Post: #376

Post: #377

Does anyone worry about getting work done? If you work for yourself you may wonder about the ability to concentrate on work.

The first week it felt like I was all over the place. I just finished my second week and it is getting much better.

I'm sure it will get easier and easier. If there was a way to refocus this to getting work done. That would be the best.

Either way It is worth it.

Post: #378

Just started this 2 days ago.

Palms are sweaty, mouth is dry.

Mild shakes.

Just kidding. Looking forward to it. I'm a naturally super horny mofo, but I'm curious to see just how insane I get with no porn or fapping in my life. Methinks the notch counts are going to jump up considerably...

Post: #379

After my 165 day stint I'm back on board again, now on day 25. I regretted breaking it last time, so I don't want to give in again.

Post: #380

Fuck.
Girls´ Generation almost got me.
Now on day 17, my all-time record is 5 months. Let´s see if I can break it.

Post: #381

I'm on board. One of my new years resolutions was no more porn. So far I'm holding up.

Post: #382

Day 40 BIIIIAAATCCHHH

Wow. Just wow. I never thought I would make it this far.

Results:

-morning wood errrr morning.
-killing sexual fantasy is becoming easier (thanks to daily 30 minute meditations and no fap).
-no more flirting with death (jerking it out of boredom, etc).


On my way to 60, one day at a time...

Post: #383

I'm going into the 1x/week (sunday) and I'm now on week3. It was hard in the beginning but now is all my sexual appetite gone. I even went to some windows (hookers) and I returned home because I wasn't horny at all. Even tight East-European chicks can't turn me on anymore. Is this normal?

Post: #384

Back on board starting tomorrow. Also, holy fuck kickboxer, introduce me to that girl. I'd never even consider fapping again if I had her around.

@ Marcellus, for some people. It should come back after a while.

Post: #385

(01-13-2013 08:15 AM)Marcellus Wrote:  I'm going into the 1x/week (sunday) and I'm now on week3. It was hard in the beginning but now is all my sexual appetite gone. I even went to some windows (hookers) and I returned home because I wasn't horny at all. Even tight East-European chicks can't turn me on anymore. Is this normal?

You are going through the "flatline" stage right now. This is normal, just keep with it and it will pass.

Post: #386

How long is that flatline phase? I had no clue about that.

I just posted in the drunk lounge because I didn't know where else to post it...

Last night I brought a Lebanese girl home who, by all accounts, should have given me a raging hardon. We were making out passionately, I was fingering her, had her pants off, she has really big tits and ass, smooth wet pussy just ready for me to plow. It was a joke really, and I couldn't get hard. I feel sort of numb. This was traumatizing. I had 3 drinks, definitely not enough to classify as whiskey dick.

I'm really torn up about this right now. I pride myself on being a horny walking hardon all the time. Healthy as can be, take zinc and arginine, both of which raise circulation and used to give me crazy hardons...

What's this flatline phase?

Post: #387

(01-14-2013 01:34 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  How long is that flatline phase? I had no clue about that.

I just posted in the drunk lounge because I didn't know where else to post it...

Last night I brought a Lebanese girl home who, by all accounts, should have given me a raging hardon. We were making out passionately, I was fingering her, had her pants off, she has really big tits and ass, smooth wet pussy just ready for me to plow. It was a joke really, and I couldn't get hard. I feel sort of numb. This was traumatizing. I had 3 drinks, definitely not enough to classify as whiskey dick.

I'm really torn up about this right now. I pride myself on being a horny walking hardon all the time. Healthy as can be, take zinc and arginine, both of which raise circulation and used to give me crazy hardons...

What's this flatline phase?

I had something like this happen to me late last year. And the second you realize it's happening you freak out from embarrassment and lose your hardon even more. I started wondering if I'd be using viagra by age 45 and if I needed to go to a doctor. After a bunch of google-fu I came across the "This is your brain on porn" website and got educated on this issue. This is why I decided to give up porn recently. Porn is some fucked up shit, and I'm not coming from any moralistic angle, I'm talking about the way it can dull your libido over time without you even realizing it. When you are a teenager and college age, you have enough natural libido for regular sex and a huge dose of porn. But that libido drops into your 30s and you're gonna have to choose one or the other. You don't have enough for a healthy sex life and porn.

No porn, no masturbation. I think it takes about 3 months to reboot from what I've been reading.

Post: #388

Got with this girl - felt so good. I may have lasted about 5 min before I exploded. It was such a relief. At it again about an hour later. This time I complete control, so I got the best of both.

It's funny because afterward I was so relieved. Even days later.

Some say you need a steady girl to start this. I started this with no prospects. Even with a full work schedule I found one within a week.

Post: #389

I guess its only been like 16 or so days I havent even looked at porn.

It feels like I havent looked at in months tho

Post: #390

My day 90 is March 5th. I plan on doing approaches/getting dates after that. I'm spending my down time getting focused, doing inner game stuff, working out, working, and learning my game material front to back and sideways.

I think NOFAP is good for when you need to put the "pause" button on life to reset all the bad shit you have done up to the point you decided to work on game. I've been learning so much about myself journaling, reading self help literature, working out, etc, like I'm becoming a new person. No Fap wasn't resonsible for all that but it does give me motivation to continue not jerking off to porn or sexual fantasy.

A good tip: If you get the urge to touch it/jerk it because you are horny do kegals instead. I do a kegal routine when I first wake up (morning wood), when I'm horny during the day (clinch-hold for 2 sec- release until I'm not turned on) and when I'm laying down before I go to sleep. It has been keeping me on the straight and narrow.

Post: #391

(01-14-2013 04:09 PM)Captain Ahab Wrote:  A good tip: If you get the urge to touch it/jerk it because you are horny do kegals instead. I do a kegal routine when I first wake up (morning wood), when I'm horny during the day (clinch-hold for 2 sec- release until I'm not turned on) and when I'm laying down before I go to sleep. It has been keeping me on the straight and narrow.

This is pretty good advice. Kegels are a great all-around exercise to do for your junk.

I've been doing this since Jan 1st and I'm currently in the flatline phase, which is completely terrible. Not much sex drive despite still actively gaming chicks and having hot girls show interest. I have noticed more motivation in day-to-day matters and more looks from chicks when I go out, though.

Post: #392

I went a few weeks without jacking off and could tell I wasn't as horny as usual. I broke down and jacked off though. It seems busting a nut once or twice a week is my magic number. It doesn't drain me out like if I do it every day but still has me horny as hell. Maybe NEVER jacking off is good for some people, but it lowered my drive. I wasn't checking girls out as much while popping a boner and sex wasn't really on my mind. I don't know. I've always been a pervert and haven't gone more than a week without busting a nut since middle school. Even if I'm busy and focused on other things, busting one in the shower gets girls on my mind again for at least a few days. I can see how not watching porn would help someone, but I'm skeptical about not fucking Pamela Handerson doing anything besides making pussy thoughts go away.

My problem is I used to buy dvd's and bookmark my favorite videos and watch them so much that my favorite scene parts are ingrained in my memory lol. I don't even really need porn anymore. I just think about my favorite girls and scenes when I need to spank it.

Post: #393

I remember considering this, than read something saying it mildly decreased testesterone levels.

As I was reading benefits the first thing it says is it will mildly increase testosterone lvls after 7 day drop.

Kind of irritating how ppl game the statistics to whatever they want

Post: #394

(01-15-2013 07:31 AM)relo Wrote:  I remember considering this, than read something saying it mildly decreased testesterone levels.

As I was reading benefits the first thing it says is it will mildly increase testosterone lvls after 7 day drop.

Kind of irritating how ppl game the statistics to whatever they want

You can still at least quit porn, I believe that's whole idea here.

Post: #395

(01-15-2013 03:46 AM)houston Wrote:  I went a few weeks without jacking off and could tell I wasn't as horny as usual. I broke down and jacked off though. It seems busting a nut once or twice a week is my magic number. It doesn't drain me out like if I do it every day but still has me horny as hell. Maybe NEVER jacking off is good for some people, but it lowered my drive. I wasn't checking girls out as much while popping a boner and sex wasn't really on my mind. I don't know. I've always been a pervert and haven't gone more than a week without busting a nut since middle school. Even if I'm busy and focused on other things, busting one in the shower gets girls on my mind again for at least a few days. I can see how not watching porn would help someone, but I'm skeptical about not fucking Pamela Handerson doing anything besides making pussy thoughts go away.

My problem is I used to buy dvd's and bookmark my favorite videos and watch them so much that my favorite scene parts are ingrained in my memory lol. I don't even really need porn anymore. I just think about my favorite girls and scenes when I need to spank it.

I think I agree with this from the last time when I failed at some point. Might just select a day or 2 a week to bust one out.

Post: #396

Day 4 for me right now.

I should have gotten a girlfriend first, it's about all I can do to prevent me from running inadvertent caveman game the next time I get even mildly intoxicated.

Don't know if this is all in my head or not, but it seems like girls are checking me out more than usual and being overall friendlier. Maybe they sense the oppressive urge in the back of my thoughts that tells me to fuck them until they can't walk straight.

The dreams I've gotten in the last couple days are ridiculous.

Post: #397

NoFap worked well for me last summer, I think it's time to hop on the bandwagon along with doing regular Kegels again. This along with my 3 x day ACV regimen should give me a great start to 2013.

Post: #398

(01-13-2013 08:15 AM)Marcellus Wrote:  I'm going into the 1x/week (sunday) and I'm now on week3. It was hard in the beginning but now is all my sexual appetite gone. I even went to some windows (hookers) and I returned home because I wasn't horny at all. Even tight East-European chicks can't turn me on anymore. Is this normal?

Yes it definitely is. Feels weird to have to control this wild beast and then go to this phase. It's called "flatline".

The mistake people make is to test it and go backward. You are readjusting and know it passes.

It's different for everyone how long it will last. It's a good thing that it is happening. I'm surprised it is not mentioned more b/c it is a part of the process.

Post: #399

Relapsed.

I went 24 days this time. I was having dreams that I was watching porn over the past few days, really bizarre.

The last time I attempted this I went 27 days and I was doing great in terms of my game. Approaching way more and banged two new girls. I think I didn't last as long this time because it's in the middle of fucking winter and with the weather and snow there aren't a lot of girls to approach so I've just been fucking my fuck buddy. I didn't have as many choices or as much motivation to go out since it's 26 degrees outside. For now I'm going to limit masturbation and porn for one day per week until the weather improves. In the spring I will re-attempt this challenge.

I have a trial version of Cold Turkey installed on my computer (program that blocks the sites you request) but it only lasts 7 days at a time. My downfall was that I didn't request another 7 days for the porn sites to be blocked. The next time I attempt this I am going to install a program that can block for a full 90 days.

On the bright side, I can now enjoy the photo kickboxer posted at the top of the page.

Post: #400

Day 35. I'm back to the raging psycho I was and I love it. 3 bangs so far in this phase. Some quick notes:

- I never went through the flatline phase. Just pure horniness all the time.
- I use chains.cc to monitor my progress. Very easy for those that did not know.