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dealing with social fallout
Here's the situation, I got invited to a party, ended up hitting on a whole bunch of girls there. I danced with a brazilian girl, and kissed her, and suddenly got hit by her boyfriend or male friend. After that I knocked him out and he was on the floor, and I got kicked out of the party.

The next day I go to the school gym, and 3 separate groups of people there recognize me, yet I don't know who they are. They come up to me and say I drank too much last night while laughing, and I try to laugh it off. But inside I'm kind of psyched out, I had no idea the fallout would be this big. I'm planning to lay low for a while and keep under the radar. Any suggestions?

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01-26-2015 01:39 PM
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RE: dealing with social fallout
What fallout? You kissed a chick, got sucker punched, and won. In my youth that was every other weekend for me.You don't think this gets vaginas wet? It does. Don't duck and hide unless you think this guy will come back with a crew. Keep your head up, and keep gaming.

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If you are the type that gets aggressive when you've been drinking, then tone down the drinking. Otherwise, it's all good.

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01-26-2015 02:51 PM
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Sounds like this increased your social capital. Act accordingly

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01-26-2015 02:58 PM
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edtf "the knockout artist" - Chicks dig it.

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01-26-2015 03:18 PM
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Exactly, you knocked a pussy out who sucker punched you. Sounds like your social status is elevated.

-You kissed a girl at a party.
-You proved your manhood and wont the fight.
-These new groups recognized you and laughed.
-You have another good story to tell.

Seems like everything good came from this incident, keep playing it cool and laugh about it. Use it to your advantage.

But like Vin said, if you think you'll get jumped or be harmed by his friends, then chill out.

Other than that, it's a badge of courage and pride, rock it !

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01-26-2015 03:22 PM
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Yeah dude what all the vets said. Similar situation happened to me once. Surprisingly drove the girls wild in my circle. I didn't brag or boast about it. Just smirked when someone mentioned it and went on about my day.
01-27-2015 12:29 AM
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Thanks guys, I see the light now. I thought I had f'ed up really bad, but it seems pretty good now that you guys have explained it this way.

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01-27-2015 01:28 AM
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How do you outright knock someone out, by the way? I assume you hit him in the head, but I've been told by multiple people that risks breaking your hand?

(never been in a fight)
01-27-2015 05:52 PM
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You already proved yourself, like kaotic said. If anyone else says anything, make it clear that you didn't intend to hurt anyone. That should diffuse any return fire.
01-27-2015 06:00 PM
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You're conditioned to feel bad about what happened. It's all in your head. Don't worry about it.

Parties are big beta bro-fests. You out bro'd them and got what you wanted. Fuck them.

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01-27-2015 07:11 PM
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(01-27-2015 05:52 PM)CactusCat589 Wrote:  How do you outright knock someone out, by the way? I assume you hit him in the head, but I've been told by multiple people that risks breaking your hand?

(never been in a fight)

If you hit someone in the jaw right where it hinges under the ear that's considered the sweet spot for knocking someone out. It rattles their brain. Use punch that curves from out to in m8.
01-27-2015 11:57 PM
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(01-26-2015 01:39 PM)edtf Wrote:  Here's the situation, I got invited to a party, ended up hitting on a whole bunch of girls there. I danced with a brazilian girl, and kissed her, and suddenly got hit by her boyfriend or male friend. After that I knocked him out and he was on the floor, and I got kicked out of the party.

The next day I go to the school gym, and 3 separate groups of people there recognize me, yet I don't know who they are. They come up to me and say I drank too much last night while laughing, and I try to laugh it off. But inside I'm kind of psyched out, I had no idea the fallout would be this big. I'm planning to lay low for a while and keep under the radar. Any suggestions?

Seriously, though man. LittleDark wouldn't have just knocked out the boyfriend. He would have punched out 30 white knights while he was getting ejected from the party.

You have much to learn.

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01-28-2015 12:31 AM
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(01-28-2015 12:31 AM)Suits Wrote:  Seriously, though man. LittleDark wouldn't have just knocked out the boyfriend. He would have punched out 30 white knights while he was getting ejected from the party.

You have much to learn.

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they now know that you ain't one to be messing with. Like previous poster said do not act shy about what happend and use it to get people on your goodside if they come up to you. Explain why you fought and then it's all a charming operation!
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RE: dealing with social fallout
Don't brag about the night in question but start using your social skills to infiltrate all of these groups. Be the cool guy, by refusing to go into detail about that night, you'll come off as cool, maybe a bit mysterious if they didnt know you from before.

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01-28-2015 07:24 AM
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Bug RE: dealing with social fallout
Something I took to heart from 48 laws of power is that any "problem" created with audacity can be fixed with more audacity. Just play it off like the smooth, cool guy who hits on attractive women who can handle himself in a fight, if need be.
02-06-2015 02:32 PM
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