(08-01-2014 01:08 PM)bullocks Wrote:  Some cute chick offered to drive to me but wanted to go out for coffee and wouldnt come to my place the first time we meet *sigh*.

She seemed cool, i have to work tonight so kinda used that as an excuse even tho i prolly wouldnt chill anyways. Coffee dates are the worst.

I'm assuming she isn't 18/19 and you can't grab a drink with her ? I'd deflect and say you don't/can't drink coffee and counter for something a bit more fun

(08-01-2014 01:15 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:08 PM)bullocks Wrote:  Some cute chick offered to drive to me but wanted to go out for coffee and wouldnt come to my place the first time we meet *sigh*.

She seemed cool, i have to work tonight so kinda used that as an excuse even tho i prolly wouldnt chill anyways. Coffee dates are the worst.

I'm assuming she isn't 18/19 and you can't grab a drink with her ? I'd deflect and say you don't/can't drink coffee and counter for something a bit more fun

Yeah i said i dont drink coffee but offered to make her a pot at my place and she seemed into it but then said "your cute but i wont come in ur place first time we meet"...which is retarded because my opener of watching netflix she said she was down for. Doubt she wanted to drink if she was driving.

(08-01-2014 01:25 PM)bullocks Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:15 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:08 PM)bullocks Wrote:  Some cute chick offered to drive to me but wanted to go out for coffee and wouldnt come to my place the first time we meet *sigh*.

She seemed cool, i have to work tonight so kinda used that as an excuse even tho i prolly wouldnt chill anyways. Coffee dates are the worst.

I'm assuming she isn't 18/19 and you can't grab a drink with her ? I'd deflect and say you don't/can't drink coffee and counter for something a bit more fun

Yeah i said i dont drink coffee but offered to make her a pot at my place and she seemed into it but then said "your cute but i wont come in ur place first time we meet"...which is retarded because my opener of watching netflix she said she was down for. Doubt she wanted to drink if she was driving.

I had a girl who was down to come over to my house, then changed her mind, then was down to meet me outside my house, then changed her mind, then was down to meet me at a TGIF down the street, then I changed my mind and we met across from TGIF at a bench by a man made lake.

I built comfort in person then we bounced to my pad and fucked within 30 minutes.

You're "scaring the cat" so to speak. Just meet her near your place, build up comfort and bounce back to your place.

Some girls jump the gun and say they're down, then when its time to put the money(dick) where their mouth is, they chicken out. This is where building comfort comes in, just go with the flow my dude.

(08-01-2014 01:49 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:25 PM)bullocks Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:15 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:08 PM)bullocks Wrote:  Some cute chick offered to drive to me but wanted to go out for coffee and wouldnt come to my place the first time we meet *sigh*.

She seemed cool, i have to work tonight so kinda used that as an excuse even tho i prolly wouldnt chill anyways. Coffee dates are the worst.

I'm assuming she isn't 18/19 and you can't grab a drink with her ? I'd deflect and say you don't/can't drink coffee and counter for something a bit more fun

Yeah i said i dont drink coffee but offered to make her a pot at my place and she seemed into it but then said "your cute but i wont come in ur place first time we meet"...which is retarded because my opener of watching netflix she said she was down for. Doubt she wanted to drink if she was driving.

I had a girl who was down to come over to my house, then changed her mind, then was down to meet me outside my house, then changed her mind, then was down to meet me at a TGIF down the street, then I changed my mind and we met across from TGIF at a bench by a man made lake.

I built comfort in person then we bounced to my pad and fucked within 30 minutes.

You're "scaring the cat" so to speak. Just meet her near your place, build up comfort and bounce back to your place.

Some girls jump the gun and say they're down, then when its time to put the money(dick) where their mouth is, they chicken out. This is where building comfort comes in, just go with the flow my dude.

IDK this chick seemed pretty against it and coffee dates in the past for me have failed. Cant rly even start anything because your sitting inside a starbucks or something lool

This is how 80% of my convos go:




Basically, open with some sort of outdoor activaity or netflix - girl picks netflix
Says im cute
Flirts a bit
When trying to make plans they have something in the way
3 days later lose contact or give up

Off to work i go on a friday night cuz i suck

(08-01-2014 05:31 PM)bullocks Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:49 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:25 PM)bullocks Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:15 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 01:08 PM)bullocks Wrote:  Some cute chick offered to drive to me but wanted to go out for coffee and wouldnt come to my place the first time we meet *sigh*.

She seemed cool, i have to work tonight so kinda used that as an excuse even tho i prolly wouldnt chill anyways. Coffee dates are the worst.

I'm assuming she isn't 18/19 and you can't grab a drink with her ? I'd deflect and say you don't/can't drink coffee and counter for something a bit more fun

Yeah i said i dont drink coffee but offered to make her a pot at my place and she seemed into it but then said "your cute but i wont come in ur place first time we meet"...which is retarded because my opener of watching netflix she said she was down for. Doubt she wanted to drink if she was driving.

I had a girl who was down to come over to my house, then changed her mind, then was down to meet me outside my house, then changed her mind, then was down to meet me at a TGIF down the street, then I changed my mind and we met across from TGIF at a bench by a man made lake.

I built comfort in person then we bounced to my pad and fucked within 30 minutes.

You're "scaring the cat" so to speak. Just meet her near your place, build up comfort and bounce back to your place.

Some girls jump the gun and say they're down, then when its time to put the money(dick) where their mouth is, they chicken out. This is where building comfort comes in, just go with the flow my dude.

IDK this chick seemed pretty against it and coffee dates in the past for me have failed. Cant rly even start anything because your sitting inside a starbucks or something lool

Eh if she isn't that hot and you've got plenty of other options I'd just next her.

If you're curious just meet her somewhere other than a coffee joint. Bang her the second time around.

(08-01-2014 12:14 PM)soup Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 12:10 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 11:19 AM)soup Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 07:34 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 02:43 AM)soup Wrote:  This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

Soup, would you mind explaining a little more? I agree in terms of tons of girls share the same personality, culture, etc. Is this what you mean?

When you are dealing with a lot of girls at once, you notice trends in their behavior that they pretty much all follow. I think this is true for most guys as well. We all have our mechanical qualities.. like animals.

The liker app just let's me resonate with more of these girls who are the same, much faster.. it's like having a megaphone in a crowded room- it's definitely a score for guys because we don't have to give any of our attention to a particular girl until she's shown us some interest.

Without it, you are still giving attention to a lot of girls, including many that do not deserve it (the "nope"s and girls who won't reciprocate your interest). I think this can affect someone on a subconscious level- like on the inner game level.

Tinder Liker corrects that problem- the same amount of time and attention you would have given to one girl now gets multiplied to 30-50.

It's the digital version of going to a bar with a good ratio of girls to guys instead of going to a sausage fest.

Agreed, I'd like to compare OKC vs. Tinder (to describe your explanation)

OKC - you have to reach out to multiple girls, constantly get dead leads, even if you do get some interest it can go dead, and you don't know off the bat if they're interested.

Tinder - you only get matched with people that are interested in you, eliminates the guess work, your job is to farm numbers from as many interested girls as possible. It takes less time and higher probably of a bang.

I literally have had a handful of bangs from OKC versus 17+ and counting from Tinder.

I used to think OKC was better than Tinder when Tinder first got going because it had more comfort built into it.

Now that Tinder has been around for a while, it's gained more comfort amongst girls.


Hmmm.. Tinder seems to be having trouble connecting for me. Anyone else have that problem right now? Anyone else who is using Tinder Liker encounter any login problems with Tinder?

Thanks for the explanations, Soup and K, much appreciated.

Tinder Liker always exits out of the app after 1-2 clicks. It's pretty freaking cool though. If only they had that to help me find my people on JSwipe

Yeah auto liker app is buggy as hell.

I'm gonna restart my tinder pro again and leave it on like 12 miles I got tons from like 20-30 it's tempting but rarely leads to anything

I'm really curious about the looks of the bullocks lol, an orlando bloom clone or something

This girl I'm out with always asks me if I date people from Tinder. I was her first online date and she wants to know if I take lots of girls to the same spots and make out with them. I say, "I'm not going to say yes or no" and discuss how privacy is part of my moral code, and I'd show her the same respect. Is that the best response to this question? I can't make too much of a joke out of it because it will probably turn her off.

I would have agreed and amplify. "Yeah, you're my 100th date this week." with a smirk.

But your response isn't so bad. What matters is that you didn't say no. It would've lowered your value in her eyes.

How would you have responded to this? I know most dudes would have probably responded with some cringeworthy reciprocation, but I think I did alright.

Thanks, Game_Ethic. I said something like that but she always wanted me to revert back to a serious answer. Insecure?

And Hans Dix, that's fucking funny.

Hans, this girl must be back in the States and out of Germany? European girls simply do not speak like this (sadly).

Great response. I always write formally (no "idk" for example) but I guess that just suits the lawyer game I spit and always make sure to big up.

I had a hilarious Tinder date last night but I almost feel like some of my recent Tinder encounters deserve a proper thread.

When I have more time I'll post it up.

@hank yeah I'm back in America. Fortunately these girls are my bread & butter.

If there was a place where women have the American girl sexual attitude with the attractiveness of German girls I would buy a one way ticket. That's my poosy paradise

(08-02-2014 07:22 AM)Renberg Wrote:  This girl I'm out with always asks me if I date people from Tinder. I was her first online date and she wants to know if I take lots of girls to the same spots and make out with them. I say, "I'm not going to say yes or no" and discuss how privacy is part of my moral code, and I'd show her the same respect. Is that the best response to this question? I can't make too much of a joke out of it because it will probably turn her off.

I like to keep it ambiguous. My go to line is "A few, but you probably do this all the time."

Tinder girls have rotations. Second bang with this tall nymph girl. We have a mutual agreement to meet on a specific day of the week because it works for both of our "schedules"

Not sure how I feel being part of a rotation, but I enjoy banging her out. Is that beta?

(08-02-2014 04:29 PM)ADarkerNight Wrote:  

(08-02-2014 07:22 AM)Renberg Wrote:  This girl I'm out with always asks me if I date people from Tinder. I was her first online date and she wants to know if I take lots of girls to the same spots and make out with them. I say, "I'm not going to say yes or no" and discuss how privacy is part of my moral code, and I'd show her the same respect. Is that the best response to this question? I can't make too much of a joke out of it because it will probably turn her off.

I like to keep it ambiguous. My go to line is "A few, but you probably do this all the time."

Tinder girls have rotations. Second bang with this tall nymph girl. We have a mutual agreement to meet on a specific day of the week because it works for both of our "schedules"

Not sure how I feel being part of a rotation, but I enjoy banging her out. Is that beta?

Sounds good to me, so long as you are setting the frame (and in this regard, you agreed to it). If the situation begins to evolve in such a way that she is redefining the arrangement terms... then you may NEED to reconsider your part in it... and possibly "Next" her... .hehehhe...

To me, your situation is similar to one that I frequently find myself in.. which is banging the wives... I don't ask the girl questions.... and just bang to my schedule... .. which is sometimes based on mutual agreement and juggling to make the time work.

EDIT: Actually, this situation of banging girls in other relationships and wives did NOT occur as much for me when I was in my 20s... but in my 30s and 40s (currently in my late 40s), the situation has become almost the norm.. more often then NOT.

(08-02-2014 06:01 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(08-02-2014 04:29 PM)ADarkerNight Wrote:  

(08-02-2014 07:22 AM)Renberg Wrote:  This girl I'm out with always asks me if I date people from Tinder. I was her first online date and she wants to know if I take lots of girls to the same spots and make out with them. I say, "I'm not going to say yes or no" and discuss how privacy is part of my moral code, and I'd show her the same respect. Is that the best response to this question? I can't make too much of a joke out of it because it will probably turn her off.

I like to keep it ambiguous. My go to line is "A few, but you probably do this all the time."

Tinder girls have rotations. Second bang with this tall nymph girl. We have a mutual agreement to meet on a specific day of the week because it works for both of our "schedules"

Not sure how I feel being part of a rotation, but I enjoy banging her out. Is that beta?

Sounds good to me, so long as you are setting the frame (and in this regard, you agreed to it). If the situation begins to evolve in such a way that she is redefining the arrangement terms... then you may NEED to reconsider your part in it... and possibly "Next" her... .hehehhe...

To me, your situation is similar to one that I frequently find myself in.. which is banging the wives... I don't ask the girl questions.... and just bang to my schedule... .. which is sometimes based on mutual agreement and juggling to make the time work.

EDIT: Actually, this situation of banging girls in other relationships and wives did NOT occur as much for me when I was in my 20s... but in my 30s and 40s (currently in my late 40s), the situation has become almost the norm.. more often then NOT.

Yeah for now I'll play along. I can already tell she will try and lead the interaction but I'll try and break her of that habit before I disappear (leaving the area in a few weeks).

Married girls or girls in relationships are less drama and more fun than any others! Maybe it is the thrill of the taboo, but I love these girls. They know their place, they don't try and push for too much other than sex, they get their emotional validation from another source, and love getting banged in dirty ways that they never get at home. Now to figure out how to screen for these girls on tinder.

Don't think this is that kind of girl though. She seems like the type that wants to be a player and have a new guy for each day of the week. Tinder is heaven for girls trying to be players! It takes one to know one. At least our values are aligned

So what's everyones best location they've used? I'm experimenting with a few things to see what gets the best results while using a script I wrote that auto swipes(i can swipe right on maybe 100 in about 15 sec).
Dallas was good while using a "match of the week" pic.

Landed my first Tinder bang, hopefully this a good omen as it was probably one of the easiest bangs I've ever had.

Got home around 2 o'clock, got a text that she's in town, I told her I'm not coming over there, but I'd consider coming over to her place. She gave me the address, I called a cab, grabbed a bottle of sparkling wine from the bar and went over. She was a bit nervous at first, instantly opening the bottle, but after around 30 minutes I told her that she needs to rub my shoulders and just went to the bedroom and laid on my stomach. She gave me a massage, which escalated rather fast and I met no LMR. Banged twice and left. Easy!

Go Tinder!

I used to hate Tinder until I changed my Profile pic to me in a suit. Now I get matches like nobody's business.

Also +1 to youngblood for the text tips. It truly is really about going along with the current vibe and not about relying on canned material. Going to disagree with him and tell newbies to assess the current situation and create your own lines. Creativity is a prerequisite for good game.

(08-03-2014 08:33 AM)xpatplayer Wrote:  I used to hate Tinder until I changed my Profile pic to me in a suit. Now I get matches like nobody's business.

Also +1 to youngblood for the text tips. It truly is really about going along with the current vibe and not about relying on canned material. Going to disagree with him and tell newbies to assess the current situation and create your own lines. Creativity is a prerequisite for good game.

Exactly, man. There's nothing that makes a date/experience more enjoyable for ME than creativity. It's always my goal to talk/act in a way that a girl has never heard before and will never hear again (except from me). Creativity makes you stand out. Embracing creativity allows you to improvise funny, sexual and effective lines.

(08-03-2014 08:44 AM)Renberg Wrote:  Exactly, man. There's nothing that makes a date/experience more enjoyable for ME than creativity. It's always my goal to talk/act in a way that a girl has never heard before and will never hear again (except from me). Creativity makes you stand out. Embracing creativity allows you to improvise funny, sexual and effective lines.

Couldn't have said it better my man. Personality is worth a hundred times as much as new pussy. You must develop it if you want to succeed with people in general.

One of the things I don't like about avenues for men to get laid (pickup, nightclubs, greek life, etc) is that men want to conform to a model which has been successful for somebody else. You will never get laid as much as you could unless you develop your own personality. I think that's what a good fraction of being a man is about.

Just deleted tinder and reactivated it. Just set it to 10 miles. Had tons of chicks down to chill recently but they all flopped after making plans or didnt respond when i asked what time they wanted to chill.

Hopefully i get better luck this time.

Hans Dix, I'm interested to hear how your convo about the "arched back" smoothed out?

Also guys, what's your method for not gaming -- but screwing -- girls who are under 21? Most of my matches range amidst the 18-22 bracket, and it's the 21-year-olds who I hook up with (since we can go to a bar and I can either kiss them there or move it to my car). The only time when I've hooked up with a U-21 Tinderer was when she and I drank beers on the beach that is 1+ hours from my house. I know that I can potentially rent a hotel/motel, but I'm on a college student budget so I'd much rather screw in my car.

I'm assuming the "best" way to bang a chick in this age bracket is to set up coffee/lunch one day and then secure the second for a meet-up (maybe a couple beers, a stroll around the park, etc.). Ideally, I'd want to meet up with a chick at a park, drink and hook up the first date.

But, lots of girls find meeting in private for the first date creepy...understandable. How can I not be a creep but increase my success rate with girls 18-20? Thanks, guys.