JofSuperman
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RE: Interesting Read: Why I Slept with 1300 Women
(08-03-2011 08:25 PM)oldnemesis Wrote: (08-02-2011 10:23 PM)JofSuperman Wrote: From the book, "The Red Queen" it states that monogamy is actually in the best interests for men, rather than women. Women couldn't care less about monogamy.
There was a widely quoted articlein Psychology Today about it.
Right on.
This pretty much sums it up.
Quote:In contrast, most men benefit from monogamous society. Given a 50-50 sex ratio, monogamous society virtually guarantees a wife for every man, even a third-rate one. Under polygyny, some third-rate men may not find a wife at all, or, even if they are lucky enough to find one, their wife will not be as desirable as the one they can secure for themselves under monogamy, because under polygyny more desirable women would have become the second, third, or tenth wife of more desirable men.
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RE: Interesting Read: Why I Slept with 1300 Women
(08-03-2011 08:32 PM)JofSuperman Wrote: This pretty much sums it up.
Quote:In contrast, most men benefit from monogamous society. Given a 50-50 sex ratio, monogamous society virtually guarantees a wife for every man, even a third-rate one. Under polygyny, some third-rate men may not find a wife at all, or, even if they are lucky enough to find one, their wife will not be as desirable as the one they can secure for themselves under monogamy, because under polygyny more desirable women would have become the second, third, or tenth wife of more desirable men.
Men benefit from a monogamous society.
Women benefit from monogamy.
Wald
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RE: Interesting Read: Why I Slept with 1300 Women
(08-03-2011 09:15 AM)MiXX Wrote: Quote:The problem is that the modern woman is a prostitute who doesn’t deliver the goods. Teasers are never pleasers; they greedily accept presents to seal a contract and then break it. At least the whore pays the flesh that’s haggled for.
I disagree with this completely. You see, if you focus more on SNL,s and ONS with women, you do get the pure, raw sex even better than a mechanical prostitute.
The problem is that men love the taste of that pussy so much, that they come back and do something I STRONGLY OPPOSE ANY MAN DO: Repeat Bangs!
I don't believe in fuck buddies, or FWB; that's when shit like what the writer talks about above happens.
Very few men in this world can take an incredible fine Hayden Pannetiere girl, fuck the shit out of
her, and cut her loose.
I'm the only guy I've ever known that can do
that.... Hence, I disagree with the writer on that part.
Women become manipulative, and slick when you come back for seconds; when she knows you are now addicted to her pussy. Believe me they know when you are addicted, do not underestimate them.
Take that out of the equation, and you win.
Game on!
Mixx
You have said before that you have three girlfriends and you also said that one of your fwb has an app that calculates her period cycles...
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RE: Interesting Read: Why I Slept with 1300 Women
The other major theory for monogamy, polyandry, and polygamy is population control at the society level.
If you're out on the frontier with abundant resources like the Mormons were, keeping every woman pregnant all the time to quickly expand population is a smart choice. If you're an Eskimo or Australian Aborigine tribe living off of a limited and declining food supply, having multiple men have sex with only one woman to sharply contain population expansion is the only way to survive in that environment. (And given a woman's body will also reject pregnancy if there aren't enough calories to support it given to her, in a resource poor area it may take both her own efforts and that of additional multiple men to gather that much extra food.)
Under the population control theory, Monogamy is the "in between" state of population stasis, neither growing nor declining.
But if you're a cynical asshole like Thomas Malthus , you'll note that even with monogamy women become more fecund during good crop seasons causing baby waves, with this excess population eliminated through crime and war when resources become limited again.
"Alpha children wear grey. They work much harder than we do, because they're so frightfully clever. I'm awfully glad I'm a Beta, because I don't work so hard. And then we are much better than the Gammas and Deltas. Gammas are stupid. They all wear green, and Delta children wear khaki. Oh no, I don't want to play with Delta children. And Epsilons are still worse. They're too stupid to be able to read or write. Besides they wear black, which is such a beastly color. I'm so glad I'm a Beta."
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