motivated and aggressive than horrible at sex. Any ideas how to fix this? Sure I was ready to go again in 3 minutes but I felt like a fucking clown. Luckily it was my 3rd time with this chick so she was not too bothered but can you imagine if you came that quick on first notch?

Don't automatically rule out the no fap habit. It's like changing the pull on the trigger of your gun. You made it into a way lighter pull than usual. Then you went to the range and that thing went off and scared the shit out of you. But maybe you just need to practice with it a bit before you make a final judgment.

Post: #439

LOL that's a really solid analogy. I will think it over. The thing is I really ENJOY masturbating once every couple of days and don't feel like porn is too awful on my mental state - so it's a huge sacrifice for me already to not allow myself this fun 30 minute activity, and now on top of that I have to possibly "re-learn" sex? Not worth it if this continues...

Post: #440

If you fap, I greatly recommend to cut the porn. Get in touch with your own sexual energy, not someone else's.

Post: #441

@Nascimento

Amen! I think the no-fap-thing is not the point, the point is that fapping to porn is the thing that is damaging. It`s some neurological shit in our brains that makes porn disconnect from our own experience of sex. It`s really an addiction, because after some time you can`t get excited without it. Fuck, just writing that makes me sad.

Post: #442

(03-08-2013 05:01 PM)The Pirate Wrote:  @Nascimento

Amen! I think the no-fap-thing is not the point, the point is that fapping to porn is the thing that is damaging. It`s some neurological shit in our brains that makes porn disconnect from our own experience of sex. It`s really an addiction, because after some time you can`t get excited without it. Fuck, just writing that makes me sad.

I really don't have this problem.

Post: #443

... Day zero!

Post: #444

i deleted all my porn over the last 2-3 weeks which was harder than expected but i did it and have reduced my fap'in to once a week...the difference is very noticeable as i am way hornier then usual, get much harder boners and want to pound everything in a skirt.

still need to work on my approaching skills as i have fumbled some quite badly in the last week but i am getting better and more aggressive and better at escalating.

thanks for the advice , its solid thats for sure.

Post: #445

Alright. I got past 90 days a few days ago and feel good. I don't think I'm out of the woods yet (still have a strong urge for porn/sexual fantasy) but I am on a new path.

I'm still not doing porn or sexual fantasy. I plan on jerking it once a week if I can manage (hard to jerk without fantasy). I won't blow a load unless I do it through sensual touch.

All I can advise is doing it one day at a time and being aware of what is going on in your head.

Good luck

Post: #446

They say you need to write down a goal if you want to accomplish it.

I am starting this shit today, i am aiming for 14 days. Coming back on this thread in 3 days.

Post: #447

Day 53!

Sexual energy sometimes is hard to control. During the day I find myself not noticing buddy's walking by on campus because I am checking out some girl 50 meters away..

Post: #448

Slipped the past two days. I looked at porn. I didn't jerk off to it, thank god, but curiosity killed the cat.

I noticed how not turned on I was. That is a sign of progress.

I'm restarting the no porn/no sexual fantasy starting today. One day at a time.

Post: #449

BTW, I had a wet dream last night.

I have not had one of those in a while. I think my body is primed for action!

Post: #450

I've decided to join your esteemed ranks. Simply put: I ran calcs and it has to go.

Just deleted all of my porn. I have some nudes around, but I'm keeping the same rule I've always had: if I fap to them, I must delete them afterwards, and they're gone forever. Works well because I value them.

I'm done with porn.

EDIT: after my last few adventures I've been increasingly unimpressed by what porn has to offer. I know I'll forget all about that when the extinction burst comes, but still now it's promising.

Respect to everyone else improving themselves in this way!