Post: #251

(09-17-2012 08:58 AM)Rick91 Wrote:  If your getting laid on a regular basis then its no problem what you guys are trying to do.

But if your not, then your dick must really hate you right now.

This problem is more serious than this, i dont think you understand this addiction.

I had times where i was getting laid everyday and i would still masturbate. I remember times where i had a hot chick lying on my bed that i was fucking the night before and the next morning i would just masturbate instead of fucking her..this is an addiction that you exchange for sex. Getting laid all the time wont guarantee you to give up this addiction..been there, done that.

I am making 6 weeks in one day, the only negative thing (not sure if this is a negative point) is that im not as horny as before and my standards have increased to the point that i just want to fuck 9s.

Post: #252

Alright, I am back on this deal.

Day 1 was yesterday. I am seeing my top girl this Friday and will try to hold out until then.

No porn or stimulating websites. Even music videos on youtube need to be cut.

Post: #253

@ pitt "I banged 21 chicks in 30 days on my peru trip. Usually blast into the chick at least 2 or 3 times if wearing condoms, if i was going bareback then upto 6 or 7 times throughout the night and morning. Then in the daytime, id still feel the urge to go jack it to the porn on my phone in the hostel toilets."

Iam an addict all right but i would never choose to jerk off instead of actually fucking a hot chick. If someguy out there is having this issue then by all means they are fucked and need to sort there shit out.

What you say makes absolutely no sense to me if true. I think for most men the opposite would be true, if we gave up jacking off, our hornyness would be off the charts and we,d fuck anything with 2 pairs of lips.

Post: #254

I think I'm going to give this up. I'm just way too quick on the release everytime I'm with a girl now sober, as opposed to before I'd last forever. Not sure what to do, though my approaching has gone way up and I'm much better at getting conversations going.

Post: #255

(09-19-2012 12:41 AM)slubu Wrote:  I think I'm going to give this up. I'm just way too quick on the release everytime I'm with a girl now sober, as opposed to before I'd last forever. Not sure what to do, though my approaching has gone way up and I'm much better at getting conversations going.

At least quit porn if you choose to fap.

Post: #256

@slubu you should jack it all you like, to all the porn you want. This is a fad everyone usually goes through at some point in their lives. Usually as a clueless teenager. This too shall pass.

Post: #257

I started the challenge on Sunday,so far it's been plain sailing really. What I've found so far is that after a long day when I lay down on my sofa to watch a movie or read a book,my hand instinctively goes into my pants and starts playing with my cock,I don't realize I'm doing it. Then a minute or two later when I feel my cock swelling I suddenly realize what I'm doing and stop. I suppose it shows how much fapping had become a part of my daily evening de-stress routine.

I've fapped most days since I was 13 I would guess so I expected this to be really hard to stop but so far I've not struggled at all. I'm scared that my sex drive will go down although I know the common experience is that it will go through the roof. I have felt a lot more confident this week with my approaches but surely that has nothing to do with not fapping? I've only been doing it 4 days.

What's the record on here so far,anyone gone 100 days so far?

Post: #258

(09-19-2012 11:04 AM)Vorkuta Wrote:  I'm scared that my sex drive will go down although I know the common experience is that it will go through the roof. I have felt a lot more confident this week with my approaches but surely that has nothing to do with not fapping? I've only been doing it 4 days.

What's the record on here so far,anyone gone 100 days so far?

107 days here. To address some of your other points:

- I'm insanely horny. Like sometimes I just can't take it anymore I want to fuck so badly.
- This makes me approach a lot more and I have a lot stronger interactions with the girls.
- This has hurt my ability to overcome LMR. When I get so close I think I've turned into some sort of desperate/aggressive guy that stops them from going forward and turns them off. Before this I was pretty damn good at overcoming LMR.
- I've had a lot more SNLs.
- The slightest touch or makeout and I'm hard as a rock, from lack of stimulation.
- Worst problem as I just mentioned, I nut way too quickly now unless I'm hammered. This is not cool.
- I spend way too much time thinking about sex and it takes away from work.

Post: #259

107 days, that must take incredible self control. Well done. How long do you plan keep it going?

How do you overcome those moments when you feel insanely horny but don't have a girl to take it out on,do you have a set thing you do like a cold shower or something to get you back on an equal equilibrium without fapping?

Post: #260

(09-19-2012 12:43 PM)Vorkuta Wrote:  107 days, that must take incredible self control. Well done. How long do you plan keep it going?

How do you overcome those moments when you feel insanely horny but don't have a girl to take it out on,do you have a set thing you do like a cold shower or something to get you back on an equal equilibrium without fapping?

If I wasn't going to Europe in a few days for a month trip, I'd probably end it today. This hypersensitivity thing overwhelms any other positive I've experienced. However, since I am going to Europe in a few days, I'll carry it out until I get back. Might as well be approach hungry and insanely horny when I'm bouncing from city to city because (1) I probably won't do many dates, it will be SNLs and (2) who cares how fast I nut if there is a one night only mindset going in, (3) keep the approach intensity high.

Those moments I either go exercise, distract myself with work or TV, come to this forum, etc. I've had a few marathon sex sessions during this span, which pooped me out for a few days or so, but other than that it's been hard since I'm not doing a steady rotation these days. So the only sex I'm getting is when I'm out and meeting people.

I really think the correct answer is no porn, not no masturbation. Problem is who wants to fap without porn?

Post: #261

This is a random thought, maybe I should've Googled it first, but does a lion jerk off? Hell no, he goes out and finds what he needs.

Post: #262

(09-19-2012 08:53 AM)Rick91 Wrote:  @slubu you should jack it all you like, to all the porn you want. This is a fad everyone usually goes through at some point in their lives. Usually as a clueless teenager. This too shall pass.

Except this isn't a fad.

Post: #263

Anyone else noticed their cock is getting more smeggy? When I wake up in the morning now my helmet has a layer of Smegma around it,something that didn't happen before. I suppose I'm leaking pre cum in the night that normally I would be fapping out of my system. Anyone else notice this?

Post: #264

Whenever I decide to not empty my balls during 4 or 5 or 6 consecutive days I just end up having a "wet dream" during sleep (like in puberty days). Then I wake up all dirty feeling my cold wet boxers thinking I'll never do it again. So nowadays I can't stand more than 3 days with nor sex or masturbation.

Post: #265

Is there anyone here that functions just fine, while having a daily porn habit?

Post: #266

(09-20-2012 11:05 AM)Rick91 Wrote:  Is there anyone here that functions just fine, while having a daily porn habit?

prally but they dont troll this thread

Post: #267

quitting porn is the shit...I stopped for about 2 months, and after the first two weeks or so had dreams on 2 seperate occasions about a computer screen and seeing porn pictures and videos....during the two months I had more girls opening me than when I used porn...also dramatic increase in girls playing with their hair, pouting, eye fucking me..I felt like I was a teenager again....THIS STUFF IS POWERFUL....I started no porn again, on day 9 now, AGAIN had a dream that I was on a website with lots of different porn videos..AGAIN..girls pinching my ass, touching my chest, rubbing up against me at the bar, opening me..that CANT be coincidence...all I am saying is that NO PORN is the key to get me to the next level of game...If I am good while watching porn I can only be 10X BETTER without it!

Post: #268

I'm in one week and this stuff is hard. Really makes me feel like a drug addict.

Post: #269

I'm in week 4 already and between hitting the gym hard/eating healthier/supplements/better skin care/etc, I feel like a different person. Last night I felt like I owned the damn club (never felt that way before). Time to pull hotter chicks!

Post: #270

At 2 weeks today.. So ridiculously horny right now :/

Post: #271

Yeah I relapsed after a week and when my date night didn't result in SNL. This is a fucking challenge. Round two ding ding.

Post: #272

Day 9. It's hard at times and I agree it's difficult to concentrate on work/studies.

I definately have a stronger urge to fuck girls, and I also seem to have lowered my standards a bit. I can't be *entirely* sure this isn't placebo, but for two consecutive days I have now broken me previous record of number of day game approches which was 4. Yesterday I did 6 and today 10.

Whoever said going outside plus surrounding yourself among people is key to stay at it was right.

Post: #273

I cracked on day 16. Woke up at 2AM this morning and couldn't sleep,ended up fapping purely out of boredom. It wasnt even a particualy good fap. Disappointed with myself. I'll start again today and try to make it to 30 days this time.

There was not as much cum as I thought there would be either.

Post: #274

(10-02-2012 06:14 AM)Vorkuta Wrote:  There was not as much cum as I thought there would be either.

Take more Zinc

Post: #275

(10-02-2012 06:14 AM)Vorkuta Wrote:  I cracked on day 16. Woke up at 2AM this morning and couldn't sleep,ended up fapping purely out of boredom. It wasnt even a particualy good fap. Disappointed with myself. I'll start again today and try to make it to 30 days this time.

There was not as much cum as I thought there would be either.

FYI I've found that volume doesn't really depend on how long it's been since the last time, but actually how long you fap/bang leading up to it.

Relapsed again damnit. Can't get past 7 days. going for 14 starting today.