Post: #1

I want to know you guys, would try to feel the girls vibe in the day game so you could match with it when you deliver the opener with the vibe.
i have been approaching for a while but does not get too much results and my friend advises to match their vibe when i deliver my opener. And he also told me to match what they feel like to talk to them accordingly.

Post: #2

You want to have the mindset of a confused old man who barely knows what he's doing and desperately needs help with the most basic tasks. You can easily have a 10-minute conversation about a girl's kindle if you act like you know absolutely fuck-all about it and really need to know all the details because you're considering buying one to avoid having to lug around a bag full of books on your frequent trips to South America or whatever.

Post: #3

Your vibe should be 10% higher than hers so that she comes up to match that, especially if she has low energy, since you want her to get into an active social mood. If she's already bubbly, matching it is fine.

Post: #4

(02-10-2012 03:13 PM)TheJudoKa Wrote:  i have been approaching for a while but does not get too much results

You might post a transcript of an approach or two here... others might be able to see problems with your ramble/bait.

Also when you say "for a while" - how many approaches is that?

I'm not saying you should lower your standards - but maybe as a noob to day game (like me) you should be open to a wider variety of targets.

My rule of thumb for an approach is the gut check. I check my gut... if the thought of opening the girl makes me even a little bit nervous odds are I'd be happy to bang her in the parking lot... I open as soon as the situation allows.