(07-31-2014 01:49 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Menta nailed it, I only open girls I match with when I want to fuck and have free time within 2 days. I'll swipe weekends as well.

Honestly 80% of the girls I banged off Tinder I met up with on weekdays. Weekends are for me to hangout with my boys and have fun.

But I think your post should be a sticky dude, we need to make a commandment or rules sticky thread.

I'm def struggling with weeknight dates. I'm still figuring out that aspect as that would be optimal.

(07-31-2014 01:54 PM)Chemistry Wrote:  

(07-31-2014 01:23 PM)bullocks Wrote:  One girl took a train and two buses which took 4 hours and then did it again 2 weeks later. That was good times...

Bullocks, you're in Toronto too if I recall. Did this girl come from Windsor or something??

My Tinder successes have all been long-game, never within a couple days of the match. Striking when the iron is hot has led to nothing but flakes for me, but I'm also matching with girls of a lower calibre you are.

My pics aren't optimized for quick sex either, I'm playing a much more provider-style game right now.

She came from oshawa which is only an hour but train/bus takes like 4. plus she missed out lol most of my meet ups are with-in a week.

Off topic the tinder liker app crashes alot on my iphone while liking the chicks.

(07-31-2014 02:20 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  

(07-31-2014 01:49 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Menta nailed it, I only open girls I match with when I want to fuck and have free time within 2 days. I'll swipe weekends as well.

Honestly 80% of the girls I banged off Tinder I met up with on weekdays. Weekends are for me to hangout with my boys and have fun.

But I think your post should be a sticky dude, we need to make a commandment or rules sticky thread.

I'm def struggling with weeknight dates. I'm still figuring out that aspect as that would be optimal.

Typically if I'm free during the week and I've already number closed a Tinder match, I build some comfort then ask what their "evening schedule" looks like. If they're free tonight or within 3 nights (max) then I setup a date, time, and location immediately. Always confirm the night before or the morning of and then it's game on from there. (flake rates do apply)

What's you guys' policy on distance bangs

I got this girl's number and the vibe is good. Bad news is she lives almost 40 miles north. Good news is it's all highway.

Do you make her drive to you, do you drive to them, or do you meet in the middle? I've only ever had local tinder bangs who were <5 miles away, so this is new to me.

(07-31-2014 03:54 PM)Hans Dix Wrote:  What's you guys' policy on distance bangs

I got this girl's number and the vibe is good. Bad news is she lives almost 40 miles north. Good news is it's all highway.

Do you make her drive to you, do you drive to them, or do you meet in the middle? I've only ever had local tinder bangs who were <5 miles away, so this is new to me.

Her driving to you - Win/Win - shows high IOI, SMV, and 75-90% chance of bang.

You driving to her - Win/Lose - shows you have IOI in her, could be found attractive, if you've sexted her enough and she knows the deal why you're driving out there (especially if she lives alone or no parents/roomates home) 50-75% chance of bang

You both meeting in the middle - Lose/Lose you both are driving, you both aren't close to home, you can't drink much (fuck a dui), 0-50% chance of bang, if you game her right, 2nd date would be almost a guaranteed 100% chance of bang. HOWEVER, you could pull off a hail mary car bang

I do a blend:

If I see IOI's of DTF, she's come to me.

If she's got strong signs of DTF and she knows why I'm coming over, I'll drive there (rarely this happens)

If she's a little shy, doesn't want to come over, I'll meet her right down the street at the bar and bounce to my place (LOGISTICS)

If we do meet "halfway" it's near my work anyways, and I haven't invested much besides a meet and greet. I almost get the bang second date.

(07-31-2014 03:54 PM)Hans Dix Wrote:  What's you guys' policy on distance bangs

I got this girl's number and the vibe is good. Bad news is she lives almost 40 miles north. Good news is it's all highway.

Do you make her drive to you, do you drive to them, or do you meet in the middle? I've only ever had local tinder bangs who were <5 miles away, so this is new to me.

I always have her drive here. That's just me though as I don't care if I lose out because of it.

If she comes all the way to you then she's def serious

(07-31-2014 03:54 PM)Hans Dix Wrote:  What's you guys' policy on distance bangs

I got this girl's number and the vibe is good. Bad news is she lives almost 40 miles north. Good news is it's all highway.

Do you make her drive to you, do you drive to them, or do you meet in the middle? I've only ever had local tinder bangs who were <5 miles away, so this is new to me.

Either go to hers or yours, meeting at the middle is a fool's game.
Make her come to yours. If she can't you do it, you go to hers.

mrbiggs Wrote: Here's a story.

A girl and I matched on Tinder. She was a hot, burning man type hippie chick with purple hair. Extremely hot body.

On her profile she wrote, "my kid is cooler than you." When we matched my first reply was "joke's on you, I'm not cool." She replied "joke's on you, I'm leaving in a week." I wrote, "well we'd better get to it then." I then said, "I would put my tongue so far inside you it would come out your mouth." She replied "my panties just dropped."

We went back and fourth sexting and her sending me dirty pics and me returning in kind.

We planned on meeting for a fuckfest the following day. The night prior I went out with a girl that I had fucked before. I really liked this other girl and she insisted we meet the following day for a hike at Griffith Observatory.

I agreed and cancelled with the other girl. However, me like a dumbass told the other girl why I cancelled? "I like this other girl and I need to hang out with her tomorrow."

I'm very self-sabatoging in this sense in that I get a sure thing and I try to double down and end up fucking everything up.

Now I feeling like I should just jump off a bridge and end it. I fucked it up with a sure thing to appease this girl that I like.

FUCK ALL!!



Actually, you didn't throw away a sure thing.
You went with the sure thing. The girl you already fucked is the sure thing.
Technically speaking.

And why were you not able to reschedule for later that day/night/tomorrow with Tinder girl? It sounds to me like you assumed that her knowing about this other girl would fuck it up. But it could have actually made her want you more.

Fuck just wrote a reply in the wrong thread and couldn't copy n paste lol basically chick wanted me to let her know if anything comes up spose to chill on Friday and hasn't hit me back when I tried to confirm but she's been active.

Inb4theflop!

Happens to the best of us. I just unmatch them when they don't reply to my confirmation of the date.

Yeah hate chicks like that it happened two days in a row. It's a shame as she's 3 miles away.

She's actually rly cute her main pic makes her look fatter or somethin but she's pretty fit.

I heard this kid I grew up with is now a tranny, years later I see 'her' on tinder didn't even know 'she' lived in my city, never left swiped so fast in my tinder life, yikes

It's crazy how many girls I talk to on Tinder DON'T have a sense of humor. I'm a pretty sarcastic guy. Actual sarcastic/witty girls dig it. But the girls who don't have a sense of humor or just make a claim to be funny fucking hate it. It's actually pretty funny how often one of my jokes gets turned around into, "You're an asshole," "You're condescending," etc.

I guess a good litmus test is:

Me: Are you funny?
Girl: Sarcasm is my second language.
^You are so clever, you fail. X

(07-31-2014 11:38 PM)Renberg Wrote:  It's crazy how many girls I talk to on Tinder DON'T have a sense of humor. I'm a pretty sarcastic guy. Actual sarcastic/witty girls dig it. But the girls who don't have a sense of humor or just make a claim to be funny fucking hate it. It's actually pretty funny how often one of my jokes gets turned around into, "You're an asshole," "You're condescending," etc.

I guess a good litmus test is:

Me: Are you funny?
Girl: Sarcasm is my second language.
^You are so clever, you fail. X

This is 100% true. I think that part of it is that humor over texting is much harder. The other part is that often when a girl laughs at your jokes its usually just because she likes you. This gives you a false sense that she likes your jokes, but she really just wants you.

(07-31-2014 05:00 PM)bullocks Wrote:  

Fuck just wrote a reply in the wrong thread and couldn't copy n paste lol basically chick wanted me to let her know if anything comes up spose to chill on Friday and hasn't hit me back when I tried to confirm but she's been active.

Inb4theflop!

Maybe a minor tweak here. I would have said something like "i don't think anything will come up. i'll text you tomorrow". to me what you wrote may have introduced some doubt in her mind that you would flake.

(07-31-2014 04:30 PM)kavakid Wrote:  mrbiggs Wrote: Here's a story.
I agreed and cancelled with the other girl. However, me like a dumbass told the other girl why I cancelled? "I like this other girl and I need to hang out with her tomorrow."

I'm very self-sabatoging in this sense in that I get a sure thing and I try to double down and end up fucking everything up.

Now I feeling like I should just jump off a bridge and end it. I fucked it up with a sure thing to appease this girl that I like.

FUCK ALL!!



Actually, you didn't throw away a sure thing.
You went with the sure thing. The girl you already fucked is the sure thing.
Technically speaking.

And why were you not able to reschedule for later that day/night/tomorrow with Tinder girl? It sounds to me like you assumed that her knowing about this other girl would fuck it up. But it could have actually made her want you more.

My attitude is:
1) you must strike while pussy is hot
2) always optimize for new notches unless the other girl really gives you the warm fuzzies

don't beat yourself up. learn the lesson, there will be plenty of other notches where you can make a different decision

it's true there's a chance that this girl knowing about the other girl could have made her hotter for you, but in my experience this is rare and is likely to blow up in your face either way

These spam bots are getting ridiculous. Fuck.

Maybe I need to stop late night swiping. That seems to be their peak hours.

They're not even trying to hide it. Last one I saw was a girl in only panties, with her back turned, bent over showing her clam. Come on.

Some of them even say in their profiles "I'm not a fucking bot so stop asking! You can see more pictures of me by clicking here."

This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

(08-01-2014 02:43 AM)soup Wrote:  This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

Soup, would you mind explaining a little more? I agree in terms of tons of girls share the same personality, culture, etc. Is this what you mean?

(08-01-2014 07:34 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 02:43 AM)soup Wrote:  This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

Soup, would you mind explaining a little more? I agree in terms of tons of girls share the same personality, culture, etc. Is this what you mean?

I think this is location dependent. In NYC there are so many varieties of girls.

Getting some return of investment from Tinder: I have set up dates with a solid 8 on Wednesday and a cute 7 on Thursday. Working hard on breaking another solid 8 at the moment as my Eastern-European women seem to be quite shy.

(08-01-2014 07:34 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 02:43 AM)soup Wrote:  This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

Soup, would you mind explaining a little more? I agree in terms of tons of girls share the same personality, culture, etc. Is this what you mean?

When you are dealing with a lot of girls at once, you notice trends in their behavior that they pretty much all follow. I think this is true for most guys as well. We all have our mechanical qualities.. like animals.

The liker app just let's me resonate with more of these girls who are the same, much faster.. it's like having a megaphone in a crowded room- it's definitely a score for guys because we don't have to give any of our attention to a particular girl until she's shown us some interest.

Without it, you are still giving attention to a lot of girls, including many that do not deserve it (the "nope"s and girls who won't reciprocate your interest). I think this can affect someone on a subconscious level- like on the inner game level.

Tinder Liker corrects that problem- the same amount of time and attention you would have given to one girl now gets multiplied to 30-50.

It's the digital version of going to a bar with a good ratio of girls to guys instead of going to a sausage fest.

(08-01-2014 11:19 AM)soup Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 07:34 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 02:43 AM)soup Wrote:  This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

Soup, would you mind explaining a little more? I agree in terms of tons of girls share the same personality, culture, etc. Is this what you mean?

When you are dealing with a lot of girls at once, you notice trends in their behavior that they pretty much all follow. I think this is true for most guys as well. We all have our mechanical qualities.. like animals.

The liker app just let's me resonate with more of these girls who are the same, much faster.. it's like having a megaphone in a crowded room- it's definitely a score for guys because we don't have to give any of our attention to a particular girl until she's shown us some interest.

Without it, you are still giving attention to a lot of girls, including many that do not deserve it (the "nope"s and girls who won't reciprocate your interest). I think this can affect someone on a subconscious level- like on the inner game level.

Tinder Liker corrects that problem- the same amount of time and attention you would have given to one girl now gets multiplied to 30-50.

It's the digital version of going to a bar with a good ratio of girls to guys instead of going to a sausage fest.

Agreed, I'd like to compare OKC vs. Tinder (to describe your explanation)

OKC - you have to reach out to multiple girls, constantly get dead leads, even if you do get some interest it can go dead, and you don't know off the bat if they're interested.

Tinder - you only get matched with people that are interested in you, eliminates the guess work, your job is to farm numbers from as many interested girls as possible. It takes less time and higher probably of a bang.

I literally have had a handful of bangs from OKC versus 17+ and counting from Tinder.

(08-01-2014 12:10 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 11:19 AM)soup Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 07:34 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 02:43 AM)soup Wrote:  This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

Soup, would you mind explaining a little more? I agree in terms of tons of girls share the same personality, culture, etc. Is this what you mean?

When you are dealing with a lot of girls at once, you notice trends in their behavior that they pretty much all follow. I think this is true for most guys as well. We all have our mechanical qualities.. like animals.

The liker app just let's me resonate with more of these girls who are the same, much faster.. it's like having a megaphone in a crowded room- it's definitely a score for guys because we don't have to give any of our attention to a particular girl until she's shown us some interest.

Without it, you are still giving attention to a lot of girls, including many that do not deserve it (the "nope"s and girls who won't reciprocate your interest). I think this can affect someone on a subconscious level- like on the inner game level.

Tinder Liker corrects that problem- the same amount of time and attention you would have given to one girl now gets multiplied to 30-50.

It's the digital version of going to a bar with a good ratio of girls to guys instead of going to a sausage fest.

Agreed, I'd like to compare OKC vs. Tinder (to describe your explanation)

OKC - you have to reach out to multiple girls, constantly get dead leads, even if you do get some interest it can go dead, and you don't know off the bat if they're interested.

Tinder - you only get matched with people that are interested in you, eliminates the guess work, your job is to farm numbers from as many interested girls as possible. It takes less time and higher probably of a bang.

I literally have had a handful of bangs from OKC versus 17+ and counting from Tinder.

I used to think OKC was better than Tinder when Tinder first got going because it had more comfort built into it.

Now that Tinder has been around for a while, it's gained more comfort amongst girls.


Hmmm.. Tinder seems to be having trouble connecting for me. Anyone else have that problem right now? Anyone else who is using Tinder Liker encounter any login problems with Tinder?

(08-01-2014 12:14 PM)soup Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 12:10 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 11:19 AM)soup Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 07:34 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(08-01-2014 02:43 AM)soup Wrote:  This may sound too alpha, but I think that a lot of the girls on Tinder, and girls in general, are pretty much the same thing.

That's why I like that the app that let's me like a bunch of them at once.. it puts the ball in their court.

Soup, would you mind explaining a little more? I agree in terms of tons of girls share the same personality, culture, etc. Is this what you mean?

When you are dealing with a lot of girls at once, you notice trends in their behavior that they pretty much all follow. I think this is true for most guys as well. We all have our mechanical qualities.. like animals.

The liker app just let's me resonate with more of these girls who are the same, much faster.. it's like having a megaphone in a crowded room- it's definitely a score for guys because we don't have to give any of our attention to a particular girl until she's shown us some interest.

Without it, you are still giving attention to a lot of girls, including many that do not deserve it (the "nope"s and girls who won't reciprocate your interest). I think this can affect someone on a subconscious level- like on the inner game level.

Tinder Liker corrects that problem- the same amount of time and attention you would have given to one girl now gets multiplied to 30-50.

It's the digital version of going to a bar with a good ratio of girls to guys instead of going to a sausage fest.

Agreed, I'd like to compare OKC vs. Tinder (to describe your explanation)

OKC - you have to reach out to multiple girls, constantly get dead leads, even if you do get some interest it can go dead, and you don't know off the bat if they're interested.

Tinder - you only get matched with people that are interested in you, eliminates the guess work, your job is to farm numbers from as many interested girls as possible. It takes less time and higher probably of a bang.

I literally have had a handful of bangs from OKC versus 17+ and counting from Tinder.

I used to think OKC was better than Tinder when Tinder first got going because it had more comfort built into it.

Now that Tinder has been around for a while, it's gained more comfort amongst girls.


Hmmm.. Tinder seems to be having trouble connecting for me. Anyone else have that problem right now? Anyone else who is using Tinder Liker encounter any login problems with Tinder?

To me I get hardly any responses on OKC, lotta fake or shell accounts, or these 5's thinking they're 8's saying don't send me dirty shirt, i'm not here for hookups, blah blah blah on their profiles, seems like alot of dudes have ran through all these girls, I see alot of bitter profiles.

Yeah I can't get on, Tinder is having problems right now:

http://downdetector.com/status/tinder