Man I wish I had good news of sex to report like a lot of you guys, but I'm struggling right now. After getting dumped I've been on kind of a MGTOW vibe and not making any efforts to game women, finally after a couple months I've gotten back out there, these past two weeks hitting the local bar scene. Unfortunately my vibe is off or something is amiss, because I feel like I've got on some kind of pussy repellent, I'm just not hitting it off with girls on my approaches, while most respond, usually I get about a 5 minute conversation before it putters out and the girl loses interest and starts looking around the room. That or they just aren't investing and putting any effort into the conversation, not asking me any questions or just giving me short answers.

Fuck I haven't been out on the night scene trying to spit game in almost a year so I'm a little rusty, but I don't feel like it should be that bad. Fortunately, I've only had one blow out in about 10-15 approaches, this pretty fine Latina chick literally told me to "fuck off" gave me a bitchy disgusted look, and sharply turned her back to me. I was like "damn that's harsh, I'm just being friendly, you're not being very nice", she said "yeah I'm a mean girl." I replied, "what do you get an ego boost from rejecting guys?" She harshly said, "no I just know what kind of guy I want to talk to and you're not that guy."

At that point I was like fuck this bitch and hit the eject button. I haven't hit the bar scene in months, and apparently I never saw that there's a big group of Brazilian exchange students that have been going to the local university and hitting the local bars. Last night there was a big group of 10 Brazilian girls at the bar and a bunch of them were 7-8's, I tried to spit some game, mentioning I'd been to Rio, Paraty, Ilha Grande, etc., and speak a bit of Portuguese, but none of them were taking the bait.

One of the Brazilian girls who wasn't even the cutest one, probably a 7 for here, but really only a 6 in Brazil was being the bitchy cunt and just being flat out rude to me, while I was just being chill, friendly, and outgoing. I swear her attitude must have been infected in just the one semester that she has been living here, I didn't have any women in Brazil act like such cunts in the entire month I spent there. I feel like she must have gotten an outrageous ego boost going from being slightly above average chick in her country, to being considered a "hot exotic" chick here with a bunch of thirsty ones chasing her.

Have you guys ever been fucking a girl, and she starts to squirm or put her knees together almost like she can't take your dick and is involuntarily trying to squeeze it out?

I think this bitch was having a vaginal orgasm but I can't tell. It wasn't clear to me, she didn't tell me and I sure as fuck won't ask. I've been fucking her for a couple of months but the other night was the first time I had this reaction from her.

EDIT: After we fucked and were lying there, she seemed very satisfied and even said "Thank you" to me :?

(12-13-2014 07:10 PM)Checkmat Wrote:  Have you guys ever been fucking a girl, and she starts to squirm or put her knees together almost like she can't take your dick and is involuntarily trying to squeeze it out?

I think this bitch was having a vaginal orgasm but I can't tell. It wasn't clear to me, she didn't tell me and I sure as fuck won't ask. I've been fucking her for a couple of months but the other night was the first time I had this reaction from her.

EDIT: After we fucked and were lying there, she seemed very satisfied and even said "Thank you" to me :?

yes. they sometimes do that when they orgasm. Just be a man and push her legs apart and continue pounding. its what they want. it whay you want. it makes eveyrone happy.

Second time in two months that I roll solo dolo, never had any problem with the bouncers before, and a fucker who's frustrated with a girl tries to get me in trouble and tries to hit me. I am not a pussy, so I try to hit back too.
Now the bouncers think that I am trouble. It pisses me off to no end.
What do you guys think I should do? I do not want to ruin my reputation with them.

^ Probably iron things over with the security staff before a busy shift.

During a rush I doubt they'd want to hear your excuses but before a busy night it'd be cool to explain what happened and reinforce that there won't be any issues again with you.

OG, I've been in the same boat a few times. Number close before things fizzle out and take it from there. It's not easy to keep things rolling for 5+ minutes. Build rapport then get the number and tell them to have a good night, walk away... do your own thing. Has always gone over well with me.

You guys know that girl you crushed on in high school that didn't even know you existed?

I got a bj...I couldn't fuck her because she said she's loyal to her boyfriend. To the guys who said house parties are the easiest place to get some +1

Yes this falls under "sloots gonna sloot" logic

will probably expand tomorrow as I'm drunk and going to pass out

Still getting used to condoms.

My main flaked coming to my xmas party (got off work super late and was burnt out). She's not getting off that easy flaking last minute, told her she fucked up (sarcastically) and she owes me big.

Thank god I have backup plans. Had an old ONS blowing my phone up but I ain't drinking and driving. So I had my last recent bang (from a few weeks ago) come to the xmas party, she knew the hosts so that was a plus.

Goddamn she's needy, super grabby, trying to keep me around her, luckily she got into a "deep" convo with an old friend so I hung with the boys.

I tell her I'm going to the bathroom, she follows and guides me into a guest room next to it.

"We're not having sex"
-laugh- -caveman her and clothes come off-
"no we can't here"
-she locks the door-
"no, you don't even have a condom"
-condom comes out-
"ok come here"
wham bam thankyou ma'am

Tried pawning her off on our girlfriends but she ended up lapping me on a chair, told her I was leaving, she kept begging me to come sleep at her house, fuck that I'm sleeping in my own bed.

Idk why she wanted me to spend the night there, I'm not into that.

I'm going to have to cut this girl off, she's catching feelings hard and she's super needy, not a big fan of either.

Charging this to the game.

Jewish girls have been for me with out a doubt THE MOST sexually aggressive and soldier ass bitches. I haven't seen near as much sexual energy from any other ethnic group.

So I've been with 3 different girls since 1am this morning (it's now 11pm local time).

2 of them I banged, the other I made out with on a date.

The first girl came over Saturday night to make dinner with me as a "first date". We made a delicious meal, listened to various music, then played on the iPad looking up pictures of our hometowns. It was fun. She was kind of a hippy, and the sex was extraordinary. She knew how to move her body, but in a way that didn't make me feel like she was a skank. We banged twice and she went home at 1am. Great girl and I look forward to seeing her again.

The second girl was an old fling - she came by my place late afternoon to pick up some stuff she had left here months ago. We hung out, started reminiscing, and eventually made out and banged. My perfect kind of girl.

At 7pm I went on a Tinder date. I had no expectations, and expected it to be totally boring. Turns out, girl had some spunk in her personality and was fun to hang with. She told me I was "bad at tinder" because I took "days to write back" and "wasn't smiling in any of my photos." Hah. Game recognized?

I think I will see the date girl again. She was very "real" with me, for lack of a better word. I felt like she cut through the bullshit pretty quickly because she wanted to get to know me, and not put on an act. Dare I say it was refreshing? Overall very fun. I probably could have pulled her back to my place, but it felt more natural to let it play out, and I'll bring her here on the next date.

What's the lesson in all this? I think Game has become a lifestyle for me. I don't "go out to game," but rather I surround myself with girls of all types, and sometimes sex happens. I truly enjoy the company of all these girls - they all teach me something. And I mean that. Either about the world or culture or about myself. It's fun, and for me it makes me grow as a person.

Play on players!

(12-15-2014 01:19 AM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  I think I will see the date girl again. She was very "real" with me, for lack of a better word. I felt like she cut through the bullshit pretty quickly because she wanted to get to know me, and not put on an act. Dare I say it was refreshing? Overall very fun. I probably could have pulled her back to my place, but it felt more natural to let it play out, and I'll bring her here on the next date.

I'll be interested to hear how this plays out.

Whenever I have felt like this in the past after a really fun time, having not escalated to the point of being rejected, the girl has invariably done a disappearing act.

That is so true. Women don't reward men with sex for being nice guys and getting to know them as a person. They say that is what they want but they don't; they want to get caveman fucked.

So I've learned my lesson. Now, even if I feel that I have a great connection with a girl and really enjoy spending time with her apart from sex, I still push for sex right away just as if she were some skank I picked up in a bar that night. If you don't there's a high risk she will make it difficult to see her again,

Just got friendzoned by this chick. After our meeting, text message "We can be friends if you want".
Radio silence. I have enough friends.

(12-15-2014 08:16 AM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

(12-15-2014 01:19 AM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  I think I will see the date girl again. She was very "real" with me, for lack of a better word. I felt like she cut through the bullshit pretty quickly because she wanted to get to know me, and not put on an act. Dare I say it was refreshing? Overall very fun. I probably could have pulled her back to my place, but it felt more natural to let it play out, and I'll bring her here on the next date.

I'll be interested to hear how this plays out.

Whenever I have felt like this in the past after a really fun time, having not escalated to the point of being rejected, the girl has invariably done a disappearing act.

I had a date on saturday that is the first time I've had a first date and haven't gotten at least a kiss/makeout at the end.

I followed my first date recipe to a T, and got her back to my apartment after a second drink. She wouldn't take a drink there though, even when I was gonna let her make it (make it obvious im not trying to drug her). That and she had to meet her friends at this bar on the other side of town. That couldve been an excuse to leave, but she invited me out to that bar first and told her to come to me instead, so its plausible.

However I walked her to her car, and went for the kiss. She wasn't for it. Wanted to take this slow or some shit. But said it was the best date shes had in a while, most normal guy that she has been out with (read: your attractive and didn't creep me out, even when being in your apartment).

She sucks at responding to texts (and sucked prior to the date, flaky ass female), but I called her last night and had a quick conversation setting something up for thisweekend. We'll see if it actually goes through. Girl is smoking hot, has mentioned sex in a text before, but just doesn't have much a personality.

I actually think shes trying to pull "I'm a respectable woman now after being pumped and dumped so many times. I'm girlfriend material now". I would love to see that body without clothes on, something tells me shes a little vixen in the sack. But with her lack of personality, its not a huge loss.

The main point I'm try to say, is keep escalating. All signs are pointing to her being just barely interested. But you gotta make the hoe say no.

Good stuff guys, appreciate the feedback. I should have mentioned that I had tried to get this girl directly over to my place for the date, but she said she wasn't comfortable coming over before we met. Normally I ditch those type of chicks but decided to go out anyway.

Why?

I am attempting to change my attitude on some of this shit. In other words, the girl doesn't "reward me with sex" but much rather the opposite. I already fucked 2 girls in the 20 hours before I met this girl. I don't need a reward from her - rather, she should be lucky if I decide to bang her! I am the one giving out rewards, I am the one with something she wants. In fact, many things she wants. She's lucky I came into her life, and she'll be even luckier when I come on her face.

To me she is just some girl. But if she's smart she'll see why becoming part of my world is a good decision for her. To me that is the point of the date. And if she's an idiot she'll go fuck some bonehead who doesn't have half what I bring to the table. Her loss not mine.

Is this a normal occurrence for me? 7 girls banged in the last 5.5 weeks? Absolutely not, but I am working to make it become one. ONS is fun, maybe the most fun thing I know, but I want to add quality bitches to my life. Last thing I need is some dumb drunk girl sucking my dick - the 10th she's garbled this month. I am looking to add quality girls to my team, the A TEAM, because when we go out onto the field, we're playing to win.

Blurred sevens made my day. Play on playa, frame recognized.

Anyone ever have a girl instagram your texts?

I'm not talking about bad ones. Thank god I was spitting good game before screen shots and instagram/twitter.

I'm talking about a great one liner.

I know I've graced both instagram and twitter.

About to go to a hotel and meet this chick who gave me a car blowjob for her faux-rape fantasy

I'll let you know how it goes

Sitting here reading off some hilarious texts to one of my close friends:

Me: "I just got called a douche by two different girls in the past 10 minutes."

Friend: "Dude we play the complete opposite cards. You play the douche card, and I play the nice guy, almost suck up card, and we get totally different girls. They both work."

Me: "Doesn't hurt when you have game, looks, and upsides that are unlimited."

Went on a date with this girl off OKC today.

Didnt turn out well from the get go. I hugged her and spanked her butt for being late and get "I don't think this is very appropriate"

I ignore her. We sit down to get coffee, and I can see she's wearing lazy pink panties and didnt shave down there.

We talk about what we're gonna have for luch and she tells me she's vegetarian ok cool.

Then she goes on a 20 minute tirade about the evils of meat, hormones, and how meat affects her allergies.

We get up to go get food and spend the next 40 minutes trying to decide what to eat because she's fucking fussy.

We finally settle on a place and then she's rambling non stop about allergies and then religion.

I wanted to make my escape via the toilet, but decide to soldier on to see how this pans out.

BIG MISTAKE.

The date just went downhill. She complained about how the air is affecting her allergies blablabla.

Long story short, I drove her home and tried the "I need to use your bathroom line" . Her parents are in. (I live in Asia and this is common).

Fine. I walk her to the lift and attempt to kiss her. Get the head turn and the "I don't make out on first dates" speech.

I lift her off her feet and say I'm not putting you down til I get a kiss. She starts shaking like a fish out of water. I leave and drive off.

What a waste of my time.

Never do lunch/dinner on a first date.

Hope you've learned your lesson!

In circumstances like that you just get up and leave...

You can drop the "im going to the bathroom" line to keep things cool and give you time to escape and be a few blocks away when the bomb goes off.

(12-16-2014 07:25 AM)Agreddor Wrote:  Went on a date with this girl off OKC today.

Didnt turn out well from the get go. I hugged her and spanked her butt for being late and get "I don't think this is very appropriate"

I ignore her. We sit down to get coffee, and I can see she's wearing lazy pink panties and didnt shave down there.

We talk about what we're gonna have for luch and she tells me she's vegetarian ok cool.

Then she goes on a 20 minute tirade about the evils of meat, hormones, and how meat affects her allergies.

We get up to go get food and spend the next 40 minutes trying to decide what to eat because she's fucking fussy.

We finally settle on a place and then she's rambling non stop about allergies and then religion.

I wanted to make my escape via the toilet, but decide to soldier on to see how this pans out.

BIG MISTAKE.

The date just went downhill. She complained about how the air is affecting her allergies blablabla.

Long story short, I drove her home and tried the "I need to use your bathroom line" . Her parents are in. (I live in Asia and this is common).

Fine. I walk her to the lift and attempt to kiss her. Get the head turn and the "I don't make out on first dates" speech.

I lift her off her feet and say I'm not putting you down til I get a kiss. She starts shaking like a fish out of water. I leave and drive off.

What a waste of my time.

- She is vegetarian: this is a major problem.
- She denies a kiss: this is the summum of disrespect, no matter the reason.
- She rambled non stop: this is really a bad sign.

Next.

Today I go to a massage parlor in Bangkok, get a Thai massage 1 hour, the lady does the massage, and sometimes touches my dick, gives me plenty of IOI.

At the end of the massage session, the closes the curtain, start making out with me, proceeds to jerk me off, when I'm just about to ejaculate, she takes my hand and puts it in her pants. And guess what I found: a dick!

I ran out of the massage parlor, and didn't pay for the massage. I'm still trying to wash that off.

I love when some girls have belly button rings. Some people think it's cheesy, but it can be such a turn on for me.