Post: #326

I'm going to try out the Sunday-only schedule Samseau mentioned. Cold-turkey isn't working out.

Post: #327

Good for you Carter. Someday people will realise that they can jerk it everyday and go out and fuck chicks to. Unless you have an underlying low testosterone problem and can't pop a properly solid boner more than once every 24 hours there is no reason for this torture. Validation seeking (you actually give a shit what the girl or people around you think about you hitting on someone) and a passive approach towards getting into a sexual state with girls is your problem.

Post: #328

Not sure why you're calling me out on page 14 of this thread but I don't find your post very productive.

Shit even Ron Jeremy said he'll lay off the fap a day or two before a big scene so that he's recharged.

Post: #329

Sorry didn't catch your meaning what exactly do you think i'am calling you out on? Are those things I mentioned not true? I know for sure if i have a shitty night they're the number 1 reasons behind it. I blame myself for being weak and allowing my mindset to be affected by the enviroment. Sure i could blame it porn but i'v had to much success while embracing it and Ron Jeremy likely needs to do that because he's a fat old man.

Post: #330

I'm not going to get in a pissing match with you on whether or not the principle/theory applies. You've made your opinion that it doesn't well known at this point.

I know that not fapping for a few days gives me more aggression and I'm clearly not the only one. I'm not talking about weeks or months at a time here. But then again, I won't knock someone who's gone 90+ days for it either. Whatever works for you.

Post: #331

I think the only universal truth is you shouldn't shit all over an idea just because it doesn't work for you. There is another thread with a guy stating that fapping an absurd amount makes him horny. I would never say "you are wrong" simply because that doesn't work at all for me, only be jealous I can't be horny and fap all the time. We are all men who want to fuck women, but thats about it. Varying levels of test, different ages, different physical fitness, different mental health (anxiety etc), different styles of game or lackthereof.

For me it helps immensely for the exclusive Sunday fapathon. It gives you the indisputable test spike the following weekend, but you can not go crazy and help your prostate on Sunday.

I can usually only make it 3-5 days if I really try. Ive been a monster in the best possible way if I go a whole week. The feeling is akin to post exercise, like my body has more pressing biological things to worry about like reproduction or running from lions, but not fleeting (that post exercise only lasts an hour or two). Im very in my head and generally just don't feel like hitting on girls if I'm fapped out.

to each there own, but you cannot deny some people see amazing changes.

Post: #332

I said on the other thread fapping all day makes me a hell of a horny the next day particularly if i withhold till after 10pm the following night and there is plenty of evidence to suggest not fapping can have detrimental effects to your motivation to game and your ability to actually be a good fuck. Read roosh's posts on croatia and finland.

But then again some dudes sex drives are just weak. I don't know if my method would improve their situation. Could potentially make it worse but I would figure the body would adapt to the habit like it does everything else. Another problem is guys following the anti fapp method get a tad touchy with anyone questioning it and i highly doubt they would consider anything else. Either way i feel like a champion.

I don't just take fapping on the regular seriously. I have a pc muscle workout that i came up with myself specifically for gaining girth and improving and maintaining the strength of my erect dick. This is also awesome for your the quality of your orgasms and size and power of your cum shots.

I consider myself a sexual athlete.

Post: #333

Alright, so I went 165 days and decided to end it last night. Immediately I regretted it. I've posted plenty about my attitude/effects during the time span, so I'll focus here on what I was like towards the end:

- The most objectively indifferent and aloof I've ever been towards girls. I honestly could not care less about any of them.
- Most sex I've ever had on a consistent basis. This was towards the end, have two girls on rotation and the occasional SNL here and there.
- Most girls I've banged in a 165 day time span (19 different girls)
- Most aggressive I've ever been in terms of going out and approaching.
- Most scatterbrained I've been with respect to work and desire to work.
- Least I've ever worked out since I started going to the gym 14 years ago.

As soon as I fapped my mind rushed in with tons of beta thoughts for whatever reason. It scared me. I wanted to sleep over one of my rotation girl's places. I wanted to stop going out and be a good guy. Like I literally was being brainwashed.

Obviously I realize that the direct sole variable is not fapping or not fapping, but indirectly it is. I probably had so many bangs because I was so aggressive in going out, but that was because I was not fapping so my only release was through a girl - talk about motivation.

Everyone is different and I realize that what may work for one may not work for others. But this shit worked for me, and worked wonders (absent the lack of motivation for work). Not sure if I'm going to go another 5.5 months or whatever, but I'm definitely not going back to my ways of before (few times a week).

Post: #334

(11-20-2012 11:06 AM)slubu Wrote:  Alright, so I went 165 days and decided to end it last night. Immediately I regretted it. I've posted plenty about my attitude/effects during the time span, so I'll focus here on what I was like towards the end:

- The most objectively indifferent and aloof I've ever been towards girls. I honestly could not care less about any of them.
- Most sex I've ever had on a consistent basis. This was towards the end, have two girls on rotation and the occasional SNL here and there.
- Most girls I've banged in a 165 day time span (19 different girls)
- Most aggressive I've ever been in terms of going out and approaching.
- Most scatterbrained I've been with respect to work and desire to work.
- Least I've ever worked out since I started going to the gym 14 years ago.

As soon as I fapped my mind rushed in with tons of beta thoughts for whatever reason. It scared me. I wanted to sleep over one of my rotation girl's places. I wanted to stop going out and be a good guy. Like I literally was being brainwashed.

Obviously I realize that the direct sole variable is not fapping or not fapping, but indirectly it is. I probably had so many bangs because I was so aggressive in going out, but that was because I was not fapping so my only release was through a girl - talk about motivation.

Everyone is different and I realize that what may work for one may not work for others. But this shit worked for me, and worked wonders (absent the lack of motivation for work). Not sure if I'm going to go another 5.5 months or whatever, but I'm definitely not going back to my ways of before (few times a week).

I truly enjoy reading your posts on this thread.

I still dont think your effects are that bad, specially number one effect, thats the best shit that could happen to any of us. I mean, i will aways chase bitches but the less they become a priority for me the better it is for me. I hate the fact that im too horny and i have to be thinking about fucking chicks all the time.

Post: #335

I was on a cruise and bathroom pulled a girl, not sure that would've happened if I hadn't abstained for a week prior to that.

Post: #336

I stopped fapping for October and November.

And I have to say I was on fire! I agree with what many say on here.

Some effects I noticed
1-Higher Sex Drive. - I was hitting on all kind of chicks. Cashiers at Wal-Mart, grocery stores, fast food restaraunts. It didn't matter where I was. My eyes were always looking for attractive girls and my eye contact was very strong.
2-More Social- im a pretty social dude. But my social skills were sharper when I didn't fap.
3- More spontaneous - I was just crazier for some reason. crazy and confident. girls love this. I am already a spontaneous guy but no fapping takes it to to another extreme

4- More Energy

Post: #337

Yes Sly I can vouch for all of that, it is so very true. I am trying to get a few more days under my belt so I get back that moment. It really works.

Post: #338

Every time I go out on a weekend where its been 6 or 7 days I get laid. If youre a creepy or undesirable male it won't help though and could make things worse. When freshly fapped I can have a hot girl giving me a smorgasbord of IOIs and not act on them.

Long live weekly nofap!

Post: #339

Dear God...why is this so difficult!

Oh well, starting Day 01 again today. I am not sure if I can do this. I am freaking horny and have the creativity of Beethoven on acid (sexual fantasies ripping my brain apart),

Post: #340

Let's do it.
Start date: 12/4

Post: #341

I almost caved in after two+ weeks. Here's the culprit:



Then I weighed the short-term pleasure vs. being more aroused around girls and hypothetical benefits of completely rebooting my brain.

Post: #342

I just fapped to the porn tonight.... only did it once last month.
Im down for joining you other fellows who are starting today. No more porn fapping!!!!!!

Post: #343

December 5th, 2012. I got it in one more time last night. I'm for real now.

Post: #344

Pretty interesting update I have. It's been about a month since I gave up the NoFap ("NF") challenge and jacked off. I've decided I'm going right back to NF, and here's why:

- I'm still relatively indifferent about girls. However, I did let my guard down with the slut. I don't think I would have been as duped while in NF phase.
- My quantity and frequency of sex is still very high, mostly because I'm fucking my roommate so she's always there. However, I'm not happy with that situation to be frank. Kills my ability and desire to go out a bit. Nonetheless I still have brought girls back home, though...
- In this month since giving up NF, I've banged a total of zero new girls. None, zilch. I went from roughly 3.5 new bangs/month to 0. Horrible.
- I'm considerably less aggressive. Admittedly, it is due to the fact that I had two girls on rotation for a lot of the time. But sometimes I could just walk out and go approach some girls and rather chose to stay in and jack off, such as today.
- A little bit more focused on work to be honest.
- Started working out again, but I've actually put on about 5lbs (0% muscle). Need to really get in shape.

The beta thoughts continued on. I was very comfortable with my roommate and just having sex on demand. Many nights I'd give up my ability to mack, though largely it was so my friends could try to bang her friends, in that I'd offer to have our groups meet up but knowing my night would then be over. Previously I was ruthless and would never do that.

Another interesting note - I made this thread exactly one week after giving up on NF. I wonder if my lessened desire also led me to believe I was getting burnt out. I actually never felt that way beforehand.

Take it for what you will, but in my eyes there is no doubt I was much better - game wise at least - during the NF phase. Tomorrow, I start again. Goal is to not stop ever, but to be realistic I'll shoot my sights for once I learn conversational Russian. Considering I don't know any Russian currently, it won't be anytime soon.

(11-20-2012 11:06 AM)slubu Wrote:  Alright, so I went 165 days and decided to end it last night. Immediately I regretted it. I've posted plenty about my attitude/effects during the time span, so I'll focus here on what I was like towards the end:

- The most objectively indifferent and aloof I've ever been towards girls. I honestly could not care less about any of them.
- Most sex I've ever had on a consistent basis. This was towards the end, have two girls on rotation and the occasional SNL here and there.
- Most girls I've banged in a 165 day time span (19 different girls)
- Most aggressive I've ever been in terms of going out and approaching.
- Most scatterbrained I've been with respect to work and desire to work.
- Least I've ever worked out since I started going to the gym 14 years ago.

As soon as I fapped my mind rushed in with tons of beta thoughts for whatever reason. It scared me. I wanted to sleep over one of my rotation girl's places. I wanted to stop going out and be a good guy. Like I literally was being brainwashed.

Obviously I realize that the direct sole variable is not fapping or not fapping, but indirectly it is. I probably had so many bangs because I was so aggressive in going out, but that was because I was not fapping so my only release was through a girl - talk about motivation.

Everyone is different and I realize that what may work for one may not work for others. But this shit worked for me, and worked wonders (absent the lack of motivation for work). Not sure if I'm going to go another 5.5 months or whatever, but I'm definitely not going back to my ways of before (few times a week).

Post: #345

I crossed the 15 day threshold today. My results are consistent morning wood, getting random hard ons during the day, a thought of sex gets me hard, I am more aggressive, and, I am starting to feel like I'm getting my sexual power back.

I noticed my sleep time has dropped as well. I usually sleep for about five or six hours before I am up and ready to go for the day versus the usual seven or eight hours.

I noticed before this my experiences with girls sucked since I couldn't get it up during sexual relations, or if I did it was only for so long. Obviously anxiety, porn, and fantasy masturbation for years played a role in being psychologically castrated.

Having started no fap, I've been meditating 30 minutes a day and have stopped thinking about sex as much as I can. This morning I woke up with a hard on for the masses. I thought about sex for a while, slipped into fantasy, but quickly woke up and reminded myself that I am in this to win this.

Writing in my journal helps a lot by the way.

I'll update when I cross the 30 day threshold. And I WILL cross that threshold.

Post: #346

Next time your struggling to achieve an erection with a chick you need to chill out. What to do is jerk yourself while tensing your pc muscle to fuck then when you start to feel some blood flow do a reverse kegle (the muscle motion you use to force pee out faster) and that will give you major blood flow to your dong. Repeat this till your completely hard.

Also do not try to penetrate her till your properly hard and do not do it in a rush, and i either like to try and suck milk out of their tits or just turn them around have them bend over and get my tongue all up in their pussy in ass unless they seem unclean in which case i'l just finger fuck them while jerking off.

I'm not going to lie i hate this anti fapp/porn stuff as some of the best times in my life were epic fapp sessions. My life doesn't suck i just know how to have really awesome wanks. My advice for someone who was struggling getting boners with chicks is to go to a country notorious for easy women and take advantage of that. If all's your getting is the odd drunken one night stand every few months then i highly recommend it.

Post: #347

(12-19-2012 10:32 AM)Rick91 Wrote:  Next time your struggling to achieve an erection with a chick you need to chill out. What to do is jerk yourself while tensing your pc muscle to fuck then when you start to feel some blood flow do a reverse kegle (the muscle motion you use to force pee out faster) and that will give you major blood flow to your dong. Repeat this till your completely hard.

Also do not try to penetrate her till your properly hard and do not do it in a rush, and i either like to try and suck milk out of their tits or just turn them around have them bend over and get my tongue all up in their pussy in ass unless they seem unclean in which case i'l just finger fuck them while jerking off.

I'm not going to lie i hate this anti fapp/porn stuff as some of the best times in my life were epic fapp sessions. My life doesn't suck i just know how to have really awesome wanks. My advice for someone who was struggling getting boners with chicks is to go to a country notorious for easy women and take advantage of that. If all's your getting is the odd drunken one night stand every few months then i highly recommend it.

Thanks for the tip. I need to start doing kegals again. I think with your advice and the combination of kegals I should be good to go. Deep breathing and being in the moment is always a plus as well.

Post: #348

Yeah but be very careful in over doing kegels. I'm being completely serious don't do them more than once a week or you will develop an extremely sensitive pc muscle and you will begin to suffer from premature ejaculation. Kegels were originally intended for women who struggled to achieve orgasm.

Also here's a bonus tip on how to make kegels fun, effective and seriously pump your dick up. If you do this right it will effect boner strength, girth, length and makes your cum shots fucking epic. You also can't injure yourself unlike that jelqing and pump bollocks.

1. Once a week go onto xvideos or any porn site that has a timer that doesn't disappear when video plays. Make sure it is longer than 23 mins. 23 mins is ideal. This is actually fun to do as you would be having a wank anyway you just fit this in.

2. Once hard, you will do a little routine that fits into a 30 second segment. You repeat every 30 secs for 23 mins. I'v experimented with up to 50 mins and this is perfect.

3. First 5 secs clench your pc muscle as hard as you can, next 5 secs reverse kegel, next 10 secs actually wank and final 10 secs do nothing just enjoy how pumped up and solid your dick gets.

Bonus tip - While clenching in the first 5 secs using your fingers you can pinpoint certain areas of your dick that you can target, particularly in regards to girth and strength. You do this by attempting to bend your dick while clenching.

This shit is awesome and anyone who says they don't want a bigger and super strong dick which blasts out awesome cum shots obviously has a 5 inch and has convinced themselves it doesn't matter what size they are. I would have probably done the same in your situation or killed myself. You don't want to be Mandingo because he pretty much never gets to go balls deep on a chick. Best size to be is somewhere along the lines of Rocco Siffredi, Nacho Vidal or Manuel Ferrara.

Also so important do not do this more than once a week.

Post: #349

(11-20-2012 11:06 AM)slubu Wrote:  Alright, so I went 165 days and decided to end it last night. Immediately I regretted it. I've posted plenty about my attitude/effects during the time span, so I'll focus here on what I was like towards the end:

- The most objectively indifferent and aloof I've ever been towards girls. I honestly could not care less about any of them.
- Most sex I've ever had on a consistent basis. This was towards the end, have two girls on rotation and the occasional SNL here and there.
- Most girls I've banged in a 165 day time span (19 different girls)
- Most aggressive I've ever been in terms of going out and approaching.
- Most scatterbrained I've been with respect to work and desire to work.
- Least I've ever worked out since I started going to the gym 14 years ago.

As soon as I fapped my mind rushed in with tons of beta thoughts for whatever reason. It scared me. I wanted to sleep over one of my rotation girl's places. I wanted to stop going out and be a good guy. Like I literally was being brainwashed.

Obviously I realize that the direct sole variable is not fapping or not fapping, but indirectly it is. I probably had so many bangs because I was so aggressive in going out, but that was because I was not fapping so my only release was through a girl - talk about motivation.

Everyone is different and I realize that what may work for one may not work for others. But this shit worked for me, and worked wonders (absent the lack of motivation for work). Not sure if I'm going to go another 5.5 months or whatever, but I'm definitely not going back to my ways of before (few times a week).

and how often did u use to fap before starting the experiment?

Post: #350

8 days...I fell like it's giving me a super killer instinct..

the good point is that I can't wait to go workout to the gym and download the energy there...

I fell much more agresive