Post: #176

^^Yeah and lots of sweating too. I might have to go to one this Saturday.
Its usually the reception you are mostly able to do some form of game but with prying eyes everywhere its going get awkward. Until everyone starts drinking but hey i never been to a dull punjabi wedding.

Post: #177

Lol what happened to this thread? It started so well then turned into a thread about multiculturalism and whether or not minorities should be considered American/Canadian( or whichever Western country they live in). Slightly bizarre but not totally unexpected.

Anyway, WalterBlack, Deluge, bojangles, and Cobra have been making good points. It cannot be repeated enough but you simply gain so many points by being an Indian guy who's "normal" and socially adjusted. THere will be girls who don't like you because of your skin color but who cares about those girls? Just be the best version of yourself that you can be and throw the limiting beliefs about your race/skin color out the window. Don't put girls on a pedestal (especially white chicks) and approach relentlessly. Everything else is just noise. I believe it was Gio who said it in one of his threads but all the people who whine about their race need to STFU and approach like a machine (not exactly in those words but you get the idea ).

Also, Fighting888 did the same thing in the old IRT thread and would paste a bunch of graphs and figures about STD rates/interracial dating and marriage etc. about Indians. Maybe he likes doing research on Indians?

Post: #178

(11-24-2014 11:56 PM)TheSlayer Wrote:  Lol what happened to this thread? It started so well then turned into a thread about multiculturalism and whether or not minorities should be considered American/Canadian( or whichever Western country they live in). Slightly bizarre but not totally unexpected.

Anyway, WalterBlack, Deluge, bojangles, and Cobra have been making good points. It cannot be repeated enough but you simply gain so many points by being an Indian guy who's "normal" and socially adjusted. THere will be girls who don't like you because of your skin color but who cares about those girls? Just be the best version of yourself that you can be and throw the limiting beliefs about your race/skin color out the window. Don't put girls on a pedestal (especially white chicks) and approach relentlessly. Everything else is just noise. I believe it was Gio who said it in one of his threads but all the people who whine about their race need to STFU and approach like a machine (not exactly in those words but you get the idea ).

Also, Fighting888 did the same thing in the old IRT thread and would paste a bunch of graphs and figures about STD rates/interracial dating and marriage etc. about Indians. Maybe he likes doing research on Indians?

Yep, the thread got derailed by bullshit.

I don't know what the deal with Fighting888, seems like he may be either a self hating Indian, or a white nationalist type.

Regardless, the main thing to take away is just focus on improving yourself in as many ways as you can, and you'll receive the sweet reward of hot poonani.

Post: #179

(11-25-2014 12:08 AM)Saladin Wrote:  I don't know what the deal with Fighting888, seems like he may be either a self hating Indian, or a white nationalist type.

I doubt he's Indian.

Post: #180

(11-25-2014 12:15 AM)TheSlayer Wrote:  

(11-25-2014 12:08 AM)Saladin Wrote:  I don't know what the deal with Fighting888, seems like he may be either a self hating Indian, or a white nationalist type.

I doubt he's Indian.

I reckon he's a FOB Indian. He seems too socially unadjusted and invested in the topic not to be.

Post: #181

(11-25-2014 12:43 AM)Deluge Wrote:  

(11-25-2014 12:15 AM)TheSlayer Wrote:  

(11-25-2014 12:08 AM)Saladin Wrote:  I don't know what the deal with Fighting888, seems like he may be either a self hating Indian, or a white nationalist type.

I doubt he's Indian.

I reckon he's a FOB Indian. He seems too socially unadjusted and invested in the topic not to be.

Maybe but seems unlikely given how hell bent he is upon showing how Indians don't get many responses online, how Indians have low STD rates and that's because they don't get laid enough (which actually might be true), how Indian men have this or that wrong with them. I don't want to derail an already derailed thread but it was quite funny seeing him post those graphs from the old IRT thread.

You have made a bunch of good points along with others. I hope those don't get lost in the mess this thread has become.

Post: #182

(11-24-2014 04:47 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  The Indian men they’re referring too are the thirsty FOB Indian IT/Engineering types in the US.

I had to google FOB lol. My post was knowingly extreme and yours is a watered down version. FOB IT types for the most part tend to be people who migrated from villages, poor families from the cities, spent their whole lives working hard so they can support the family probably because they are the primary bread earners and end up in the USA because in absolute terms and exchange rates they get a better deal. Indians who grew up with a certain amount of disposable income do not behave like that. There are exceptions of course.

(11-24-2014 05:09 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Eh doubt it, because I'm Pakistani by birth

For the most part we're the same. Some Pakistani's however are brainwashed into believing everything wrong with them is because of India and display a bizarre obsession with everything Indian. He displays all the characteristics.

(11-24-2014 05:34 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  I’ve also heard south Indian men pedestalise Pakistani women

I'm South Indian. Been here a while. You'd be hard pressed to find anyone here who gives a damn about Pakistan and Pakistani women.

Also,yes. If you know what you're doing Sikh weddings can be a great place to pick up women. Google Mahie Gill, those are the type of women (aesthetic wise) who turn up.

The saying is not for nothing 'More whisky is consumed in the Punjab than is produced in Scotland'

Post: #183

I rarely go to indian weddings, only if its close family therefore I'm too busy to mack on chicks. I don't think they are conducive, especially gujarati ones however the engagement parties or reception parties are good and yeah I've had some luck there in the past.

Post: #184

zidhai89 – where you located? How can you not know what FOB means? I talked to a lot of South Indian FOB IT guys back in UK and they were raving about Pakistani girls.

Post: #185

(11-25-2014 12:49 AM)TheSlayer Wrote:  

(11-25-2014 12:43 AM)Deluge Wrote:  

(11-25-2014 12:15 AM)TheSlayer Wrote:  

(11-25-2014 12:08 AM)Saladin Wrote:  I don't know what the deal with Fighting888, seems like he may be either a self hating Indian, or a white nationalist type.

I doubt he's Indian.

I reckon he's a FOB Indian. He seems too socially unadjusted and invested in the topic not to be.

Maybe but seems unlikely given how hell bent he is upon showing how Indians don't get many responses online, how Indians have low STD rates and that's because they don't get laid enough (which actually might be true), how Indian men have this or that wrong with them. I don't want to derail an already derailed thread but it was quite funny seeing him post those graphs from the old IRT thread.

You have made a bunch of good points along with others. I hope those don't get lost in the mess this thread has become.

I knew he posted that before, i forgot where, but yeah I've noticed he's posted some passive-aggressive, that's fine, whatever.

Anyways I'm looking forward to an indian wedding soon, when I was younger I'd reject everything indian/pakistani now it's ironic that I want to travel to indian and pakistan and understand what my grandfather help build, he was basically a secretary of some division comparable to like secretary of (branch) in the US.

Yeah I don't get the brainwashing part, I'm fucking proud of who I am, I don't give a fuck what preconceptions people have of me.

Because guess what ? I smash those and give them culture shock.

I've had a few girls surprised they ended up fucking me, "I've never fucked an indian guy" I just laugh it off, because in the end its how good your game is and how you present yourself body and mind.

Post: #186

(11-25-2014 12:18 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  zidhai89 – where you located?

Bangalore.

Post: #187

(11-24-2014 04:27 PM)zidhai89 Wrote:  Lol, i'd place a hefty bet he's Pakistani.

Welcome to the Forum Zidhai, Why no love for Pakistan ?

(11-25-2014 02:58 AM)zidhai89 Wrote:  For the most part we're the same. Some Pakistani's however are brainwashed into believing everything wrong with them is because of India and display a bizarre obsession with everything Indian. He displays all the characteristics.

Aren't you doing the same thing, Obcessing about Pakistan every time someone writes about Pakistan.

(11-25-2014 02:58 AM)zidhai89 Wrote:  I'm South Indian. Been here a while. You'd be hard pressed to find anyone here who gives a damn about Pakistan and Pakistani women

How do you know that, Have you met/banged any Pakistani Girls or seen the Pakistani girls in UK and or USA ?

Better title for the thread could have been, Inside the Prejudices of Brown Man/Desi Man (Indian, Pakistani, Srilankan, Bangladeshi etc), A lot good has been said already but Imrove your game and don't give a Fuck, carry on fellas and Happy Hunting .........

Post: #188

(11-26-2014 04:26 AM)zidhai89 Wrote:  

(11-25-2014 12:18 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  zidhai89 – where you located?

Bangalore.

I thought you were either raised in India or in India itself, given the amount of pro-India information you've been pumping on the boards.

Have you ever seen a Pakistani woman in person?

I would have thought that this conversation is more relevant to Indian men in western countries.

Post: #189

Today, Indian women are equal to women from any part of the world in terms of looks, profession or in any field.

(11-25-2014 02:58 AM)zidhai89 Wrote:  

(11-24-2014 04:47 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  The Indian men they’re referring too are the thirsty FOB Indian IT/Engineering types in the US.

I had to google FOB lol. My post was knowingly extreme and yours is a watered down version. FOB IT types for the most part tend to be people who migrated from villages, poor families from the cities, spent their whole lives working hard so they can support the family probably because they are the primary bread earners and end up in the USA because in absolute terms and exchange rates they get a better deal. Indians who grew up with a certain amount of disposable income do not behave like that. There are exceptions of course.

(11-24-2014 05:09 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Eh doubt it, because I'm Pakistani by birth

For the most part we're the same. Some Pakistani's however are brainwashed into believing everything wrong with them is because of India and display a bizarre obsession with everything Indian. He displays all the characteristics.

(11-24-2014 05:34 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  I’ve also heard south Indian men pedestalise Pakistani women

I'm South Indian. Been here a while. You'd be hard pressed to find anyone here who gives a damn about Pakistan and Pakistani women.

Also,yes. If you know what you're doing Sikh weddings can be a great place to pick up women. Google Mahie Gill, those are the type of women (aesthetic wise) who turn up.

The saying is not for nothing 'More whisky is consumed in the Punjab than is produced in Scotland'

Post: #190

(11-26-2014 11:25 AM)Lothario Wrote:  Welcome to the Forum Zidhai, Why no love for Pakistan ?

Thanks, good to be here. Got a bit of free time so yeah. I like Pakistan, planning a ski trip near the Karakoram range soon.

(11-26-2014 11:25 AM)Lothario Wrote:  How do you know that,

How do I know that South Indians don't care about Pakistani women? Because I live here amongst a few other reasons.

(11-27-2014 04:30 AM)Smitha Wrote:  Indian women are equal to women anywhere

Yeah, Indian women are mad elegant. Just gotta know where to find them.

Post: #191

(11-27-2014 04:30 AM)Smitha Wrote:  Today, Indian women are equal to women from any part of the world in terms of looks, profession or in any field.

(11-25-2014 02:58 AM)zidhai89 Wrote:  

(11-24-2014 04:47 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  The Indian men they’re referring too are the thirsty FOB Indian IT/Engineering types in the US.

I had to google FOB lol. My post was knowingly extreme and yours is a watered down version. FOB IT types for the most part tend to be people who migrated from villages, poor families from the cities, spent their whole lives working hard so they can support the family probably because they are the primary bread earners and end up in the USA because in absolute terms and exchange rates they get a better deal. Indians who grew up with a certain amount of disposable income do not behave like that. There are exceptions of course.

(11-24-2014 05:09 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Eh doubt it, because I'm Pakistani by birth

For the most part we're the same. Some Pakistani's however are brainwashed into believing everything wrong with them is because of India and display a bizarre obsession with everything Indian. He displays all the characteristics.

(11-24-2014 05:34 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:  I’ve also heard south Indian men pedestalise Pakistani women

I'm South Indian. Been here a while. You'd be hard pressed to find anyone here who gives a damn about Pakistan and Pakistani women.

Also,yes. If you know what you're doing Sikh weddings can be a great place to pick up women. Google Mahie Gill, those are the type of women (aesthetic wise) who turn up.

The saying is not for nothing 'More whisky is consumed in the Punjab than is produced in Scotland'

Smitha - Judging from all your posts here and your username, I think you are the quintessential Indian beta male or, even worse, an Indian feminist.

Post: #192

I did not know Pakistani women were that attractive, I thought most Pakistani's are just ethnic Punjabi's who are Muslim. Is this just because they are lighter-skinned or are they objectively better looking?

Post: #193

Pakistani women are attractive due to greek genetics. However there's a real contrast, a lot are very ugly and a lot are very sexy. There's a big variety in eye colour and hair colour that comes from the Greek genes.

Post: #194

(11-27-2014 08:14 AM)bojangles Wrote:  Pakistani women are attractive due to greek genetics. However there's a real contrast, a lot are very ugly and a lot are very sexy. There's a big variety in eye colour and hair colour that comes from the Greek genes.

That's insane. I remember Samseau spewing this crap, the idea that Alexander the Great's soldiers made a big impact on the genetics of the region is a complete myth. 0.21% of northern Pakistani (all Pashto, the main ethnic group in Afghanistan) male lineages descend back to Greece, so the overall contribution would be not much above 0.105% of their genetics.

Besides I live in the third largest Greek city in the world, the vast majority have dark hair and brown eyes anyway.

Post: #195

^^ the mughal empire could also have been a factor.

Post: #196

I just want to chime in and extend my whole-hearted support to the guys going "wtf happened to this thread?"

Post: #197

Zidhai, it's good to see a fellow Indian living in India on the forum.

I would be interested in hearing the type of game you run here.

Do you do street approaches or approach women at bars, or is it just mainly your social circle?

Post: #198

(11-27-2014 09:18 AM)Deluge Wrote:  

(11-27-2014 08:14 AM)bojangles Wrote:  Pakistani women are attractive due to greek genetics. However there's a real contrast, a lot are very ugly and a lot are very sexy. There's a big variety in eye colour and hair colour that comes from the Greek genes.

That's insane. I remember Samseau spewing this crap, the idea that Alexander the Great's soldiers made a big impact on the genetics of the region is a complete myth. 0.21% of northern Pakistani (all Pashto, the main ethnic group in Afghanistan) male lineages descend back to Greece, so the overall contribution would be not much above 0.105% of their genetics.

Besides I live in the third largest Greek city in the world, the vast majority have dark hair and brown eyes anyway.

Most of the pakistanis in the UK come from that region, you're still talking about 100,000's of people with that percentage. Also your study does not cover the whole of Pakistan, just those 3 ethnic groups. Alexander crossed the Indus, he didnt just stay in Pakistan. Following on so did Demetrius and that Indo-Greek empire lasted for 5 centuries after the fall of the Maurayans.

Pakistan has always been the gateway to the subcontinent, over the last 4000 years - 'Aryans', persians, greeks, arabs, turks, persians (again) and afghanis have all entered through the indus valley.

Personally I don't know how the genetics was affected in North West India (including Pakistan) by all these invaders. Maybe the Pakistani hot girls come about because of inbreeding

Post: #199

Smitha is a South Indian women's name. Why is she still on the forum?

Post: #200

(11-24-2014 11:56 PM)TheSlayer Wrote:  Lol what happened to this thread? It started so well then turned into a thread about multiculturalism and whether or not minorities should be considered American/Canadian( or whichever Western country they live in). Slightly bizarre but not totally unexpected.

Anyway, WalterBlack, Deluge, bojangles, and Cobra have been making good points. It cannot be repeated enough but you simply gain so many points by being an Indian guy who's "normal" and socially adjusted. THere will be girls who don't like you because of your skin color but who cares about those girls? Just be the best version of yourself that you can be and throw the limiting beliefs about your race/skin color out the window. Don't put girls on a pedestal (especially white chicks) and approach relentlessly. Everything else is just noise. I believe it was Gio who said it in one of his threads but all the people who whine about their race need to STFU and approach like a machine (not exactly in those words but you get the idea ).

Also, Fighting888 did the same thing in the old IRT thread and would paste a bunch of graphs and figures about STD rates/interracial dating and marriage etc. about Indians. Maybe he likes doing research on Indians?

I agree, anyway I'm still curious to hear from UK/US/Australian Indians (not India Indians no offense you guys are at a different place in terms of mindset):

What do you guys do when you're abroad (where people are less familiar with multiculturalism and ethnic Westerners) and girls insist on discussing your ethnicity?

Do you play it down and emphasize your Americanness or embrace it, even if you yourself aren't that reflective of your ethnicity (don't speak Hindi, don't like Bollywood, don't cook Indian food, etc)? If you do emphasize your Americanness, how do you do it smoothly when the girl is asking a bunch of questions about India or says something like: "you're not American/British/Australisn you're Indian!" or "oh I thought you were from India!"

Last night I was out and a couple of girls focused on the Indian thing and those conversations went nowhere regardless of whether I "owned" the ethnicity or played it down. Of all the sets that hooked well and got makeouts/etc, all were girls that didn't care about my ethnicity or accepted me as an American without question.

Obviously, the fashion, hygiene, being socially adjusted, dressing well stuff is already taken care of. What are ways to guide the conversation in order to do better with the girls that usually would be closed off to an Indian but open to a American?