Post: #1

Met a girl, really cute, artsy chich, doesn't bother me when we hang out. She's not fat, but she's not fit either. Everything looks fine when she's dressed, but once the clothes come off.... Jesus. Skinny fat? I can't help it, I like her, but doesn't look her age when naked, it's like she never recovered after giving birth. I've fucked her twice while being utterly drunk.

Is there any way to signal that she should start training hard to get in shape without crushing her? Or is it just best if I leave it there?

Anyone with similar expereinces?

Post: #2

Some broads just look better with the clothes on. My ex-gf was a great example. She was a solid 9 with clothes. Very pretty face, long legs with 5'9 height.

But without clothes she had a pancake ass and love handles. Also flat chested and she had an ugly vagina. Clothes keep everything compacted. They can be very deceiving.

Post: #3

Tell her. Be blunt.

Post: #4

Easy fix.

Only go after yoga, athletic, or beach chicks where little is left to the imagination.

Guys fool themselves often. Go after girls that show more skin.

And no she won't magically get in shape and telling her won't help. I would never put that kind of investment into a chick unless she was the mother of my children.

The ugly vagina is a deal breaker for me.

Post: #5

Most chicks look ugly when naked if they don't hit the gym hard. Just look at most guys that don't hit the gym, they don't have a six-pack.

Post: #6

(01-08-2015 03:43 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Guys fool themselves often.

Mae West once said "Sex appeal ain't what you've got, it's what they think you've got"

Post: #7

Leave the lights off.

Post: #8

I think the simple answer is if you're not feeling how she looks naked then you owe it both yourself and her to next her. When you first met her you didn't have the benefit of knowing what was underneath the clothes and couldn't make an informed decision until you did. Now that you know deciding to stop seeing her is no different than you not being attracted to her voice, personality, her man hands or any other thing that may be a deal breaker for you.

About a month ago I met a single mom who was 40 and with her clothes and makeup on was a solid 8 in my book. On the second date we had sex and she slept over with me. In the morning light her body was a lot flabbier than I had thought (though not a total deal killer) but her face had dropped down to a 4 at best with her makeup smeared and mostly gone. It was all I could do to get through the morning sex without totally losing my erection. I had to cut and run after that. I felt a little bad at first but like they say attraction is not a choice and I was definitely no longer attracted.

Post: #9

Have had this experience plenty of times. Unless you're in an LTR with her don't say anything there's no point.

The reverse also occurs; I've had girls take off their clothes to reveal great bodies I didn't expect.

Post: #10

(01-08-2015 05:31 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Have had this experience plenty of times. Unless you're in an LTR with her don't say anything there's no point.

The reverse also occurs; I've had girls take off their clothes to reveal great bodies I didn't expect.

I've experienced the same thing also. They look a little chubby with their clothes on and then magically become sexy thick while naked. I would attribute that to poor fitting clothes maybe? But nonetheless a very pleasant surprise.

Post: #11

Take your pick, face or body.

Post: #12

Three ways to play this:
1. Tell her and suggest you guys hit gym together
2. Dump her and find a beach body ready chick
3. keep fucking her in an altered state (drunk/high/both)

Post: #13

(01-08-2015 05:31 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Have had this experience plenty of times. Unless you're in an LTR with her don't say anything there's no point.

The reverse also occurs; I've had girls take off their clothes to reveal great bodies I didn't expect.

I've only had this happen when the chick seems too skinny and ends up trying to hide her large tits and some hips and ass somehow because she wants to look at thin as possible.

I take off the clothes expecting a boyish figure and it can end up being great.

I have never had a girl wear looser clothing, not show skin, then be very pleasantly surprised (maybe just thankful she wasn't as thick as I thought she would be). Maybe I need to game in more conservative countries. Around here if a chick dresses more plainly her body is more plain.

Post: #14

Eject
   

Post: #15

The funniest is when a girl with big boobs takes her bra off, revealing disgusting cow utters.

I like my boobs perky...harder to go wrong with that.

Post: #16

Don't tell her to exercice, find one who already does.
Probem fixed.

Post: #17

Thanks for the feedback. I have to ampudate, a hard decision as she is indeed tolerable and nice.

Post: #18

Some girls have so so looking bodies while dressed, yet naked they look great.

Especially some of those petite Asian girls who look to have no ass in jeans, but you get them naked and they have a nice toned olive skin ass.

Post: #19

Gone both ways for me.

Had a girl who fucking dressed to the nines, wore some strappy ass 6 inch heels and looked like she had killer tits. Took her home, got her naked, and jesus christ couldn't even get hard to the coke can body she had.

My last girlfriend (she's fat as shit now; girls that are naturally thick have to work hard and she did not), was one of those sexy thick girls. I wasn't expecting much when we first got to bed. but holy fuck, took her clothes off and she had hands down the best athletic body I've seen in person yet. Muscular ass, core, nice D cups. Really too bad she has no motivation.

Post: #20

Drop hints about wanting to work out together; point out how hot a certain woman looks in a movie (e.g. "Her body looks fantastic, so toned, even for her age.")

Or leave the lights off and learn to live with it

Or move on.

Post: #21

This is why I'm a 'hugger' I can ascertain a girls lower back for love handles and upper back for muscle tone before investing.

Post: #22

It's done. I feel so relieved. Still, I understand why I liked her in the first place: no drama whatsoever.