Post: #76

(02-03-2012 02:19 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

(02-03-2012 02:02 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(02-03-2012 01:59 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  That's a shame because Toronto is super multicultural. You would think there'd be some pickings among all those international chicks. I was there last summer hanging out with a chick I know from Brazil, so I had a good time. But I could just tell from walking around and going out in TO that it just isn't the spot if you don't have moves lined up. It has nothing on Montreal.

Still, at least it has Caribana, which many of my friends have been to. I've never been, but DC has nothing the brings people like that.

I wanna check out DC still. I read somewhere that it's called Chocolate city, I wanna see how the dark lizards match up to a cat with an accent comme moi.

Yeah, that label used to apply, but I think Atlanta has overtaken DC as being "Chocolate City." DC actually now has the fastest growing white population of any major American city. It's rapidly gentrifying and increasingly becoming wealthier, and less "cooler." Socially, it just doesn't match up to what Atlanta can offer.

I wouldn't recommend visiting DC at all, unless you already have cool friends here that run in good social circles.

It still must have a decent base for Chocolate even if Atlanta has taken over. I'd still like to check out and see if it's worse than Toronto.

Post: #77

(02-03-2012 02:29 PM)Moma Wrote:  It still must have a decent base for Chocolate even if Atlanta has taken over. I'd still like to check out and see if it's worse than Toronto.

As much as I rag on DC it does have top notch Black chics. Howard U attracts the best looking black women in the country. Many will stay after graduation as well.

Black girls here like high class lounges and clubs. The best nights to spot them is on a Sunday night before a holiday(Labor day, Memorial day, July 4th).You wont see them at dive bars and hole in the walls.

Btw...I'd like to check out toronto to see if it's as bad as DC. haha

Post: #78

(02-03-2012 02:02 PM)Moma Wrote:  I wanna check out DC still. I read somewhere that it's called Chocolate city, I wanna see how the dark lizards match up to a cat with an accent comme moi.

Actually, you might do well in DC with the sistas. I have seen it firsthand, these so-called strong-willed with a bunch of attitude sistas will stand behind some foreigner at the bar and accept drinks....and look OBEDIENT too.

Post: #79

Hmm.. HC - I am not sure about other dynamics but it seems she might've genuinely had to work late or was swamped with work. Then again, its for you to see whether the SIZZLE is dead for you after 1/2 weeks or not.

Why? I'd had an encounter in the club w a med school girl. The weekend was busy & tiring for me and with my travel and work and her crazy med school books & exams, it was almost 3 weeks before we were able to setup a night together.. where I ensured she would cook me some goood waaarm foood.. (It was snowy cold outside)... and I'll get a dvd/movie.. It took a while to go from Base 3 to 4.. But 4 am.. it was done deal. No alcohol.. etc. We talked openly and set up a FWB since both were busy people.

Post: #80

OK.

A girl just gave me the same treatment Hencridible got, but I'm trying a different approach.

We hit it off quite well a couple of weeks ago, and I bulldozed ahead and arranged a date. I threw my phone away this weekend, so I had two options:

1) Contact her by email (stalkherish) and assume she was serious about meeting up

2) Don't contact her under the assumption she was going to flake.

I didn't discover I really had two options until I already sent the mail. Well, she asked to cancel! Surprise! I wasn't even offended. Am I getting hard-skinned? She said her day so far SUCKED and she felt like a zombie (probably up all night last night fucking), but asked to rearrange to meet on a) saturday or b) wednesday next week. LOL!!!!

This is what I wrote back:

"Hmm... actually, how about the 23rd of June? I have my last final the day before and then it's like the summer holidays. I'll probably be hungover as fuck and a bit zombieish myself, but on the other hand, there's a decent chance I won't have anything better to do "

This girl is sleeping with me on the 7th of never.

Post: #81

Her response (as per Danish girl's standard response):

"Did an adult write that? Honestly I think we should just forget it, had in no way expected that response from you. You seem for lack of a better word an idiot. I hope for your sake you aren't, but I think you should know that that's the vibe your sending"

LOL!!!

I'm going to the store, I already have an answer, but if you guys want to pitch in let me know!

This is what I was goint to write:

"AHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!

Seriously: Relax, bitch... I didn't call you to set up a date to then cancel last minute. What a freak!"

Apparently, freak is the worst thing you can call a girl. Anything to indicate she falls outside of social norms will send her hamster into overdrive...

Post: #82

"Relax, bitch... I didn't call you to set up a date to then cancel last minute. And you react to some mild teasing by calling people idiots! Are you used to controlling others with your ridiculous temper? Jesus, you're weird!"

I was kind of impressed she reacted so strongly! It's like she was itching for a fight. Crazy!

Post: #83

Quote:Actually, you might do well in DC with the sistas. I have seen it firsthand, these so-called strong-willed with a bunch of attitude sistas will stand behind some foreigner at the bar and accept drinks....and look OBEDIENT too.

The white transplants in DC are terrible, and the 'natives' are just as repulsive, if not moreso. Why bother?

Post: #84

(02-07-2012 12:43 PM)ElJefe Wrote:  "Relax, bitch... I didn't call you to set up a date to then cancel last minute. And you react to some mild teasing by calling people idiots! Are you used to controlling others with your ridiculous temper? Jesus, you're weird!"

I was kind of impressed she reacted so strongly! It's like she was itching for a fight. Crazy!

Good job El Jefe. Fuck her. Every now and then, you will meet chicks who are begging to get checked by a real player. You did the right thing. She needs to know that "bitchassness" has zero mileage when dealing with a true player. That type of conduct is for the betas of this world.

Post: #85

(02-07-2012 12:50 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:  

Quote:Actually, you might do well in DC with the sistas. I have seen it firsthand, these so-called strong-willed with a bunch of attitude sistas will stand behind some foreigner at the bar and accept drinks....and look OBEDIENT too.

The white transplants in DC are terrible, and the 'natives' are just as repulsive, if not moreso. Why bother?

Truth. DC people just suck, any way you cut it.

Post: #86

(02-07-2012 08:27 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  Good job El Jefe. Fuck her. Every now and then, you will meet chicks who are begging to get checked by a real player. You did the right thing. She needs to know that "bitchassness" has zero mileage when dealing with a true player. That type of conduct is for the betas of this world.

Appreciate it. I just hope she read the reply. How on Earth does a girl ever get that offended? Was what I said that terrible?

I mean, can someone explain how it would make sense in her debilitated brain? Is this a tactic that works for women?

Post: #87

Would you guys give a girl the "Roosh" treatment after she turns you down for a date because she has to pay her half even though yall have been talking for months

Post: #88

(02-01-2012 06:34 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

(02-01-2012 06:15 AM)Jackhammer Wrote:  This is good. I think some guys who are saying you showed too much emotion are assuming you're still "gaming" this chick. There's a point in time where you just have to write them off, and it's good practice to let them know that their retarded behavior is the reason for your lost interest. Good luck on the return-bang!

My thoughts exactly.

There's a lot of ways to analyze that situation.

Here is how I look at it:

One, I met her at a club. Even though we did meet once after that drunk encounter, there really is a small window of opportunity to bang a chick you met at a club. The majority of the time--and I've only lived in big cities--if you don't pull the same night, you probably aren't going to bang.

Two, I think it's very beta to allow a chick to call the shots. No mean to toot my own horn, but I see myself as a king in my world, though I may be just a passerby in yours. I've traveled a good chunk of the world, have had many different flags, live a pretty cool lifestyle, so I don't need to wait on any chick. I think cutting her off actually validates my alphaness and overall confidence. This is an important and overlooked tactic in "harem management."

Just think of it the way a rich celebrity or someone of that mold would. You think if the Prince of Saudi Arabia was having a high-end party and a chick wasn't giving him the chance that night she would stick around? He would probably kick her out immediately. This is how you should see yourself. Even though you may not have the money or resources that he does, you can definitely build a harem. If you follow the principles advocated on this forum (learn game, travel, get cash, dress well, exercise, eat good, gain knowledge), you will likely be in a position to where you are "turning away pussy." Definitely don't let chicks, especially American ones, use their pussy power to get you off of your high horse. Stay on that bad boy and concentrate on these principles.

http://youtu.be/e0OdZlOP2SE?t=2m4s

Well said Hencredible. This is kind of how i view and treat American chicks. I am tall, very good looking, successful, i
intelligent, cultured, well dressed, travelled, etc., and I am so damn frustrated with the
FLAKINESS OF AMERICAN GIRLS and their terrible attitudes ! So, whenI go out, i try to get as many numbers as possible, but i feel if a chick
is interested in me, she will make every reasonable effort to see me that week. Period, end of story, unless she is out of town, on rag, sick, then what is her excuse not to see you in order to make your friendship/possilble relationship progress and escalate like it should. With that said, when a girl starts being flakey and telling me maybe next week, lets wait, or cancels a date, I stop calling and/or texting her and telling her. This way she knows that she is not going to keep getting away with this, and I will not be a Beta male. A lot of them have ended up realizing their stupidity, and end up calling or texting me with a booty call or date (at this point i will only give them 1 date and if nothing starts to escalate quickly i am out). South American girls and Eastern European girls rarely do this to me, i usually get a date from them within 3 days, and they are usually hotter. Good job on your handling of the situation, and taking the principles of Roosh forum and your own common sense and applying them. I like the Saudi Prince mentality and what he would do. Their a PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA for players like you and me....

Post: #89

(02-09-2012 04:36 PM)Schoolboy_D Wrote:  Would you guys give a girl the "Roosh" treatment after she turns you down for a date because she has to pay her half even though yall have been talking for months

Yes sir, because UrbanNerd does not handle "entitlement attitudes" very well.

Post: #90

(01-31-2012 07:38 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  Fellas,

So I just told this chick I haven't smashed yet that I have no interest in talking to her.....

Good one. I have a 2-strike rule for every girl, no matter how hot. Flake-Flake-Delete.