^where are you? seems like there is a plethora of hot girls

Something clicked in my head last week. I need to modify my game. I was over gaming way too hard. I think I had oneitis or got too focused on only a couple of girls.

I missed out on a sea of 7s and higher that weren't disinterested in me like I thought, but were turned off by my game. I need to tighten up my smoothness and friendliness, but amp up my aggressiveness. My first experiments with this have been very good, but I have to be careful because it's dancer social circle game and I don't want a rep to screw me up. A lot of the people gossip here, and I've got a lot of younger college chicks interested, but everyone notices when a clearly 18 or 19 year old girl starts chatting a 10+ years older man up, or I grab them for a bit. I'm considering just owning it and being as friendly as possible to everyone to stay off their bad sides. It's a tricky situation.

(11-15-2014 01:27 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  ^where are you? seems like there is a plethora of hot girls

I'm located in Southern California.

(11-15-2014 01:36 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-15-2014 01:27 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  ^where are you? seems like there is a plethora of hot girls

I'm located in Southern California.

So its true what they say about Cali?

edit: I'm going to pm you

No bang, but I'm satisfied as I had to approach in a nightclub which is not my favourite venue.
A very dear friend of mine invites me to a nightclub
I was tipsy already ,drank about 8 beers in the parking lot while listenning to some chillout ,lounge music.
As soon as I walk in , I see 2 chick sitting in the bar . I pretend that I don't have a lighter, walk up to them and open one chick.It turns out that one of these girls I spoke to her already was attracted to me and I lost her number .

Me: Do you like this music
her: A little bit
Me : What's your favourite music then
Her: Deep purple bla bla bla. We met already I guess
Me : I don't know maybe . What's your name ? (No pedestal ,although her face was a bit familiar)
Her: Nothing
Me :(With supreme unshakeable confidence) nice to meet you nothing (pulling her hand) my name is X . I'm sitting at that table ,come have a drink.
Cockblock comes in, between the two of us , she hugs him , definitely a beta provider friend.
30 seconds after , I had to use the ashtray , without giving a single fuck I interrupt them and stretch my arm reaching for the ashtray.
The girl was surprised that the cockblock didn't have the slightest effect on me .
I vanish , and hit the dancefloor

After a while I return, and go walk up to her.
Me: Can you dance to this song
Her : Not really my style
Me: I can teach you
Her: (Smiling)


I pull her from her another female friend who showed up and take her to my table.
* "Fucked up shit":My drunk friend whispers something fucked up to her and she decides to go back to the bar .
After seeing the scene , I grab her arm at the last moment and tell her not to worry about my friend he's wasted.

She ends up sitting with me , and asks me a few questions which I overcomed with indirect answers while being aloof.

I felt that the conversation was heading nowhere and starts escalating rightaway . I caress her hair and go for the kiss , she accepts and we make out quite wildly . She grabs my phone and write down her number as she had to leave early for tonight.

Long story short . I came up with these conclusions.
- Be comfortable with who you are
- Stay aloof and adopt a supreme and unshakeable frame.
- Don't respond directly ,use your imagination.
- Manifest your sexual desire
-Look at girls in their fucking eyes , it kills them.

Meet with a girl from okc tonight at the club

She seems crazy and bit my lip so hard it bled. I'm scared.

Hope i make it till the morning.

Of the last 5 girls I went to have drinks with, all had divorced parents and only one showed up wearing something nice and feminine (dress) but she had lame stick and poke tattoos. The other 4 weren't particularly nice or interesting. I'm starting to think that women with divorced parents are inherently broken.

Last night at a bar, a girl I know comes up to me and says "that blonde girl over there really hates you". I asked why, because I hardly knew the girl. Therefore, I approach the hot blonde who apparently hates me to get the scoop on what I did wrong. Apparently, I fucked her the previous night when I was blackout drunk and promised to text her in the AM. I never did, because I didn't even remember having sex with her. In the end, it's cool that I fucked this hot blonde, but I don't even remember enjoying the sex. Oh well, another notch.

Went out of a town on a whim for my main HB 8's bday, headed to a nice coastal city, had drinks, I watched hockey, checked out military stuff, drank the entire time, then winged it to a punk rock show, got completely shitfaced, and we got lost in a city, while Uber was fucking up.

Came back yesterday, just napped, watched a movie, and slept, great lazy day to recover.

I hit up potential lays, dating app leads, and some plates. I've gotten radio silence from ALL of them, funny how a few days of silence can kill your game or they can move on.

Oh well, I don't regret this weekend one bit, it's strange me and the main HB 8 had a convo yesterday realizing we've never had an argument or fight in the past 10 months we've been together.

(I'd never tell her this, but the other girls I've banged more than likely kept my head on straight with her).

Funny how it works out like that.

Of course it helps

Takes the edge off a bit & keeps you in a composed, logical frame of mind

Nothing like outside pussy to help keep your perspective straight, and keep the stench of neediness from creeping in with your main squeeze

(11-18-2014 03:47 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Of course it helps

Takes the edge off a bit & keeps you in a composed, logical frame of mind

Nothing like outside pussy to help keep your perspective straight, and keep the stench of neediness from creeping in with your main squeeze

Exactly, this was even the first time I've bought her flowers.

But she seemed to genuinely enjoy every little bit of this weekend.

I do have feelings for her, she's the closest girl I have an emotional connection to, but not in a pedastalized way, I do care for her.

But I'm not one to be needy and neither is she, yet we appreciate the time we have together and pay for each other.

This is what happens when you don't go for the bang on the first date.

I went on a date with a girl a month ago, didn't go for the bang just fingered her and now its impossible to get this girl out and it's frustrating. She flaked once so I stopped talking to her, she reintiated texts and we set up plans, flaked again. What the fuck is up with women. i've been chill about it.

Anyone have tips for how to get her out? She replies to my txts but seems disinterested.

I'm going to fuck this girl so rough if we come out.

She's flaked on you twice dude, I'd next her.
Or at least double book the next time you set a date in case she flakes for a 3rd time.

I just realized that the caliber of guys around you matters a lot. I usually hang out with better-looking fraternity guys with more game than I have and as a result, i don't pull that much.

Last night, however, I was at an event where I was the only person involved in a Greek organization. Some of the girls there were stunners but none of the other guys had an ounce of game. Soon enough, I was the center of attention, surrounded by several girls and guys who were trying to orbit. This is something I haven't experienced before and made me think.

If you hang out with guys with tight game, you become just one of many for any hot girl to check out. If you hang out with losers, you don't get access to high-quality women. But if you build yourself, you will attract women when by yourself and in novel situations.

I also need to make a gameplan for getting more involved with random mixers and networking events so I can work my magic with the 'invisible good-girls' (not sorority sluts who everyone sees and who get new dick every weekend). Any tips would be appreciated.

And I forgot, +1.

Edit: Realized I need to find girls who don't go out every weekend. Most girls I know are party girls and I need to find the 'good ones'. (I know red pill ideology says no girls are good but you know I mean women who are more traditional or women who don't go to bars and get sloshed.)

Just came back from a girl-spree,

Wednesday morning, head to Bangkok for a date at her place, get the bang, say that I have a "business" meeting at 2 PM and leave to the next date, with whom I spend the night, telling her that I need to work at 11 AM. 2nd notch, head to my rendezvous for my 3rd date on Thursday morning, get the bang in the afternoon, had dinner with her, and just came back to my pad, exhausted.

Perfect synchronization.

^xpatplayer in just about any situation except with a benevolent wingman that is either your exact equivalent in looks and game or just barely below you will always shine brighter alone.

The only caveat is if you are king of the social circle. Meaning in the Greek situation you'd have to be the president of a frat and have these better looking guys defer to you. Plus if you were Pres. of the frat you probably have tighter game than all of them at that point.

(11-18-2014 05:21 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  This is what happens when you don't go for the bang on the first date.

I went on a date with a girl a month ago, didn't go for the bang just fingered her and now its impossible to get this girl out and it's frustrating. She flaked once so I stopped talking to her, she reintiated texts and we set up plans, flaked again. What the fuck is up with women. i've been chill about it.

Anyone have tips for how to get her out? She replies to my txts but seems disinterested.

I'm going to fuck this girl so rough if we come out.

Valhalla,

Similar shit is happening to me right now.

I have a few girls under my rotation and I recently met a girl which she is doing/acting the same way as yours. We met through Tinder on a Wednesday night and because we are so close by we decided to meet up on the same day. A Couple friend were with her and it went smooth, we had to pretend we knew each other for years...

Two days later, invited her to my apartment to have drinks and we kissed and things got intense. We left my place & went to the leather.
This is the part that might be bothering her. She wasn't feeling well and she had to make herself puke. Like, stop the car & puke. I would say she had way too many drinks and she smokes.


After the puke event, she apologized through text messages and I said everything is OK, nothing to worry about, shit happens.

She replies to my texts but seems disinterested. I'm going to ask her out straight up and see how it goes...

(11-19-2014 12:33 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  ^xpatplayer in just about any situation except with a benevolent wingman that is either your exact equivalent in looks and game or just barely below you will always shine brighter alone.

The only caveat is if you are king of the social circle. Meaning in the Greek situation you'd have to be the president of a frat and have these better looking guys defer to you. Plus if you were Pres. of the frat you probably have tighter game than all of them at that point.

I agree. Problem with fraternities is that there will always be someone who can AMOG you. Also, its usually a bunch of cool good-looking guys getting together and hosting parties. So you always have competition. Also, presidents of fraternities are usually the best administrators, not the most social guys. The guys at the top of the social ladder usually don't hold any offices.

I've also realized that most of the beautiful feminine girls are not in the Greek system. Although sororities on an average have better looking girls, the emphasis on partying and blatant incentivizing of hookup culture kills every ounce of femininity by the end of freshman year.

I also meet a lot of girls through my fraternity. But since they're usually party girls who probably are already getting dicked by at least 1 or 2 guys, I don't convert as many of these as I would otherwise.

Girls who don't party at college are an unexplored goldmine. True, there's a lot of dirt. But the number of little gold nuggets all over the place is mind-blowing.

When it comes to social circle game, I think being the alpha of the group is important. But more so is being in a group of alphas. So while you won't get laid as much as the frattiest kid in the group, its important to be in a group of cool guys if you want to meet a lot of girls.

Ultimately, I played stranger at a formal party/ networking game. That seems to be a strong-suite of mine and I will try and find more situations where I can work my magic.

(11-19-2014 01:53 PM)xpatplayer Wrote:  Ultimately, I played stranger at a formal party/ networking game. That seems to be a strong-suite of mine and I will try and find more situations where I can work my magic.

Of course you're going to do better in a situation where you're the best option available, but this shouldn't discourage you from gaming when you're around your frat guys. If anything it's a golden opportunity to learn from them and see what can improve your game in such a challenging situation.

If you can do well within that environment, it'll be like shooting fish in a barrel when you're out of that environment because you'll have to learn to game EVERYONE in the frat environment.

Further, you have to realize that many, many, many girls go to parties/social events thrown by the frat system. Sure, if the girls are in a sorority they're much more likely to be sluts, but not only sorority girls go to parties.

The great thing is that you can play down the frat thing to good girls you meet and play it up to the sorority girls if you want to bang them.

Overheard on the elevator:
"I wish Tinder had a swipe up or down for 'Not interested in you but I can meet you cute friend in your picture?'"

Bitches be cray

(11-20-2014 02:32 PM)wandenreich Wrote:  Overheard on the elevator:
"I wish Tinder had a swipe up or down for 'Not interested in you but I can meet you cute friend in your picture?'"

Bitches be cray

Hey I wish I could meet the hotter friend in a Tinder Girl pics.

I get pissed when it's group pictures and I've gotta figure out which one she is.

95% of the time it always the uglier girl. They always camouflage themselves with cuter girls, pisses me off.

Running Tuthmosis First Date Bang Recipe last night and it worked quite well despite me not executing flawlessly.
However could not get the bang. Lots of LMR and I was slowly working through it but would not let me below the waist. Quite annoying.
She was texting me all morning but I'm nexting her, she isn't good looking enough to bother wasting more time on.

(11-21-2014 03:22 AM)Roardog Wrote:  Running Tuthmosis First Date Bang Recipe last night and it worked quite well despite me not executing flawlessly.
However could not get the bang. Lots of LMR and I was slowly working through it but would not let me below the waist. Quite annoying.
She was texting me all morning but I'm nexting her, she isn't good looking enough to bother wasting more time on.

I think you could be letting your pride talk here. It really is impossible to achieve 1st night bangs 100% of the time. It's part of the game; things would get very boring, very quickly if it works every time.

Just arrange another date at your house, tell her you're cooking her dinner or some shit.

Choose a night you would otherwise be doing nothing. I think she'll be down.

I swear there's something funny about luck in game.

Bang either come in streaks or it's dry spell. And the bang streak always comes when you have a shit ton of work to do.

(11-21-2014 12:43 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  I swear there's something funny about luck in game.

Bang either come in streaks or it's dry spell. And the bang streak always comes when you have a shit ton of work to do.

In the wise words of Kanye West:

Quote:I don't know what's better, getting laid or getting paid
I just know when I'm getting one, the other's getting away