Post: #3101

My first post on this thread.

Met up with a 27 year old sort of geeky white girl from OKC on Friday night. I'd say a "6", but at my advanced years (mid 30s) lots of women in their 20s seem like at least a "6" to me... : )

Had a few drinks and saw a movie with her at 5. Got food afterwards at about 8. Was at her apartment having sweaty sex with her at about 8:30 - I was almost astounded and horrified about how rapidly things moved along. She pushed me out the door a little after 9:30 - I think she had another date to get to. Yikes.

If I wanted to have casual sex with women in the "5" - "6" range regularly, it seems for me, online dating is the way to go. But I've consistently been shut down by the few online girls in the late 20s-early 30s age bracket who are "7s" and above - it happened once again this weekend. Hot girls in that age group seem to be super-sophisticated grizzled veteran players. They're going on zillions of dates and the difficulty just increases exponentially.

Someday I hope.

Post: #3102

^^ Keep on working and improving yourself.

As a mid 30s guy, the high end late teen, early 20s girls are not out of reach my friend.

Post: #3103

Just a shout out to people on this forum and the forum in general. Had a girl over yesterday at my place. Matched on Tinder a few days ago, talked for a few days and asked her over for dinner, she accepted, had dinner and had sex later on. 29, body a 6, face an 8, Indonesian girl. First girl of Tinder, I usually get girls from social surroundings. Sex was fun, not as fun as the 18 year old I had a few weeks ago (33 myself), but a lot of things I've been reading on this forum helped me seal the deal with this girl.

After I escalated, she was having doubts a few times and said maybe we should stop. Where I would have stopped in the past I used some of the things mentioned here, like pausing for a little, then trying again, push-pull, being vague about myself. Also during sex some things. It's real interesting so see some of the things on this forum and site actually working with these girls. Have had plenty of action, but it's still cool to see how things affect an interaction.

So, in general, thanks to you guys for posting things and thanks for all the tips and measures in general, they do really work

Post: #3104

(11-09-2015 12:29 AM)XPQ21 Wrote:  If I wanted to have casual sex with women in the "5" - "6" range regularly, it seems for me, online dating is the way to go. But I've consistently been shut down by the few online girls in the late 20s-early 30s age bracket who are "7s" and above - it happened once again this weekend. Hot girls in that age group seem to be super-sophisticated grizzled veteran players. They're going on zillions of dates and the difficulty just increases exponentially.

Someday I hope.

First off congrats man on the lay! As your inner and outer game improves moving up the quality ladder won't seem so daunting to you. Just from your quote above your self limiting beliefs are screaming out for all to see. Just because something hasn't happened "yet" doesn't mean it's impossible.

Based on how your date went it sounds like there were a lot of unnecessary steps involved but you got the bang anyway. I'm assuming this was a first date right? Why are you taking her to a movie and then dinner? Reading between the lines this girl was into you and had already made a decision that she wanted the D from you and patiently waited out all of the steps that you believed needed to happen first before taking her home.

I used to have these same beliefs but a Tinder date I had about six months ago made me seriously question all of that. I'm 43 and matched with a 24 yo Asian girl on Tinder. Her texting was very flat and with little emotion however she was always good at replying in a timely manner. I quickly made plans with her to meet on a weekday evening for ice cream (she admitted to being a light drinker). She showed up and I immediately started playfully teasing her and slapping her on the leg while we bantered. About 25 mins later I invited her back to my place to "look at my photos" and offered her a drink when we got home. She just wanted a coke and I sat next to her on my couch and she showed me a few pics on her phone. She took two sips of her Coke and I pulled her in for a makeout and she immediately straddled me and it was on. Easily the best SNL I've had this year. It was like fucking a Japanese porn star with all the coos, shrieks and screams

The moral of that rambling story is don't let your limiting beliefs get the best of you and don't feel like you need to follow a socially accepted dating 'script' before you can make your move!

Post: #3105

(11-09-2015 12:57 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  Based on how your date went it sounds like there were a lot of unnecessary steps involved but you got the bang anyway. I'm assuming this was a first date right? Why are you taking her to a movie and then dinner? Reading between the lines this girl was into you and had already made a decision that she wanted the D from you and patiently waited out all of the steps that you believed needed to happen first before taking her home.

I used to have these same beliefs but a Tinder date I had about six months ago made me seriously question all of that. I'm 43 and matched with a 24 yo Asian girl on Tinder. Her texting was very flat and with little emotion however she was always good at replying in a timely manner. I quickly made plans with her to meet on a weekday evening for ice cream (she admitted to being a light drinker). She showed up and I immediately started playfully teasing her and slapping her on the leg while we bantered. About 25 mins later I invited her back to my place to "look at my photos" and offered her a drink when we got home. She just wanted a coke and I sat next to her on my couch and she showed me a few pics on her phone. She took two sips of her Coke and I pulled her in for a makeout and she immediately straddled me and it was on. Easily the best SNL I've had this year. It was like fucking a Japanese porn star with all the coos, shrieks and screams

The moral of that rambling story is don't let your limiting beliefs get the best of you and don't feel like you need to follow a socially accepted dating 'script' before you can make your move!

Well, one reason is it was a movie I actually wanted to see....and she paid for my ticket.

Post: #3106

XPQ21 congrats on that lay.

@OTSC I forgot about ice cream dates, haha. I think that'll be my alternative to coffee.

Post: #3107

(10-11-2015 04:03 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  ...My favourite phrases from her in broken english:

"Do you normally do this with girls ?”"
“Please, can we have break ? I need rest.”
“I want DOG style.”

Post: #3108

+1, 20 year old Polish girl on Friday night.


“Safety Net Game”

Since the vast majority of my lays come from night game, which always has a high amount of uncertainty around it, I often run what I call “safety net game” when I’m horny.

Essentially this consists of the following:

1. Text a bunch of previous lays “are you out tonight?”
2. If they are, keep a very sparse conversation going throughout the night (texting every hour or so) but make sure not to tell them where you are until entry has shut, or they will very often show up there.
3. Try your best to score and, if you fail, you can always meet one of your safety nets afterwards for a booty call.

Downsides:
1. You will never try as hard to score with a new girl when you have a safety net waiting.
2. The safety nets may find you and put a dampener on your game with new girls.

I’m interested to find out if anyone else runs this kind of game too, and if they have any tips or comments.


A bad start

Safety net game almost screwed me over big time on Friday. Two of the girls I texted turned up at the same club as me. Unfortunately, they both knew that it was my favourite club (it’s a niche club, so very unlikely they would have turned up without knowing that I was out).

My mind went into “I’ve got a sure thing” mode and I just hung out drinking with my friends (mixed group) while occasionally going over to talk with one of the safety nets and her friends (the other safety net kept her distance, texting me the next day that she saw that I was busy with some girls so left me alone). The club had perfect conditions for a pick-up: lots of hot women, very decent ratio, fun and approachable atmosphere. However, I just couldn’t force myself to make any approaches. I had the comfort of having a safety net, plus a friend-of-a-friend who was in our group liked me as well according to one of my friends.


My wake-up calls

I finally got two wake-up calls to knock me into action:

1. The friend-of-a-friend who liked me’s ex-boyfriend turned up. It was clear to me that she still liked him, so when I saw them walking off together I knew that potential lay was over.
2. I went over to my safety net to say hi and she was mid-way through a rant about how some girl had started on her. It was about the least feminine thing imaginable: crude language, masculine and aggressive body language. She was so riled up, she barely even acknowledged my presence. It was repulsive to me, and reminded me why English girls are so terrible. I turned and left the group without saying another word.

I needed to find another girl now!


The pick-up

I went straight to the dance floor. It was getting late, so I was pretty sure that I’d missed the golden time for pick-up. But lo-and-behold, there was a blond hottie dancing with two other girls. I said hi and we started dancing. She was a really cool Polish girl, who seemed very receptive to me. However, there were two red flags that indicated she wouldn’t sleep with me that night:

1. She didn’t drink.
2. She refused to kiss me fully (peck on the lips at most).

I didn’t move on because she was hot as hell, it was getting too late to realistically hope to find another high quality girl, and I had two safety nets in the same club to rely on if it didn’t work out.

I continued the pick-up, bouncing her outside and to different parts of the club to talk (it’s why it’s one of my favourite clubs; lots of different areas to bounce to).

Of course, my English safety net had seen me with the Polish girl by this point and didn’t fail to tell me how annoyed she was while the Polish girl was in the toilet, giving me some great lines like “You’ve made me look like an idiot”, “I saw you on the dancefloor look right into my eyes and then kiss her” (not true) and “I can’t even speak to you right now. Come and find me later”. This gave me great satisfaction and I could hardly hide my shit eating grin when she said that. That should teach her to think she can ignore me. I also highly doubted that this would stop her from fucking me if it went wrong with the Polish girl.


Closing the girl

I popped my usual question to the Polish girl “what are you doing later?” and she answered with a distinctly positive “I don’t know yet.”

Interdasting.

I asked her if she wanted to come back to mine and she said “Maybe. I’m tired”. I gave the usual “Me too, I’m going to sleep well.” After some discussion, she said that she had to check with her friends before she could come back with me. I hate these situations that often arise with younger girls, but I’ve discovered that it’s better to be present for these discussions with friends because:

1. You can answer any questions the friends have.
2. You can charm the friends and re-assure them that you’re not a psycho.
3. The friends are less willing to slag you off and try to persuade her to not go home with you while you’re standing right there.
4. The friends can’t drag her home out of the club immediately while you’re stood right there.

In this case, they grilled me pretty good and asked some awkward questions (e.g. “have you got contraception?”). As painful as it is, I’ve generally found that it’s best to tone down the cocky-funny a bit here and actually answer the questions. You’ve already won over the main girl, and the friends are mainly asking safety-based questions.

I got the green-light. I never like to hang about once it’s decided, so I grabbed her hand and led her outside and straight into a taxi.

There was absolutely zero resistance from the second we got inside. Clothes off and down to business. I even got some mild choking into it. Great night.


Oh, and the safety net who I had “made an idiot of” texted me the next night at 3am asking “Are you still in [name of city]?”. Stupid slut.

Post: #3109

+3 (43 Overall) - Florida

I've been employing Tuthmosis's first-date bang strategy as of late with 80% success (90% if factoring in a second-date bang).

My Cad Pad ™ is within earshot of several bars, a park overlooking a major U.S. river, and a grocery store. I get compliance by requesting that the ladies wear a dress and heels and I reward this behavior by treating them to drinks at a rooftop bar at one of the nicer establishments in the city.

I've been having a lot of success transitioning from the first venue to my pad after two/three rounds. I always verbalize early on that I don't do first kisses in public. This way, when we bounce to my place, they assume its just for a nice make out session before they hit the road. I have roof access at my apartment, so transitioning from a rooftop bar to my rooftop is met with very little resistance. Hell, I give them three/four options and almost every time this is the one they choose!

Chinese Flag -- Age 31, 5'2, Size 00, Tinder
Met at the upscale establishment, I had three rounds, she had two (couldn't hold her liquor). One fond memory was when I asked her to ask me something in Chinese. She asked, "Are you an asshole?" I responded with a smirk. She wasn't feeling my invite home so I guided her to the park fountain across the street and went for the make out. We walked around a bit and grabbed a bench where I escalated. She then told me she didn't have to go home and invited herself back to my place. When we arrived, she went straight for the couch (but I'm still expecting additional resistance). As we're making out, she asks, "Do you have condoms?" Approx. three hours from meet to bang.

Blonde, 5'9 - Age 26, Tinder
Met again at upscale joint for a couple drinks then bounced to the grocery store to buy wine to enjoy back on my roof. I was able to move her from my roof to the bedroom w/o resistance but was met with plenty once there. We both had early mornings so I left things where they were and got the notch a few days later at her place.

Blonde, 5'10", Age 27, Tinder, Rating: 7.5
Met again at upscale rooftop bar. She was approached while she sat waiting on me to walk over from my place (wouldn't doubt it was someone from this forum). We had three rounds there and then bounced back to my roof where I had wine waiting. She put up token resistance. She ended up staying all night and we banged every three/four hours. Again, no more than three hours from meet to bang.


Every girl tells me the same story. They're starving for a man with style, class and confidence. It is (almost) too easy.

Post: #3110

+1 Jamaican flag (my 9th flag overall). Happy about this one because:

1) Took some effort. Had to deal with logistical cockblocks and a bit of LMR, but emerged victorious.
2) Very hot girl (8/10). 90 lbs, lithe body, models, great dancer.

Met her via cold approach at a bar.

Post: #3111

Banged a 24 year old Canadian girl on Tinder. Picked her up as she lives close by, drove and parked on my road. Needed to quickly go to my place to scan something for my sister of course. Sat on sofa listened to music, began kissing, walked to bed, banged her. All in space of hour meeting her. Drove her back, she thanked me, and that was that.

It really makes a mockery of those girls who make you wait 3 dates or more for sex.

Post: #3112

(11-10-2015 05:37 PM)Indy Wrote:  I get compliance by requesting that the ladies wear a dress and heels and I reward this behavior by treating them to drinks at a rooftop bar at one of the nicer establishments in the city.

I've been having a lot of success transitioning from the first venue to my pad after two/three rounds.

Every girl tells me the same story. They're starving for a man with style, class and confidence. It is (almost) too easy.

I'm telling everyone how true this is. Tell them they have to dress up and wear heels. Buy drinks and venue bounce and do it again. If you have confidence, style and grace they are thrilled to be banging you.

College girls are always looking for something they haven't had before, and if you can provide it - see his quote above - it is easy. Two years ago I could not have imagined turning down 2/3rd of the girls I meet and I'm only counting the bangable ones. I used to just screen for looks now I screen for anything negative.

Great stuff, Indy.

Post: #3113

(11-09-2015 01:36 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  ^^ Keep on working and improving yourself.

As a mid 30s guy, the high end late teen, early 20s girls are not out of reach my friend.

Word. I'm turning 45 this month.

Long story short: Two nights ago a met a couple buddies for Monday Night Football at a nearby sports bar. I go there regularly Got there a half hour early to snag a table as it gets full on game nights. Place is pretty empty. I sit down and very cute 22 yo waitress (never seen her before) comes over to take my drink order. I chit chat with her and give her shit about wearing a Chargers jersey. She comes back a few minutes later and sits at my table and says "I'm bored"

PT

I quickly steer convo towards her dating life. I hear about how she just broke up with boyfriend, yada yada, blah blah. Told her "that's what you get for dating a boy instead of a man". Asked her if she'd ever considered becoming a lesbian...avoided answering that...but that told me everything I wanted to know.

Friends show up, place gets full, 3 chicks (2 cuties, 1 grenade) walk in, no place to sit, so gentlemen that I am I invite them to join us. They sit, fun ensues,..cute waitress sees it all, and is flirty with me...buddies and chicks at table see it too, (I know the difference from when they are just fishing for better tip...I rarely bang waitresses). End of the football game I invite waitress to join up at my neighborhood bar, after her shift. Two hours later my buddies can't believe it when she shows up at the bar. They get lost, I buy waitress two glasses of wine, we go to my house (a block away) for a nightcap. I open a bottle at my house, we're on the couch making out before the first glass is finished, and in my bed rawdogging before midnight. Great tits and slim body hiding under that stupid Chargers jersey. No tats (amazingly). Nice shaved pussy tasted like salty apples (best description I can come up with). Pulled out and finished off by firing my batch down her throat. Woke her up about 4 in the morning for round two.

Getting her in a 3 way is going to be a new little project for me

Post: #3114

+1 don't want to talk about it..attractive girl facewise..a bit scandinavian like and blonde but she was bigger than in her pics which were old..not fat..but muscular.

Met on tinder..

Post: #3115

(11-11-2015 08:22 PM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  +1 don't want to talk about it..attractive girl facewise..a bit scandinavian like and blonde but she was bigger than in her pics which were old..not fat..but muscular.

Met on tinder..

Bro...too funny



RVF confessional..."Forgive me father for I have fucked a girl I'm not proud of having fucked"

Post: #3116

I love it when I get to post in this thread. And I love reading posts.

Anyways, +1 36 year old (does NOT look a day over 25) Korean Med/Surge Nurse (7 face; 8 body) from Tinder. Date 1 and 2 were coffee, Date 3 was dinner (I didn't mind her company and taking her to dinner), and Date 4 was drinks at the local bar.

Date 4, she met me at my place and I drove to the bar. I forgot my wallet (which worked out great) so she was the only one that could drink and she gladly paid. I made her order the second round for herself after she hesitated. This got her feeling pretty loose. As soon as she said she was feeling tipsy, I called for the check so I can get her to my place. I planned to tell her not to drive home yet and to come inside and chill.

Upon entering, I immediately made her sit on my bed so she could feel comfortable. I offered her a massage because she was complaining all night that her shoulders hurt from working out. I went for the make out, and she was totally caught off guard. I made a comment about it and we both laughed. I resumed making out but this time got her to lay down. Some resistance, but kept restarting/escalating. And finally she said, "Wait, are we really doing it?" I said my usual, "lets just try it and see" and kept escalating. Finally she gave in, and asked me to put a condom on.

This chick is definitely joining the team. Her pussy felt fucking amazing and my goal is to hit it raw next time.

Post: #3117

+1 23 year old 5'4 115 lb tiny Tinder girl.

+1 for Creole Flag


Less than 12 hour from match to bang.

I triple booked dates that evening. I flaked on the 22 year old Armenian girl, she was kind of being a bratt and deserved it. The colombian/black girl chases me regardless and I wasn't worried. So Creole girl it was.

She's from the South and has been here less than a year (I have a great track record with girls from other states)

+19 for the year (I had 27 last year - it'll be a long shot to match that by EOY)

Month gap since my last bang.

Seems I'm averaging a new bang per month.

I'd rate her a about a 7.25:

-Cute long curly hair
-Skinny long figure
-Bright light brown eyes

She has a bit of a nose and an overbite, maybe it was the bit of lack of chin. She'd be a solid 8 if her facial structure was better. She was very feminine overall.

I'd say she looks very similar to this, but with light brown eyes, a weaker jaw, and puffier curly hair:

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NOTE: This is a comparison, not the actual girl.

Backstory:

Matched with her at Noon yesterday. She had only 2 pictures and her age said 27 - she looked nowhere near that.

About 7-8 messages exchanged and she's the one who gave her number out.

Game on, I throw her a text, we chat a bit, send selfies to confirm, she sent me a bikini selfie (stomach up) and that sold me. I wanted to fuck this girl tonight.

She loves my facial hair, send me a kiss emoji. She tells me her real name and I guess her height and weight right - she ate that up.

I asked her what her evening schedule was today and tomorrow, she immediately texts me back telling me it and asking if I wanted to hangout tonight.

Called her after work, she seemed pretty enthusiastic and liked the fact I called her instead of texting her.

We plan on meeting at a local venue

I send her the address as I'm in the gym, it's about a 40 minute drive. Told her to dress to impress.

I get out of the gym, eat, shower and get ready.


The Meetup:

She arrives at the bar, I take off from my house a mile away. (Remember have your logistics locked down)

I show up, she's dressed fashionabl, cute, a bit hippiesh, she told me she was a stoner.

I walk in and say what's up to four guys I know, always good to have social validation. I don't introduce her to them.

I grab my regular, she grabs a semi girly drink.

Immediately her entire is facing me as she's talking to me with eye contact, her knees casually touch the side of my leg.

I take us outside on the this L shaped couch, her back facing the patio entrance and facing me with no distractions.

We shoot the bullshit, talk about jobs, good vibes, and some stories. She's laughing alot. Blah blah blah.

She's definitely a talker so I let her do her thing. Overall she's very feminine, bubbly, isn't very opinionated. Just a very talkative stoner girl.

We both reveal our real ages, she's not 27, she's actually 23 but made a fake FB for Tinder, I tell her my real age, the convo doesn't skip a beat.

She's brushed my leg a few times, slapped my shoulder, leans in when she talks.

I don't show any reciprocation or advances on her at all.

Turns out the bars debit card machine is broken and they told me to pull out cash - my date offers to pay. I tell her I got the next round.

Bounce to Venue 2 - a group of guys can't stop checking her out, I look at them and just smile as I walk into the bar.

A few guys sitting net to use at the bar checked her as I walked in. I love that shit. I think it's because she's got that exotic look to her.

2 rounds of the same drinks, and a round of shots.

We chat about all sorts of shit, once again fully facing me as I lean back in my chair.

She tells me she honestly thought about flaking but because I called her and made her laugh she decided to take a chance.

Drops that she was out of a very long and serious relationship and that's why she got on tinder.

She plays with my facial hair, rubs my legs, and constantly is leaning in.

I close our tab out and bounce, this girl is freezing when we get outside, I suggest we cruise to my pad, get warm, and sober up.

She drops, "Usually I'm in bed by now, but I'm having fun, so yeah"

I laugh and drive us home.

The Bang:

Get to my house, she way short with her heels off. Throw on a funny stoner movie and we lay down.

Immediately she snuggles up to me, we watch a bit, tease eachother, she rolls halfway on top of me and we start making out.

I do this a few times, then go for her neck and her hair.

She tells me, "I like kissing your cheek, hope you don't mind"

Roll on top of her, pull her hair more and lightly choke her, she drops " a boy like you shouldn't be pulling a girls hair you don't know"

I respond with in a low deep voice, "Good thing, I'm a man who knows what he wants and when he wants it". As I kiss her neck and bit her. Absolutely crushing her semi shit test.

We get more hot and heavy I get her on top she starts grinding me, I flip her over and rub on her titties, no bra, perfect.

I pull down her top and spaghetti strap, okay tits, looks like they were bigger at one point. I start sucking on her tits and she moans "Ai!". Fuck that got me hard.

LMR:

I start rubbing her pussy over her leggings and making out with her, then I suddenly pull her leggings down and she giggingly says, "hey what are you doing?"

I smile and say, "Absolutely nothing"

She laughs and says, "yeah, you've got good game, you know exactly what you're doing"

Innocently I say, "Huh ? What are you talking about ? I didn't expect this and I'm just going with this"

She rolls over and laughs, "you know what you're doing, you do this all the time, don't you."

I say, "No way, this just escalated fast, I don't expect anything, we don't have to do anything you don't want to"

We kiss for a bit and she rubs my dick over my pants, I start finger blasting her and she loves every minute of it, she's twitching, saying "Ai!", telling me to stop, but then not to stop.

I push/pull with the finger blasting for a bit. She rubs my dick and trys pulling on the button fly, so I just whip it out and she strokes it.

I roll her over, and she still gives me some LMR, saying "you're so tempting but IDK"

We makeout and I try playing with my dick on her clit. Try slipping it in and she wasn't having it. (She still has her leggings down to her ankles)

She finally says, "Well if we're going to do this, we might as well, do you have protection"

I tell her, "No" she laughs and says "of course not, playing it all slick huh" I shut down her shit test with "Hey if I was planning any of this, I'd of had a condom ready to go in my pocket wouldn't I?"

She gets fully naked, she isn't shaved and has some peach fuzz on her legs. She wasn't expecting to bang, apologizes and asks if I like what I see, tell her, she's alright, teasing her.

I get on top and slip it in, fuck at this point I need to piss. It's either take a piss and kill the mood or bang for a bit and piss.

I rawdog her, we bang for a bit, she's flexible, I pull out telling her I have to piss, I end up cumming after I pull out and play it cool as I go to the bathroom.

Wash up, piss, come back, bang for a bit, she can't take it, her pussies super tight. Her legs are shaking and her hips are a bit cramped.

Post-Bang:

We lay there naked, she has her top on, we watch the rest of the movie and shes half passed out.

She wakes up fully after 30 minutes and we talk. Turns out she was in an abusive relationship and has a scar or two from him (red flag).

She goes on about astrological signs and some conspiracy stuff, she's super weird but was funny about it.

I get her out about 20 minutes later and she bounces. Sent me a goodnight i had a great time text. I texted her back this morning told her we'll do it again next week, she never responded.

She'd be nice to have in my rotation, but we'll see. She lives on her own so I can always crash over there.

Conclusion:

This was a layup with some LMR. She liked what she saw and this was a don't fuck up game situation.

Played it cool, oozed confidence, and we clicked pretty good. We were focused on each other the entire time and our phones never came out.

It was almost a routine, with the stories, my background, where I've been, things I liked. I let her do most the talking and watched her actions and kino.

I felt like I did rush a bit pulling her leggings down, but finger blasting her took care of that. The sexual vibe is great, the sex will be better if we hangout again.

TL;DR

Matched>Meet>Don't Fuck Up> Destroy LMR> Bang> 12 Hour Layup

Keep on gaming gents.

Post: #3118

+1 30 year old Chinese 8, probably the hottest I've had in 5 years

- Amazing fake tits, +1 for me there, they were huge for a Chinese woman with a tiny waist

- Never had sex with a girl in her 30's before, +1 one there too. I can't believe shes that old. She doesn't look like it.

I had some regretful sex with a SIF recently but after a long down period after having surgery I wanted to get back on the horse.

This actually got me to be more approachful because I didn't want SIFs as the main course.

So I met the Chinese 8 at a high end bar with some Chinese friends speaking Chinese all night. Saw a couple girls at the bar who were eating, Id never seen that before at this bar, teased the shit out of them for a while, one feed me a bite and then I walked away, telling the hot one Id be back later. I think that's a cardinal sin in US game and maybe on in China too but it didn't hurt me. I went back when they were done eating, pulled the her the dance floor, great dancer, huge tits.

She left shortly afterwards, but I got her contact.

She came over to my apartment a week later and after getting mostly naked she told me she had a boyfriend to which I replied from my RVF stock answer "那个跟我有什么关系？“ or "Whats that got to do with me?" Then I slapped her ass hard. I'd say Im more a copping a feel guy, but it seemed like the right display at the time. So she took off her remaining clothes except the bra. I guess shes self conscious about her huge tits being fake, but I made some jokes if they were rock hard or not, I want to test them out. Bra came off.

Tremendous bang, she clearly spent her 20's fucking a lot and it paid off for me.

She came over again a few days later for round two and seems like she will be a solid plate. I haven't heard about boyfriend again but I kinda hope hes in the picture so she only wants to come over once a week for a bang session, smoke some cigarettes and leave.

So far, so good. Many thanks to others for all the things I've learned reading but didn't realize that I learned.

One big thing I noticed recently at bars is that I keep my shoulders slightly away from them, smirk at the girls, and wait for them to turn to me. Once they do that I give them my full attention but I don't give it to them until they give it to me first. Something I pieced together from a lot of things here. Seems to help a lot with night game. I haven't been getting many bangs yet, but my first so far from going out a few times has been great.

Post: #3119

+1 21 year old 5'3 boozing White Girl from POF

+20 for the year

Back to back bang from the other night.

NOT proud about this one, she was overweight, neck length hair, previously dyed hair, but her ass was decent.

Rate her a low 6.

I didn't have much going on Thursday, already had banged my plates, I wasn't seeing my LTR till Friday, I figure, why not game some new girls.

The colombian/black girl I flaked on for the last bang, rescheduled for last night but bailed because of an emergency all I said was "for sure" and her hamster was sent into over drive, I ignored her texts and calls since I was meeting up with this chick.

I'll keep this short, since it was kind of embarrassing:

Background:

Matched on POF a week ago, flaked on Tuesday, planned on Thursday, did get a selfie, seemed cool.

The Meetup:

Shows up to my regular bar, we get 2 rounds of drinks, I basically did the whole spiel from the other night. She's super nervous but loves that I'm very laid back and mellow, which helps her chill out.

At first I didn't think I'd get this bang, since she was very skittish. I was about to go close my tab out and eject but...

This dude I know walks up and says hi then says, "and whose this very beautiful girl you're with?"

I freeze for a second.....I forgot her name already....then say, "Well I just swooped her off the corner" with a laugh.

Guy says, "Looks like you and your lady need another drink, come to the bar with me"

We're at the bar and he says, "You don't gotta trip about me man, it's not my business if you're with your LTR or this girl, I don't give a shit" I tell him straight up, "she's not an interest she's an old friend whose in town"

He's not a good friend so I don't trust him, and obviously tell him a different story.

Get another rounds of drinks and a round of shots.

Close my tab, I drive us to the fountain, get back in my car.

The Bang:

Suggest we watch a certain movie and have her check out my rifle. We do both, start making out, we get hot and heavy, I get her tits out, rub her pussy. She says, "maybe you should slow down"

I laugh and say, "we aren't doing anything" and proceed. She goes to the bathroom, we keep making out, then she gives me a massage with my shirt off.

She says something smart ass, tell her I'll smack her with more than just my hand, with my dick. She laughs. She doesn't believe me.

I whip my dick out and try smacking her with it but end up falling off the bed. She starts jacking me off.

We're laying on the bed and I tell her "come here", she refuses twice. Then I pull her hair and she loves it, and starts sucking my dick.

This bitch gave some of the best head I've had, talking top 5 BJ's of all time.

I'm talking that deep throat pornstar sticky saliva at the back of your throat on your dick with spit all over your dick kind of blowjob.

I was happy with that, till I heard, "Do you have any condoms?" I tell her no since I wasn't expecting this to happen.

We end up banging, I tell her to turn around, she immediately gets on all fours, her ass is actually decent for a bigger girl, I cum all over her fast courtesy of the blowjob. 15 minutes later I drop her off and she sends me a nice meeting you text.

Yea, I probably won't do that again, then again she might be great for a head session. Just a girl to get me along on my journey.

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(11-11-2015 06:05 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  Banged a 24 year old Canadian girl on Tinder. Picked her up as she lives close by, drove and parked on my road. Needed to quickly go to my place to scan something for my sister of course. Sat on sofa listened to music, began kissing, walked to bed, banged her. All in space of hour meeting her. Drove her back, she thanked me, and that was that.

It really makes a mockery of those girls who make you wait 3 dates or more for sex.

A back to back bang for me too, 2 in 2 nights from first dates.

Had a first date with a 23 year old Chinese girl from OKCupid. She looked better than I expected, easily an 8.

As usual went to a bar, built more comfort game than normal as I often do with non westernised Asian girls. Had a glass of red wine. Told her let's take an Uber to another bar. When we got to the area I mentioned that I needed to go home as I did above.

Got home, put music on in living room and dimmed lights. Light hearted chat and went for the kissing within 15 minutes. I told her I like to take things slow before she comes out with "it's too soon" or some other anti slut excuse. Slowly took clothes off started with jacket, then shirt. Then told her I'm a little tired we should lie down and watch some TV, "nothing is going to happen". We were both on the bed now and started with the kissing. It escalated and

After we were done she told me she didn't know what came over her like she was sweeped of her feet and it "just happened". She told me she's only had sex with one guy before me who proposed to marry her a few months ago but she ended it because she wasn't sure or probably because she thought he was too desperate. She stayed overnight and banged her again in the morning.

Post: #3121

@Kaotic awesome story telling skills, haha. Makes me miss online game a little bit. These hoes too flaky though.

@V.Chase I'm curious of your thoughts while these girls spout nonsense. I could really see myself laughing at a lot of it.

Post: #3122

(11-10-2015 06:23 AM)High Hanging Fruit Wrote:  +1, 20 year old Polish girl on Friday night.


“Safety Net Game”

Since the vast majority of my lays come from night game, which always has a high amount of uncertainty around it, I often run what I call “safety net game” when I’m horny.

Essentially this consists of the following:

1. Text a bunch of previous lays “are you out tonight?”
2. If they are, keep a very sparse conversation going throughout the night (texting every hour or so) but make sure not to tell them where you are until entry has shut, or they will very often show up there.
3. Try your best to score and, if you fail, you can always meet one of your safety nets afterwards for a booty call.

Downsides:
1. You will never try as hard to score with a new girl when you have a safety net waiting.
2. The safety nets may find you and put a dampener on your game with new girls.

I’m interested to find out if anyone else runs this kind of game too, and if they have any tips or comments.


A bad start

Safety net game almost screwed me over big time on Friday. Two of the girls I texted turned up at the same club as me. Unfortunately, they both knew that it was my favourite club (it’s a niche club, so very unlikely they would have turned up without knowing that I was out).

My mind went into “I’ve got a sure thing” mode and I just hung out drinking with my friends (mixed group) while occasionally going over to talk with one of the safety nets and her friends (the other safety net kept her distance, texting me the next day that she saw that I was busy with some girls so left me alone). The club had perfect conditions for a pick-up: lots of hot women, very decent ratio, fun and approachable atmosphere. However, I just couldn’t force myself to make any approaches. I had the comfort of having a safety net, plus a friend-of-a-friend who was in our group liked me as well according to one of my friends.


My wake-up calls

I finally got two wake-up calls to knock me into action:

1. The friend-of-a-friend who liked me’s ex-boyfriend turned up. It was clear to me that she still liked him, so when I saw them walking off together I knew that potential lay was over.
2. I went over to my safety net to say hi and she was mid-way through a rant about how some girl had started on her. It was about the least feminine thing imaginable: crude language, masculine and aggressive body language. She was so riled up, she barely even acknowledged my presence. It was repulsive to me, and reminded me why English girls are so terrible. I turned and left the group without saying another word.

I needed to find another girl now!


The pick-up

I went straight to the dance floor. It was getting late, so I was pretty sure that I’d missed the golden time for pick-up. But lo-and-behold, there was a blond hottie dancing with two other girls. I said hi and we started dancing. She was a really cool Polish girl, who seemed very receptive to me. However, there were two red flags that indicated she wouldn’t sleep with me that night:

1. She didn’t drink.
2. She refused to kiss me fully (peck on the lips at most).

I didn’t move on because she was hot as hell, it was getting too late to realistically hope to find another high quality girl, and I had two safety nets in the same club to rely on if it didn’t work out.

I continued the pick-up, bouncing her outside and to different parts of the club to talk (it’s why it’s one of my favourite clubs; lots of different areas to bounce to).

Of course, my English safety net had seen me with the Polish girl by this point and didn’t fail to tell me how annoyed she was while the Polish girl was in the toilet, giving me some great lines like “You’ve made me look like an idiot”, “I saw you on the dancefloor look right into my eyes and then kiss her” (not true) and “I can’t even speak to you right now. Come and find me later”. This gave me great satisfaction and I could hardly hide my shit eating grin when she said that. That should teach her to think she can ignore me. I also highly doubted that this would stop her from fucking me if it went wrong with the Polish girl.


Closing the girl

I popped my usual question to the Polish girl “what are you doing later?” and she answered with a distinctly positive “I don’t know yet.”

Interdasting.

I asked her if she wanted to come back to mine and she said “Maybe. I’m tired”. I gave the usual “Me too, I’m going to sleep well.” After some discussion, she said that she had to check with her friends before she could come back with me. I hate these situations that often arise with younger girls, but I’ve discovered that it’s better to be present for these discussions with friends because:

1. You can answer any questions the friends have.
2. You can charm the friends and re-assure them that you’re not a psycho.
3. The friends are less willing to slag you off and try to persuade her to not go home with you while you’re standing right there.
4. The friends can’t drag her home out of the club immediately while you’re stood right there.

In this case, they grilled me pretty good and asked some awkward questions (e.g. “have you got contraception?”). As painful as it is, I’ve generally found that it’s best to tone down the cocky-funny a bit here and actually answer the questions. You’ve already won over the main girl, and the friends are mainly asking safety-based questions.

I got the green-light. I never like to hang about once it’s decided, so I grabbed her hand and led her outside and straight into a taxi.

There was absolutely zero resistance from the second we got inside. Clothes off and down to business. I even got some mild choking into it. Great night.


Oh, and the safety net who I had “made an idiot of” texted me the next night at 3am asking “Are you still in [name of city]?”. Stupid slut.

Right

Post: #3123

After the two simultaneous bangs from last week I had two simultaneous flakes the next two days Friday and Saturday. Not to worry there is always Sunday.

A fucking hot 22 year old Italian girl I would not lie to you to say she is one of the hottest girls I've kissed. Got her off SA, told her I'm not looking for escorts and the like. She said fine. Met her outside station. At one point I thought it was another girl who I said hello to and the woman ignored me in her bitch ways only a woman can. I thought that was that. Then got a text from her and she was actually in the other entrance. Well she was fucking hot. She was smiling and we walked straight to my place. Put on the music, candles and the usual script. She seemed to be really into me, went for the kiss and she literally had her tongue out kissing me like I'm in the middle of a Rocco scene. Went to bedroom to lie down with my cock out and her playing with it. I looked down and there appeared a tampon, I told her it's cool and she can take it out. She went to the toilet and took it out and put it in the bin. Back to the bed and her playing with my cock she told me "what value am I going to get out of this?" I told her you'll sleep like a baby tonight. She told me every guy wants to fuck her and is looking for more that that. Basically proceeded LMR where she said she didn't have sex with her boyfriend the first time and no sex materialised. She told me she would like to see me again, as if that has any meaning.

She left. Texted around a few other girls. Asian girl I banged a couple of weeks ago said "I'm not your slave". Ignored it in text changed the subject. Just assumed it and said I'll pick you up in 15 minutes. 10 minutes later she replied "K". Picked her up (I was still dressed from previous girl) took her back to my place, banged her with anal and cum in mouth, drove her back home. She suggested a threesome with her friend next time, and that was that. 3 girls in 5 days, one missed one and more to come.

Post: #3124

+1 Polish girl on Friday night.

It was very slim pickings, so I had to lower my standards a fair amount. Oh well, I guess I enjoyed the attention.

Post: #3125

(11-16-2015 04:37 AM)High Hanging Fruit Wrote:  +1 Polish girl on Friday night.

It was very slim pickings, so I had to lower my standards a fair amount. Oh well, I guess I enjoyed the attention.

hahaha are you in London? Bit more detail would be nice!