Post: #1

So I have been with plenty of girls, but the one I'm with now i can't seem to last longer than 5 minutes with. She's not like a perfect 10 or anything but i can say I really like her could that be my problem...???? Any advice??? lol I feel like I'm coming up short handed on my part.... UGH

Post: #2

I have been in this situation. At times I have let myself get a little too "in" to the girl, like where I just thought she had the perfect round ass, or whatever else. Then I would just get too excited about the act and come up, shall we say "short handed." I now think of it as a modified 'putting the girl on a pedestal' situation. Try to remember some of the other conquests you've had, realize this girl is nothing new, that you can easily find another, and that may help. It helped me.

Post: #3

(03-02-2012 10:54 AM)highandtight Wrote:  I have been in this situation. At times I have let myself get a little too "in" to the girl, like where I just thought she had the perfect round ass, or whatever else. Then I would just get too excited about the act and come up, shall we say "short handed." I now think of it as a modified 'putting the girl on a pedestal' situation. Try to remember some of the other conquests you've had, realize this girl is nothing new, that you can easily find another, and that may help. It helped me.

Your right I'm gonna go in it next time on a high horse thinking I'm that guy!!! Lol appreciate the reply

Post: #4

Just remind yourself how she'd look if she didn't have access to make-up, wax, razors etc.

EDIT: This might cause the opposite extreme.

Post: #5

Do kegels and edging.

Post: #6

localized fat deposits aside (hips, ass, tits) women are not that much different from men physically on a grand scale. they just dress differently and are more submissive. because they have to be in order to accept penetration, also if you think about it then the top part of the cervix looks like a head of a penis. so basically you are jousting penises a few inches inside another human. it's like belly buttons, innies and outies.

Did I kill anyone's "sexy thoughts"??

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Post: #7

Desensitizing condoms.

Post: #8

Situations like these are is where viagra comes in handy.

Post: #9

Every now and then, with your eyes closed, Think of fucking Barbara Walters or something . that may work .

Post: #10

Slow down, change positions, and think of something completely un-boner-worthy for a few seconds (i.e. grandma, or football). Yeah it's a little gay but it works - 90% of ejaculation is mental. Are you having this problem while wearing condoms?

Post: #11

Do it twice, the second time always lasts longer. Sounds like a win-win situation man, capitalize on it!!!!

Like Gmac said, or you can slow it down... put her on top, most women go MUCH slower than men. If she's too tight/wet and that's the reason, loosen her up with some foreplay. A good position to start slow and move fast is to have her on her side laying down and hit it doggy style laying down next to her (kinda like waking up and banging). Move to something more fun from there. Good luck, all that really matter is you get yours anyways... I bet she would agree with me

Post: #12

Just focus on her flaws, that's what always makes me last longer. As a bonus I usually end up getting pissed and start banging the girl way harder.

Post: #13

This happens to me if I bang a girl rawdog and she isn't very wet. I stick my dick in and within a minute I'm ready to bust. It'll happen if I don't nut the night of, but go raw the morning after. It also doesn't happen if shes super wet or if I bust previously. What usually works is I'll start missionary, feel it coming on, tell her to either go doggy or blow me. If its doggy then I'll smack my dick with the back of my hand or pinch myself. The pain gets rid of any sensation I had. Then I lube it up and shove it in.