Post: #1

To start, I'm pretty new to this. Just read Bang recently to try to boost whatever amount of game I have. I'm naturally confident, outgoing and (if I may say so myself) good looking. While I have seen some success, there are a number of problems with gaming at college (at least where I am) that I'd love to get some advice on.

First of all, the whole social scene (as under 21) is an frats or clubs. As a freshmen (not a frat guy), we are automatically at the bottom of the ranks. Plus, since the social scene revolves around loud music, it makes it very difficult to use personality or talking skills. So that's kind of one part of it.

The other main issue is that girls tend to go out with friends or run into friends/hallmates etc. For this reason, it's tricky to get a girl to leave any party without going around getting her friends. There is also the issue of the girl worrying about reputation with friends around.

Any advice regarding the mentioned issues or any general advice would be great.

One more thing I should mention (going back to Roosh's game tips) is that I'm a guy who overthinks a lot and tries to apply logic to everything. I've managed to quiet the little intelligent voice in my head (I'm sure someone else who thinks a lot knows what I mean), but I'm still a very rational person.

Post: #2

Whatever you do DON'T become a frat boy...they are tools.

When she's with her friends bring some of your friends and chill for a bit, you don't need to get in her pants asap....get to know her.

Post: #3

(10-11-2009 06:11 PM)PissedOffChicks Wrote:  Whatever you do DON'T become a frat boy...they are tools.

When she's with her friends bring some of your friends and chill for a bit, you don't need to get in her pants asap....get to know her.

Sure that's one option, but I doubt that's the direction that most people on here are going for.

Post: #4

Well what is your goal?

Post: #5

(10-11-2009 09:46 PM)PissedOffChicks Wrote:  Well what is your goal?

Anyone else have anything? This one isn't the most helpful.

Post: #6

(10-11-2009 04:38 PM)collegehelp Wrote:  To start, I'm pretty new to this. Just read Bang recently to try to boost whatever amount of game I have. I'm naturally confident, outgoing and (if I may say so myself) good looking. While I have seen some success, there are a number of problems with gaming at college (at least where I am) that I'd love to get some advice on.

First of all, the whole social scene (as under 21) is an frats or clubs. As a freshmen (not a frat guy), we are automatically at the bottom of the ranks. Plus, since the social scene revolves around loud music, it makes it very difficult to use personality or talking skills. So that's kind of one part of it.

The other main issue is that girls tend to go out with friends or run into friends/hallmates etc. For this reason, it's tricky to get a girl to leave any party without going around getting her friends. There is also the issue of the girl worrying about reputation with friends around.

Any advice regarding the mentioned issues or any general advice would be great.

One more thing I should mention (going back to Roosh's game tips) is that I'm a guy who overthinks a lot and tries to apply logic to everything. I've managed to quiet the little intelligent voice in my head (I'm sure someone else who thinks a lot knows what I mean), but I'm still a very rational person.

Assemble a crew.

Many times college Game is all about who your friends are.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

Post: #7

You're not on the bottom rung, you're the top, I'd give anything to be a Freshmen all over again. Didn't you read Bang? You gotta change the way you think, you're counting the things against you.. not what's on your side..

College Game rule of thumb: 9.5/10 girls want to be approached. Seriously.

Parties are only good for banging, you won't meet anyone, most of the time. In this case what gets you laid will NOT be your conversation. It will be your vibe. Touch shoulders, hips and see the reaction. Walk into a circle of chatting girls and say hey-oh, if you feel like you've got some balls.

Otherwise... Just say "hi" and go from there.. Meet them in line, in the bookstore, in the library, bum a ciggarette, comment on the weather.. They all want to be approached, even girls with boyfriends are down for pleasantries.

I'm only loosely a student atm and went to the library to study a bit.. 50 feet out from a row of computers a girl, solid 8, made the mistake of holding some eye-contact with me. I change directions to a bee-line at her. sat at the adjacent computer and said hi. basic introductions, "i'm on my way ....", got the number. I didn't even ask this girl her major, her age, no nonsense.

Re-read the preface to Bang dude. Approach like mad, you're in college.