Post: #451

(10-13-2014 09:48 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(10-13-2014 05:58 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Met up with a black chick

Killing time between meeting up with another girl who was buying me a bday lunch

3 shit tests, discovery that she was 4 years older, a 10 minute animated diatribe about her independence, wealth and black male shaming later I was reminded why I rarely seek them out anymore

As we were leaving - she tells me that burden of earning her (wining and dining) was now on me.

The nerve of these delusional broads

Lemme guess. Was she under an 8? Like a 6 or a 5? Does she make like 65-75,000 a year, thinks she got "muney", and drives a slightly older BMW or Benz? Maybe an Acura or a Jaguar? Did she flash her keyfob at you? She flash her handbag around? Did she scratch at her hair with one finger out like Cruela Deville?

Actually although she had a slim body her face upon further inspection was a 6, your salary guess was probably close, and she wasn't even pushing an Ac - it was a damn Honda Accord.

Oh yeah - her weave was crooked LOL

Post: #452

You should have called her a basic bitch. Typical. My brother used to say shit like, bitch you basic, get the fuck out my face. Lol

Post: #453

Bruh ain't that the truth - it is sad that we could paint the same picture of the same image being in completely different areas

Must be something to that that speaks to a bigger problem

There's this mass exodus for a lot of educated black men, can't blame us

Post: #454

The exodus is not mass. Not yet at least. Growing faster than other groups of guys proportional wise. Most black men are still beta and loyal to the death, I hate to say.

Alot of it is getting over the liberal Democrats lies and racebait. They feel more comfortable with a black woman because they feel all white men are out to get them. Allying with black women is not any better than marrying a white woman or other. There is also an information gap that must be overcome as well. Many have no idea that they can get hot Asian women and wives like I did. That's alot of my mission of writing in the manosphere. I hope to reach the brothers and arm them with information so that they don't have to reinvent the wheel or struggle with racism and the lies of guys with WGF game.

Post: #455

(10-14-2014 08:27 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  The exodus is not mass. Not yet at least. Growing faster than other groups of guys proportional wise. Most black men are still beta and loyal to the death, I hate to say.

Alot of it is getting over the liberal Democrats lies and racebait. They feel more comfortable with a black woman because they feel all white men are out to get them. Allying with black women is not any better than marrying a white woman or other. There is also an information gap that must be overcome as well. Many have no idea that they can get hot Asian women and wives like I did. That's alot of my mission of writing in the manosphere. I hope to reach the brothers and arm them with information so that they don't have to reinvent the wheel or struggle with racism and the lies of guys with WGF game.

I discovered these boards late in the game. Wish RVF was around when I was in college; would've used my whole time there doing nothing but studying, stacking paper, and traveling instead of wasting my time and money listening to family, trying to be a cool fratboy and figuring these American women out. Now I'm contracturally married to the U.S Government for work until 2020 when I'll be 35. I'm using that time to stack paper now and travel; I'm heading to Bolivia in December for a week with my landlord who is from there, who invited me on a whim (And foreign women for the win...again) and then hopefully make the plunge when I do hit 35. New Zealand has a work-visa program in which I'm looking into, or travel to Bahrain with the Coast Guard (its not what many people think; a lot of Coasties actually picked up wives from there and everybody has nothing but good things to say about the place).

I've seen what difference it makes leaving the U.S. Me and my roommate last spring was supposed to go to Vegas but that fell through. So we instead did the cheaper option and went on a ski trip to Vancouver (I lived in Seattle at the time). The reception I got from the Canadian women was nothing short of phenominal. Women offering to be my wives, approaching me out of the blue, etc. I know its still the Anglosphere but where did ya'll think feminism start spreading first? America.

If I had a brother, I'd give him the same advice you give all of us.

Post: #456

I met a bunch of Katrina refugees that wound up in Canada and layed a bunch of girls there. They said the place was like a paradise where they could smoke weed, fuck, and be around super friendly people. I hear all kinds of strange reports about Canada. Black dudes seem to like it though.

Post: #457

Back in the 1990's, I remember reading an article in REASON by (I think) Thomas Hazlett. He was talking to a cab driver who had come to America from Africa. The cab driver seemed to like America, but he was also "going back home" to find a wife.

I wonder if there's anything similar about African American men going to African countries.

Post: #458

Maybe it's time to dust off the passport

Post: #459

Hey, do you guys have any advice for a 26 year old black guy who lives in the St. louis area? I have only dated black women and I can't seem to find a decent one. I'm open to other races, but I like curvy women not fat. The black women are either too ghetto or too stuck up. The ones with degrees don't make much money and still conduct themselves like they are uncivilized. I'm starting to think there are no good black women left.

Post: #460

(11-10-2014 01:30 AM)rome26 Wrote:  Hey, do you guys have any advice for a 26 year old black guy who lives in the St. louis area? I have only dated black women and I can't seem to find a decent one. I'm open to other races, but I like curvy women not fat. The black women are either too ghetto or too stuck up. The ones with degrees don't make much money and still conduct themselves like they are uncivilized. I'm starting to think there are no good black women left.

Move. St. Louis is one of the worst places on planet earth to meet women of any race. For black women, it's even worse. I think it makes D.C. look good, and that's saying something.

Post: #461

(11-10-2014 03:15 AM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(11-10-2014 01:30 AM)rome26 Wrote:  Hey, do you guys have any advice for a 26 year old black guy who lives in the St. louis area? I have only dated black women and I can't seem to find a decent one. I'm open to other races, but I like curvy women not fat. The black women are either too ghetto or too stuck up. The ones with degrees don't make much money and still conduct themselves like they are uncivilized. I'm starting to think there are no good black women left.

Move. St. Louis is one of the worst places on planet earth to meet women of any race. For black women, it's even worse. I think it makes D.C. look good, and that's saying something.

Second. Chicago is just a few hours away but a world apart. I've had the same problem in Baltimore.

Post: #462

You should try to set up some dates with women in Chicago or other places and take a plane one weekend and meet up with them. Do it now before the winter kicks in full steam and fucks up all the Ohare flights.

If you were really smart you would go to Mexico, Central America, or South America... You could fly to Mexico for a short stay and still get some action if you use the datasheets here and plan it out a little bit, then fly back to your job after I dunno a week or two. That way you can figure out if you like traveling as opposed to move within the US for dating.

Mix it up. You never know what will work for you.

Post: #463

25 year old brotha in Austin TX checkin in.

Always was attracted to light skin feminine girls.

Post: #464

(11-10-2014 01:17 PM)HBG Wrote:  25 year old brotha in Austin TX checkin in.

Always was attracted to light skin feminine girls.

Do you say that for physical reasons or for cultural reasons?

Or do you say that in part because you achieve more exotic value with them?

I personally like to game and to date women interracially because of some of the exotic value that comes both to me and to them because of the difference.. in other words it takes a little longer to get bored - even though sometimes it can be a little bit irritating if there are some cultural characteristics of girls of some races that are a bit irritating... So in that regard, sometimes I end up giving up on gaming some of the black girls because sometimes they seem to become more difficult to manage for me, and most of the time, I do NOT want to have to work as hard as they seem to (coincidence or NOT) require that I work to attempt to game them.

Post: #465

(11-10-2014 03:03 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(11-10-2014 01:17 PM)HBG Wrote:  25 year old brotha in Austin TX checkin in.

Always was attracted to light skin feminine girls.

Do you say that for physical reasons or for cultural reasons?

Or do you say that in part because you achieve more exotic value with them?

I personally like to game and to date women interracially because of some of the exotic value that comes both to me and to them because of the difference.. in other words it takes a little longer to get bored - even though sometimes it can be a little bit irritating if there are some cultural characteristics of girls of some races that are a bit irritating... So in that regard, sometimes I end up giving up on gaming some of the black girls because sometimes they seem to become more difficult to manage for me, and most of the time, I do NOT want to have to work as hard as they seem to (coincidence or NOT) require that I work to attempt to game them.

I belive that the girls you grow up with or around are the girls you end up digging. Honestly, I've been attracted to a fair few black girls, but they seemed so resolute / apart from the social circles I was kicking it with. Except for a few instances.

I just have a much stronger attraction to white / latina girls

Post: #466

I'm new to all this game stuff. Where do I start? Do I have to game races of other women differently because I'm a dark skinned black male?

Post: #467

Dating black women is hard to do when they shame you all the time how they don't need you. Black women is the main reason black families are being destroyed in america. You have to be a thug, dress nice, have lots of money, no morals, abusive, listen to only rap, into drugs, massive shit test hourly, and a lot of unnecessary drama. That's why a lot of black men have game because all the shit we have to say or do just to fuck these women. I'm done with them.

Post: #468

(11-12-2014 06:34 AM)rome26 Wrote:  I'm new to all this game stuff. Where do I start? Do I have to game races of other women differently because I'm a dark skinned black male?

1. /forum-20.html

2. It depends. Location, their race, culture, ethnicity, will be factors involved. Learn the basics in the Game and Newbie subforum first. Read as much as you can before trying to post. Alot of what you want to know has already been asked before. Use the search feature.

3. Welcome to RVF!

Post: #469

(11-12-2014 07:59 AM)Zero Wrote:  Dating black women is hard to do when they shame you all the time how they don't need you. Black women is the main reason black families are being destroyed in america. You have to be a thug, dress nice, have lots of money, no morals, abusive, listen to only rap, into drugs, massive shit test hourly, and a lot of unnecessary drama. That's why a lot of black men have game because all the shit we have to say or do just to fuck these women. I'm done with them.

You know I was in the car thinking last week about the last black woman I tried to date. Keep in mind I wasn't redpill yet.

A single mom, 30, super hot, flirted with me alot at work, very smart and down to earth, she was not ghetto but SoHo/Afrocentric, everyone knew she flirted with me alot, she was hanging off my arms at a company party even, we talked all the time, etc. I was about to leave the company, so I asked her if she would like to watch a UFC match sometime (she liked MMA alot). She shot me down super quickly. She said she could not date me because of her son as well (Her son liked me well enough I thought, only met him a few times). My other coworkers were very shocked and speechless. I wasn't trippin though, I had some white gal in the back pocket. Just thought I would give one more black lady a shot.

About 5 months later, I see on Facebook she is seriously dating a flaming gay black co-worker, who once tried to invite me to a DL gay orgy party (he's from A town), and he is a choir director for a church as well. Nice guy, but talks too flirty around me and sometimes I would have to give him that stare down like "If you touch me, I'll break you in half."

When I saw that I wasn't even mad. I was dating Chinese women and all that did was make me chuckle and shake my head a little.

I got a million of these kinds of stories. You can't work nothing out with women like this, especially a single mother. Just keep it moving...

Post: #470

(11-12-2014 08:05 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(11-12-2014 06:34 AM)rome26 Wrote:  I'm new to all this game stuff. Where do I start? Do I have to game races of other women differently because I'm a dark skinned black male?

1. /forum-20.html

2. It depends. Location, their race, culture, ethnicity, will be factors involved. Learn the basics in the Game and Newbie subforum first. Read as much as you can before trying to post. Alot of what you want to know has already been asked before. Use the search feature.

3. Welcome to RVF!

To add to this post, don't get discouraged. You have to work TWICE as hard for a woman as other men do in the U.S. You will get shit tested more, flaked on more, played more, all while seeing you uber-beta nerd white friend with no game with more pussy than he can handle. Realize as an upstanding black man you are a threat to America's racial power structure, so it's not you, its them. Girls have all of this shit internalized, believe it although they will not come forth and say it.

With that being said, please do not take this post as an excuse. You, or any black guy can do it, just trust that the road will be bumpy and you'll have better game for it.

Post: #471

(11-12-2014 08:23 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(11-12-2014 07:59 AM)Zero Wrote:  Dating black women is hard to do when they shame you all the time how they don't need you. Black women is the main reason black families are being destroyed in america. You have to be a thug, dress nice, have lots of money, no morals, abusive, listen to only rap, into drugs, massive shit test hourly, and a lot of unnecessary drama. That's why a lot of black men have game because all the shit we have to say or do just to fuck these women. I'm done with them.

You know I was in the car thinking last week about the last black woman I tried to date. Keep in mind I wasn't redpill yet.

A single mom, 30, super hot, flirted with me alot at work, very smart and down to earth, she was not ghetto but SoHo/Afrocentric, everyone knew she flirted with me alot, she was hanging off my arms at a company party even, we talked all the time, etc. I was about to leave the company, so I asked her if she would like to watch a UFC match sometime (she liked MMA alot). She shot me down super quickly. She said she could not date me because of her son as well (Her son liked me well enough I thought, only met him a few times). My other coworkers were very shocked and speechless. I wasn't trippin though, I had some white gal in the back pocket. Just thought I would give one more black lady a shot.

About 5 months later, I see on Facebook she is seriously dating a flaming gay black co-worker, who once tried to invite me to a DL gay orgy party (he's from A town), and he is a choir director for a church as well. Nice guy, but talks too flirty around me and sometimes I would have to give him that stare down like "If you touch me, I'll break you in half."

When I saw that I wasn't even mad. I was dating Chinese women and all that did was make me chuckle and shake my head a little.

I got a million of these kinds of stories. You can't work nothing out with women like this, especially a single mother. Just keep it moving...

This has happened to me several times. I have given up on single mothers for good unless its a SNL (not to mention my ideological opposition to their lifestyle). The one good thing about DC is that you can find many good looking, albeit careerist, black women who are not single mothers. Many of them marry late but you'll still have to work to get them.

Post: #472

I have to disagree with working twice as hard. get in good shape and dress well, and white women will sometimes give you active iois. its kinda either they are in from the jump or they're out.
I agree the potential pool to date outside tour race us usually smaller though.

Post: #473

Single black moms I've encounter as of late have multiple kids (we are talking 3-5) and while they still may be clinging to some attractiveness, usually they have an over inflated idea of their value to me

I kindly next them

If anything, they should be breaking their necks to accommodate a single black man, who nurtures his kids, attempts to better himself and who hasn't had as much as a traffic ticket in the last 11 years

Post: #474

(11-12-2014 09:30 AM)HBG Wrote:  I have to disagree with working twice as hard. get in good shape and dress well, and white women will sometimes give you active iois. its kinda either they are in from the jump or they're out.
I agree the potential pool to date outside tour race us usually smaller though.

There are at least 4x more white people than black people in America.
If anything, the pool is much much larger.
And given how "forgiving" black guys are about physical imperfection, the market is wide open.

I can't throw a rock and not hit a white woman.

WIA

Post: #475

(11-12-2014 09:30 AM)HBG Wrote:  I have to disagree with working twice as hard. get in good shape and dress well, and white women will sometimes give you active iois. its kinda either they are in from the jump or they're out.
I agree the potential pool to date outside tour race us usually smaller though.

It depends on what part of the US you are in. It's mad easy for brothers to get play on the West Coast. I've gotten notches from Los Angeles up to Seattle. Seattle is like a paradise for black men who want to date interracially. Never had problems getting any over there.